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My dog died. I've been trying to forget about it. It died when I was on vacation about 3 weeks ago and my friend and her parents also my older brother was watching him while we were gone so they said he was attacked by some other animal. How do I forget about him? (link)
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You can never forget unfortuneatly.
I had a hampster when I was about 10 and I still remember the day it died, when its nerves were still moving so I screamed he was alive but no he was in Hampster Heaven ^^
Hold onto the memories you had with him/her..Only thing is dont keep remembering, the more you do the worse you will feel.
It will grow out of you to be upset when you think about him, until your happy and you say ...remember when (Harry) used to do that in the garden or whatever.
Try getting a cat? Another dog will make it harder for you too accept.But a cat might be good ^^
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does andybody have the GHD straightener?? if you do do you like it and how good does it work and everything lol i have reallly curyllly hair and i hate blowdrying does it work on wet or damp hair?? thanks (link)
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I dont have GHD straightners, however I have the next best ones ^^
Which personally I say keeprs your hair straighter for longer... They are called I-Create
And no your cant use them on damp/wet hair..neither can you use them with wet/damp hair if its GHD straightners... Any hair straightners that straighten from wet to dry will NOT keep it straight and are proberly rubbish.
If you dont want to blow dry it then Plait it . then wait for it too dry, so that when its just damp blowdry it. ^^
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I think I have ADHD but im not sure. I'm seeing my doctor on Monday about it. How can I "diagnose" myself until then?
P.s. If you have a long answer please divide it into paragraphs...I cant seemto read giant bolcks of text (link)
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I had the same problem but heres some quick text:
1) Impatient
2) Wanting to be somewhere fast and if your not its irritating
3) If you dont get what you want you end up in peoples faces moaning
And more
Its also a case of a bad attitude and hitting things.
But go see a doctor
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14/f
I hate being alone, for starters. Today, I fell asleep, and when I woke up no one was home. My mom & dad took my brother to basketball tryouts. I hate being home alone, or forgotten.. so to speak. Plus, I overeact easily & am very emotional. I then, thought I'd run away, but.. I didn't wanna leave without my dog. So, that backfired, I then was gonna try to like cut myself, but that didnt work, because I got a paper cut, & it hurt, so yeah. ha... then, I tried to look for medication, so I could like kill myself. That didn't work out.. I couldn't find any.
I get like that alot, & like in my head.. i'm telling myself this is retarded, stop it! But, I can't help it.
How can I make this better? (link)
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You have the same problem as me ^^
Im not sure if you actually have these, so im not diagnosing it.
But I suffer from panic attacks..and its always been when Ive been alone or really late at night when everyone is in bed.
It really freaks me out.
The only thing I find that works is sitting on the computer or watching a program or dvd I really like.
Although my mums about to pay £120 for a cure ..Btw NO ... NONE...ABSOLUTLEY NO medication will stop this..So dont go to your doctor asking for medication.
Try buying The Linden Method (Google It) Its expensive ..£99 for 8-18 guide or £120 for 10 - All the way through life guide.Its the worlds only proven method!
Good luck ..if you need more help ..grab my email address ^^
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I just had the coxsakie virus,
and I still have the 'rash' (kind of like hand foot and mouth, slightly different spots)
the spots look scabby now sorta,
I'm just wondering if anyone knows
how long they will stay?
and how long it takes them to go away?
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Uhm I have no idea what the virus is lol.
But im guessing they will fade in time
Use plenty of moisturiser.
And if you want a definate result about it ask your doctor or local chemist ^^
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Well me and my girlfriend have been together a pretty long time now and we both care for each other more than anything. Well we are BOTH virgins but we are sexualy active with one another like not oral but with hands and stuff lol. Well the only thing we are worried about is when we do actually "do it" that i will hurt her and i want to know how i may NOT hurt her or just ease the pain of hurting her. Please help me. Thanx (link)
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Wow id love to have a guy like you ^^
Your clearly very caring and there is unfortuneatly noway too stop the pain but you can ease it a little.
Make sure you use protection! - The lube on the ouside of the condom will help make it easier.
'Finger her' - Loosen up her muscles
Make sure shes ready - If she isnt then shes going to be tense and the pain will seem somewhat more painful.
Other lube - buy some lube ..the slippier the easier.
Hope I Helped
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What are the chances of being pregnant but still having your normal menstrual cycle? (link)
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Whoever says this is impossible is WRONG ...I know of 3 people (Friends Mums) Who had their daily period all the way through pregnancy!!
It is possible so whoever says it isnt is very wrong.
But then again the chances are extremely slim ! So hun just calm down if thats what your thinking.
Take a test too know for sure =)
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14/F : Never had a boyfriend
Well, I've liked this boy [lets call him Harry] for a long time. I've liked him for a year and a half. Now, Harry and I have recently become better friends that we thought was possible. But yes, we're friends. Anyhow, last year I really liked him and even asked him out a couple times and for a chance. He said no.
This year I talked to him and asked for a chance and he said no again. So at this point I got aggravated and in a sense 'gave up', but I couldn't stop thinking about him. So my friend asked him if he thought I was pretty, and he said yes, I think she's pretty. So I was kind of happy, but I know he apparently doesn't like me.
Yet he flirts with me nonstop, and I flirt back. He flirts with a lot of girls though, so I can't help but think that is his nature. But my friend Holly seems to think he treats me special and is more flirtacious around me, but I thought he didn't like me.
So, basically, I'm VERY confused. Does this kid like me or what? Do I even have a chance?
Thankyou in advance. (link)
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Hes doing what a guy does best hun...Hes playing you
He likes you running after him
Hes loving having the upper hand over you.
I know it may seem hard but try not to flirt with him for a day and I can bet that he reacts by saying whats wrong with you stressy or something.
Straight away that proves he does like you and is paying attention to you otherwise he would notice you stop flirting.
Dont give him the upper hand..Flirt if you want not if he is ^^
Hope I Helped..
>3 Love LittleMooCow
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well i've been sick since friday, both of my ears is hurtin and my throat. i've been throwing up. i stopped for like a couple of hours then started again. my stomach and everything is hurting my arms and legs are sore..what could i have???..could i have the flu?
Please get back to me ASAP..because i feel like im dying and i need to no weither i should go to the hospital or not (link)
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Yay!!!
I know your problem isnt good but Im so happy im not the only one feeling this!
When I got the symptoms I thought I had a brain tumor cos I had really bad headaches aswell.
But yeah its just edge of flu usually as its that time of year, so theres no need to worry ^^
You wil find in time you will feel greaat and happy again !
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ok, so i dont know where to put my tampon. my mom keeps telling me the middle hole, but i have no clue what she is talking about. i think its to whole that basically ends that whole vagina thing? and is that where the penis goes for when you have sex? and is that where you masterbate? (link)
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Uhm...
Well there is only one obvious visible hole.
Ill try to tell you without being too crude.
Your 2 lips either side if you pull them apart theres an obvious hole straight in front of you, thats where the tampon goes aswell as the penis during sexual intercourse
Hope that helped
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15/f. i've gotten my period before and it has always been a normal color (dark red). like two weeks ago i started getting heavy discharge so i put on a thin pad everyday just in case. now today i got a lot of brown stuff all over my pad. what is this? is this my period but just a funny color? and if so is that bad?
thanks (link)
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Uhmm..
Honestly that doesnt sound nice..
It depends though.
If you have recently started then its still settling, but it also could be an infection.
But if your putting a pad on everyday even though its not needed it could be irritating you.
I know this is going to be hard but you need to see the doctors..
You should phone them and ask perhaps rather than going in if your not feeling up to it??
Uhmm hope in some way that helped ^^
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kay well people call me a lezbo for NO reason. i absualutly love guys but...people call me a lezbo and i have NO idea why. like im not the one thats like constantly dancing with girls at parties and like "experementing" with girls. and its not like i check girls out or anything. they just call me it and it really gets me upset ...and pisses me the HELL off. so like why the heck do you think they sayy im a lez, what can i do to be "unlezboish" and what can i do to make them stop (its just people in general) PLEASeeeE help.
- and dont say you should care what people think of and stuff because if it were you, you would (link)
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Wow you have crossed out my answer at the bottom :P
Joke
I have had the exact same problem
And I now realise why
I use to get bullied everyday ..I ended up monitering it , seeing if I could make it from one end of the school to the other without getting called a name. And guess what? ..I couldnt
I have only just figured why, Its because they are Jealous
Uhm I dont wanna sound like im up myself, Buti would say im quite pretty being, Blonde,Tall and Slim. All the girls use to hate me for this and would call me lezbo or whatever.
So would the boys but guess what? A few days after the boys had called me names they all said how sexy I was then after carried on being nasty!!?!?! ..
You must ignore it, I did and too be honest not all of it stopped but most of it did, If i didnt reply then they looked like idiots saying it, because I made out it didnt bother me ..
Good Luck
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We're going to have a Speak Out thing at school soon, and I was wondering if any of you had advice on what topics I could give a speech on that would be interesting. Please don't say 'TEENAGE DEPRESSION' or 'abortion' - kids at my school won't relate to that and I'm not one to give a speech the audience wont listen to. I would love something funny, so if you guys have any ideas on topics you've found interesting or funny, or just generally attention-grabbing, please share them with me.
Thank you.
I'm sixteen and female if it matters. I don't live in the USA. (link)
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Uhm not the sort of question I would normally answer cos Im not good at thinking ..
But if you want attention grabbing then focus on something to do with facts, but fun facts things they wont believe and will be amazed to hear.
If you want prolonged listening forcuz on yourself, people enjoy hearing in on others lives, and try to relate to it.
If you want plain and simple funny stuff then try acting more than talking in the speech (if thats allowed)
Personally I would do the facts..Look in the guiness world records and find some amazing but funny stuff ... ^^
Hope I kind of helped lol
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okay how often do u have periods a day? like 2 three? (link)
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Its not a case of how many times ^^
Its an ongoing thing unfortuneatly
But you change according to your flow.
Light - 1 every 5-6 hours depending on your form of control .. usually light can be 5-6 with any, pad or tampax
Medium - 4-5 hours ..again it can be less with pads.
Heavy - I find usually every 3-4 hours but sometimes more , 4-5
If you have only just started then you will start light then rush into a heavy flow. Just ask one of your friends if your not sure ^^
LittlMooCow
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My boyfriend and I are both virgins. we are in love and ready to have sex. We tried to have sex last night but the problem was he just couldn't get his penis inside of me. I guess I was just too tight. is there anything i can do to make it easier for him to put it in? and is this abnormal? what position is best for sex the first time and would be easiest for him to get it inside of me? (link)
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I had the same problem
Too be honest, Its not a case of using Lubricant or letting him 'Finger you'
Its because you are not ready.
You are tensing up because your frightened and are not really deep down ready for the commitment.
When the time comes you will find it naturally glides in because you are much more relaxed.
And dont let someone push you because im telling you now, You will regret it , if you dont do it with the one you want too .
I know I certainly do =(
Love LittleMooCow
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Ok so me and my boyfriend had sex about 2 days after my period ended. And now today..a week later my boobs are tender and my stomach hurts.. what going on?? (link)
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Uhm..
There is no way you are showing any symptoms yet.
I know its worrying
After my first time I had that exact feeling
Every little thing seemed to count
But dont worry
You can take a test too find out though.
But leave it till a month you will get more obvious symptoms around then such as:
1)Loss/Gain of appetite
2)Strange eating habits (Eating food you wouldnt normally touch)
3)No Period! The Obvious
4)Dizzyness..Not many people notice it but you can get dizzy
5)Sickness
And Strange smells you will notice, You will start to notice many different smells, your smell sensitivity will increase and you could smell things from quite a distance.
Hope it helped ^^
Love LittleMooCow
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15/f
My parents and I just don't get along anymore. My parents think that I'm a completely shallow, bitchy whore, and have no problem telling me this. I try to be nice to them, I do, but they'll start me off by giving me evil looks or using a tone with me before I can even say hello! They put all the blame on me, however, we're both equally guilty. But I just want to get along with them like I used to. How do you suggest I do this? Thanks in advanced. (link)
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Wow I really connected with you there!
Sounded like I wrote a question without knowing..
I have the same problem
And I know im doing it,
I just dont like to mix with my family anymore because everything I do/say turns out to be the wrong thing !
I know its me sometimes but Im not willing to accept when its not .
I have only one peice of advice..
Maybe 3 =P
1)Talk to them (I know i know EVERYONE says this ) But damn it works!
2)Slowly change the way you speak, and avoid obvious arguement times.
(By speak I mean, sound happier)
3) Tell friends to come over one day ...Then be happy and yourself and include your family it really works ^^
Good Luck ... Mail me for more personal stuff if you need to ^^
baybee_pickle@hotmail.co.uk
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Ok...so im not a virgin but everytime ive had sex i told the guy to keep my bra on. My reasoning for that is my boobs look bigger in my bra and i dont want it to be a disappointment when it comes off. I really hate it because my boobs look like they are like an A when my bras off. What should i do about that? And my other problem is you know how people have hair on there stomach? Well since im full italian mine is like dark so it kind of grosses me out what can i do about that cuz that also bothers me? (link)
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Uhmm...
I kinda had the same problem but not with boobs =D
Im fine there, but my legs I hate them very much and prefer to leave my trousers on during any sexual activity !
As weird as that sounds =D
If the guy truly loves you, it wont matter if your Paris - Hilton or Mike Tyson (Famous Boxer)
He should see past the looks and straight into your personality and if he doesnt,
Well you take lead and dump him!
Hope it helps ...
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