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I'm not very booksmart, and I'm definately not street smart. However, if there's one thing I am, it's PEOPLE SMART. That's why I'm good with this whole advice thing. You can ask me ANYTHING and I'm always glad to help. There's almost no question I can't handle, so ask away. Make sure you RATE and leave FEEDBACK, so I can improve my advice.infinate x's and o's,
cindy
advice
How do I cut holes in my jeans to look "natuaral"?
Nail files work perfectly to give you the detressed look your going for. Hope this helps.
-cindy
so my dance is on friday i want to go with this guy and we have gone out like twice this year already but i really want to go with him but i am tired of waiting! so i was wondering, do guys think its creepy if a girl asks them out??
thanks
i'll rate high
Naw, not at all. It shows you have confidence. Confidence = sexy. Go for it. Hope this helps.
-cindy
My best friend ALWAYS has to have all the guys like her. Well, if a guy likes me or shows any signs in liking me she will try to get him to like her. She brags about all her guys, and she tries to flirt with the guys that like me. Why does she do this? I can't talk to her. What should I do? I'll give 5's. Thanks. And if you have good advice I'll give you the name of my column so we can talk more. Xoxo
Your friend probably just feels jealous. Her self esteem might be a little low as well, so getting guys to like her might raise her self esteem. She probably doesn't what she is doing, so just talk to her. True friends want to know how you are feeling. Don't accuse her or anything, you can say something like, "I'm not accusing you of doing this purposefully, it just seems whenever a guy likes me, you try and get him to like you..." Go from there, honesty is the best policy. Hope this helps.
-cindy
I invited my friend to go to Santa Barbara with me but her parents won't let her go until they see her report card.The problem is the report cards don't get mailed until after the trip! HOw can i get my friend to go on the trip now?
Have her e-mail all her teachers. Print out the emails and give it to her parents, that way they will know her grades. If e-mailing doesn't work, have her parents call the teachers. Hope this helps.
-cindy
In PE, we're swimming. I was wearing a two piece bathing suit for the first time, and it was a bit embarassing. All the girls were staring at me and moving their eyes up and down my body. And I'm not just imagining it, either. What is this? Is this a bad thing?
It's normal, don't be too afraid. They are just comparing themselves to you. Nothing to worry about. They also could be jealous, it's a compliment. Hope this helps.
-cindy
Who sings that new song "Temperature"? Its a rapper of some sort I think but I dont know who...
Sean Paul.
Hope this helps.
-cindy
how do you make those little hearts by your name when you are asking or answering a question?
for some computers, it works when you put &hearts --
however, for most comuputers you have to put a semicolon after it so, ♥
Hope this helps.
-cindy
whats the difference between true friend and friend?
im from korea......
A true friend..
-doesn't talk behind your back
-doesn't lie to you
-admits when she has done something wrong
-can convide in you and vice versa
-can tell you when you do something wrong and vice versa
-wants to fix problems like fights
-is able to give you a second chance
-knows your flaws and accepts you for who you are
Remember, nobody is perfect, always give second chances. Hope this helps.
-cindy
what is lax? people always say they have a lax game.
lax = lacrosse.
Hope this helps.
-cindy
ok there is this friend (who is a guy and i am a girl) and he is so funny! but latley he has been calling me so we can hang out. And he keeps on saying on how much me loves me. I think he means it in a friend way but im not sure. And I had a dream when me and him were going out and it did not freak me out. Do you think i like as more then a friend or not? Anyone who can answer this is amazing!!!! I would love help!
It seems to me, you like him as more than just a friend. It also seems that he likes you. Go for it, you never know you two could be made for each other. Hope this helps.
-cindy
My and my boyfriend went all the way the other day and about 20 minutes after we were done i was bleeding out of my vagina, not heavy like a period buti could tell i was bleeding. It only lasted a few hours also. I have had sex before once but that didnt happen after words! What happened? Is something wrong? Please help
Don't worry, you'll be okay. Your boyfriend probably just popped your cherry. It happens to every girl. Hope this helps.
-cindy
can you bleach hair with straight bleach? or is it horrible for your hair?
Yeah, you'll screw up your hair. You don't want to do that now, do you? Haha. Go to a salon, and they'll do it for you. Hope this helps.
-cindy
What do i do if this boy acts like he likes me around certain people, but then he talks about me really bad around other people. Should I just forget him?
Definately. He's not worth a second of your time if he treats you differently when he's with different people. Hope this helps.
-cindy
Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my boyfriend Jesse wants me to have sex and I really think iam ready,but the thing is I don't know how iam going to tell my mom is there a way to get on birthcontrol pills without my mom knowing?
There are a few things you can do:
1)Tell your mom you are interested in having sex. I mean, she might be a little shocked, but she can't stop you. She won't want you to get pregnant, so she would probably want you on the pill.
2)Go to your doctor and ask to be put on the pill. Everything is confidential, so your parents wouldn't be able to access information.
3)You can also ask your mom to put you on birthcontrol to control your period. You can say its very heavy and whatever. That way, you can be put on the pill with your parents consent, however they won't know your having sex.
Hope this helps.
-cindy
Ok, the sad truth is that I have TONS of clothes...tons of cute tops and lots of pants..but I can never put an outfit together nor do I EVER feel like I have anything worth wearing. Does anyone have any tips on how I can "whittle" down my wardrobe so i look stylish yet don't have so much clothes that i dont pay attention to
First off, go through your closet and drawers. Take everything out, this might take a few hours, but I assure you, you'll have tons of cute outfits by the end of it. Anyway, this way, you'll get to see everything that you own. When putting everything back in your closet, plan outfits. Put a cute pair of shorts with an adorable top. Look at magazines for inspiration, that always helps me dress. Also, make sure you accesorize. Accesories can tune up any outfit. Hope this helps and good luck.
-cindy
ok
so i talked to this guy on myspace
and he seems really nice
well he is
and hes really beutiful
and he goes to my school
but hes downstairs
and im upstairs
or whatever
but i like never see him
and i dont know what to do
i have seen him once because he has my lunch
and we like eachother
but im to afraid to talk to him because hes so gorgeous and popular
but hangs out with the preps
and im scared of preps
PLEASE HELP
i rate 5 for trying
If he is interested in you, you have nothing to worry about. After all, you both like each other. Don't be intimidated by the preps, otherwise, nothing will happen between the two of you and that wouldn't be a happy ending. Don't think about who he's friends with, after all, you're there for him, not his friends. Hope this helps.
-cindy
Can too much attention freak a girl out and make her back off? Even though you're really close? I've heard people say this before, but I'm not too sure, and now I'm affraid that I've been bothering my girlfriend with too much attention.
Girls love attention, and they love when guys are sweet to them. However, just make sure you don't get over obsessive and your not too clingy. Also make sure you give her some personal space. Hope this helps.
-cindy
tomorrow i am meetin my boyfriend of 10 months mom. i would like to know some do's and dont's about. i was wondering if it would be okay to wear make-up and what is something to wear. thanks 4 everyone who answers. i will rate
Wearing makeup is fine, just don't go overboard, you don't want to look like a whore. As for the outfit, where something more sophisticated, you don't want to look like trash. Make sure you don't wear anything too revealing or tight either. His mom won't want to see your cleavage or belly button. Also, just make sure you are polite and compliment her and whatever, just once or twice, you don't want to seem like you are sucking up. Don't bring up conversations that might be awkward and make her not like you. Sex is an obvious example. Hope this helps and good luck. Don't worry she'll love you.
-cindy
i am not very athletic. I hate running, and i'm not particulary competitive. I dont like being responsible for things on a team because i'm always scared i'll let the team down.Also i hate practices where you have to do sprints and drills esp. since i'm not a fast runner. I take dance and i play a little tennis but i'm not particularly good at eaither. What would be a good sport for me to play?
-skating
-gymnastics
-badminton
-just working out in general?
Hope this helps. If you need more, you know where to find me.
-cindy
my puppy is adorable but he can get very aggressive and bites a lot. Is there a way to make him stop?
He will probably grow out of it, but one thing you should do is make sure he knows what he is doing wrong. Say, "ick" or "no" when he bites, and maybe slap the top of the nose lightly. My dog trainer taught this to one of my dogs and it works. Hope this helps.
-cindy