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awhile ago me and my now exboyfriend got in a really big fight. ends up that, that night he took my "best friend" to a hotel with 3 other guys and just her. they ended up having sex. both of them deny it whenever i ask, but i know for a fact it happened. its been over and done with but i still have so much hate for my friend, and for the guy too. i dont know what to do.. or who i should be more mad at. i know i should let it go bc it happened a while ago.. but i cant help thinking about how much they both screwed me over.
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Well, that happened to me once.....my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend. It seems to me that he just wants to screw around. If that's so, he's really not worth your time. Honestly, you need to just try to let it go. It may take some time, but you can do it! You'll find another guy that is alot better for you and that won't screw you over. Hope that helps ur situation!!
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ok, i think you shouldnt be looking at who should i be mad at more, but wh ydid it happen. maybe your guy was still mad and was trying to get back at you.. your giving him what he wants, and your friend i would forgive if she came out and sed it was true and apoligize, so you do have a right to be mad at them, but maybe they wont admit it becuase they feel bad and are trying to forget it happened at all them selves. try to get their side of the story. good luck.
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i know this is gonna sou d cruel and vicious, but if they did that to you they are not worth your time! ever! but, you will have to forgive, but you dont have to forget! but if you do sty in contact with him, dont bring it up all the time. just move on and let it become your past and learn from it. chose your freinds and boyfreinds carefully, thats what i would do at least.
jsut dont let this experience pull you away from guys in general, not all men are dogs, soem are really worht your time...and fully pulling away from guyz will only make you miserable, trust me, i did thatm, and i didnt date for a year, then i started again, might i say what fun it has been!
i really dont know what else to tell you. i hope things get better and brighter for you in the future.
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well, you have every right to be mad at both of them, but your girl should come back to you and be your friend, because that's what she is, you should be more mad at your friend, but talk to her about it because if you havn't already then both of you are making a big mistake, try not to think about what they did when you talk to your friend, just talk to her calmly and tell her that you don't like what she did, dont yell at her because then she will just be more mad about it and so will you, just talk to her calmly but I really hope that things work out for you two and I hope that I helped somewhat.. -Angel
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It takes a longg time to forgive someone when they completely screw you over but you should try to forgive them. Tell your ex-boyfriend and friend that you forgive them for what they did, but you dont want to be friends with them anymore. My ex-best friend was always touching my boyfriend and she invited him places without me, I was so mad and we stopped being friends. A few weeks ago, I told her that I forgave her for what she did and how she screwed me into the ground, but we arent friends. We talk every now and then but sometimes I get these rushes of anger where I hate her for what she did to me. It's completly natural to be mad and not let it go, its a really big deal, but God wants us to forgive others no matter what they did and try to move on... Good luck hun!
LoVe,
HeAtHeR!
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