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im 14 i like a 20 year old


Question Posted Wednesday June 16 2004, 5:10 am

im 14 and i like a 20 yr old. he is so cute and i dream bout him all the time. he told me he likes me im just to young he said he would go out wiv me if i was older wot can i do to change his mind

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Juli_Jay answered Wednesday June 16 2004, 3:18 pm:
baby baby baby - you are way to young. A 20 year old and a 14 year old.. no that doesn't go.. more then likely all a 20 year old wants from a 14 year old is sex!! Im telling you.. don't go there! I have a 21 year old liking me and i'm just 15 and i'd never go there.. i almost did and he's like i can't tell you how old i am or you won't like me.. so he did and yeah that changed my mind totally. Reconsider what you want!

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Juelz2005 answered Wednesday June 16 2004, 2:50 pm:
i suggest that you dont get involved with him right now. i am 16 and i was ask out by 2 different 25 year olds. i thought i was being cool, ya know dating an older guy. but hten i realized that i was jailbait for him. if my parents had complained, he would be put in jail for stagitory rape, even if you didnt sleep together.so i juss think you should be careful and date guyz your age...older men normally only want one thing...sex...so be careful...even if he woudl date you. dont change his mind, what he decides is best...and especilly in this case. good luck

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jbdreamer answered Wednesday June 16 2004, 11:13 am:
unfourtunatly he is right. For now you are too young. It would be illegal for him to date someone under the age of 16. You don't want him to go to jail do you?

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blonde answered Wednesday June 16 2004, 7:56 am:
I don't think you should change his mind. Just wait a couple of years and you will find a cuter younger guy. There was a girl in my school who dated a guy in his twenties(she is 16) and she liked him a lot. They used to talk online and go out on dates. He lives in Ohio and, well, we don't(though we aren't far). So one day, she goes out with him but doesn't come back. She is missing for a couple days and is now on the local news. He ended up taking her back with him to Ohio and just one day drove to the school and dropped her off. She walked to class and acted like nothing happened, but everyone knew. You don't need an older guy. Keep it legal!

Love, Blonde

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DruidX answered Wednesday June 16 2004, 7:47 am:
You don't. There are 7 years between you, he would be 'robbing the cradle', and you are waaay below the age of consent. I think you need to wait a bit. And always remember: 'Thou shalt not need a boy friend!'

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stlghettogurl699 answered Wednesday June 16 2004, 5:20 am:
i think that you shouldnt really go out with him because he is to old for u and he might be the kind of guy that takes advantage of u and u dotn want that at ure age i mean really all u gotta say is age isnt nothing but a number!!! GOOD LUCK

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