all right, so i have a boyfriend of 1 yr (on the 29th) and he is the most amazing boyfriend you could ever possibly imagine. I know he loves me. The other day a girl went over his house (he's known her since preschool) so he could help her with a project they both have in english (he's a genius, really.) and they got to talking and then she randomly moved down her pants to show him a bruise she got from her and her bf having sex (...uhh, yea.. she's known to be kind of.. you know.) so my question is, should i be worried or threatened at all? I mean, that was my initial reaction, but, i know he loves me but sometimes i can just get really mad easily. so anyone out there, could you tell me what you'd do in this situation?
FORGET about what he's doing , ask that girl what her problem is. Tell her straight up to stop being a sl**. :] i'd be pretty mad if a girl did that to my boyfriend!
Teza answered Friday June 8 2007, 10:00 pm: I don't think that you should be worried. He seems like a great boyfriend and cares about you. You trust him and you know he wouldn't do anyhing to hurt you. Some gilr's are just like that. She was probablly a bit of a flirt but it's normal for you to be a little mad. He can't control what she does so it's not his fault. If she continues to do random things like that and if he starts to act a bit strange, confront him about it. All though, I doubt that he'll let it get that way. You know he loves you and only wants you so no worries :] [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
XkittyOkatX answered Friday June 8 2007, 9:26 pm: In all honesty, most girls would initally be threatened, but from what you say about him, you shouldn't be worried about him.
He can't control her actions, so don't get mad at him. But he can control his, so as long as he didn't do anything, you shouldn't feel threatened.
If he seems to start hanging around her alot of something, maybe talk to him, though.
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