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I want to wait until I am married to have sex. My friend and I were talking and this is what she said to me, "My mom told me she didn't want me to wait until marriage to have sex, because she wanted me to know what to do." I was thinking about it and I don't know anymore. I mean I don't want to go and read things on what to do/watch porn and stuff. I am not that kind of girl. Plus, all my friends say they just want to wait until after they turn 16. I mean its not part of my religion. Its part of what I think is right. I mean I at least want to wait until marriage is on option... I don't know.
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well, its all your decision, I'm pretty much an Athist (but I still think there MIGHT be something out there, I don't know), so I look at thing very diffrent then people who are strongly religious, & I say that its all up to you, if you think you are ready, then its ok, but if you want to wait, that is ok too, alls you have to do is think & decide "am I ready?" & if your not its ok, wait, & if you are go for it, its not a bad thing at all
hope I helped
-Cameron
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when i'm friends with someone, i have to know them really well but i try to be the best person i can be around them so they'll be happy. all my friends are a little depresssed so if i make them happy it feels like i'm doing something with my life. I have only a handful of friends but I would rather have a handful than more than I could keep up with. The only problem is I'm not the person they think I am. I'm not always happy. When I'm alone I'm more like myself than when I'm with them or talking to them. I feel like I'm lying to myself but if it makes them happy I think I'll just wait to open up till I meet the right person or it gets to be the right time. What do you think I should do? Please answer this!!!!!
I'm 14 and a girl.
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well... I'm sort of like this to... but if it makes you feel so bad, then tell them how you really feel, they will try & help, but if you need someone to talk to about it all, & not everyone, then just tell 1 of them, it wont hurt to oppen up
hope I helped
-Cameron
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well one of my friends is mad at two of my friends bc he doesnt like the people they r going out with....they arent even talking...one of then they havent even met and the other he just doesnt like...cam and u no what to do...what do i do
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well... theres not much you can really do... but talk to them, they'll get over it in time, but some people don't always approve of the people there friends with, its sad, but true... theres not much you can do, just try & talk to them
-Cameron
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Is it just me or is everyone getting raped in teh last two days? All these guyz got these girls getting naked for them and jumpin in bed with them... and if its not that... it's a guy having a guy friend make a move on them... it all just seems weird that this all happens at once... anyone else wanna give me an explanation? (link)
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well... the way sociaty is today... I'm not supprised at all, I'm sure I have some friends who have had sex.
but its not really rape if the girls are willing to do it... so...
but the only thing I ahve to say is that its the age your at & its Summer, the end of Summer at that... so I'm sure some people are just wanting to have sex cos its the end of Summer & its just the age your at
hope I helped
-Cameron
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..Okay Lemme Start..
Well I Am Skinny for my age and I am a 13 year old male so you can see the shape of a six pack on my stomach but i dont accually have a six pack..Does anyone have any ideas on what can help me..I do crunches but they help a little bit not a lot..I just want to know an exersize(sry i cant spell) not a machine or a movie
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I have the same problem... & I've read that eating steak, grilled chicken, & brocoli really help, so I'm going to try that, also sit-ups help me, I do 500 sit-ups 1 night, & then about 160 crunches the next night, & I try & walk a mile a day...
but try & so these things & you'll see some improvement soon
hope I helped, & if you leave me a message in my inbox on your routien (what you do, how many you do, or anything else) then maby I can help you with it & give you a routine that might work or tell you how much more you have to do, or anything like that
I really hope I helped
-Cameron
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Im only 14 years old and i always seem to have this eurge to want to look at pornography and screw with myself. For the past year now i want sex like its going to run out or something. Do i have some kind of problem or is this just a fase??? Female (link)
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its just a phase, both guys & girls go through it, its just because you are chaning, there is nothing wrong with it, it is perfectly normal
hope I helped!
-Cameron
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Ummmmmm ok this is really weird. I have had these strange dreams for about a week about my friend Nick. The only problem is its like in my dream we are going out. I used to only see him as a friend but now I think I am starting to like him because of all these dreams. What should I do? What do these dreams mean? (link)
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Dreams don't speak to you in saying that, they show you waht you want metaphorically, like I had a dream... I killed myself over someone I loved & its the whole Gloomy Sunday thing (Gloomy Sunday is a song about a woman who's lover died & then she kills herself & then she wakes up & says "my heart is telling you how much I wanted you") & so this meant that I was willing to die for her
so I think you might like him, or you might not, it might be trying to tell you something else that your not seeing, but I think it is that you do like him
hope I helped!
-Cameron
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can my girlfriend and I rent a hotel room overnight and we're only 16? like do they check your age and parent permission and stuff or can you just rent a room and they dont care? thanks (link)
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yeah, most do, Motel 6 or any cheap place I know wont, but some nicer places do, it really depends where you live, & try & not pay with credit cards or they'll ask for I.D., so use cash I suggest
hope I helped & good luck
-Cameron
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Im from the uk. And we all have our own slang words or buzz words for things. What does making out mean in like american terms or to anyone really! All help greatley appreciated,
thanks
anthony (link)
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making out to us in America means that you are oppened mouthed kissing, like putting eachother's toungs in your mouths, thats what making out is in America
hope I helped
-Cameron
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My roots get greasy really fast, like within 5-6 hours after I take a shower. Is there any way I can keep my hair cleaner for longer without taking 2 showers daily? Is there a shampoo that prevents your hair roots from being greasy? I rate. (link)
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I use Garniare Sleek & Shine, it works amasingly on my hair, just use shampoo & condishanor, but don't use to much condishanor or it'll make it REALLY greesy, so just use enough to spread around your hair & you will be just fine
hope I helped!
-Cameron
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I meet this guy on monday that i really think is hott. But my cousin, alyssa likes him also. I asked him and he said yes, but that was on monday night. He hasn't called me back yet. What should i do? Should i call him back, or would that make me seem desprate, in which i don't want to do. Im only 14, AND FEMALE.
I Need Help!!!!
Sincerly
*Elmo* (link)
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yeah, call him, but it wouldn't matter about Alyssa, she might get mad, but since your family, she'll get over it & forgive you
so just call the guy back, you wont sound despret, you'd sound despret if you waited a day & then called him, but since its almost a week, then call him, it wont hurt
I hope for the best for you two
-Cameron
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Why do people like romantic themes in stories? It's not that I don't, I'm just curious, what do people find attractive about love stories? (link)
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well, if your with a boyfriend/girlfriend & you see a romantic movie then its just something that they like to think about, like "I hope our lives turn out like that" or something, & its just what a lot of people like to do with there boyfriend/girlfriend is go to a movie & so if your seeing a romantic movie that makes it better
hope I helped
-Cameron
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i know this might sound kind of stupid, but what do you do to get certain guys to notice you? please help! (link)
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well... it depends on the guy
some like to be friends 1st & then they notice you, so work if your just nice to them, some by just even talking to him, & some by dressing slutty...
so try & find out what kind of guy he is & then go do somethings that might intrest him & might make him attracked to you
your best bet is to be friends with him, that'll build a foundashion & then you'll know what hes into & you can work your way up from there
thats all I can really say, & I really hope I helped & good luck!
-Cameron
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Last night I slept over one of my best friend Maries house and we were just talking and stuff, but then we didnt even ask we just started to do sexual stuff and saying dirty stuff, kind of, like half laughing it off. Im a girl. And so we fingered eachother and rubbed eachothers boobs. It felt really good. But, I wanted a guy to be there with us more than anything. Im confused. What was last night? Am I a lesbian? Or bi? Or straight ?? Im confused. And is last night normal for 14 year old girls to do? (link)
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thats acctuly very normal for a teenager to do, its just cos your hormones & your body & you are just changeing, it dosen't mean you are bi or lesbian, but it could, its a stage pretty mutch everyone goes through, but some people just stay that way or some move on, diffrent people do diffrent things, & the experimenting is a very common thing to, I wouldn't worry to much about it, unless you start having feelings for Marie, then you could possibul become lesbian or bi, because some people if they experiment to much then they start having emoshins for these people, but some people don't, so don't worry unless you start having feelings for her
hope I helped
-Cameron
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How do you get people to ask you questions on your site? Is there a trick to getting people to come and ask questions. I'm lagging in the old advicinators dealimobopper. I could use the help greatly. Thanks a mundo. (link)
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I just answer questions on the regular thing & then people see them & so they ask me, or they look at the top rated, so do that & people will find your site & ask you questions
-Cameron
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I am old enough to have consensual sex, I am 100% sure. I need to know "how" cause it is my first time with a guy, and I want to make it special, not random and how it feels when we begin. I will rate high if you answer in detail! (link)
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well... umm... I don't really know exactly what to say here... but, I'll try...
just let him do what he wants, there is really nothing you have to do, other than follow along with it, sex is randome, unless your the one who is directing it, then you know what you want, but since this is your first time, I think it would be best if you let him choose what he wants, I don't think you'll be doing anything to "wild" since this is your first time
& as for how it feels... since this is your 1st time its going to hurt, so be prepared for that, but if it hurts to bad, then tell him to stop
& thats all I can really say
I hope I helped, I'm sorry, I'm not really an expert on these things
-Cameron
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I'm really worried about my girl friend her grandpa is in the hospital. Well she's sad and streesed out. I'm sad for her, but I don't know what to do for her. So my question is... What should I do for her? Or should I do anything at all? (link)
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well, when my girlfriend's dad died, she was in Quebeck & I ws is Dallas, so I couldn't do anything, but she wanted a space, but her & I broke up, but theres other reasons, but I sent her a card
the only thing I can say is comfort her & let her come to you when shes ready, & thats all you can really do
hope I helped
-Cameron
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my boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me even tho he know im in a relationship with his close friend. the other day we were at this party and he pulled me up to this room and he raped me. he grabbed me and touched my body. im really scared and he hurt me. i feel strange. i couldnt do anything hes a football player and he held me down and i couldnt stop him. he shove something in my mouth so i couldnt scream. wut do i do?? i cant tell my boyfriend or he will kick the living shit out of him.the guy said if i tell anyone he will do it again. i know i can get some reasonable advice here.
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well... tell your boyfriend, & then call the police, cos if he raped you then thats a really serious crime, & he can't do it again since he'll probolly be sent to jail, so stay clear of him, & right after you tell your boyfriend call the police
I'm very sorry about that, its a tragic thing, I'm very sorry & I hope my advise helped
-Cameron
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How can I be sure that I am ready for sex? I want it, but im scared. So how will i know? (link)
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when you are ready, you will know, its just some sence that you get that says "ok, I can do this" so if your not getting that vibe, you are not ready, but if you are, then you are
hope that helps
-Cameron
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hey! well me and my ex boyfriend mike went out for 3 months..i know its not a long time but we talked and dated for like 4 months before that! well anyways we have been broken up for almost 6 months now and we both have went out with other people!i have always asked him if he liked me and if wed ever get back together..well he never would answer the whole like you question but he would always say i dunno if we will ever go back out cause i dont normally go out with ex gfs so i thought ok fine whatever! well i tried moving on ya know and i finally got to the point i thought i was over him! i even had him over like 4 weeks ago..i could kinda tell he had feelings for me cause he would keep asking me for a hug and hed like put his arm around me and he gave me a hickey and we had a total blast together..but it kinda felt like we were just friends so i thought well maybe i am over him but yet i still missed him! so i went on vacation and didnt really talk to him for 2 weeks..the day i get back he ims me and was talking to me and said he liked me so that kinda made me feel good but then i also realied that maybe i wasnt quite over him and he had also asked if he could come over next week so i thought sure! well so the next night we stayed up til 3:15 in the morning talking and he had said he still loved me and always had, he missed me, and itd be great if we eventually got back together but he didnt want that right now and he wanted to keep things slow for right now! then the next night it was a repeat we stayed up til 3:30 and he said he missed me and my picture was his background on his computer and what not! well then things just kinda seemed weird! i just had this feeling it wasnt gonna be a good day but i kinda tried letting it go past me and i wrote his xanga past memories and i told him i still loved him..so i guess that was a bad idea cause he totally flipped and was like omg i cant believe u did that , you know i dont like my friends knowing everything, blah blah blah! so i was like ok im sorry and i showed him how to get rid of it! so then he wouldnt say i love you but he said i miss ya and your pic is still on my background so i was like okay maybe things arent that bad! but he also told me he didnt know if he was going to come over next week now because i made him upset and he couldnt believe i would do that which seemed kinda weird to me! but the thing is i want him to come over cause i wanna see him and talk all of this out in person and i even made a scrap book of us cause i want him to realize how much i really do care! well then theres this girl melissa that has liked him for about a year now! well hes always told me they were just friends and things like that! and the other day i said something how hes always with girls and calls them hun and stuff and hes like i hate when your like this cause you always think i like these girls when really we are just close friends! and i want to trust him but its so hard! and then like today i read his xanga and melissa signed it saying i cant wait to watch fire works with you tomarrow and then it had this quote that was like seduce my body blah blah blah seduce my soul and ill always be yours! and im so clueless on what to think about that! i know they both use to like eachother and they went to a dance together after we broke up and all he ever tells me is they are just close friends but he is with her all the time! and i dont know what to think of it! i just dont know why he would sit there and say all of a sudden out of no where that he loved me and missed me when for 6 months he wouldnt say a word to me! PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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wow... ok, long & confusing story...
alls I can say is that your just going to have to wait & see, I don't know if he'll end up with Melissa or if he'll end up with you, I'm very sorry about this, but its 1 of those things where you have to wait & see
alls you can really do now is talk to him, just be as close to him as you can be, & get him to come over as soon as possibul & you 2 can talk this out, thats all that you can do
I'm very sorry & I hope things work out
-Cameron
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