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fighting parents
well i'm f/15 and lately i've been finding myself in the middle of all my parent's arguements. It seems like they're always fighting. And I feel guilty for either wanting them to stop or just go ahead and get a divorce... how can i deal with this?
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My parents faught all the time until they got a divorce. I got caught in the middle a lot and it was hard. It even got to the point where i had to choose between parents and it was really hard. If they're fighting a lot, they're probably thinking about getting a divorce, but if they're not, you should kinda bring it up (if the fighting is too much that is). Just try to help them and try your hardest to see that people dont get hurt.
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I wish I could just amke this all go away. You know...adults are so dag gum selfish and childish...they ONLY think of themselves..during this time.
if you can sit them down together and tell them that you are being torn apart by this..and you are the one LOSING in this..maybe they will chill out.
That or give them each a copy of Dr. PHils book on divorce..
To me..your parents are such bozo..for involving you..and putting YOu in the middle.
I am so sorry and wish wiht all my heart that you did not have to go through all of this.
Just remember..this has nothing to do wiht you..at all..people just sometimes cannot get along.
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Personally, I dont think its a good relationship if a couple doesnt fight...because most of the time it means they are hiding something. Also, my parents have threatened divorcing, but it is usually in the heat of the moment.
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i went thew the same thing. . .you feel like its your fault but its really not they just dont care for each other as much as they did you made them love each other more there is nothin you can do just try not too listen too the arguements cause you mite just make your self feel worse but if they do get a divorce in the end you'll be happy cause they and both move on with they lives and so care you and you should and you should try too talk too them about it<33
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Parents always fight, it's human nature. It isn't your fault about their fights. You can either ignore it, or you could tell your parents please not to fight because it hurts your feelings and you don't like it. They will understand! Rate me please! Hope I helped!
xoxo, Maris
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