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Hi, My name is Bailey. I am 15, and I know that is young, but I think I can offer good advice, or at least try my hardest.


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Hi, i was just wondering if you could help me out with makeup (eyeshadow, blush, eyeliner) for the prom. My dress is a coral color and has some gold flowers on it. I have fair skin and light brown hair, do you have any suggestions? Thanks a lot!

Hey,

I think that you should use a lighter pink blush, and probably a light brown eyeliner, and for eyeshadow a light pink with darker pink as well....

I hoped this helped.

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my bestfriend is a girl & we used to be together but my gf now gets mad cuz i put my bestfriend first. my bestfriend will always come first, before any1. any girl. i told this to my gf & she wasnt happy. she said it feels like shes "sharing" me with my bestfriend. ive had to cancel with my gf a couple times for my bestfriend but i dunno wat to do. my gf is gettin rly mad & hurt but i don wanna lose her. i rly care bout her but i also wanna hang with my bestfriend. how do i split my time with them? to make em both happy

Ok I am sorry, but your girlfriend has every right to be upset about you choosing your bestfriend over her.

Seriously, what is wrong with you? If my boyfriend put his bestfriend in from of me, I would be sooo incrediball hurt...especially if it was a girl.

I think you really need to consider what you are doing, and if you don't want to lose your girlfriend, then act like SHE is the most important thing in your life, not your bestfriend.

So I think you should tell your bestfriend, that you have a girlfriend and she is more important...

You really need to think this over.

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Okay so i'm dating this guy named Brett.. and all he ever does is talk about himself and i cant stand it. like i was upset one night about me missing my dad(( he passed away 2 months ago and we were close)) and hes like your life isent bad... and im like yeah okay.. and he was like what im like i miss my dad and hes like well i miss my dad too who knows where he is((he moved to a diff. state)) im sure my life is worse than yours. im like yeah thanks. w/e... and all i ever hear about is himself and it drives me insane i mean cant one thing be about me ..

Ok, no offense but it really sounds like your boyfriend is a big jerk. He has no right to say who's life is worse, in fact it doesn't even matter he should just try to comfort you, not argue with you about which of you has a worse life.

I think your only options are to either confront him about it (he will probably deny it), or you can just leave him. And I would recommend leaving him, because you do not need to deal with a guy like that.

Well I hope everything goes well.
If you need anything drop it in my inbox.

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ok.So i have NO bust,im very flat (im 4"8-4"9,13 yrs old) and its getting embarissing to have no bust at all. I feel like i cant wear as much clothes that i would like to wear.I'd give anything to have at least a little bit!Is there any ways to gradually get a bust over time by some kind of pill/medication?(i've heard birth control pills do stuff like that but i really dont want to take that,i mean is there and pills for just my main purpose?) I'm wicked embarrised to talk to my mom about it!(shes not one of those moms ) and i havent had my period yet. (will i get "bigger" when i get my period?) im sorry for so many questions!! i'll rate to 5,i'll do anything!

Your breasts do tend to get larger when you get your period, and don't worry about being "flat", you still have a while until your breasts stop growing, so you will grow them soon enought.

And about pills and such, first you are too young to take them, and second they don't really work, and third they are bad for you.

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Well, there's this guy in like three of my classes. and we're pretty close because he sits next to me a lot in all of the classes and stuff. Well I kinda like him a lot. And I don't want to ruin our friendship, but I want to tell him, so how can I do that without ruining it?


like, this is why I KIND OF think he likes me (deep down I know he doesn't.)--

everyday we fake fight about the funniest stuff and I give him an evil look and he goes "im sorry" and puts his hands up defensively. and then today i was like talking about something and hes like, here give me a high five and i like laughed and im like, no... and he's like, UGH let me make it up to you. it was kinda weird, and i dont know what it meant.

I think you should maybe try flirting with him, and if he kind of like flirts back, maybe you can tell him you like him.

But, I would not just come out and say it...kind of lead him on...

Well Good Luck!

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So I was searching around a site similar to Myspace when I saw this guy's pictures. He was in a place I absolutely love to vacation at, so I sent him a message. It turns out he goes to my old school.

We've been talking for a while, only on the computer. He keeps bringing up how we flirt, and wanting to date me, and wanting to meet me. He says it in a certain way, as if he wants to know how I feel before he asks me, but he is so obvious. I know for sure he isn't some creepy old guy, but I really don't like him that way. I guess I just can't develop feelings for a person I've met only through the internet.

He's a nice person, and I think he really likes me, so how can I tell him I don't feel the same, and I don't want to meet him?

Hey,

This won't be too hard, because it is not like you are going to be seeing him everyday...

I think you should just come out and tell him straight forward. That you just do not feel the same way about him. You think he is a good friend, but you just do not like him like he likes you.

I don't think meeting him would be a good idea either. Like if you were still planning on meeting him, I think you should reconsider that. I mean especially with all of things that happen to people who meet over the internet.

Well I hope all goes well...

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i currently asked a question about jobs for a 14 year old. the best one i've found & like is walking dogs. 1. i like to exercise 2. it seems like it might pay good

I was thinking about walking the dog for 20-45 minutes. Mostly around 30 min. How much do you think i should charge?

and where can i put papers so tht people can call me & wat would i put on them?

if you have anything tht would help me its greatly appreciated. and if you don't have ansers to all the questoins its cool.

Hey,
The other people who have answered this have already given you a lot of information, and I agree with them.

But I thought I would just add some places where you can put your posters.

I think that a veterinarians office is deffinately a good place. When I take my dog there I always see bulletins of things like dog walking.

Maybe a local pet store, you could ask if they have a spot where you could put some posters.

Any place that involves animals is deffinately a good place to put posters.

Good Luck!

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14/f.
I first noticed this boy at school a few months ago. He's in 2 of my classes and he is new this year. Nobody ever picks me for gym, because I'm not really athletic. This guy, when he was team captain, picked me first for his team. After that I began to look at him in English class. He stares at me a lot. Over the months I began to fall for him. My friends were bored so they asked him if he thought I was cute over AIM. He didn't reply. I didn't know if that was good or bad. Well a few weeks ago his Myspace headline said "I wish I could tell you" I'm not saying it's definitely about me, I'm just saying it could be. Friday I finally got the courage to IM him. He didn't say much but I knows he talks a lot to his other friends. He left this comment on his friend's Myspace that said he thinks girls should come to guys. I don't know what to do now.. he makes me really friggin nervous.

I agree with the person below me...you really should build a friendship with him, and then ask him out.

You also need to have confidence, and don't be shy or anything...

When you have a somewhat good friendship, get a bunch of your friends together, and invite him and some of his friends to go somewhere. You should invite other people at first because you don't want him to think it is a date, but it is a chance for you to hang out with him other than at school.

Well, I really hope things go good with him...
If you need anything drop it in my inbox.
Good Luck!

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i have to read a book for english and i cant decide on what to do.

the only main requirements are that it has to be atleast 200 pages (no more than 300 please) and at our reading leve (10th grade)

my favorite book is the giver but i cannot read that because it is too short and i like books along that line.

i like more true to life kind of books with relatable characters and i dislike things like harry potter and lord of the rings

any suggestions? please if you name a book give me a little background info on it!

Catcher In the Rye
By: J.D. Salinger

This is a classic, and it is a very good book.
It is about a teenage boy who gets kicked out of school, and doesn't tell his parents and goes to NYC. And he is basically struggling with depression....

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My boyfriend (PJ) and I have been together since 6th grade. And know its freshmen year. Hes 15 and Im 14 1/2. We both love eachother alot. We have made-out&kissed&and all that other good stuff, but he wants to take it a little bit farther. well so do i but i dont want to take it so far that i'll be know as "Arrowhead #1 Slut"! and alot of my best friends have taken it pretty far. i just dont know what to do! please help!

First of all if you do end up doing this, don't tell anyone, and you will not be a slut....And only having sex with one guy is not slutty...

But, people here cannot really answer this question for you...You need to really think about this and decide if that is what you want to do...

I think that you should really consider that you are young, and that there are a lot of risks that come along with sex.

But, really think about it a lot...I lost my virginity when i was 13 1/2...and I regret it every day...so just think about it a lot...

If you need anything drop it in my inbox...

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im a blond guy and i once learned that girls dont like blonds what should i do with my hair? my hair is short and i am male i rate high

Hey,
I personally do not like blondes, but I know plenty of girls, who absolutely love blondes...
So I really don't think you should change you hair...

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my friend just go done telling me that she is cutting herself and is throwing up her food all because she is depressed how can i help her without sounding like im her parent...?:\

Hey,
I used to be just like your friend...and I think that from being in her position that I think you should tell someone who will be able to get her help...I wish someone had done that with me..

So tell someone you trust and who you know will make the right decisions as to what kind of help she needs.

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me and my boyfriend broke up a month ago. and i just got a new boyfriend a few days ago and i like him a lot. but my ex boyfriend called me lastnight and told me how much he wanted me back and missed me and i just dont know what to do. he treated me bad but i still love him and care about him and dont know if i should be with my current boyfriend. being held by him just doesnt feel the same but i know if i go back to my old boyfriend that nothing will change. can somebody please lemme know what to do?

I don't think that you should get back together with your ex...

I think you should give your current boyfriend and you some time....and you need to let your ex go..

I mean if he treated you badly you do not need to go back to that...

So stay with your current boyfriend, and forget about your ex...and just allow your boyfriend to be the only guy you have feelings for, and that feeling will come..

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I've got a simple question. Are most people with eating disorders already skinny? it seems only sticks become anerxic or belumic.

just curious

No, not just skinny people are anorexic...I have known many people who were average or overweight..

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Me and my boyfriend broke up. He broke up with me to go out with this one girl but we started talking again and the past 2 nights he has kissed me. He said he is confused and I want to get back with him. Would it be bad if I did?

I think it would be a very bad idea to get back with him...

I mean if he is confused, that is not a good sign. And he broke up with you for another girl...what if that happens again?

I just really think you should move on.

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okay im 15 years old and i got my period about 3 months ago when i was still 14. and i know i really got it cause it was a full like 7 days, but i havent gotten it since. i think its kinda irregular considering the females in my family got theirs at 12/13 and im not tiny either. im tall and i have pretty big boobs. so i dont know. but i do get the whole regular discharge thing. but i dont know why im not getting my period again

Hey, don't worry about it a lot of teenagers just go through irregualar stages with their periods...so don't even worry about it.

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I like this kid.and i think he might like me too but i don't know.So he's best friends with this kid.and this kid has a little sister.Shes in 5th grade.Me and the guy I like are in 6th grade.So now he thinks no1 in the 6th grade likes him so he wants to go out with 5th graders.and I don't think he really likes her.I think he's desperate.But should i tell him.And if so how should I tell him?


FrOm,
HeLLo_I'M_RiiGHt_HErE

Tell him you like him....

or just let him do whatever he wants...it is only a year difference...grow up..

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I don`t know why but every time I see a guy that I`m interested in I flirt but nothing seems to happen. I also think I dont want to like let them know I like them because it seems silly because almost every boy that i like I barely talk to or theres always some reason. I really want to be able to have them like me in return and show them that I like them but how without saying it?

What do you thinks my problem?
what should i do?

I think you should try and get to know the guys you like...so then you can build a friendship with them, and possibly more will come out of it...

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okay, im 15/f and ive never had a boyfriend and ive never even made out or done anything with a guy. and its not that im a loser or anything im actually pretty popular in school but all my friends are out like hooking up with guys all the time and ive never done anything. and people laugh at me too for it. its just like all the guys i know see me as a friend but not a girfriend so i never get any guys. help. how do i meet more guys? and how can i get this guy ive been crushing on a for a while to like me?

Why do you care what people thing...?

This is why people are having sex so young now, because we let our peers get to us, but that is to blame on the media...

But, I know me telling you this is not going to do anything so to answer your question...

To meet more guys, just don't be shy and just talk to them...

And the guy you like...i don't know what your relationship is like...but if it is a good one, you should just come out and tell him...

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i just got a new pair of vans shoes. they are like stripes slip ons. they look kinda bad on me cuz i have really big feet. i dont no if i should keep them or return them. they are comfy and if i do keep them im not going to wear them to school. what would i wear them for? and what should i do?

OK, so with Vans, I think they always look good with pants...I know you think they look bad on you, but I am sure that they look fine..

So try wearing them with some pants it looks good.

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