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boys.. around family
i have a lot of guy friends and they come over to my house a lot (along with other friends who area girls) and sometumes they are like all over me. Sometimes like during the day or something they'll even do it in front of my mom and little sisters. They say stuff like "youre soo sexy" and even stuff about my as.s.. it's really akward around my family.. but i dont want them to think im trying to get rid of them.. how should i talk to them about.. should i even say anything? lol thanks
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Well if you feel akward around your family.....say somethin. Tell them that you dont mind them saying thing like that to you, but to not say it in front of your family. SIMPLE. Just let them know how you feel. Hope i have helped.
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wow most of my guy friends wont even tak around my family. then there are some that act like that to my mom...gross i know. just tell them that they can say whatever as long as no family members are around. simple as that. oh, and i wouldnt go into too much detail. <3
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why dont you tell them not to say stuff around your family
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tell the guy that he should not do that around your family... and if you feel comfortable with it... only out side of the members. All you gotta do is tell him( if your not comfy with it) that you dont want them doing that... ESPECIALLY around the family. (a little tip is to make it seem kinda "joke like" or just make it funny by being like u guys r hilarious, but seriously (ha ha laughs) dont do that!)
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That is highly rude to your parents and you need to show the boys that you won't tolerate that kind of talk at all. Tell them firmly that they better stop, and if they do it again, don't let them come over to your house for a day. These guys just sound cheap, they don't need to talk to you sexually at all, especially not in front of your parents. Yes, you'd better say something, because that is unbelievably disrespectful to you and your family that has to listen to your perverted friends. Boys can be perverts at lots of times, but to do it in front of family, is out of control, I'm suprised nobody has said anything. I suggest you talk to them immediatly and stick with your word to show them that you're serious.
-TheTeenGirl
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Ive been in the same boat as you, having the same feelings, getting weird around the family when they make the nice gestures.. The next time they decide to compliement your looks infront of your family, don't embarass them by saying something infront of your family. Pull him aside, or where-ever you guys hang out and tell him to like cool it around your parents. Leave that kind of talk for hanging around the friends and not the parentals and your sisters because they don't appreciate that kind of language. It worked for me, so I hope it works for you!
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just let them know that u feel uncomfortable. say "hey, keep that to yourself while my family is around!" or just dont bring them around your family
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I have the same problem with a boy(except he dosent say the stuuf infront of my family)he says things like"Since youve been bad I am going to fuck you hard tonight"or"I am going to smack that big ass of yours"or"love you".You should tell him to stop.Even though I tell him to stop he dosent You might get luck and he might stop:)
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