Im 20 years old, I have faced many obstacles and problems that I have had to go through alone with no help and the help I recieved wasn't ever any good. I have faced women problems, friends moving, suicide, killings, deaths, car accidents, sibling rivals, fighting, weird hobbies, my best friends being raped. I have been through a little of everything and I was the one many of them turned to so I like to help out.
Hobbies: I do a lot of work in recording studios, and video/editing studios so I know film pretty well. I am a director/producer. Thats what I am in school for, to further my knowledge of set production for I am a pre production wizard. I read a lot so I have knowledge. And more.
Education: I graduated at the top 15 percent of my class in high school which was college prep, and right now im in my 3rd year od college. I have an AA degree in media arts, a 6 month screen writing certificate from NYFA. I am 11 months from my BA in FILM and HDTV, and I am a semester away from an International Business Degree.
SO if you have any questions im polite and easy to talk with and you can ask me any question you have, I will be honest no matter what.
E-mail: spin18@aol.com
Gender: Male
Location: New Mexico but live in AZ
Occupation: Sudent/Film and TV Producer
Age: 20
AIM: Tightwireprod
Member Since: January 15, 2004
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how many calories are in 1 pound? (link)
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I believe its 3500 calories per pound.
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Ok well on my myspace, i put my profile under "private". How do i remove this? I will rate! thanks so much! (link)
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Dear Myspace,
If you put it their you should be able to take that off, but if you are either under 16 or 14 the site has to put that on your account for there has been sexual assults that started on myspace (younger girls have been meeting and having sex with guys that are older than their myspace says). If these are not the conditions I am not sure.
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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I need to know if anybody is really good at biology? I am struggelling nad could use some help. (link)
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Yes, I am pretty good at biology, so whats the problem are you having. Please let me know the grade as well.
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hey yall i want an screen name thats like emo, goth.... rocker type of screen name....... any words
Any suggestions?? (link)
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XmorbidxAngelX (goth/hard metal band)
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I was just on a website, www.rotten.com, and i pretty much clicked on every picture on it. I'm not a murderer or anything, im a 15 year old girl. Basically i'm trying to say that i dont know what to do becuase I feel so dizzy and sick, and I think those pictures are going to be stuck in my head for the rest of my life? I dont know what made me look at them all, but i did and theres no turning back. How do i stop feeling so..i cant even find the word for it, and stop thinking about them, and function normally? Thanks, i'd really like to sleep, hah. (link)
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Dear Bad Website,
I know what you mean, the site has some pretty vulgar pictures that can disturb many. the funny thing is is that your say that you got dizzy and sick and it wasn't because you had a choice, it was your bodies natural response to your feelings. As for sleeping it should be gone within the next day, so just surround yourself by people and do a lot of talking and less thinking about what you saw. Sounds stupid and cheesy but it actually works.
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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hey when im downloading songs to my iPod or just charging it... it always says "Do not Disconnect" when on my computer it says "Ok to Disconnnect". What does this mean, and what can I do to make it stop? Thank you in advance (link)
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Dear Ipod,
That is completely normal to happen. When you hook it up to your computer and when it says "Do not disconnect"right, that just means it is trying to connect to you computers ITUNE. And when it is finished uploading with Itunes it will say "Ok to disconnect" it will also way this in your Itunes menu until everything is synced. Did you recently aquire the IPOD?
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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what does it mean when people say like...id tap that? (link)
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Dear tap,
It generally means that a male or female (who ever is saything tht) would like to have sex with the person they are refering to in a vulgar way or in a HARD way.
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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i need help really bad. I just found out about 5 minutes ago my best friend is anorexic and shes really skinny, marge died on monday, this 19 year old died like two weeks ago and i feel like i have to be perfect because my dad is a perfectionist and like i feel like i cant cry. Its so hard for me to cry because i dont feel like i am allowed to. i really need you to pray for me because it is really hard. and i cant handle it anymore and i dont want my parents to see me cry because they think that i have to be perfect and i cant be. i have good grade and the best friends anyone could ever have and sometimes my dad verbally abuses me but doesnt mean to and tells me sorry afterwards, but it still hurts my feelings (link)
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Dear cry for help,
I am sorry to hear about your situation I really am, and I will keep you in prayers and on my mind, if you need anything at all don't be afraid to ask me or tell me I will help you to the best that I can. I know what its like to be "Perfect" and have people on you all the time for the smallest mistake, to be lower that you thought you could go. So hang on and try to block out the bad, something that is hard to do but is slightly effective once you get enough practice. So please keep in there and I am here for you no matter what, even if you just need someone just to talk with.
I hope everything is alright,
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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Do you believe in Palmistry? (link)
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Dear Palmistry,
I do not believe in palmistry because the lines on ones hand are merely created when we are in the womb (scientifically proven). When we are in the womb and our hands stay closed for an excessive period of time. Also I get new lines almost everyday because of the work I am doing.
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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Did anyone put rhinestones on their ipod or phone? Is it a good idea or not cuz i dont want to mess up my ipod or phone. I have green, clear, and blue rhinestones and i have a blue ipod so I'm tryin to think of some designs or patterns to put it in any ideas? thanks! (link)
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Dear rhinestone,
I would not suggest that you put anything even a sticker on your ipod. If something happens like it falls and breaks or it catches a virus you will not be able to take it in for en exchange if damaged. They will say it probably broke because your alteredthe appearance of the Ipod. So just keep in mind that any alterations made to the Ipod may have a consequence.
PS: I had a friend who put a sticker and when the hard drive of the Ipod stopped working they said the appearance was changed and might have caused the break, total BS but it worked and he had to BUY a new one.
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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well i am, in my oppinion, over weight, i want to know if there is a way to lose 5-10 pounds in a short amount of time, like a months (the maximmum)
are there any websites, or plans that anyone knows about?
thnx a bunch! (link)
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Dear Weight,
Ok the easiest way to lose 5-10lbs in a short amount of time is to run/jog everyday and eat healthy for that time. Also, if you eat right and run around 2-5 miles a day you will lose more than that.
Chris
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Well.. my mum and I had an argument yesterday. What happened is I have a radio show and on air the girl I do it with asked me if my school has uniforms and how long I've been there. I saw nothing wrong with that, but my mum said it was personal and at the end came and shouted at the girl for asking me personal things on air. I was really embarassed and apologized to my friend for what my mum did. This is the second time this has happened. another time I had a friend in the car and my mum started yelling at me in front of her. She told me she'd never embarass me like that again, but then she did it yesterday. So I told her I was ashamed of her. I didn't really mean it as I was mad, but she hasn't spoken to me since and she was crying this morning.
I've tried apologizing, but she says she knows I meant it. Thing is I was really mad about what she did to my friend, especially since it wasn't even a big deal. Am I in the wrong here? I don't know what I can do. (link)
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Dead What should.......
This is one of those "grounds" in which the area is neither black or white but grey. What you and your mother need to do is actually talk this one out mother to you and visa versa. It was wrong what your mother did but I can see how your mother would over react because non personal things to you may be very personal to her so you are going to have to talk to your mother about a common ground, such as she doesn't like to be embarrassed so she should return the favor. Also she was over reacting by yelling at your friend she being the adult should have acted like one and approached her differently.
Hope this helped,
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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I'm just curious. I know this sounds weird and I might sound uneducated, but are black roses just romanticized ideas by the silly minds of Gothic fashion fans, or is it actually possible to grow black roses? (link)
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Its a Romance idea. You can tapmper with genetics to grow black roses but it to my knowledge hasn't been done. Part of being a goth is "BEAUTY" yes I said beauty kinda like a dead rose.
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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Hey im 15/f and i was wondering if there were any face products that actually worked on fighting zits and pimples. I tried almost everything! But it either makes my face dry or gives me more zits and doesn't work. I pop them when they come but they become a horrible problem.. so it there any products that i could use that work and wont dry out your face? And another thing is, i know that some foods will make you break out or do something to your face. What foods are thoughs? Thanks a bunch i rate high! (link)
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I used to use neutrogena face wash and that works great but you will get dry skin so get the pore sealint they make and they will add moisturizer to your skin at night or when you skin gets dry and also helps against strong break outs. Also try and refrain from using to much OILY make up. Also I started to wash my face 6 times a day to get rid of all the oils on my face which also helped minimize my break outs. But do not bust your pimples for they leave scars and if you contiune to do that you will get oil build ups in your freshly popped pimple and it will just cause another one to protrude from your skin.
Hope this helped
Christopher lee Espinoza
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Hi, I'm doing a project on the Santa Fe trail and the other day my teacher told me that I should include Christopher "Kit" Carson. And I was looking online but I didn't really find any on him that had to do with the Santa Fe Trail. So could someone please give me a site or tell me what Kit Carson had to do witht he Santa Fe Trail.
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Dear Trail,
http://www.pbs.org/weta/thewest/people/a_c/carson.htm
but I would suggest the page below
http://www.legendsofamerica.com/HC-KitCarsonBio.html
Hope this helped.
Christopher lee Espinoza
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ok well sometimes like when i workout or just wearing jeans somewhere i dont wear underwear. i just heard the other day though about crabs? is it likely i will get them or already have them if i dont wear underwear sometimes? can someone please give me some info on this..thanks. (link)
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The only way to get crabs is to come into direct contact with them. Like by using a public toilet or any sexual encounter with someone who has them. There are also a few other ways to catch them, but just because you don't wear any underwear doesn't necessarily mean you will catch crabs, but possible if you catch them from else where.
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The other night in bed with my bf, I fell asleep and had a dream in which I kissed one of my flatmates, and enjoyed it a lot - this guy is like a brother to me, and although he is attractive and 'my type' (I guess that's why we are friends), I have never considered him as anything more than a friend, and have never (and still don't) wished we could be anything more. As I said, he is like a brother. When I woke up I felt SO guilty.
What could this dream mean, and should I feel bad about it? (link)
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Dear Dreams,
Dreams are considered to be one of the most powerful visions in anyones life. A way to read our subconscious but not full proven. But you have little or nothing to worry about because if you can trust yourself enough to know nothing will happen between you and "dream brother" than you are fine. to be on the safe side just make sure your not alone but other than that you have no need to feel guilty about the dream for dreams like that are very normal and expected to happen.
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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15/f/eng okay so im going to redecorate my room and i was thinking to do it as a set theme... like paris or playboy or something like that,
but i dont what to do, i cant make my mind up
like i said im 15,female. i like all colours except the darker shades. i can only afford two colours at the moment so painting each wall four different colours wouldnt be much of an option for me. currently my room is blue and yellow so.. anything other than that.
so can any one give me some suggestions of themes and what i could do to do that..
like... the theme, what colours to use, accesories (sp) and the such etc etc.
i hope i didnt confuse you too much x (link)
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I know a few interior designers and I recently worked on a project with them for the family that wanted to do their 16yr old daughters room and they did a Marilyn Monroe type of theme. Weird as it sounds but it actually came out very unique and one of the best rooms I have seen. Also a colleage just did their guest room completely TECH- rich colors varying from light blues/oranges/crimsons/little white.
Another way for approaching this subject is find something you are really into and they add a twist to it like make it "for the past, future" When I was 11-14 I did my room in complete cave theme.
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Female, 21
I was recently dating a guy I thought I really clicked with. He talked about our future on several occasions, and he really seemed to be interested in me (like I said, we clicked, and not just on my end). He recieved a promotion that requires him to take frequent business trips, though, and he says he can't start a new relationship right now, especially since there might be fights about it and he might ruin what might be in the future. To his credit, I did contact him with concern even when he told me he wouldn't be able to talk (I know for a fact he was quite busy). He also said he didn't want to deprive me of someone who could put in enough time to be a real boyfriend. He also said he's not going anywhere and has kept me posted on major events in his life. So, is he to be believed? Should I get over him? Should I date around and wait (he said it will be super busy for about 7 months)? Should I just wait? I really feel like this is the guy for me, and I'm trying to keep the faith, but I feel obsessive for believing what may be a line. Help? (link)
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Dear Enough Time,
I know what you and your "boyfriend are talking about". I am in the entertainment industry "producer for film and commercials" and I am busy 10-11 months out of the year and the hardest thing is a relationship and when ever I get involved in one I end up telling her she deserves to find someone who can spend the time on her but when ever im in town and I can spare the time I do my best to make it up to her if she is still interested. As for your friend over there he seems like a down to earth guy with real expectations in his life. From what I gather I think he is interested and that is the reason why he gave you the option because he doesn't want to hurt you ibn the end. He seems like an ideal candidate but if you think this is someone you want to try and get to know I suggest you "find" an arrangement to see each other. And if he doesn't want to do that than its abvious he isn't interested at all. Lets put it this way on 3 month projects I work 22 hours of the day and I leave 2 hours a day for myself and the people around me. That is because I want people in my life to be around not for my sake but because I know they are worth keeping no matter the cost.
Hope this helped.
Christopher Lee Espinoza
PS: Just remember there are ways of finding time for one another just both sides need to commit to make it happen and ask him what he would like and tell him not to use excuses because if he really wants to be with you he will do anything he can to find that time to see or even give you a call.
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All right, I'm a relatively healthy (physically and mentally, I hope) young woman. I've never been intimate with a man. However, I've realized more and more that violence turns me on. For instance, when I see rape on TV or in a movie, I feel myself becoming aroused. When I fantasize, I always have these dark fantasies where a man is hurting me and forcing himself on me. It's not like I don't appreciate or crave romance - I do! Why am I having these thoughts though? I don't want to be hurt or violated or anything, but it just turns me on. Is it all right? Would a man be freaked out if I shared this with him? Would he take advantage of me? I've always thought I was a "good girl". (link)
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Dear Thoughts,
Thoughts of that nature are not anything to be ashamed of and are acutall=y pretty natural for both males and females. Just because you become aroused by such thoughts doesn't mean there is something mentally wrong with you. It's all natural, when it comes to fantacies and sexual venture the sky is only limited by your imagination. I know the feeling as well. Just out of curiosity are you the forceful one in your life? Because it is to my experience that woman that are turned on by such things are very in control in their lives and such thoughts and fantacies are their way of wanting a someone else to take control and show them a way.
Hope this helped
Christopher Lee Espinoza
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