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i am a 17 year old female who is a good friend. i like to help people, and i love music. i am very involved in my school, i know a wide variety of things, so i hope to help someone!

Juelz

advice

yes, i am now asking for some help in return to all the questions i've answered on here..
what is the absolute best hair crimper you can buy? where do you get it? and about how much?
--i have medium length, THICK hair and the only hair crimpers i've used have made my hair either frizzy, or simply had no effect what-so-ever..
Thanx..xO`Lexi

Also..need advice, i'm here and am willing to do my best to help... Sweetie2oo4

okay, i got the shiny styles 4-in-1 thing. the crimper works so cool in my hair, and my hair is like yours, mid length and thick. but i suggest doing it like at night so it has time to calm down by morning! it cost about 15-20 dollars and can be found at CVS, WalMart, K-Mart, and places like that.

good luck!

*Juelz*

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i feel so dumb..anyways..what am i suppose to do? like when my b/fs givin me a hickey or kissing me somewhere other than my mouth or doing other things..yah you know..umm like i dont know how to describe it, i just sit there like "duh"..what are some things to do to actually acknowledge what he's doing, show him that i like it, or idk..lol anything so that i'm just not sitting there..
please help..i'll rate :)

There are always of showing your feelings towards the man you love! Even thou you feel your used to it and are like ok get over with your fun can we get to good stuff! Believe me when my b/f does it I sit there like "duh" too!! but its like they have to hit the right spot before i start moaning!! I just know that sometimes its not always the right time but when you have an orgasm it feels like you dont want to stop!!! Its hard when he does it so many times and its like ok STOP!! I would just tell him to hit the spot like move all over (you know his tounge) sometimes if they nip alittle it starts to feel good. sometimes also if you act like it feels good hell start to go harder and harder and then the good shit begins!! but just try and tell him or act its the only thing i can think of... and thats somethings i have done and he really likes it and goes harder. but i hope my advise has helped.. GOOD LUCK!!!

that was some advice from my best friend, we are sittign here reading them and she's like "OMG! i can answer that!" so i let her!

We Hope that helps!

*JUELZ* and *Bandie*

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i have a bf but i'm not sure if he is really into me nemore we use 2 tlak bout everything bout now we barely talk.I call him sometimes n he doesn't really seem lyk he wants to talk he never calls me n he is always busy n cna never do nething. i talk to his brother on the IM n ask him but he doesn't really kno wut am i suppose 2 do...how do i find out if he really lykes me or not? plz help!

the best thign i can say to you right now is to talk to him. ask him how he feels, you really dont want to waste your time on some one who doesnt care about you (no offense, im not trying to be harsh or anything). its just the way things are. oyu guyz prolly just grew apart and he doesnt want to hurt you by breaking up with you. so just talk to him. i know it will be hard to do, just think how it will improve your life, take a deep breathe, and just do it. good luck and i hope everythign works out great for you.

Juelz

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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else?

omg, if you like the guy, it doesnt matter what other people think. i have just recently gotten to the point of i dont care what others think of me, and it is a great feeling. so just go for it. if others make comments, just be like "so what, i dont care!" and eventually they will leave you alone.

Juelz

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awhile ago me and my now exboyfriend got in a really big fight. ends up that, that night he took my "best friend" to a hotel with 3 other guys and just her. they ended up having sex. both of them deny it whenever i ask, but i know for a fact it happened. its been over and done with but i still have so much hate for my friend, and for the guy too. i dont know what to do.. or who i should be more mad at. i know i should let it go bc it happened a while ago.. but i cant help thinking about how much they both screwed me over.

i know this is gonna sou d cruel and vicious, but if they did that to you they are not worth your time! ever! but, you will have to forgive, but you dont have to forget! but if you do sty in contact with him, dont bring it up all the time. just move on and let it become your past and learn from it. chose your freinds and boyfreinds carefully, thats what i would do at least.

jsut dont let this experience pull you away from guys in general, not all men are dogs, soem are really worht your time...and fully pulling away from guyz will only make you miserable, trust me, i did thatm, and i didnt date for a year, then i started again, might i say what fun it has been!

i really dont know what else to tell you. i hope things get better and brighter for you in the future.

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ok, well, before i go to school i want to look really good for the first day, and im scared because lately i have been gettin pimples on my face (not for the first time) and i want to know if anybody has any tips on how to clear your face, or products that work over night (and actually work) plz tell me!

second, i want my teeth to be white, but the white strips are like 20 dollars, does anybody know tips about that too! thanx alot! bye!

>>I RATE

ok, i use Oil of Olay Cleansing bars on my face every night, and they have workled miracles for me, cleared my skin and made it softer and more radiant. and it smoothed out the rough-ness...granted i still get the occasional breakout, specially that time of the month! and they only cost like 5 or less for about 4 bars, and a bar weill last a few weeks! but the best you can do for your face is to not apply your foundation with your fingers...grease on fingers gets on skin, causes pimples...bad! i use these little make-up sponges i get at teh dollar store 2 packs for a dollar, a pack has liek 50, and you use them for a few days then throw them away! good luck with that!

the teeth thing, try a whitening toothpaste...it workd for me, but dont use just any, Crest Expressions work well,m and so does Crest icy Cool whitening, and it tastes good! my advice is to not try the brush on whitener...when you close your mouth it foams all up and you practically gag! at least they did to me! lol.

good luck and i hope you look simply Fab on your firsts day!

Juelz

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ok here is the deal, i need to go school shopping but i don't know where to go! i live in miami and im 15! does anybody know a good stoRe?

well, im in ohio, so i dont know if yoiu have any of the following stores, but if you do, i recommend them!

*Old Navy* Really neat stuff!!!
*JC Penny* Really cute stuff!!!
*Hot Topic* If your into the whole Goth/Black thing!
*Elder Beerman's* Really Fancy Nice Stuff.

these are teh places i like to shop, but normally i get all my school clothes at Walmart and/or K-mart! (my mom is kinda a cheap skate!)

Good luck school shopping!

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I've known this guy for six months, and we fight a lot. But in all honesty, i care about him more than i've ever cared about someone. I told him I never wanted to talk to him again after our last fight (and I really meant it), but it's hurt him a lot. I can't figure out if things would be better if we didn't talk, or kept being friends.

okay, this is a tough situation. does not talking to him hurt you just as much as it hurts him? if so then you guyz are mesnt to be friends at least. being separated from one you care about is tough, believe me. but you have to decide if not being friends os best for both of you. what i might suggest is that you, i know it is cheesy, but do a pro's and con's list for yourself and him. if hte pro's out wiegh the cons, then go and apologize, amybe you guyz cukd try to fight less, who knows, he could be the one fore you, if not, then maybe you need him in your life. i had a similar situation, and we came to the conlusion of we were out in eeach others lives for a purpose, and we dont know what that purpose is, but we know it is there.

i really cant tell you to be friends or not, but i can help you decide. you see, i do not know what your fights are about...maybe you guyz have feelingz that want t osurface, and every time you go to show them, the other gets defensive cuz they are scared, and the fight breaks out. i really hope that i have helped you out, the best thing i can say is good luck and i hope you figure everything out!

~*Juelz*~

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when someone says go streakin what do they mean?

in a normal wolrd, it means they are gonna run around naked in public

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Okay , me and my boyfriend was talkin on ta phone and he asked me to marry him(AND AT A YOUNG AGE TOO) and I said no , was it the right thing to do ???were both 15.he aint mad but he is kinda sad , he said he wanted to be with me forever,and I let him down. was it the right thing to do???

well, it depends on what your heart weas telling you. if you guyz are really meant to be he'll get over it. just explain to him your to young to make a commitment like that. or that your not ready to plan your future yet...just let him know that it is not because of him. my friend was dating a guy for 4 months and they became engaged, but she says they did that so fast becasue they both knew it was what they wanted. so, if you are not sure, thats fine, if you are, thats fine to. just dont forget there is a whole world of men out there. he may be the one, he may not be. and whatever you do, dont apologize for how you feel. apologize for hurting him, apologize for "letting him down", but DONT apologize for not being ready or whatever. ok? good luck!
Juelz

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Im babysitting a 4 yr old boy from 7:30am to 4:30pm and i need some ideas of things to do. I dont have a liscense so i cant drive anywhere and i live in maine.

for a 4 yr old boy, a TV can work miracles! lol. also, u could walk him to a nearby park. let him play with his toys and u play with him, they would love that...coloring books and crayons, juss dont let him eat the crayons...lol. well, my brain has run out of ideas. and i have a 3 yr old nephew...gosh, he keeps me busy. lol

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Okay there is this guy named brad and i like a lot i mean a lot...i imagine a future with him...that's how much i love him!! he is interested in someone who doesn't even think of him like that!! now i'm suppose 2 go 2 a concert and he has invited me 2 sleep over his house after the concert!! is he flirting with me?? is he giving me signals?? what kind signals should i give?? how can i tell my best friend of 3years that i like him?? How can i make a friendship into a relationship??

From,
.*.BeSs.*.

okay, he asked u to sleep over at his house? i dont know this guy so i cant tell u what he means by it, but just be careful

with the freindship to relationship thing, i completely understand what u are going through. i once dated this guy named John, and we had known each other for 2 years at the time...i mean, he was the first person to task to me when i moved where i currently live...and we were so close, i mean our parents adored the other...and it was so awesome, i mean, we were so close, we knew everythign about the other! literaly! and then we started dating for a while...broke up and still are like best best freinds.

but, to tell him, just up and say it, tell him how u think of his as more than a freind. explain your feelings, since he is your best freind, he will not laugh at u. u see, i believe for a relationship to work, u have to be, first and foremost, and above all, friends. so if u just explain to him, i am sure he will understand, but dont do what i did and wait around for him to come to u. if he doesnt feel the same way about u, its okay. dont worry about it. i hope this helped u out even the slightest bit.

Juelz

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ok i am going into 7th grade and i am scared to get my period and when i do i am not gonna no what to do...please tell me every thing to no about them PLEASE.

its really nothing ot be afraid of, i was afraid for mine to come too. it reall ydoesnt hurt (juss cramps) and it can be a royal pain in the butt, especially in the summer time! but when u do get ur period, juss go get a pad and put it on and go. there is really nothing to it except remembering to change it every 2-3 hours so you dont get an infection or a stentch! thats it really.
But if your afraid it wil lcome and you will be unprepared, carry one or two pads in your purse. works for me all the time! lol
good luck...hope i helped

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i really really have a problem with kissing my boyfriend. we've been going out for quite a while now and we've only reached a hug. i really do wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me but we're both so nervous. everyone says it will come naturally but we're both too nervous for it ever to come.

oh dont worry hun. it WILL come naturally when the time is right. there was this one guy i dated that i wanted to kiss but am glad i didnt cuz we split up and i am so glad i didnt get to far invovled. just think abotu that...but maybe you could juss do it and get it over with. good luck!

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im 14 and i like a 20 yr old. he is so cute and i dream bout him all the time. he told me he likes me im just to young he said he would go out wiv me if i was older wot can i do to change his mind

i suggest that you dont get involved with him right now. i am 16 and i was ask out by 2 different 25 year olds. i thought i was being cool, ya know dating an older guy. but hten i realized that i was jailbait for him. if my parents had complained, he would be put in jail for stagitory rape, even if you didnt sleep together.so i juss think you should be careful and date guyz your age...older men normally only want one thing...sex...so be careful...even if he woudl date you. dont change his mind, what he decides is best...and especilly in this case. good luck

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does anyone know a way to make your room look great .. but keep it afordable.. like any furniture that i could make myself but within a budget.. also, im 14 and i dont want anything too sofsticated but i don't want it looking like a little girls room either .. also if it helps im probably painting my room darker colors like a dark red or something

i can totally relate to you. my room was dull, then me and a friend re-organized it. maybe you could do a theme...i dont have any right off the bat, but i have always wanted a joe bozer theme room...lol...but anyways. butterly chairs can be bought at claires for like $15. and bean-bag chairs can be bought for $10-$20 at walmart. also, just find really cute stuff at places like claires, walmart, kmart, sears, jc penny's...places like that...they have so much cute stuff.

good luck

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i've noticed that there are columnists here who just give out mean information and things like that. i got a response to one of my questions sayign i was ugly ans stupid and stuff. i really think the management should look into it.

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ok say your in deep love but then you see another guy walk bye and say to ur friends oo hottie what does that mean? does it mean the guy you in love with ur not really in love with or is it just normal for ppl to do that?

ITS NORMAL!!!!!!! dont freak out about it. i do it all the time. it just means that your human and have hormones. plus, hot guyz make the world a beautiful place! lol!

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my friend thinks that she is better than me at evrything and i got so pissed off one night and she pushed me and i pushed her back and then we startd makinout and we did *it* (lol) i dno how to tell my gf... should i?. I NEED HELP

oh, wow, this is a difficult situation. if you dont tell her you may feel guilty for a long time, but if you do tell her you might lose her. you really just have to listen to your heart and do what it tells you is right. outside of that, i am not really sure.

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what is a clit

a clit is what gives women the pleasure they feel during sex. useless info: it is the only organ on the human body (male and female) that exists just for pleasure.

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