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i'm kaylaa and i'm an extra fatty, because this girl on advicenators says i am. :]btw: i've had advicenators before , for about 2 yrs but i forgot my username and password :[
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ok, i'm gonna tell you straight out, i have alot of money. I'm 15/f and my mother's family is very wealthy. I'm really not a snob or anything, i don't have fancy designer clothes, i'm down to earth and i do community service and donate time and money, and such. The problem is, there is this guy that works for my family. He is 27, and a few years ago he was hired to clean our house once a week. Well me and my sister go to school that is 30 minutes from our house, so a lot of days he also drives us, which is really annoying. For the past year, he works like full time for my parents, he cleans our house like EVERY DAY! he walks our dogs, runs errands, helps with landscaping. It's ridiculous! I hate it, plus he is a total show off and is always doing flips and handsprings in the yard! wtf. and everytime i walk downstairs he starts talking to me and commenting like "oh, your going for a run? i like to run" or "those peach yogurts are good aren't they?what other flavors do you like?"
It wasn't that bad during the school year, but now that school is out i just wanna go outside in my bathing suit and read and practice soccer in my sports bra and stuff, which wouldn't be a big deal, except that he is ALWAYS AROUND!
please help, it is totally ruining my summer!
Tell your parent's, i mean they should be able to do something about it. And if you don't like him tell him not to talk to you. Its YOUR yard if you dont want him doing backflips and such tell him. Don't let him ruin your summer. Try to go someplace where he never is , and if he arrives there tell him to leave. Or just go outside and he starts stairing at you , tell you parents you think hes a creep. Mabe he has a crush on you :/
x'kaylaaaaa
I'm friends with at least 6 Athiest people. I don't really want to change them. It's just why doesn't people believe in God? My one friend say me wearing a cross to school one day and told me to take it off. I asked her why. She said some very unkind things about God. Then she said, How can God be real if he doesn't save anybody from death? I couldn't answer that. SI asked around and found out she wasn't always Athiest. She used to believe in God until her grandparents were murdered. Since me and my friends live in a town with drug dealers, malesters, and murderers, it's common for people to get hurt, but i'm not scared of the people in my town, but my friend scares me saying too many rude things about God. What do I do?!
Everbody has diffrent beliefs. I don't know who she believes in , but not even them can save anybody from death. EVERYBODY DIES FOR A REASON. why dont you try telling her that. When god wants people to go , then he takes them. It was her grandparents time to go , bottom line. I think she's being a little stuck up to tell you the truth , and if you took your cross off thats where you were in the wrong. Just because you don't believe in the same thing she does , doesnt mean she should be acting like an idiot. Tell her how you feel , and stick up for what YOU believe in. She needs a reality checK:]
x'kaylaaaaaaa
How do I stop getting really bad razor burn right below my knees? I already change my razor blade every few days, have tried different razors, use shaving cream, and don't shave when I have goosebumps. Is there anything else I can do?
try nair. you can find it at walmart by the face wash and stuff. :]]
http://www.naircare.com/bodyzones.aspx
x'kaylaaa
do you think itd be slutty for a 15 year old to take a belly dancing class at a gym? what would you think of it?
Nah , i don't think so. It's a great way to work out and keep in shape. :]
x'kaylaaa
when does the average female lose her virginity?
i lost mine when i was 14 , yes i know young but i'm with the same guy still. i guess mabe around 14-16, hell some girls loose it at 13! atleast thats what i saw on maury. lol
hope i helped.
x'kaylaaa
14/f
is it okay for a 17 year old guy (just turned 17) and a 14 (turning 15 soon) year old girl to go out?
i dont want to get him in trouble
I think as long as your parents don't care then it doesnt matter. The cops probably wont come knocking at your door saying " you cant go out with him"lol. I was 13 when i met my boyfriend who was 16 , now hes 18 and i'm turning 16. Its ok i wouldnt be worried , pretty soon he'll be old anough to make his own decisions any way:]
x'kaylaaaaaa
while having sex what does it mean to ride on a guy? like i think i know kinda what it is but hhow exactly do you do it? and does it really hurt more?
your on top of him sitting as far down as you can , and it's kinda like riding a horse. Just move up and down basically.
x'kaylaaaa
Well my dad freakin took my autn to pick out my grad dress so it's freakin horrible.
My dad wont' take me to the salon to do ym hair which is as long as the girl from The Ring and needs the haircut. He's doing my hair! ARG
I thoguth it would be perfect..now it's jsut terrible.
I dont' know what I'm asking for..just..help me.
I don't wanan burst out crying at the grad
Ask you dad to let you return the dress , if he says no , tell him that your not going. Things like that work for me i don't know if it will work for you.
I wouldn't suggest letting a " dad" cut hair , because i have a feeling things will just get worse , mabe ask a friend to cut it , or just do it yourself , either of them are better than letting your dad do it. As for curling it or anything , i wish i could help you out cause i can do some mad curl's but you could probably do them yourself if you had about an hour to spair.
x'kaylaa
i truly hope i helped. :]
my friend is really pretty and likes to flirt with guys. once she was over my house and the guy that i liked was on so she gave him a link to her myspace and asked him what do you think of me. he wouldn't answer since he had a girlfriend. and she goes i can't wait till he breaks up with his girlfriend so he can tell me what he thought. then she put together this lunch so i could meet up with him but she started flirting with him and he asked her to be his girlfriend. she knew i liked him so she asked me what should say. i told her to say yes regardless my feelings and the next day after she said yes she bragged about getting him is she really a true friend?
Yes , most likely she will get her day :] it happens to everyone , and it is REAL :]
x'kayla
My boyfriend and I just broke up and I heard there are 4 dirty low down tricks to getting him back..... someone out there has got to be able to help me I want him back....but how?
get more dressed up than usual and mabe get a new boyfriend , that should make him want you back!
i'm a teenage girl.
So there's someone who I want to hook up with, and he can drive, i can't yet... I just don't know where is a good location to do it.
We might not go all the way, but definately at least to 3rd. (it depends on how it goes and how i feel then)
So please don't say anything like "oh don't do it".
I just need to know where. And it couldn't be in either of our houses b/c my parents would find out.
in an dark place , or an ally :/
ok i just bought Jergens natural glow daily moisturizer and i just wanted to know from experience does it work well??
is it going to t urn me orange?
it worked wonders for me! i wouldnt suggest any other self tanner:]
x'kaylaaaa
Ok so i had a fight with a friend 1 only shes telling everyone i called her slut but i didnt i said to her everyone goes around calling you a slut and i tell them to shut up anyways now her friends involved everytime i walk past the push me and call me a slut whore skank and i end up crying i even ended up crying last night im to scared to go to school now
please help me
Girl's are going to be like that it's our nature i guess you could say. I know how you feel because i got bullied when i was in school and actually that's the reason i quit school.
If your really worried go to the couselor or the pricipal. i would take matters into my own hands, just wait for them to walk by you; since you know they are going to push you just reach back and sock them in the face, i know, your scared , but dont show fear im telling you if you do then they are going to keep doing it. If your not up for hitting them just simply tell them to back off or shut up , and if they come up to you in your face you HAVE to take action. Imagine something that really made you mad one day and then take it out on them.
you really should build up your courage to do this , if you do i bet no other girl will ever mess with you.
x'kaylaaa
All of my boyfriend's friends tell me I'm ugly and he can do so much better than me. What are some ways I can improve the way I look? I just don't think I look pretty.
here are a couple of pictures of me (my hair isn't blonde and brown anymore it's dark brown/auburn)
http://s52.photobucket.com/albums/g14/kiirstinthegreat/?action=view¤t=DSC00108.jpg
http://s52.photobucket.com/albums/g14/kiirstinthegreat/?action=view¤t=l_77a2cb1b3f4578957a051490d299f973.jpg
Those are the only pictures I have that you can really see my face
my advice : tell them boy's to fuck off , are you dating them ; no! so they shouldn't care.
&& i looked at them picture's and you aren't ugly , i'd be the person to tell you if you were. i was expecting a reaaaalllly ugly girl , but who ever calls you ugly is uhhh ugly :]]
try a change in the way you do your make up , or if you think your overweight ; exercise. you shouldn't change your self for some boy , i doubt he'll be the one you are going to marry!
x ' kayla
hope i helped :]
Ok, I didnt want to put DETAILS lol but I think I have to, when me and my boyfriend had sex the condom was EXTREAMLY tight, I couldnt get it on when I was putting it on, and I've had sex before, and it just went right on the other guys, so hes not small...but hes more thicker.. and it wasnt sliding off.. it was like popping off from it being to tight.. like it wouldnt go all the way down..so we STOPPED and just fooled around because i DO Know the precautions in having sex with pregnancy and STD's.
so please help with the whole condom situation... I used regular condoms. Not any size bigger.
use trogan ulta ribbed , or actually trogan should fit better:]
what is juvenile detention? Who can tell me a bit about it?
Juvenile detention is not fun , one thing you should know , it's where bad kid's go. i have a friend that just got out of there :/
x'kaylaaa
I'm 14/f. Okkk, I am in love with this boy. He's nice, he's cute, and he's smart. This is hard to say but, he likes another girl but he likes me at the sametime. It's confusing! So I sent him an e-mail telling him how I feel. He hasn't responded and I know that he got it. It's been 5 days and I've been waiting for an answer. I don't exactly know what to do next. I don't know if I should instant message him and tell him to reply, even though I wrote in the e-mail a million times to respond. I have no idea what to do! Im in love with him, please help me!!!
i would wait , and if he doesn't respond mabe he's too into the other girl :/ .
hope i helpped.
x k'aylaaaaa
I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. he seems crazy about me, i never ever guessed that he would even think about kissing another girl. but last night he kissed one of my good friends, then grabbed her boob. and masterbated like in front of her.
i really dont want ot break up with him but if i have to i will.
what should i do?>
boy's can't be trusted , that's onee thing you should realize. It's hard to find a good guy , most guy's think they are " player's ".
my advise is break up with him , & see how he reacts. If you let him get away with this , then hun he'll just keep doing it to you :/
obviously he don't care about you if he's going to do something so scandalious like that!
x ' kaylaaaa
all right, so i have a boyfriend of 1 yr (on the 29th) and he is the most amazing boyfriend you could ever possibly imagine. I know he loves me. The other day a girl went over his house (he's known her since preschool) so he could help her with a project they both have in english (he's a genius, really.) and they got to talking and then she randomly moved down her pants to show him a bruise she got from her and her bf having sex (...uhh, yea.. she's known to be kind of.. you know.) so my question is, should i be worried or threatened at all? I mean, that was my initial reaction, but, i know he loves me but sometimes i can just get really mad easily. so anyone out there, could you tell me what you'd do in this situation?
don't worry about your boyfriend , if you think he isn't going to do nothing than most likely he won't. It depends on the person though too , you know him , so i can't tell you if he will or won't.
FORGET about what he's doing , ask that girl what her problem is. Tell her straight up to stop being a sl**. :] i'd be pretty mad if a girl did that to my boyfriend!
x'kaylaaaaa
okay so to start of im 17 years old female. anyway im 17 and i have been for the last 5months my mom will not let me do anything and im so sick of it i had to come in at 10:30 pm like im a baby or something its friday night and all of my friends are out drinking but no i have to be home by 10:30 i cant go out to partys and drink because i drive i cant even stay out past 11 on the weekends im going insane..!! some one please help
You should sit your mom down , and tell her how you feel. If she's anything like a good mom she would understand.
you should be happy your mom care's what time you are in , i mean i know you are 17 but if you still live with her than you should go by her rules. And i hear all the time on the news about teens missing and stuff , 11 is a good time to be in sleeping , unless you are staying the night somewhere. Too many weirdo's and crazy people out at night. never know what could happen :/
But ya i would talk to her and ask her to stay out later if you really insist , or if she say's no sneak out :]
x ' kaylaaaa