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ugh i need major help
hey.. i have a friend and shes really sweet and all but my boyfriend was talking about her earlier this week.. im one of those girls that everyone comes to for problems and everyone tells me everything but this time what he said about my friend just got to me so much and thats weird because i can always keep secrets. lets just say that him and her when out before and he think she still likes him and he said "i bet she made up that kid so it will make me want her" i dont get that haha.. and he also said "the only reason she wants you to go out with him instead of me is because she wants me" and those two things that he said really got to me.. now dont get me wrong i really love him.. okay well i told my friend what he said because she slept at my house last night.. and she was like I HATE HIM OMG!! and stuff and im like dont tell him pleaseee. and shes ilke i wont.. but something tells me she will.. and if she does then that could ruin my friendship with her and me and my boyfriends relationship... i already know i ruined their friendship :'( .. i feel so bad and i dont know what to do.. please help
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well first of all did you ever think that maybe your boyfriend is actin like that cuz he dont her? maybe since they broke up he hates her. so what he said might have been bullshit. and if you promised not to say anything you shouldnt have. at least not to her. you should have talked to someone else that had nothin to do wit the situation. now you done fucked yourself in the ass wit all this crap. you gotta make it right and not believe errything that errybody says. even if they love you.
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this happened to my friend recently...her boyfriend would always come up to her and be like "oh did you see her today..shes so hot" and it just really pissed my friend off...i know this isn't goin to sound good but my friend and her boyfriend wound up breaking up because this kept happening. if your boyfriend keeps telling you about this girl you should ignore him for a day or two and see if he notices. if he does thats a good sign but youre not done yet...you should probably talk to him and tell him how you feel about him telling you these things and see what he says...maybe breaking up is the best choice, maybe not .... as for your friend, you should probably encourage her and your boyfriend to talk this out. what's passed is passed and they both just need to realize that. hope i helped
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this isnt your fault. they obviously have issues from back when they were together. you need to let them work it out themselves and try not to interfeir. if it gets involved with your relationship with your boyfriend or your friend then try talking to them and telling them that you dont want to be rude but you cant get in the middle because its hurting the relationship between the 2 of you. (whether it be you and your friend or you and your boyfriend) i hope i helped and good luck!
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