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(♥) Lynsey (♥)


::im 15
::im really hyper
::i dont have a bf
::i go to m.h.s
::i love soccer..its mi life
::im kinda short > 5'2
::and ya ill answer any ?'s u guys wanna know :)

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My mom is the biggest blabbermouth of all time. She can't keep her secrets to herself. She can't keep MY secrets to herself. She tells everyone the details about my life. She humiliates me infront of everyone. She makes up lies to exaggerate the truth. I really don't know what to do. Should I just stop telling her things? I can't stand the way my life is out there and availible to anyone that wants to hear about it.

oh mi god...same here!! to mi bf she always tells him "oh one time lynsey did this...." and its like...shut up mom!! what i do i just make her feel bad..ill be like mom would you like me telling all your crap to the world? and just ask her how she would like it!! and that you dont want her to tell everyone your secrets. if you wanted them to know...youll tell them :)

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Why are human beings, as a species, so weak minded that they need religion to tell them what to do? I want real answers, not just the whole,"Jesus is great!lol!" shit that most people will dish out. I.E. I want someone intelligent to explain this to me.

omg i have NO idea!! i totally understand what your saying. im not religious at all. if this stuff was real people would all be millionaires and have a great life. thats how the world would be if "when you pray...jesus or god answers" i dont believe it though cuz thats not how it is!! but yea i dont really see the point of going to church and singing and stuff...but thats just mi opinon

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well i am a male and i am 15 i have a problem with my love life.... I am a tennis player and this 1 girl i was playing with i sorta like. I never talked too her... she seems nice... and she is pretty.. im sort of a shy guy though when it comes to me talking to a girl. I dont know y though. I am afraid of rejection. that is a maid reason i am afraid to talk to her. How do I get over my fear and work up the courage to talk to her?

stop being shy just take a chance

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What is the best kind of eye liner to use and won't smudge in the corner of your eyes or run...liquid or pencil? Also how can I get the Olivia Wilde look (Alex from the OC) I like the eye liner on the top lid but I'm not sure how to do it.

use revelon and it comes in this little individual package..and it says "wont smudge and looks freshly applied for 16 hours" or something like that on it. i use it and it work so great. its pencil but u like twist it and more pencil comes out..its not liquid though. it doesnt smear or anything and even if you go swimming it doesnt come off..i love it.

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im 5'2 and 115 lbs. everyone tells me im not fat or chubby. they say that my stoamch is flat but its not. no matter what i think that im heavy and that its noticable. are there any ways to make my stomach flat? and situps never worked for me. i want to lose it because im always afraid that im going to lose my boyfriend to someone whos skiny and pretty. any ideas? please and thank you.

ok i play varsity soccer for mi highschool and we have to do this stuff ALL the time...what i did..and my abs are like ROCK HARD... was have someone...sibling..friend ANYONE! stand and then you lay on your back and put your head between their feet and hold onto their ankles...lift your legs up and theyll hold your feet and push them down like to the ground and dont let your feet touch the ground and bring your feet back up to them...keep doing it everyday for about 30mins and omg your abs will be so hard...and you lose lovehandls and stuff

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im 14 years old(male) and i keep cutting myself. I've tried to stop but i keep doing it. I ve talked with my friends to see if they could help me out and one of them started to cut too! i really dont know what to do please help me out.

hey...my cousin had this problem and her concouler made her do this :
put rubberbands all along your wrists...it will hide your cuts and when you want to cut take them and snap them REALLY had against your wrists....its painful , but its not life threatening..

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Ok, Recently i told this boy lets call him kyle i like him and i really have major feelings for him and he told me he has serious feelings for me we keep writing to eachother and flirting but i have a boyfriend... lets call him justin and kyle and justin sit at the same table at lunch and usually justin walks me to gym and he forgot about me and i forgot about him and is that a sign to break up with justin and go out with kyle? please help me i know this is confusing but i really need help! i'll rate high!

go out with kyle....if your having second thoughts about ur boyfriend just dump him...and besides its not fair to either of them to be flirting with both...and obviously you dont know if your bf is still into you or anything...or u wouldnt be asking this question. i think you should dump him and go out with kyle...and if things dont workout with you and kyle...if you and justin were meant to be..youll get back togther or something

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I want to go over to this kids house over the weekend. The thing is, it's a party and i will be with my boyfriend. So since my parents wont let me...( I would be sleeping there too ) what can I say so that they dont know that I am sleeping there.. Besides saying I am sleeping over 'so n so`s' house and really not because my parents could find that out and stuff. Leave your AIM screen name is possible Thanks

u could say its a small party with a girl from school and you would be sleeping over there because its a slumber party or something....

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i have a rescuedog and he is so placid but is very scared of men that he dusnt know.yesterday we were about to take the dog out so he was waiting by the car when a man came to give me a leaflet.he went to say hello to the dog,he got threatened nad bit him on the ankle.the man said he was ok and i gave him a plaster it wasnt a big bite just about a cm long.now my dad wont let the dog in the house and wont walk him.the dogs freezing and shaking outside what can i do to get my dad to like him again.?hes never bit anyone before.

omg that happend to me cept my dog bit my brother because he was like all in his face....just tlel your dad that the dog felt like the man was trying to harm you and he was just protecting you....tell him that hes freezing outside and thats not right... :\

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this is going to be very long. I'm in love with this guy and i have been for about 8 months i would say. We have been having sex for a year now and he just thought of me as u kno-a sex friend. I'm the only one he's been having it with since we started bein together but ive had past partners,one was his really close friend,and now i've quit for him. He got me pregnate. Yes, im 2 1/2 months pregnate with his baby. And i love him. I know evry day girls say "oh i love him soo much" But this is for real. I've lied 4 him. been through court 4 him, fought girls 4 him, and gave up my boyfriend 4 him. Whenever i tell him how i feel he says "I care about u too but i`m just not ready to go out with you...i do love you and i do wanna be with you...I just can't.." or he uses diff. excuses how 'i went wit his friend he can't do that to him' WELL Y NOT?! I try avoiding him..you know, trying to make him miss me and come crawling back to me.. but that's hard to do when he's the cutest most popular guy in school with girls practically lined up. He doesn't need me. I need advice..what should i do? i know i can't make him love me back..but maybe just to have him want to be with me and understand how i feel a little more. Don't say love notes-cuz i tried...or phone calls..or long talks..i tried everything. Don't call me dumb..please!!! i`m just hopelessly in love.... =( help!


plz dont erase this!!! i rate mainly 5's!

he doesnt want to go out with you because hes not ready to settle down and become a dad...just avoid him for a little bit and when your like 6-7 months preg. or showing....just say...hey...you know OUR baby is going to be born soon....and weve been thru so much....are you atleast going to be a dad to it???? and just let him have his fun or w/e till the baby is ready 2 come out and then its serious and he needs to settle down and be with you....and tell him u didnt just climb on top of yourself and be pregnant...he did it too...i mean he needs to father it....

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Most of my friends dads look at porn! My friend told me almost every dad does it! But I thought my dad would never do it but one day i saved my paper I wrote for school and went into my dads documents and I saw all these things like adults only! Then I was going to savethemusic.com and when i typed in s i saw like sexmania.com or somehting like that! So is my dad looking at these things? Well duh but how do I deal with this situation? I wanna tell my mom but what?

ur mom prolly knows...if she didnt she wouldnt mind...my boyfriend looks at porn, my dad looks at porn EVERY guy looks at porn..its natural...relax...my dad freakin orders playboy every month!! and it comes in this black plastic cover and every 1 is like OH DADS PLAYBOY IS HERE lol....every 1 does it....but if you want to tell...jsut be like OMG mom guess what...today something really funny happene...i was saving my document and i saw ALL dads porn files and it was NASTY!! and just start laffing...or something...but it will only make you look immature and embarass you all to talk about that stuff...so just let it be if i was u

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Okay, so I have this boyfriend and just the other night I told him that I feel as if I love him, so he said he thought he loved me too. Last night at this concert had had me call his ex-girlfriend that is having his kid and had me bitch her out but not to say he was with me. Well, she told me that he had called her earlier that day and told her that he still loved her and missed her. He said he was at work from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. went home took a shower and came and picked me up. Is she lieing or is he? I'm confused. I just want to know if he is sounds like a cheater because I don't want to get heartbroken because I'm really into this boy, he's the nicest boy I've ever met. Can someone that knows about these kind of boys let me know what they think because I'm scared!

aww thats really bad...to me, it kind of sounds like he is lying...why would his ex make it up? maybe if she knew it was you and she doesnt like you, then its a lie. But if she had no idea it was you and she said it..then hes lying...he could have been at her house "when he was at work" it sounds like hes a cheater because i mean shes the mom of his kid and hes having you call and bitch her out!! thats just wrong right there...i tihnk you should ask him. be like remeber what we said last night? (the how you love him n stuff thing) and just be like your ex said you said the same thing to her also...and just say you cant stay with him if hes gonna play you like that and you want his honest answer is he cheating on you...good luck lemme know how things turn out!!

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i want to go farther with my boyfriend but there are things that i dont like about my body and thats whats stopping me from doing anything with him cause i dont want him to think im a freak or anything and not talk to me or anythin... pease help!

well he is your boyfriend and he must love you the way you are or he wouldnt be with you....dont tell him oh i dont like *watever you dont like*about my self! because that will just make him notice it even more and hell stare @ it trying to figure out why you dont like it...just come off as really confident and pretend you love EVERYTHING about your body and he wont even notice...or just do things in the dark if you dont want him to see...

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my boyfriend spends a lot of time with me at my house, but the problem is that i have a lot of siblings (they are close to my age, not much younger) and he always talks to them. he'll just disappear and hangout with them more and it feels like hes ignoring me. i dont really want to talk to him about it cuz i told him i wanted him to get along with my family so i dont want to be a hypocrite.. what should i do and is there any way that i should just deal with it?

hang out WITH them....i totally understand where your coming from...it gets really annoying when people do that...it feels like they leave you out and stuff...but look on the bright side...atleast he does get along with your family...what if he hated them and they didnt like them? it would suck!! next time hes over be like...you know its GREAT that you get along with my family but i kind of want to spend some time with just me and you today...is that okay? and just be like i know you like my brothers and sisters but i see them EVERYDAY i dont see you everyday..(idk if u do or not) but if you really dont wanna say nothing then just hang out with them i guess

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what does IM mean??? i've been told to IM someone... i'm confused!!! lol. is it some american thingy??? coz i'm australian.

Instand Message....go to www.AIM.com and download it and get your friends screen names then u can IM them!!

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okay my b/f is really into me... like he says that i am his world and he's always saying how much he adores me... well the problem is he has a bad past. he slept around alot and i'm not into that. he knew from the start - before we even started dating - that i'm a proud virgin. he is cool with that but when we are in public, ike at the mall or something, he cant keep his hands off me. it's really embarrasing and i dont know how to react. how can i confront him about this??? Please Help!!

well if hes like grabbing your ass or something and you dont want him to then just back away and be like...i dont really want you touchin me there right now because since were in public i might see my aunt or someone i know and ill be in trouble if they see you all over me...and then just like hold his hand or something.....

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What Should I get My Boyfriend For Valentines Day??....He's 14 and He Has Just About Every Cologne Made!...Because thats what I was going to get him..He is a Skateboarder...umm..thats about it...What Should I Get Him??

hey my boyfriend is exactly like yours!! i burnt him a CD w/ all of "our" songs...like songs that i dedicated to him and songs that we always listen to or watever...like "Madly, truly deeply" by savage garden..and All my Life by kc and jojo....and im goin to make him a card...because when u make a card and let him know how much you love him and stuff it will mean SOO much to him....and maybe get him a stuffed animal that says i love you or something on it (depends how long you guys have been together....if u jsut got together...get him a card and tell him that hes a great boyfriend and that your so happy with him and maybe a little stuffed animal) ...k bye!!

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I have a midterm tomarrow and i cant seem to concentrate...or understand it and i never seem to remember anything and all i want to do is play on the computer or go outside...can anyone give me advice on how to concentrate more and remember more things? i need help really fast!...ill rate high..please help

~Midterm problems~

FLASHCARDS!! write down like examples or problems and then solve them on the back and memorize the steps...flashcards work for me so well and i like makeing them with pretty little markers lol and when you write, it helps you understand things better than just looking at it...so try that and go in your room, close the door maybe listen to some music..and just study

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When you put on eyeliner on your bottom eyelid,do you put it above or below your eyelashes? Also, what kind of eyeliner should i use? liquid or pencil? what brand?

thanks aton!

i put it on that little part above the eyelashes...use pencil liquid smears and gets in ur eyes and burns...try maybaline or cover girl...or nyc...ther all pretty good

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ok i have a question, whenever my boyfriend does something to me "below the belt" my legs start shaking and twitching is that normal and what does it mean?

it could mean that your uncomfortable or nervous...like you know when ur scared and your legs twitch? thats how it is...tel him to stop if your not comfortable!!

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