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a friend.....
hey kata,i have a real problem..i was hoping you could help me with it..well anywayz...i have a friend,well actually she's my godsister..i've known her sice i was seven,she older than me by 5 months but we still hang out together.she spends the nite at my house and i spend the nite at her house.well her mom is super nice.i know all of her family and she knows mine.they send me presents for my b-day and x-mas.well she has older friends who are also my friends.well she's with them she acts like she's all that.she tells me off and is so rude to me!!but when we are alone she doesn't act that way!!!and when i'm with MY friends..she tells me off and says i have bad taste in clothing and stuff like that!! it gets on my nerves b/c i'm very sensitive!!,and every time she comes over she alwayz wants to go walknig,to see her ex who could care less about her!!!i feel like she's using me!!please help b/c i'm having a sleepova,and i she's going to ruin it for me b/c MY friends will be there,and its for my b-day!! i can't not invite her b/c her mom and my mom are best friends!!!please help me b/c i'm starting to hate her!!!sorry so long!!! thanx
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no it`s not long at all, no problem..uhmm..alritee.. well, i don`t really think that she would really be "using" you.. it`s probably the feeling of a sister-like dis-hate, you know? it`s like you guys have known each other for a pretty while and you`ve gotten use to each other so much that she forgot that you had feelings too. Or possibly she`s one of those, "center-of-attention, wanna-be, stuck up, miss-inconciderate" girls.. lol, I think you should talk to her about this. Tell her the same story you just told me.. and explain to her how you feel about it. If she bothers you or starts talking crud about you, forget her then. Don`t let her ruin your birthday you know, just keep on having a good time with you friends and if she`s constantly bothering you, you can try talking to her, or just ignore it. You have every right to hate her.. but you have to learn to forgive her too.. people make mistakes!? ok, so just sit her down and talk to her about this, talking is always the solution.
hope this helps!
xo0x- Kata
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