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Hey, I'm a 14 year old horse back rider. I have 2 horses named Jewel and Skye, 4 dogs plus 7 I'm training(with my family), and 2 parakeets. Also I have a dog boarding kennel in my back yard. I have lots of animals ya think?! I love all feedback and questions just let me know your problem and I'll write back. Also when I ask a question I rate it in my opinion I don't want any hard feelings by it.


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so, i recently transfered to an girls school from a coed school. so i'm kinda new to the environment. its been about a month of classes alredy and suddenly, i feel a bit different to this popular lesbian. and it MIGHT because i'm starting to like her!! but this can't be happening! i think a girl having a crush on a girl is gRoSS!!! but then, what can i do about it?? how do i stop myself before i do anything stupid!!?? please help me!!
-Carlotta (link)
you shouldnt be emmbarrassed by your feelings if your worried about what people think then keep it quiet do what feels right just because you might have feeling of the same sex doesnt mean your a bad person maybe let time pass by stay silent about these fears and wait awhile if they are real they will last and just maybe try it lifes about taking chances rmember that


*Okay.. my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over a year.. We get along pretty good for the most part,but we do have our arguments.. Well he is always with his friends and we all usually hang out.. The things is, He doesnt like any of my friends and he has no reason to not like them. I have i have about four close friends and his reasons for not liking them are they're whores, they're bitches or he doesnt like the people her boyfriends hang out with. i never have a problem with his friends and i try and get along when them all. Everytime i'm with my friends he's always questioning me.. like what did i do.. who did i see.. who did i talk too.. did anyone hit on me.. he even asks these questions if we only went the mall for a breif second and my sister was with us! He's always checking my phone and asking me what whos numbers are in their if they arent stored in my phone book, when i tell him an answer he doesnt always believe me.. errr it makes me soo mad.. idk what to do.. why is he acting like this and why is it okay for him to do something and not me?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!!!!!!?????????? (Sorry it's so long, but i im so sick of this CRAP!=) ) (link)
thats not fair he is totally distrusting of you a good base of a relationship is trust talk to him if he doesnt listen then maybe hes not the right guy for you as long as you are doing what you can to deserve trust and respect he has no reason to treat you like that ive been in that situation and it turned out the kid cheated on me trust me it is not worth the heartbreak decide whats right for you not anyone else


Okay, well i need something to do around my house so i can get money. I really want a new iPod, because i dont like the one i have now. Any ideas, for around my house work?! (link)
babysit
lawnwork
pet sitting
local convienient shops
for more allowance...
clean room
do dishes
vacume
clean house
simple things




okay, i have red dots on my boobs going on i dont know if it is zits or not:s it might be cause of the weather but do you know what i can use to make it go away?
or hwta should i do everyday?

please help. i dont want it, i dont like it

I'm 13, girl lol..live in Cananda.. (link)
ok go to the closest drug store and pick up rash medication if that doesnt work go to your doctor its probably just an irritation from your bra or something


I'm 14 year old gurl. okay to my question..I like my moms bestfriends son, my mom and his mom have been friends since highschool and there now around 40 years old. Anyways I like her son and he likes me too..we have discussed dating eachother, and really want to but our parents won't let us because their afraid if we break up that it will destroy their friendship, I just really want to date and be with him but dont want my mom and his to hatte me for it.

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it has nothing to do with your mom its the same as a crush at school it just happens your moms are friends


My orthadontist told me to use rubberbands. What are the purpose of them?? (link)
helps over or under bites


i like this guy that doesnt even know i exsist, what do i do? (link)
be friends flirt then go for it


Hey everybody! I'm 14/f. Well, I have a fear of dogs. It's just that when they get close to me I'm so afraid and start to take off. Once when I was a young kid, my next-door neighbor's dog Kiki was chasing after me and I literally thought that it was going to kill me. I don't want to be afraid of dogs because I think they are the cutest things ever, especially puppies. Does anyone have any advice on how I can overcome my fear of dogs...I would really appreciate it! Thanks. (link)
i live with hundreds of dogs because i have a boarding kennel dogs can sense your fear and it can MAKE them aggresive start with dogs you know are friendly test YOUR limits and pet them hug them treat them like a child once you realize MOST dogs are friendly you will grow more confidence remember trust your instincts and do what you feel is right with them they are just like humans they have feelings too dont let them stomp all over you


I'm 13 years old and I'm about 5'4. I once heard that if you're 5 feet tall, your supossed to weigh 100 pounds, and for every inch after that, it's another 5 pounds. Well, that would mean that I'm suposed to weigh about 120 pounds, but i only weigh 95. Does this mean I'm 25 pounds UNDERweight? It seems that if I gained 25 pounds, I'd be looking near obese. I don't feel or look underweight. Am I? (link)
of course not its just an average your bone mass can be lighter or less muscle or just all around light


I was in my room and I heard a weird noise coming from my cat. He was in the litter box, puking and then he took a really hard shit. I opened the door and saw him like falling over. Is something wrong with him? He's kinda really old. I want my kitten to stay away from him but he always attacks him. Is there something wrong with my kitteh? (link)
my cat did that he had stones blocking his butt hole GO TO THE VET!!!


My maltese (about 2 and a half years old) has been acting a bit strange lately: not eating as much or going 'doing his business'. I also noticed that his nose has changed color, from black to a brownish pink. Is that normal? Should I take it to the vet or will it be ok after some time? Any help is appreciated, thanks. (link)
it can be a urinary problem GO TO THE VET


i have a dog and she is about 4 years old. well this past week she has been acting differently and her teats have gotten bigger and her breathing has become heavier and her appetite is different than it normally is. are any of these signs of pregnancy? (link)
it can be a false pregnancy or real if u want to make sure go to the vet it takes 1 month to show fatness and enlarged teats 2 months from fertilization to be born


My dog ate a half a pellet of rat poison. Will this harm her? (link)
take her to the vet they will probably pump her stomach


I just bought tall boots, and I'm interested in how they feel? Like, do they work like half chaps with more grip? and how long does it take to break them in? (i'm leaving for sleepaway camp in week, with riding, and i wont be able to ride with them at my lesson barn before i leave) thanks!
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they can take anywhere from 3 weeks to a year


Ok. My horse Sullivan might be lame and I was just wondering if anyone knows a way to help heal lamnitis faster and how I can help pass time faster while I cant ride him.
Thanks!
♥♥♥♥Meggy and Sully♥♥♥♥ (link)
soak his/her foot in cool water


ok so in november i got a puppy from the animal shelter...she was 19 weeks when we got her...she deffinately has terrier in her and we think beagle and maybe a little greyhound...but she bites like crazy and she is very wild...does anyone know like what we can do to train her...because we bought books but nothing has really helped... (link)
hold her on her back until she calms down it will show u r incharge


my dog is a maltese and turning 2 years old [ i guess 14 in dog years ] and lately has been barking a lot at night. he used to when he first got here but stopped. about a week ago he started to bark after everyone goes to sleep. so i have to keep going down stairs and wake up and either hit his cage or take him out to the garage for him to run around and come in...but he keeps barking a few minutes after i go up. what should i do? should i try to tire him out by running with him or something right before we go to sleep? or will that have an opposite effect and have him wanting to play more? please i'm desperate - i havn't been able to sleep at all because i'm the only one who is willing to go downstairs. thanks in advance. (link)
bark collar


Any techniques to get a white horse clean and keep it that way???

My family is taking care of a fleabit gray and he loves being dirty ALL the time. I'd like to know if there are any whitening/cleaning products or procedures that work especially well (durr I know that a bath helps, but he hates it and we can't do it often). Is there such thing as spray-on whiteners? Anything that takes out yellow tail stains quickly? And I'd also like to know more about spray-on dirt repellers and if they work well...
Give me the best products (they are hard to find when they all claim to be the best)! (link)
show sheen green spot remover soap sponges and lots of water scrub-a-dub-dub hope i helped luv


For the past few months, I've been feeling sad very often. I'm 15, female, and I guess I feel sort of alone. I constantly think about death, how I don't have many good friends, and how I don't have anything I really need to be happy.

I'm also on a diet, I've lost 20 pounds, because I think I need to be skinnier.

I guess what I'm asking is, am I depressed? And do I need some sort of help? My mom knows how I feel and she is always lecturing me about it. I just want to know what I can do to not feel this way. (link)
ok listen i had the same thing it turned out i had an anxiety disorder and i was depresses and i was on the verge of anorexia GET HELP!!! if i didnt i dont know where id be today


Every time I go to buy jeans, my mom thinks that they are supposed to fit baggy and come up to your belly button. I've tried to tell her that they are supposed to be low rise and tight, but she just tells me not to argue with her and gets really mad.

What can I do?

P.S.-She's the only one that will buy me jeans, so I can't get them from anyone else. (link)
ask her to compromise say your not going to dress slutty but not elementary




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