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Hey people. I'm Kayla. I'm a pretty cool person. I like to help anyone and everyone out so if you have a question then I have an answer. So lets get this party started!!

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ok well i just made a new friend and her name is samantha. well anyway shes really really nice but shes only 13 and shes already gave some guys head! and this was when she was 12. well i know that shed do it again if she found a hot guy at our school but i really dont want her to. we're not really that close so i cant tell her what to do right now. what can i do about this?

Hun just talk about it with her. Maybe if you explain how this is making you feel she will figure out that she's hurting people around her. Maybe sh ewill stop. She is way to young for that anyways.

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OK listen boy friends brother told me that my boy friend says that i never call him or any thing and he was mad at me for leaving his house to be with my friend this one time and his brother said people were tellin him that im a big hoe and before i went with him i sucked alot of guys a yeah ok so i went home and called him to get it all straightin out and his sister picked up and i asked for him and she sed hold on and i heard her call him and he told her that he'll call me back well he never did i just don't know what to do with that i mean he says i never call but when i do he says he'll call back and he never does! can some one please help on this?? thanks

Girl just break up with him. Obviously he doesn't have a nuff time for u. Plus being single is way better. Flirt wit who you like and don't worry about him. He's definately not boyfriend material. Lovey

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hey.. 4got to ask you if you liked the blinkie i put on your column!! sry.. i feel like such a computer hacker!! lol.. i had this one on my computer and i thought you might like it since it was purple.. but i see you dont have much purple stuff anymore! lol..oh well.. lemme know if you want any other blinkies.. i have one that says *Bite Me* thats really cute. and i have one that i used for the longest time that said *Thats "Miss Bitch" to you* I LOVE IT! i'll upload it for ya if ya want..just gimme the word, mmk? lol..im such a dork. well, i'll holla atchya lata. LYLAS! ~*stefanie

OOOh I want the "Bite ME" One sounds cute..lol
*Kayla*

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i have a 3 year old bichon frise, and he IS potty trained. when he was younger we would let him out like 10 times a day to pee. well all the sudden this year he's been peeing on the carpets like at least once a week. we're selling our house, so we got BRAND NEW CARPETS throughout the house, and he still keeps peeing on those! we even get the spray stuff to disguise the smell so he won't go back to the spot but he still does. my dad says if he pees in our new house we're giving him away! =( so how do i get him to stop? i suggested obedience school but they said no he's too old. how do we discipline him PLEASE help if you know about dogs.

Maybe he has no bladder control. Take him to the vet.You could also get a fence and just let him stay outside of your new house.

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ok i have this friend lets call him j and i he is not like my best friend and we are pretty good friends. but ne ways he is going out with this girl lets call her c well i dont like c but i like j and i want them to breake up but i am not good enough friends with j to just go tell him to breake up with c and he would do it so wut can i do?

Just stay out of it.Its kind of selfish to just try to break someone up just so u can go out with j...wow you need to wake-up hun.

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with an average income, how much would you spend on your 15 year old child?

thanks

Depends on if they were Naughty or nice!!

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Ok I have a guy i like and who likes me or so my friend says. All 3 of us were in 3rd period and she sits nect to him and asked him if he liked me and he said yea sort of. then she asked him would you ever go out wit her he said i dont really know her. I am SoOo Shy and i dont know how to talk to him cause i dont know what to say to him and i guess hes shy too cause he doesnt really talk to anyone. So how do i start a conversation with him?! Like some tips!! HELP! I'LL RATE YOU HIGH!

humm well find out what kind of music he listens to, and start talking about it. If he plays any sports ask him what the score was on the last game. If he's good in whatever subject you have third period ask him for help on a question(kind of old but yeh). No need to be shy..I mean atleast you had enough guts to ask him if he liked you. If you are overly-outgoing then just plain out start talking to him about anything.

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I went out with this guy (we'll call him Tim) for a few weeks but then we broke up. Now, a year later, Tim is one of my best friends. He tells me anything and always comes to me when he needs advice about his new girlfriend (we'll call her Callie). The problem is that Callie hates me! The reason why is because before Tim dated Callie, Callie had another boyfriend (we'll call him Connor). Connor dumped Callie because he thought I was hot and wanted to ask me out (which he never did). Tim said Callie hates me because she's mad that her ex boyfriend dumped her for me. I don't want her to hate me because she seems like a cool person and I don't like it when people hate me! And I know for sure that Tim is telling the truth about her hating me because he is so sweet! Please help thanks! I'll rate ya! ps. I'm 13/f

How about you and "Callie" have a little talk. Tell her that it wasn't your fault that "Connor" broke up with her for you, and that you would really like to try to be her friend. Also tell her that it is not worth it to envy her when " Tim" is your best friend and more than likely going to back you up(well maybe not like that). If she still decides to hate you just deal with it and ignore her if she decides to say anything mean. Trust me eventually she will make herself look stupid. Good Luck I hope all goes well.!!
**Kayla**

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is ear cartilage piercing safe? i want to do it myself, with sterilized stuff ofcourse. has anyone else done that? what do u think? is it safe?

Don't do it yourself even if you have steril stuff your ear can still get infected. Most of my friends said that it really hurt but was worth it because it's really cute. It is really not safe to do it yourself tho. Hope it looks great tho!!!
* Kayla *

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i have an older laptop, i just got it its somewhere from '85 to '92 and I accidently deleted some files and now it wont even let me get on the computer. it wont let me get to microsoft windows. how do I get on there and undelete the files if possible? it keeps saying error....

Best thing to do is leave it alone. Instead take it to a professional. Like a computer shop. I think Best Buy does stuff like that where they will fix your computer. Try it!! Good Luck

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I am 14, in ninth grade, and I am female.

Okay, first I'm going to give a little backround information.

I had a boyfriend that tried to cheat on me with his ex girlfriend. I knew that I couldn't trust him ever again, so I broke up with him yesterday. Don't worry, I feel really good about it.

Well, a few days ago, I found out from one of my friends that another friend of mine, Ricky, likes me. At first, I wasn't sure I could trust the friend that told me, T.J., because T.J. is weird like that. Then, my best friend Megan told me yesterday that Ricky has liked me for a long time.

My question is, is it okay to go ahead and date Ricky so soon after dumping my previous boyfriend?

~ClarinetKtM

First, I'd like to say that you are way to young to be having so much drama. Second yes you should go out with ricky. Maybe he will treat you better than that other guy. GO FOR IT!!!!
*Kayla*

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i was @ my friends house and i stole 40$ should i give it back, because she has no idea it was in her closet.

After stealing 40 dollars from a friend you shouldn't even consider yourself a friend of hers. No friend steals money from another. What you should do is give it back and hope that she still wants to be your friend. Good Luck :)

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Hey,im 13 f and im 5'6 but i weigh like 146. i try to loose weight but theres just so many temptations all my friends are really skinny. they dont make fun of me or anything but like i just feel so different. . .anything i can do to be on a *safe* diet or workout plan?! thx

Smaller Meals, don't try diet pills, since you are 13 you must be in middle school right? Well try some sports or if you are the kind of person who likes to work alone try running in the mornings. It doesn't matter if you are running slow or fast just pace yourself. If it isn't to hard try reducing the amount of whatever you are eating on your plate. For example, if you have corn and chicken then get a small drumstick and a serving of corn about as big as your hand, unless your hand is big. Then just get like a small scoop. Exercise and smaller meals might take a little longer to get to the size you want , but it is way more healthy. Hope I helped you out.

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You see, the guys at my school are pretty hot but they have really bad personalities and that is why i do not wanna ask anyone of them out. And next year, i'm going 2 an all girls school so i wont meet any guys. I cant go 2 dances cus i 4got 2 turn in my permission slip and besides, my parents wont let me. And i also cannot meet anyone new on the internet. So how do i meet any new hot guys 2 go out with?

Get a bunch of your friends and go to a cafe. It doesn't matter which one. I always find that no matter what cafe I choose there is always and intellegent but hott guy there. Bring a book too. Its starts up a conversation. For the most part you should be outgoing. You know talk to anybody.You might get some strange looks but (trust me) Some really hott guys are looking for girls like that. Girls that aren't afraid to just plain out talk to them.Hope I was Helpful

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hey chickadee! ITS STEFANIE!! amyways..i was just wondering if you could help me with somethin right quick... mmmk, me and my friend were talking the other day, and we kindda sortta had a fight. well, i was doing most of the fighting. i said some stuff that im not very proud of ( i called her a brat and that i didnt care if she ever talked to me again.. :-/) and now i wish i hadnt! i feel really dumb, not to mention ashamed! i dont know if she'll ever forgive me, but i wanna try! can to tell me some things to say to her to try and make things right again? thanks girl! youre a lifesaver!!! LYLAS! ~*stefanie

HUmm, well stef, I think the best thing to do is talk to her in private. Tell her that you are Very(underlined twice) sorry and you wish you had never said it. Don't do the freind tell a friend thing because it doesn't work and it only creates more drama..lol Just talk to her face 2 face. Hope that I am helping you..I hope that all goes well. LY

~* Kayla *~

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Okay I am a female an I am 15 yrs old. I have always been rather skinny but I moved over a yr ago and since I moved I have gained a few pounds. I am still rather skinny, but now I have hips and I dont like it. I am about 5'6-5'7 and I way about 130lbs. My stomach is flat, and I have long legs, its just my hips. I am not comfortable with my body right now.I try and do sit ups and I walk and run alot but it doesnt seem to be helping much. I am really pretty, but I just want to lose a few pounds to feel better about myself. What is a good way to lose my hips and a few pounds? Does anyone kno of a good diet I could go on that does not involve too many calories. What do I do to lose weight?

Gurl you should love your hips, but if you wanna lose weight without doing exercise just eat smaller meals. Don't go for seconds and you can skip a meal once in a while. Just don't go anorexia or anything like that. It's bad. Maybe you could go to the gym once in a while. You are actually at the perfect weight for a 15 year old. So to me you are not fat at all.

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Okay!Well since christmas is coming up I really want to get my best friend a really good gift for christmas. He is an amazing guy and we have been best friends for well over a year now. We have gotten really close and I have fallin in love with him. I dont want to just get him something cheap and ugly. I want to get him something that he will remember and really like.I have never really gotten a guy a gift for xmas. I honestly have no clue what to get him. I want him to really love his gift. What should I get him?

Maybe you should talk to him and kind of get clues as to what he likes..you know what I mean. You should get him something that nobody else can get him.

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