sn- InvincibleOnce2
Member Since: November 3, 2004
Answers: 61
Last Update: November 12, 2004
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3 mouths ago I meet the most amazing guy ever. My perfect match, the man i've always dreamd of. We'd been going out 2 weeks & every 1 encluding his mum told me he was mad about me. That was the week he told me he was in love with me. We went out for a mouth in total. Then we broke up. He said he still loved me & that if I gave him a week or 2 he'd go bak out with me. A mouth later the rumer went round he was engaged. I ended up in hospital. But he ovioly stoped seeing her.Then the other week i had a party where my best mate told him how i felt. We then ended up having sex!!
I know it was just sex but i love him and i just wana know if he wants me bak or what. His best friend says that he does love me and want me bak but i cant find the guts to talk 2 him.Coz i dont want him feeling boxed in like he cant get away from me. WHAT SHOULD I DO? am female!! (link)
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If you really love him as much as you say, then you should talk to him. Things might work out and then everything would be perfect. If you dont say anything, then you might miss a once in a life time opertunity. Go for it...what do you have to loose?
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my boyfriend tells me how much he loves me about everyday and i feel the same but i think hes tryin to make me break up with him...always tellin me about other girls and them kissin him and its juss soo rude! what do i do? (link)
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My ex boyfriend was a lot like that and after a while things just got even worse. It'l hurt more if you wait...so just break up with him now...or you could try and talk to him to see what his deal is.
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Alright, At the beginning of the school year.. I met this sweet guy, he was always there for me through a lot. I really liked him, but I knew, he liked me more. His name, let's say is Chris, what I didn't know is that he's a sweet talker to all the ladies, hes extremely rich...EXTREMELY.. Wow if anyone knows me, this gives it away. Anyways, one of my friends asked me to homecoming, for NEXT year, my friend, lets say.. Jake. I've known him for two years but he lives an hour and a half away. I said yes, because me and him are good friends and I trust him. CHris got mad and tried to get me back, I don't know if this was to get me back but he is now going out with noe of my friends, and she likes him too. Theyve been together awhile now. The girls name, is Heather. Heather did the same thing to one of my friends, Steve. So me and Steve got screwed over, but me and steve knew eachother before I met Chris. I think i'm starting to like steve a little.. he's really sweet, and he's sooo much like me, we have a lot in common and i can trust him a lot. But me and Steves relationship is like best friend thing. We're really close and we just met early this year. Heather and Chris are together and it's tearing me and Steve's heart.. I dontk now what to do..helpppppp ...I don't want to like Steve!! (link)
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Well...first of all, you cant help who you like no matter how much of a btich it is. We've all been in situations like that one point in time. If Chris and Heather like eachother now, it would be wrong to get in the way because you did have your chance. And i dont know what happened with steve and HEather but it seems what heather is wrong. Maybe, just maybe, you and steve's luck will turn around...and maybe loves a little closer than you think. After all, did you ever think that steve is the guy you should have been with all along. I hope i helped...
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i just figured out that one of my really good friends drinks and stuff..and it really sucks because now my whole perception on him is totally changed. is it really that bad to be drinking as a freshman in high school, i mean i know everyone does it or whatever..but its just really sucks to find something like that out about someone you thought you knew..any suggestions on what to do? (link)
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Well...I know what you mean...I started drinking before i was a freshman and my close friends dont really like the idea. You should try to tell him to stop or not do it so often. But if it doesn't work, just remember that theyre the same person they were before you knew they drank.
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OK!!! my dad is turning 50 this friday and we are having a big suprise party for himbut i dont know what to do for his present. i know that my brother and i are doing a duet on the guitar but i dont know what REAL presant to get him. i really love to make things plus im broke, does anyone have any ideas?? (link)
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You could stay home and make a dinner for the two of you...I know, a little cheesy but for my moms b-day, im going to take her out to dinner, just us, and pay...lol...Since you dont have any money, just stay home and talk. It'll probably mean more to him than tie or material thing...
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I'm 14 / f .. I currently reside in PA. Well, the past 5 weeks have been the best weeks of my life because I haven't had to go to piano lessons. I know its a stupid theory but here goes. I hate PIANO! SO MUCH, i wasn't forced to start, but when i was 11 my best friend did it, and i wanted to be exactly like her, so i joined it. my grades have been suffering, and i think its because of piano, on sundays-wednesdays i worry about my piano lesson because my teacher is so mean. i wanna quit so bad, but how should i tell my mom, i think she knows i want to, but. i don't want her getting disapointed because i already quit band this yr because i didn't like it, she spent 1,000 dollars on a piano and shes been payin 12 dollars a week to let me go for like 3 years, what should i tell her? any help will get 5! (link)
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Just explain to your mom that your grades arent as great as they could be and that taking a break for a while would be in the best interest. If you have too, lie a little and say that maybe when your used to things and when your grades are higher, you might start up again.
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sorry, this is kind of long but i really need help
Ok, im a thirteen year old girl. in 7th grade i was popular...but indeed a train wreck when it came to looks. now i have slimmed out alot, done my hair differently, my skin cleared up, and i guess i have fun grown up a whole lot more(body/face).and lately i have been noticing that guys have been a lot more flirty with me. they always liked my personality but now i think they actually see me as a woman. some of my guy freinds are always telling me how georgiouse i am. but anyway...our school resently split into 2 schools, one is across town now. alot of my freinds left, including this boy that i was freinds with. and i havnt seen him since this party i went to last weekend. before the school split, we were freinds and all, but i never really think he thought of me as a REALLY FUN girl that deserved more attention. anyway, at the party, he started REALLY to joke around with me and flirt(i think) and give me a lot of attention. plus he looks at me very differently. when i left he came over and made sure to say goodbye. i felt so special. What does this mean? Does he like me or just want to be freinds with me? personally, i think that attraction isnt the most important thing, and yet is is really important. if anyone could help me i would really appreciate it!!! thanks!! (link)
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By the sound of it, he really likes you. It may be his way of just talking or being friendly, but it doesn't seem it. Call him, hang out with him; see how things turn out. Ya never know...things might go better than you think.
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i have a friend name lori and she likes the same the guy (alex) that i like but she doesn't know that i like him too but i know she has a little clue that i do like him. anyways he is always flirting with me and lori. lori gets me really upset and annoyed cuz she makes it seem like she and alex are going out but they aren't. lori asked me if she and alex would make a good couple and if i thought alex liked her and i said yes of course cuz it seems that way he calls her and everything. i really want to stop thinking about alex and stop talking to lori and alex which is sooo hard. i really don't know what to do if i should just forget about him and move on or just wait till him and lori go out and break up and then go out with me. i really don't know what to but i do want to stop talking to him just a lil bit that way he doesn't think i like him. so plz help!! sry if soo long! ~natalie~ (link)
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I used to have a problem just like that...My friend who i liked kept telling me how much he liked one of my close friends and kept asking if they would make a cute couple and he kept telling me how much he liked her. Even though it killed me on the inside, i tried to get the two to go out because what really mattered was seeing my two friends happy...One day, like a few weeks later, he was still talking about her and i couldn't take it and i broke down...and he tried to make me feel better but it didnt' work. After a while things got better between all of us again. And now i'm going out with the guy and my other close friend has a boyfriend that she really likes so everything worked out. Stop talking to the person for a little while is good...It gives you both a break and lets you clear your head a little. In time, things will fall into place.
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Well, to start it off I'm 17/f.. and i'm gay, recently out of denial lol... But since then there's been this girl who you can easily tell by the way she is (short hair, built, style) that she is definitely gay and I'm so incredibly interested in her. But she's a freshman in college and I'm a senior in high school and never see her. We talk here and there onlnie but it's never really personal enough to get into details about her and evertyhing and the convos are 9 times out of 10 cut really short... But to cut to teh chase, I don't think seh knows that I'm gay and I'm not the type of person to just come out and say it, since it's pretty new to me. Do you have any suggestions on how I can get the hint across?
P.S. I plan on going to the college she's at (not b/c she's there but b/c I really liked it and I actually only got to know her better from seeing her there b/c I only knew her from 1 sball game against her) So if you think I should just wait until next year to actually pursue it, that's fine. I just want to know what you think.. (link)
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You could let her know by droping hints...its easiest that way. ANd if you want to talk to her more, then you could try to hang out sometime, that way you guys kinda have to have more than a short convo.
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well i'm f/15 and lately i've been finding myself in the middle of all my parent's arguements. It seems like they're always fighting. And I feel guilty for either wanting them to stop or just go ahead and get a divorce... how can i deal with this? (link)
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My parents faught all the time until they got a divorce. I got caught in the middle a lot and it was hard. It even got to the point where i had to choose between parents and it was really hard. If they're fighting a lot, they're probably thinking about getting a divorce, but if they're not, you should kinda bring it up (if the fighting is too much that is). Just try to help them and try your hardest to see that people dont get hurt.
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okay there is this totally cute guy that I have liked for about a year or more.Last weekend I was at his house I kissed him and he kissed me back. I know there was something there, but we got caught by my dad. My dad didnt know that I had liked him for that long.Now both my parents dont6 want me to see him so I feel trapped and dont know what to do. I have cried over this guy many times and never knew he liked me.He knows how I feel about him and he says he doesnt want a girlfriend right now which is totally fine but now things are weird between us. How do I ask him out without getting hurt.PLZ HELP!!!! (link)
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Just hint to him how your feeling. As much as you dont want to get hurt...its just going to put a lot of stress on you if you dont. I was in the same situation for a while...but when my mom realized how much this guy meant to me, she started to get better. I'm not saying she really likes the guy yet, but shes giving him a chance and it means a lot to me.
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I have this boys number and i am afraid to call him.
what should i do? call him?
if i do call him, what do i say? (link)
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If he gave you the number, you should call him...if not try to talk to him in school or in person somewhere so you dont seem as ancious
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Does anyone have a tattoo on there lower back? I really want to get one when im 18. Or does anyone have one on their ankle. If so can you tell me how bad it hurt ect. Thanks. (link)
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I never got a tattoo...but i hear it hurts most when you get it done on a bone (like the ankle) so if i were you i'd get it on the lower back
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guys are confusing but hottt. I like this guy in my calss and my friends want to know who it is, but everytime i tell someone who i like it gets to them, but i think they matured now cause last time i told them who i like was when we were 10 or something like that. do you think i should tell them who i like? and o well if it gets to them. or should i keep it a safe secret? (link)
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If youre really consious about poeple knowing and really dont want him to find out, then keep it to yourself. But if you dont mind all too much, let them know. It will probably a lot off your chest.
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I just recently moved out of my house and into my uncles house and he is a hardcore Christian man and believes that anything not christian is "of the devil", I myself am a follower of the old pagan type religions and he kind of found out and alwayz makes little jabs at me for not believing in god and tells me im going to hell and i dont know how to deal with it..if i tell him that i dont believe in god, he might kick me out of his house....what should i do...pretend not to believe what i do or tell him to stop? (link)
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Well...he's your uncle and he loves you so you you should be able to tell him the truth without getting thrown out of his house...But if he is the type that would do something like that...let him know...but dont tell him everything at once cuz that would be rather harsh...and if you have a good reason for believing what you believe in, you shouldnt change your ways
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Ok, well a while back before homecoming, my neighbor for over a year had a old friend to go with. He is a sophmore, and ii am a freshman. Well, my sister is a sophmore also, and she was talking to him and he said that if he would have went with a freshman, it would have been me or my friend. Well, we talk every once in a while and it gets kind of awkward, but kinda seems like he likes me. I am not sure though. Well, what do yuu guys think. I know that there is probably not enough info here, but just what do yuu guys think? Thanks so much, i'll rate! (link)
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You'll never know until you ask him...i mean if it wont hurt the relationship if you ask him, whats there to loose?
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hey i was wondering if anyone here watches one tree hill? i love that show. does anyone know where i can get make up tips/hair tips so i can look like brooke or peyton or haley. i want to act like them, dress like them, make up, hair. any tips would be greatly apreciated. thanks, ill give you all 5's. (link)
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I love that show...every tuesday night thats what i'm watching. But you shouldn't want to be like someone else...yea they do have awesome personalities but its not worth it if its fake. If you really really want to be like them...you could maybe listen to the music they listen to or you could look at the shirts and stuff they have and look for them or something like it.
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I'm tired of my hair. I dye it all the time, and I usually wear it down and curl the ends, or wear it half way down, or curl it or just throw it up. Is there anything else you can do thats easy. (link)
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I can't really think of much else to do. You could get your hair cut or restyled and then you'll have a lot more options.
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I am 16-f. For a month or so now... i have been having horrible leg pains. Like achey. They hurt so bad I can't sleep sometimes. I was thinking it could be growing pains... but I am almost done growning. (I'm 5'8) and even when I was like 12 and growing... my legs didnt hurt this much. What could this possibly be from and any suggestions how to cure it? (besides the obvious: medicine) Thanks so much! (link)
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Your hips or probably speading...but if you play sports it might be from that. I play a lot of sports and get sore a lot so what i do is take a hot bath with epsum salt. I relaxes your muscles.
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What are some ways to make money? Im only 14. And I have 2 ways so far, baby sitting and team read. You get paid for reading to elementary kids. What are some jobs for 15 year olds though? ( Im tunring 15 in 2 months ) thanks. (link)
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You could bus tables. I'm a counslor at a kids camp and thats pretty cool...or you could work at like a ice cream shop or something
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