14/m
ok so i was talking to the girl that i used to like and still kindof do, we havent seen each other in a while cuz we go to dif schools but weve stayed familiar over the internet. i asked her yesterday if she wanted to make out or sumthing next weekend when we are gonna be at a bonfire at my house and she said YEAH! and talked about how she liked me and stuff.. so heres my question.. - how far do u think i can get with this girl?
First off, no matter what you decide, be safe! Ok, physically, you can go very far with this girl. Just make sure you both are ready before going all the way. If you don't, then there are people who are into touching, and/or oral sex. Now all of those have consequences if not practiced safely, so please be careful. After all, you are only 14 and you don't wanna go all the way, and be a daddy at 15. So, think bout it before you make a final decision! Be safe, be careful, and above all, Have fun!!! Hope this helps!
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Jessie
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Ever since my best friend started going out with this one guy, she has been starting to be mean to me like not talking to me durring school and stuff like that. She has also gone a lot of places with her boyfriend's friends (her new friends) and haven't even asked me to go.. I'm worried about loosing her as my friend becuase.. well.. we only have 6 girls in our class and to tell you the truth I don't like the other 4 girls in my class. Oh, and she has turned into a MAJOR slut! What do I do? What should I say when I talk to her??
Sorry It's so long
It's not that long, and never be sorry for expressing yourself! Mk, it's good that you decided to talk to her on your own...Just tell her how you feel. That you love her to pieces, and you just don't want to lose her as a best friend. Ask her how she feels bout all this. Maybe she didn't ask u to go along, cuz she didn't think you'd be interested, it bein her boyfriend's friends and all...ask her to go hang out some time...go out for pizza, or go to the movies, or better yet, go shoppin at the mall! :) It will all work out for the best! Good Luck Darlin!
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Jessie
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This is for all you lovely ladies out there.
- What types of things do you like to hear.
Example. "You're beautiful"
What other things do you like being told.
Thanks!
Girls wait for the one guy who will tell her she's beautiful instead of hot, who will call back when she hangs up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to her heartbeat, or just lie awake to watch her sleep, the boy who will kiss her on her forehead, who wants to show her off to the world when she's in sweats, who will hold her hand in front of his friends, a guy who thinks she's the prettiest when she's not wearin any make up, the one who will turn to his friends and say "Yeah, that's her..." Just sweet talk darlin, and make sure you mean it. Don't ever tell a girl you love her unless you mean it, that is very important! Only tell her she's beautiful once...trust me, well not just once, just not every day, every second of the day, when she's supposedly at her worst, and when she gets dolled up for you...and when she least expects it. She has gorgeous eyes, her small hands fit perfectly into yours, you love the sound of the beat of her heart, you've never met anybody so beautiful inside and out...and remember, make sure you mean it, the last thing you want to do is hurt her...Good Luck, Be Sweet!
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Jessie
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Okay, one of my friends who used to be a really good friend of mine is mad at me. She says I follow her every-where, and do every-thing like her. But I don't, I wish we could just be friends again, but she won't even talk to me. I don't know what to do, I'm so confuzed! Please help! I rate!!
Thanks, a desperate friend!
There's a chance that you are tryin to be more like her, and just don't realize it. This could be done out of admiration...But if you really ain't tryin to be more like her, and its just happening then you 2 are just so much more alike then you realize. Don't try to spend so much time around her, hang out with your other friends. Talk to her, tell her you're sorry for w/e you did to make her mad, it wuzn't done intentionally. Just don't make her the center of your world, I'm sure your other friends would love to hear from you! Give her a lil time, that's all everybody needs, just a lil time, she'll come back around! Good Luck, have some fun! Go Out and PARTAY BABY!!!!!! :)
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Jessie
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okay im 13/female. and i have BIGG mood swings. like even when im not on IT. like one sec. i will be all happy and laughing w. my friends. and then the next i will be crying.. or i will be talking to peole online.. and my mom asks me to do something.. and i go totally pissy. and it seems like my parents dont want me to be happy. like every time im happy, they make me pissed off. and i NEED diet coke to keep me hapy. so..here are my questions.. 1) what can i do to prevent these mood swings 2) why do i feel like my parents dont want me to be happy and 3) why do i need diet coke.. and drinking diet coke, can it hurt me? thanks to all who answer this!
I'm very similiar! I feel all the time that my parents don't want me to be happy, and I love diet coke! lol well 1) If you have alot of mood swings, then you must have alot on your mind, one minute somethin that makes you happy, and the next somethin that hurts you. Consider seein a therapist, to talk anything out that you'd like...help you get anything off your chest, and reduce mood swings. 2)We're teenagers, we don't get along with our parents. There is alot out there that we teenagers take advantage of, and practically expect the world to give us. Parents realize this, and say somethin bout it...this ticks us off. It's only natural for you to feel rebellious, shall we say, towards your parents. You'll grow out of it...we all do. It's not a problem. 3) Diet woke will not hurt you, just don't drink too much of it, cuz it's not exactly the most healthy beverage in the world. Drinkin too much soda will take the salt out of your body, and then you'll end up with low sodium, and with low sodium if you get over exerted in the heat, you'll black out and/or pass out. So it's ok to drink it, just don't let it be the only thing you ever drink...water, milk, fruit juices...things like that, be sure to include them! Hope this helps!
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Jessie
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A year or two ago i went out w/ this girl. i liked her, she liked me. i dumped her ,because i relized that she wasn't that actractive, and she hated me. she wouldn't talk to me look at me etc. now i see her in the halls and at dismissle. now she really actractive. i don't want to go out w/ her or anything, i just want to be her friend again.what should i do?
p.s. she has a boy-friend now
Talk to her...Be a man! lol Just apologize to her for everything that happened in the past, and tell her you'd at least like to be friends, and ask her if she'd consider it. Somewhere in the conversation, mention that you're a brand new man! Cuz after 2 years, I'm sure you are, and we all change for the better! Good Luck, let me know how it goes!
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Jessie
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Does anyone have any hair cut pictures? About meduim length, Ashlee Simpson style?
Go on the net, and look for pics of Ashlee Simpson herself! AshleeSimpson.com There is a photo gallery, you should be able to find some there, if not then go to a search engine, type "Ashlee Simpson Pictures" and search through the results it gives you! You seem to have great taste in hair styles by the way! lol I love her hair! Have fun bein the new and sexy you! Much love!
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Jessie
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I feel as if my friend and I are drifting apart but I dont want to! She is like my sister. She quit dance and now we hardley ever see eachother. She means so much to me but i feel as f we are drifting apart. What do I do?
Tell your friend that you feel the two of you are drifting, there's a chance she feels the same way! Talk to her bout it, ask her how she feels bout it...Then talk to her bout doin more things together, join a team or a club at school together...leads to fun with each other as well as somethin good to put on a college application some day! It's all good! lol Good Luck, hope all goes well!
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Jessie
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ok well im a girl and i went out wiht this guy for like 5 months and i swear i am in love with him. and i cutt over him (that was an oopies) but anyways i kno im in love with him cuz its been like 6 months and still i havent gotten over him... whoah thats a long time. and he got a girlfrned like a month after we broke up. and he didnt cheat on her but he only wnet out wiht her for a day. and then he had another girlfrend a while later. and he came to my house and we madeout on newyears and everything while he was going out wiht her. and he just recently had a girlfrend and he slept at my house and we held hands and cuddled and see i had a dream about us going back out and having sex. and i told him about it and hes like. well maybe it doesnt have to be a dream. and he used to say he wont go out wiht me again and then he just sayd i dont know .. thats wutt he says now.. but when he dumped his recent girlfrned we just wnet to a movie last friday and he like got mad at me for no reason.. like he does this sometimes but i thot he started to like me again. but i dont know. my frends just thot it was just a thing around his frneds but he wouldnt talk to me or sit by me. i told him that i love him and that i love him more then his recent girlfrend did and hes just like ohh ur soo sweet!
i wanna kno... does he like me ? do you think we will go out again ? why is he being like this.. ? i need major help on this stuff and wutt do i do??
please help me or just IM me on deEply iN l0ve69
thanks andrea*x0x
Well he sounds a lil insecure, and scared to me. I think he does like you, and after datin you for so long, and those other girls for only a matter of days, it seems that he felt you 2 were gettin serious, very very serious, and he might be afraid of a more serious committment than what you 2 had, and felt he had to go out and just experience lil things before he gave himself completely to you. He seems to be sendin mixed signals. I think you should talk to him, tell him that you've expressed your feelings, and that it's his turn. Ask him how he feels bout you. Hope he gives you the answer you're lookin for! Good Luck, and let me know how it goes...
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Jessie
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ok i need help theres this guy i like him alot and he likes me too we want to be togethr but theres just something stopping us i know what it is but yea umm can u just tell me what i should do bout this guy.. i love him sooo much~samantha~
Well Samantha, I'm not sure what it is stopping you exactly but if you 2 really wanna be together, and if it's meant to be, then it'll happen. I'm in a very similar situation, and I know it hurts alot, but what doesn't kill ya only makes you stronger! Everything will work out for the best I promise, all you have to do is be strong, and if u 2 are friends then just continue the friendship and things will move along as they're meant to. Hope everything works out for the best, good luck, and ~*Don't Worry, Be Happy!*~ :)
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Jessie
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I'm 14 years old, female and in the 9th grade. I've been sick for 4 1/2 months now, out of school and everything with an illness called colitis which is a disease in your large intestine and causes constant trips to the bathroom...it's embarassing yeah, but it's not like i picked to have this. Anyways, i would have thought being sick would bring me and my friends closer together but really, it ripped us apart. My best friend, or at least thought she was my best friend, completely ditched me 24/7 and said some really mean things to me and she lives right down the street from me and not once outa the 4 months did she come to my house to just visit with me and whenever she needs me, i'm ALWAYS there for her and like i wanna end the friendship cuz she is just a complete b**** like you wouldn't believe but the thing is, its hard to end the friendship as much as i wanna cuz i have so much fun with her. I need advice on what to do!! It's been driving me crazy for months on what to do and i just don't know anymore...:/
Yeah, you don't deserve that. Bein that good to her, when she's not to you, well my darlin, that brings around good karma. Makes you a good person as well...She doesn't seem like a true friend to me, and it's gonna take alot from you, and she'll try to pull a guilt trip on ya, but follow your heart. If you feel you can't be friends with her anymore, then end the friendship. Good luck, and get well soon!
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Jessie
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i dated this guy but the timming wasn't right .. anyways we have been talking and we are going out on friday.. actually i'm going over to his house .. my question is even though we have been through that and we have done stuff physically ..its like our 1st date since like 6 months ..are we supposed to catch up were we left of or start again? i mean physically
Well most people would love to start where they left off, cuz it wuz great last time they were together. I say spend a lil time talkin, get caught up, and if it isn't the least bit awkward, then just get back to where you left off, and have some fun. Let me know how it goes! Leave me some love in the inbox! lol
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Jessie
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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female
If he just smiled then there's a chance that he's not sure, but definately leanin towards a yes that he does...He possibly smiled cuz after not talkin to ya for a while, just the thought of you made him smile. Which is always a plus! In my opinion, you should go up to him, and let him know that you still have feelings for him, tell him he's been sendin you mixed signals, and you just want to know how he feels bout you. Don't send all your friends to talk to him though, he'll think you don't have the courage to come talk to him yourself, also he could get annoyed with all of them askin him the same thing over and over again. Once you've talked to him, no matter what happens, you'll be glad you did. And if it doesn't go the way you hoped, it'll only make you stronger! Good Luck! Hope it all works out! Let me know if any of this helps, you can leave me a message in my inbox.
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Jessie
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I recently was told by a doctor I have an eating disorder. I'm 5'7", and weight 105 lbs. She said I am still growing and should weigh about 125. I haven't had my period for like 7 months!! I told my doctor that too. But, the thing is, I didn't start losing weight until November. My mom's gonna take me to a nutritionist soon to tell me how I should be eating. But I'm scared I messed up my body & will never get my period back, or that I caused my breasts to never grow again. Could I have caused those 2 things? PLEASE be HONEST! Thanks
I'm 5 ft 7 and 105 pounds too, and I went to the doc bout it. I have high metabolism, and I am anemic. Which is when you don't have enough red blood cells in ur body due to diet deficiency, which is not gettin the right nutrients and vitamins in your body. I can't really help with the whole period and breasts, but with the health, I believe I can. Start drinkin alot of water, take prenatal vitamins, yes they're for pregnant women, but they do help. If not them, then vitaball, or children's vitamins. Also, you're diet...alot of fruits, and vegetables, granola bars are really good for you. healthy cereals in the morning, alot of milk every day. I'm in the same situation as you really, and this is what I wuz told by a Doc. Hope everything works out or you!
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Jessie
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