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Hey, my name's Kathleen, you can call me kata or kat. I set up this advice column because I think giving advice is a great way to help out people with their problems, and it's also a way to help myself with struggles as a grow more and more into the real world. So just know that if you have any problems, concerns, questions, or struggles, ask me and i'll be sure to help you out. I'll answer your questions as best and as quick as i possibly can!
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does neone no how to get toothpaste out of carpet.. lol i no it*s weird but i need to get the shyt out!!! i*ll rate high if it works..
thanx
try scraping up the excess and using 409 to
clean the rest. If it still leaves a bleach mark than your carpet isn't
colorfast and there's not much you can do. I'd recommend changing your son's
toothpaste to a basic brand without all the fancy stuff in it, and call a
carpet installer or cleaner to see about dying the bleach marks already
there and setting the color with chemicals.
hope this helps!
xo0x- Kata
hi its the same person who wants shaved legs. ARE YOU SURE THERE IS NO POSSIBLE WAY TO CONVINCE MY MOM TO LET ME SHAVE?????... I AM 12 YEARS OLD AND SHE TREATS ME LIKE A BABY OR AT LEAST LIKE A 7 YEAR OLD.
well.. since you told me your mom is really strict, i don`t think that shaving behind your mom`s back is a good idea, so that`s out. Your mom didn`t concider NAIR either.. so you can`t do that.. i`m sorry but i really don`t know!? all i got is.. talk to her, convince her that you`re truely ready for shaving. Show her that you`re responsible, and that you`re really up to the challenge, yeahh i`m sorry, it sounds really corny though!!?
i`m sorry.
xo0x- Kata
Ok, so my hair is really REALLY dark brown and i was wondering -- do yall think if i got like, auburn highlights -- would it look good?
i need suggestions -- because i dont like how dark my hair is now -- its almost black! and i want to change it up a lil bit
if you need pix go to my myspace:
www.myspace.com/baybgrl
thanks -- & i rate high 4 GOOD answers..
yeahh of course it would look good.. yeahh i think auburn highlights are good.. anything in the light brown sorta family.. like warm colors would be great! definately, go for it!
hope i helped!
xo0x- Kata
hey i have a myspace.. and i live on long island, NY too!!
my gf is always demanding me to do things if i don't she tells people about the things we do
and my family belives her evevn if its not true
and it makes me out to be the bad person
16/f
i agree with everything that x0_TaNnErSz said. You shouldn`t have to deal with that junk. Forget her, i say you break up with her ritee then and there. It`s really not worth going through another day of dictatorship in a realationship that requires two peoples opinions. Even if you may love her.. love isn`t at all like that!
hope this helps!
xo0x- Kata
Does anyone know any good websites with heartbreak or love quotes?? Beside firehoquotes.com....
idk.. try these:
www.aimawaymessages.com [sometimes they have just little love sayings & stuff]
http://www.heartquotes.net/Love.html
http://www.romantic-lyrics.com/lovequotes.shtml
xo0x- Kata
hey or the past couple days my voice has kind of been like cracking, but i am a girl. and my throat doesnt really hurt or anything, and i havent been screaming or shrieking a whole lot. any ideas what it is? or is it just normal? thanks!
~*jaimee*~
it`s probably just a phase.. or a cold, or something?!? it doesn`t seem like something to be worried about. relax, and i`m sure in a few more days it`ll be fine. Just get some rest and drink a lot of water.
muchh luck!
xo0x- Kata
whaT DO you do if u hear your parents ummm..... doing it. they're like 48 and i think its wrong. They were both making sounds and i don't want to confront either one. please help me i dont no y but it bothers me.
ill rate high for good answers
it`s not really wrong at all.. just if next time comes around, listen to music, watch tv, go outside, call your friends.. you can do anything at all.. just forget about them and what they`re for a little bit. okayy?
xo0x- Kata
I'm going on vacation in a few days and I need some good music to put on my mp3 player. I listen to pop and rock music. Does anyone know some good songs? Thanks
1. Pon De Replay - Rihanna
2. Don't Phunk With My Heart - The Black Eyed Peas
3. Don't Cha - The Pussycat Dolls Featuring Busta Rhymes
4. Switch - Will Smith
5. Hollaback Girl - Gwen Stefani
6. Collide - Howie Day
7. Oh - Ciara Featuring Ludacris
8. Lose Control - Missy Elliott Featuring Ciara & Fat Man Scoop
9. Scars - Papa Roach
10. Holiday - Green Day
11. Behind These Hazel Eyes - Kelly Clarkson
12. Sugar (Gimme Some) - Trick Daddy Featuring Ludacris, Lil' Kim & Cee-Lo
13. Chariot - Gavin DeGraw
14. Listen To Your Heart - D.H.T.
15. Untitled - Simple Plan
16.We Belong Together - Mariah Carey
17. 1 Thing - Amerie
18. Let Me Love You - Mario
19. Mr. Brightside - The Killers
20. Inside Your Heaven - Bo Bice
21. Incomplete - Backstreet Boys
22. Lonely No More - Rob Thomas
23. Get Right - Jennifer Lopez
24. True - Ryan Cabrera
25. Beautiful Soul - Jesse McCartney
Try These!
xo0x- Kata
OK my best friend ashley is comming to visit me from CO on sunday and i dont want her to be bored or anything while she is here! Does anyone have any ideas of what we can do?? Thx a bunch!
1) Do some crafts
2) Rent a movie
3) Have a spa sorta thing, facials, nails, etc.
4) Go to the mall.. shopping!
5) Karaoke (sp?)
6) Pool/Beach [depend on where you live]
7) Scavenger Hunts
8) Board Games or anything of that sort
9) Computer
10) Magazines
11) Ice cream!!
12) Dance
13) Listen To Music
there`s tons more to do!!
have fun! =)
xo0x- Kata
Right very soon i am going to meet my girlfriend for the first time. And I don't know what to wear!! Disaster!! Should i go smart and casuall.. Or should i go formal dressed (trosuers and dress shoes) I dont know any ideas??
All help appreciated
anthony
go with something that you wear everyday, something comfy, and something that doesn`t look like you tried too hard.. you know?!? A nice collered polo shirt, normal & simple looking jeans, don`t be too formal, but not to casual. Go with something that`s relaxed and simple, that`s all!
good luck!!
xo0x- Kata
hey kata,i have a real problem..i was hoping you could help me with it..well anywayz...i have a friend,well actually she's my godsister..i've known her sice i was seven,she older than me by 5 months but we still hang out together.she spends the nite at my house and i spend the nite at her house.well her mom is super nice.i know all of her family and she knows mine.they send me presents for my b-day and x-mas.well she has older friends who are also my friends.well she's with them she acts like she's all that.she tells me off and is so rude to me!!but when we are alone she doesn't act that way!!!and when i'm with MY friends..she tells me off and says i have bad taste in clothing and stuff like that!! it gets on my nerves b/c i'm very sensitive!!,and every time she comes over she alwayz wants to go walknig,to see her ex who could care less about her!!!i feel like she's using me!!please help b/c i'm having a sleepova,and i she's going to ruin it for me b/c MY friends will be there,and its for my b-day!! i can't not invite her b/c her mom and my mom are best friends!!!please help me b/c i'm starting to hate her!!!sorry so long!!! thanx
no it`s not long at all, no problem..uhmm..alritee.. well, i don`t really think that she would really be "using" you.. it`s probably the feeling of a sister-like dis-hate, you know? it`s like you guys have known each other for a pretty while and you`ve gotten use to each other so much that she forgot that you had feelings too. Or possibly she`s one of those, "center-of-attention, wanna-be, stuck up, miss-inconciderate" girls.. lol, I think you should talk to her about this. Tell her the same story you just told me.. and explain to her how you feel about it. If she bothers you or starts talking crud about you, forget her then. Don`t let her ruin your birthday you know, just keep on having a good time with you friends and if she`s constantly bothering you, you can try talking to her, or just ignore it. You have every right to hate her.. but you have to learn to forgive her too.. people make mistakes!? ok, so just sit her down and talk to her about this, talking is always the solution.
hope this helps!
xo0x- Kata
hi again its the same person who asked advice to convince my mom to let me shave my legs, i told her about the nair lotion and she still said i`m too young. i effing hate my mom, she wont let me do ANYTHING.
lol-- i`m sorry, but i`m out of ideas.. i guess you`ll just have to wait.. who knows, maybe she`ll let you off a little earlier than 15?!?
xo0x- Kata
where did u get ur background from?
actually it`s set here on advicenators.. look under "miscellaneous" and check "Page Backgrounds".. my specific background is in the number group of 241-260. But there`s tons of other choices to choose from too!!
hope this helps!
xo0x- Kata
does anyone think its bad to bring your bible to school or stuff like that? I mean my friend does and i want to but am scared someone might hurt me because of it! but i really LOVE god and want to like spread him with people but am scared to! thanks!
I dont think it`s bad to bring your bible to school because, it`s what you believe in, it`s your faith. If you love God that much, then bring it in for a day, sure, kids might look at you funny for a minute, if they do just tell them that it`s your religion, and you`re proud of it. Maybe ask your parents first.. to see what they think, but if they don`t think it`s such and ok idea then don`t bring it in.
hope this helps!
xo0x- Kata
hey whats a henna? like for your hair
a reddish brown dye used especially on hair--
Henna is a dye made from the dried leaf and petiole of Lawsonia alba Lam. (Lawsonia inermis L.). Henna in its common form is a greenish-brown powder, which is mixed with water to form a mud-like paste prior to application. Lemon juice and essential oils are often added to extract the dye from the leaves.
Henna is traditionally used as a hair dye and temporary skin dye in India, Pakistan and North Africa, and in expatriate Indian and Pakistani communities. As well as adding a deep red tint to the hair, henna improves the condition and shine of the hair. As a skin dye, it produces a dark brown stain which lasts for about a week. Henna is predominantly used by women in these cultures to create traditional hand and foot decorations known as mehndi.
Henna is only approved for sale as a hair dye in the United States, and is not approved for any other use in the United States. Some unapproved henna products (sometimes sold under the name "black henna") have been adulterated with unsafe chemical dyes such as paraphenylenediamine ("PPD"), and should not be used for any purpose.
Henna decorations became fashionable in the West in the late 1990s, as a form of body decoration that did not involve permanent marks, unlike tattoo; nevertheless, they are sometimes marketed as "henna tattoos".
hope this helps!
xo0x- Kata
ok well my parents have been divoced for 2 years and i live with my dad and see my mom on the weekends. well my dad wants to move out of the city,far away from all of my friends and family, and i have never moved before.i dont want to go to a new high school and i dont want to move away from my family and friends so my mom offered for me to come live with her, but if i do my dad will keep my sister and we will be split up and i will never see her. and if i go with my dad i will never see my mom and i will be stuck with my stupid step mom who is a bitch, who should i go with?
i say you go with you mom for these reasons:
-you won`t be far from your friends
-you won`t have to move
-if you go with your dad then you`ll be stuck with a biotchh of a step-mom =P
-if you stay with your mom, you`ll have someone who can understand your "girl problems" better than a dad or a biotchh of a step mom
-yes you will be far away from your sister.. but you guys can always write to each other, send pictures, call each other, and keep in touch.
-if you stay with you mom, you won`t be loosing as many friends, or family as you would if you went with your dad.
these are just some things that you should really think about if you go with your mom. If i were in your shoes, i would go with my mom, but this is your choice!!
best of luck!
xo0x- Kata
Would lotion irritate my vagina if i want to masturbate/finger myself with it?
please help thanks
Well I saw this website that maybe you can check out:
http://www.fpv.org.au/pdfs/VaginalandVulvalHealth.pdf
If you look under "How can Vaginal discharge and vulval irritations be avoided?" Then look under, "instead of soap, the following can be used:" well, infact it does say lotion. But i`m not really sure if it might in fact help or cause a problem. For more information try asking your doctor.
hope this helps!
xo0x- Kata
ok im really confused and i REALLLLY like matt ((hes this guy that i goes to the place where i dance and hes always my partner))...but i kinda like Max and MarC ((which are like my BESTEST guy friends)) and like they all like me and i like dunno what to do..if enyone has adive PLEASE HELP..cuz i dont wanna hurt enyones feelings!
i think that you should give matt a shot. to be dating your best guy friend is kinda.. weird?!.. you said it yourself, that you REALLLLY like Matt, but you kinda like Max and Marc. I say give Matt a shot, and if things don`t seem to work out between you, wait a couple of months, and maybe try Max or Marc!? oo.. well, if Matt lives one state away.. it could possibly be a problem, like you said the long distance thing, i`m not so sure if it could work either. Well like i said before, just give matt a shot first, and if you might start to feel that it`s really not working at all, then your gunna have to dump him.
hope this helps!
xo0x- Kata
will walking or jogging cause us to loose your butt or just lift and tone it?
it tone`s the butt babayy!! hahaa! lol.. nicee question!! =D
xo0x- Kata
I know that this question comes up alot, but why don't people give feedback?? I always do and I think it's only fair if someone's taken the time to answer your question. Plus, if you really don't like the answer you got, you can let other people know how badly that person answers! Now who's with me?
i know ritee?!?!?!?!-- lol, they are all lazy bums while we`re workin' our butts off to answer advice!! geee.. the nerve of some people..
lol-- [juss playin'.. but it is annoying how sometimes some people don`t even write a simple "thank you"?!]
xo0x- Kata