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Heyy my names Julianne but a lot of people call me Jules. I'm almost 18 and a senior in high school. I made a column because I love helping people and its really easy for me to relate to a lot of questions because I've gone through a lot myself. I'm open to any question you have so feel free to ask me anything =]
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wut is discharge?
Discharge is a whitish, yellowish liquid that's a sign you're going through puberty and that your period's on its way. This sticky substance usually has a distinct smell. It cleans your vagina, so it comes about everyday. A lot of girls, including myself, feel more comfortable wearing a pantiliner when discharge is heavy to prevent a big smell and mess. If its green or brown and has a bad smell you need to be checked out because thats usually a sign of infection. But if its just whitish, yellow it means you're growing up...congrats!
My boyfriend and i have been dating for the past 5 months. We go to the same high school, but next year he is going to a public school and leaving me at the private school we both go to now. He has had sex before and i havent. He wants me to but i tell him im not ready and he says he can wait. I love him so much and he tells me he loves me to, i just am nervous to have sex with him and then he will leave. and i dont want the condom to break and im stuck having a kid. Plus the main promblem is what will god think of me? Please Help!!!!!!!!!
You're not ready to have sex. That's it. If you have even the slighest doubt about having sex you shouldn't go through with it. If your boyfriend loves you he'll be ok with waiting until you're ready. If he's not ok with waiting he's not worth having, especially if he can't respect your choice.
Ugh. My best friend kelly thinks she's a really good singer. The problem is... she sux! She's also going to be in the talent show and perform a song. When she does, she's gonna be sooo emmbarrased aftwerwards! Everyone's gonna make fum of her. I don't know what to do, or how to break it to her!! Should I just let her be TOTALLY embarrased? Help!! Please!!
I would break it to her gently. Maybe suggest she do something else in the talent show like a dance or something she's better at. But if she really enjoys singing and wants to do this i think you should support her 100% and forget about what other people think. And if you really wanna help it might be a good idea to get up on the stage with her and sing and just have fun. People might laugh at you, so what? You'll probably laugh at yourselves in the end too. Hope i helped
hey.. i have a friend and shes really sweet and all but my boyfriend was talking about her earlier this week.. im one of those girls that everyone comes to for problems and everyone tells me everything but this time what he said about my friend just got to me so much and thats weird because i can always keep secrets. lets just say that him and her when out before and he think she still likes him and he said "i bet she made up that kid so it will make me want her" i dont get that haha.. and he also said "the only reason she wants you to go out with him instead of me is because she wants me" and those two things that he said really got to me.. now dont get me wrong i really love him.. okay well i told my friend what he said because she slept at my house last night.. and she was like I HATE HIM OMG!! and stuff and im like dont tell him pleaseee. and shes ilke i wont.. but something tells me she will.. and if she does then that could ruin my friendship with her and me and my boyfriends relationship... i already know i ruined their friendship :'( .. i feel so bad and i dont know what to do.. please help
this happened to my friend recently...her boyfriend would always come up to her and be like "oh did you see her today..shes so hot" and it just really pissed my friend off...i know this isn't goin to sound good but my friend and her boyfriend wound up breaking up because this kept happening. if your boyfriend keeps telling you about this girl you should ignore him for a day or two and see if he notices. if he does thats a good sign but youre not done yet...you should probably talk to him and tell him how you feel about him telling you these things and see what he says...maybe breaking up is the best choice, maybe not .... as for your friend, you should probably encourage her and your boyfriend to talk this out. what's passed is passed and they both just need to realize that. hope i helped
i have figured out what i have gotten for my other teachers except of science. but we took a final that empacted on our report card grade. but i am not sure if i did well on the test. what should i do to calm myself down?
i can't tell you how many times this happens to me...try not to think about the test so much because you'll wind up worrying a lot more. put on some music or talk to one of your friends online or on the phone, watch some tv, maybe even take a hot bath with some headphones on...try to distract yourself from the test as much as possible! worry about it when you get it back...and if you didn't do as well as you would have liked the world's not over...
Ok there is this kid at my school and he likes me but he is just EW!Well he always tells his friends all theese stuff like I want to touch her ass and all and his friend tells me.Well I have told him over and over that I dont like him or get lost and all I started out rejecting him really nicly and all I didnt want to hurt his feeling but now I just cant help to be mean.. He is really nice and all but he is ugly and to nasty for me he alway can find 1 word and turn it into something sexaul
oh jeeze...i have the same situation. if trying to be nice didn't work you need to be firm with him. the next time he comes up to you just look him in the eye and say his name, look I've tried to tell you this nicely but it didn't work...i don't like you the way you like me and if he still bothers you just tell him to back off...i know it may seem mean and trust me i'm not good at being mean either, but hopefully he'll get the point you're trying to make and keep his distance. hope i helped
i have a really close guy friend we close but we cant be nothing but friends because on long distance and i hate long distance realtionships because the never work out. ok but n-e-ways sometimes we act like lovers and sometimes like friends but even when he had a gf we did the samething because he always liked me more then his gf even though he broke up with her for me but i still didnt go out with him and like now i dont know what to do i do love this guy and like he perfect for me and all but i am really confuessed?can you plz help i wil rate! thanks!
wow...that sounds exactly like what happened to me last year. Me and my best guy friend are like brother and sister...i know exactly how you feel. I think if he broke up with his girlfriend for you hes def. worth considering, But since you didnt go out with him when you had the chance, maybe you dont love him as much as you think you do...maybe you just love him as a friend and think of him as a brother. I think since you guys are so close you should talk about this and ask him how he feels about you and what you think is the best choice. I winded up not liking my guy anymore but now we are closer than ever as friends. Hope i helped
When my boyfriend and I talk on the phone, he always switches over to another call. Well with his phone I am able to hear the voices, and it's ALWAYS another girl's voice.. could he be cheating on me? How do I bring this up with him...
First of all I don't think its nice of him to put you on hold like that. Secondly, he could be cheating on you...or he could just have a lot of female friends. If you bring it up to his face, chances are he'll get defensive and question your trust. So you might want to wait until the next time he calls you...if he says hes going to switch over to another call ask him who it is and if he tells you a girls name ask him if you guys are friends or something like that. If he's on the call for over a minute or 2...hang up and see if he calls you back. If he doesnt call you back i would get suspicious...but if he does call you back you should probably bring it up... i hope i helped
me and my family are fighting alot lately.. I have a really bad attitude! and I need help! please give me advice! FAST! I'll try anything!
I have the same problem...sometimes I even feel like I was adopted or something because my family picks on me so much. A bad attitude might be the problem... i know it is with me. The first step you should take is improving your attitude...you should probably come home from school and just go in your room and do your homework and mind your own business for a couple days. It'll probably be hard but your parents will probably notice your attempt to change. If you still wind up fighting you should try to tell your family how you're feeling in a calm matter without screaming. See if this helps.
could someone give me the names of some really upbeat songs that make you smile when you hear them. they don't have to be a new song I go for the oldies too.
i know exactly what you're talking about...one of my all time favs is Heaven by Los Lonely Boys...it just makes me smile
hope you like it
i want to lose a little weight, i am going on some sort of diet but i was thinking about throwing up like 1 time or even 2 times. Its nothing big, and i am going to eat, but IF i do this whats going to happen?? Because if you give me enough reasons why not to then i might change my mind
im a big athlete and i dont want to ruin that!
i rate high
First off, I suggest you calm down and take a deep breath. I'm not gonna give you some bogus advice youve already heard about how throwing up on purpose isn't good...but it really isn't good at all. If you do do this and somebody finds out you might have to temporarily quit the sports you love so much...and if it's a parent they might take you to see a doctor or even a therapist. Not only that but you could make yourself seriously sick. If you honestly think you need to lose a little weight, which you probably dont because you do sports, then you should lose weight by not eating fatty food like mcdonalds and ice cream and just excerise...even if its just doing crunches in your room. Throwing up is totally not the answer...neither is not eating. Hope I helped...good luck!