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Location: Massachusetts
Age: 16
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Member Since: May 25, 2005
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Last Update: August 23, 2005
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ok as weird as this sounds i like my step bro. i keep on telling him i like him but he never likes me back. i am only a year younger then him and he is not really blood related to me so i dont think i that big of a deal. does any1 no how i can get him to like me. plzzzzzzzzzz help thanx

blood or not, you shouldnt go out with him. its wrong & he knows it, thats why he doesnt like you.

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I was three days late for my period so I took two home pregnacy test and they both came up with a very faint positve. I then got my period like an hour after I took the second one. Is it possible that the test were wrong or can you be pregnate and still get your period?

nope ... you cant get your period if you're pregnant

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wats the easiest way to break-up with a guy without saying "lets just be friends"?? or getting someone else to do it??

take him for a walk or something where you guys are alone and tell him that its not working out.

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I am datin this guy but he checks out all these other girls and today he was like (name) has a nice butt.Then he was like man look at them titties and it makes me so mad what should I do?


sign,
confused

dont tell him that it makes you mad cuz then he will keep doing it. act like it doesnt bother you & also make comments about other guys. he'll get jealous! haha

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well i was walking home from school and an old man came up to me he groped me so i punched him in his nose it was the first thing that came into my head,and it started bleeding he told me he was going to press charges what should i do?

he probably wont even press charges when he realizes that he will get in a lot more trouble for touching you then you will for punching him!

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hey I really like this guy sooooo MUCH! its like scary lol we talk on the fone A LOT and stuff, but he is not that handsom he is kinda fat and im really skinny, wen i saw him i was lke ewwww and so was every1 else. He is tall and I am short but he is really nice and sweat. I dont know if i shuld go with him or not! he is really nice! if it helps im 13/f PLEASE I WILL RATE HIGH!!!

okay if you like him then you should go out with him. don't be shallow .. and you shouldnt care what other people think about him. if you like him thats all that matters

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does n e one knoe a way to treat sweaty hands?

wash them...

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i have a lot of guy friends and they come over to my house a lot (along with other friends who area girls) and sometumes they are like all over me. Sometimes like during the day or something they'll even do it in front of my mom and little sisters. They say stuff like "youre soo sexy" and even stuff about my as.s.. it's really akward around my family.. but i dont want them to think im trying to get rid of them.. how should i talk to them about.. should i even say anything? lol thanks

just let them know that u feel uncomfortable. say "hey, keep that to yourself while my family is around!" or just dont bring them around your family

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at my school theres some people that think im hot but they are more like the losers and the popular people ignore me and tell me im ugly.. why is this? but people outside my school think im pretty good looking ..why do people do this

beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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how do you know if your bi-sexual ?? because i think i might be but im not sure .. like whatsz a sign of it ?? cuz like .. id have no problem hookin up with a girl or like eatin her out or somethin like that .. idk why but i juss like think its not a big deal .. an could bi-sexual lead to like lesbian ? because seriously i dont have any problemsz with gaysz or lesbiansz but i jus dont wanna be one .. like bi-sexual ? eh aint that bad n i know i proly dont have control over it or not .. but can someone PLEASE HELP ME

i RATE G0OD !!

well would you ever actually want a GIRLfriend? if you just wouldnt mind hooking up with a girl, you're probably bi-curious. and a lot of girls are like that, i don't think it will lead to being a lesbian if you still like guys too.

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My question: Is it rude to correct someone who uses a word incorrectly if they made the mistake while giving a compliment? I sent my boyfriend an e-mail. I concluded the e-mail with "Your Hot" signed by my name. My boyfriend responded to the e-mail. He concluded his response by italicizing "You're Hot" signed by his name. At first I thought he was emphasizing how he thought that I was the one who was truly hot in the relationship until I realized he was pointing out to me that I had misused the word "Your."

he was probably just joking around. i dont think he meant to be rude or anything, i wouldnt get mad about it ..

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lol. how do you get people to stop saying lol. i dont mind when something funny is happening but when you're like "i went to the beach today" and the im you get back is "lol." please. it bothers me. ok. sorry... i know thats weird.

just be like "umm how is that funny?" !! yeah it can deffinetly get annoying .. i dont think there is a way you can completely stop it

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What are some good acne-removal treatments that work??? Please help me because I have acne all over my nose really bad! I will rate well to anyone who tells me a working-treatment. Please don't make it prescription treatment, as I can't get that yet.

there is a cream you can get called benzoyl something or other (not quite sure what its called -you can ask a doctor or the people who work at the store) but it works really good. just use it 2-3 times a day, put it on after you wash your face. if you get brand name like clearasil or something it will work better and its only about $8.

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Sorry its a little standard but i will try to make it quick, My mate likes a guy, who only likes her as a friend. She acted like she didnt mind but i think it hurt a bit. Anyway, today i found out he likes me, but i only like him as a friend, plus he is a year younger than me. so 3 questions, do i tell her? If so how do i tell her? and how do i let him down gently?

since you don't like him then i don't think you should tell her. you and him won't end up getting together (since you don't like him) so it will only hurt her more if she knows that he likes you. to let him down gently, just tell him that you don't feel that way about him & also your friendship with the other girl means more to you & you don't want to risk jeopardizing it.

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ok, so i went to my friends pool party, and it was 4 hours long, so i got soooo sunburnt that i look like a giant tomato!! and it really hurts!!! but that's not what i'm concerned about. i got like sooooo tan!!!! is their anything that'll make me get whiter again? WITHOUT surgery?!! i rate high!!!

why would you want to be white again? haha most people would kill for a tan. anyways, i dont think you can make it go away ...

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how do i scrunch my hair?

when u get out of the shower (while your hair is still wet) put in LOTS of gel throughout all your hair and just grab little bits at a time and scrunch upward! then spray with lots of hairspray all over! you blowdry it if you want, to keep the curls in & to make it non-frizzy

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Okay I'm extremely confused. I'm a freshman in school and I have recently come to terms that I am gay and by the way I'm a guy. I have a friend who is a guy also and he comes over all the time. I am extremely attracted to him and I don't know what to do. I want to tell him how I feel but there is never the right time and I'm afraid if I do and he's not gay, he'll tell everybody about me. I have a pretty good feeling that he may be gay too but I'm never entirely sure. He has made comments before that if we were both women he would totally kiss me and he has made other moves on me as well but I think he may be waiting for me to make the first move. I feel that if I do, he may freak out. I've smoked with him a lot (not legal stuff lol) and all he does is say how he really likes me and he gets cuddley. How can I determine if he likes me and how can I start a relationship with him without completely ruining my life. Please respond immediately and keep in mind that I REALLY like this guy. Thanks!

It sounds to me that he is deffinetly gay and that he likes you. Just make sure that if you make a move on him it is when you are both alone and you AREN'T on drugs!! Haha he may do something he doesn't really want to if he is high. You can try making a few jokes about it too, saying like "If i was gay..." and see how he responds. Good luck!

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I hate the way my family treat me. They constantly rag on me for no reason. All i do is walk in the room and they will say something about me to hurt my feelings. For instance, my dad yelled at me for eating one time, telling me id get fat. (At the time i was 115 lbs.) I wouldnt even eat for days, and one meal..i would get yelled at. For a while, I used to starve myself because I was sick of getting yelled at and sneaking food at midnight. Now, i eat less and my dad will laugh and joke about how Im anorexic, which isnt true. My younger sister also calls me fat, when im only 125. (Im 16). She even calls me a dyke (not true) because ive never had a boyfriend. She, on the other hand, goes out and sleeps with every guy that says hello to her. My dad knows it, but he still laughs and calls me that too and tells me im never going to get a boyfriend. My dad thinks i should drop out of high school because my grades werent as good as last years. (Im still on honor roll.) I dont make straight A's like my sis, and Im not outgoing as my sis. And because of that, they call me a failure and doubt my intelligence. Im sick of them treating me like im nothing. They say they are "joking" but they know how much it hurts and continue to do it all the time. They enjoy seeing me down and thats why they keep bringing me down. I used to ask them to stop, but they dont listen. Now i just ignore them because i know words cannot kill me. But honestly, they are. I never thought words could be so powerful and have such an influence on me, but the consistancy of it has ruined my self esteem and has caused me to stop talking. Im starting to believe i am nothing, because thats how im always treated. Any advice? Dont tell me to talk to them or anyone. I have tried it so many times in the past, they ARENT going to listen.

aww! there really is nothing you can do for them to stop treating you this way unless you do talk to them and make them realize how much it hurts you! they need to understand that they are ruining you inside. if you really cant talk to them about it some ways of dealing with your problems are: talking to a friend or counseler, keeping a diary of your feelings, listening to music, drawing, etc. try to keep your mind off it and live your life the way you normally would, as if their words mean nothing. you know that you aren't unintelligent and you know that you aren't fat .. so don't let them make you believe that you are!! good luck!!

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i think im gonna be having sex soon. can some peez tell me the steps on what2 do. what will the guy do to me? im ready to have it but i want to know what will happen first. you know... like what happens first and what happens at the end.
i rate really high!

sex isn't something that is planned out.. and it isn't the same for everyone. it will most likely start with making out, touching, etc. the guy will most likely take the lead, so just follow what he does. if he knows its your first time he will be more understanding!

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Ookay.. Well my mom won't let me wear thongs.. and like I just turned 13. And I don't get it.. She wears them so why can't i?? It's not fair.. All my friends have them except for one..And it's so stupid. I mean all i went them for is so you can't see my underwear line thats it..Someone help

Make sure you tell her the reason you want to wear them. If she knows it is because you want to hide your panty line then she may reconsider! If not, you could always buy them yourself, you don't need to tell her!

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