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Does anyone know any websites for diary's? (Anything besides xanga or live journal) (link)
I know how you can find one on the internet. Just to to http://www.ask.com. Type in the question, "Where can I find an internet diary" (or something on that order, just play around with the words until it comes up with what you are looking for), and hit enter. It should answer your question for you.


whats a good name for a new fish?

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Depends on what kind of fish. If it is a gold fish, Goldie Lox. You can basically name it anything you want. Like Harry, Henry, Nemo, stuff like that.


Hey i have a dog and Our family loves him to death. He is an outside dog but we take care of him very well. The problem is that whenever i invite a friend over it seems like they think i abuse my dog and they ask me tons of questions what should i do so that i feel more confedine and not get scared when friends are coming over or when i invite a friend over? (link)
Show your friends just how much you love your dog when they are there. Play with him a little bit, give him a treat, let him run free for a little while, and tell them that your dog is not abused.


how can I get my dog trained fast (stuff like doing his business outside and stuff) without paying money for it??

ps. I RATE REALLY WELL!!! (link)
Take your pet outside every so often and keep him out there until he uses the bathroom a couple of times. For example, I have a pug. I take her out at 7:00 AM, 12:00 noon, 3:30 PM, and 8:00 PM. She uses the bathroom automatically now and never uses in the house. Have fun with your dog! Try to teach her or him a few tricks while you have it outside, that way it can have fun at the same time. My dog knows high five, shake, sit, and jump rope.


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has anyone actually lost belly fat from their stomachs by doing crunches or does it just make u look like u have a 6 pack or w/e (link)
I don't do crunches. I do sit-ups. I do what you call ladder sit-ups: 10 on Monday, 20 on Tuesday, 30 on Wednesday, 40 on Thursday, and 50 on Friday. I also run throughout the week. On Saturday, I would add a couple of miles extra, take a break on Sunday. I have had success in losing weight in the stomach and all over, and also getting that muscular look in the stomach. Keep working at it. It takes patience.


I have really pretty green eyes! and their small and i have long eyelashes. A lot of ppl tell me i have to prettiest eyes. Does anyone know what color eyeshadow to wear or specific type of mascara? (link)
I would wear either a dark black or a blue mascara and a pink or purple eye shaddow. That's what I did for prom and it made a lot of difference. Though my eyelashes aren't very long, you couldn't really see the mascara, but with yours, it would make it look so pretty. Hope it works out.


i like this guy alot and hes my best friend well i got someone to give me advice and i think it will help i mean i dont know if he likes me but he said if we go out then it will ruin our relationship and i dont think that cause all most every best friend hes nad he went out with before (link)
I would say go for it. If he says no, then you can stay friends. That's the worst that can happen. I just asked a guy out and we are still best friends. He just told me that he hadn't had a girlfriend in five years and wasn't sure if he was confident enough anymore. I'm just letting him have his time, and when he's ready, if it's God's will, we will one day be together.


OK , its been one week sinc school started. im a freshman . well i hav bout 3000 ppl at my school and i really wana get a b/f this yr cuz ive nevr had one . im afraid i'd nevr b able to him during school cuz its realllly big school . i havnt evn seen my friends cuz were seperated so much in that school . any tips . please help!! (link)
I would just live a normal life and make friends. Maybe one of the guys that you make friends with will eventually come to like you in that way. There's no reason to rush. God is making your prince for you and he won't come to you until you both are ready for a commitment. Right now, you need to focus more on school and keeping the grades because your future depends on it. I know you have probably heard that speech a million times, but believe me, I know from experience. Not really in my own personal life but in many of my friends lives. I just graduated this year and I see many of my classmates that just graduated with me that has focused too much on relationships, lost their grades, and couldn't get into the school that they wanted, and therefore, can't follow their dreams and become what the want to be.


Hey everyone! Ok, I where dark brown NYC eyeliner and everyday I go to school it BLEEDS! So I have to constantly check in the bathroom so I don't look like an idiot. What do you suggest to put on or whatever to stop it from bleeding or smudging? Or is there another type of eyeliner you suggest? What kind, mechanical or pencil? (link)
I would say that whatever you are using right now that is making it do that, you are allergic to. I would go to the doctor to find out. When you go, take the eyeliner that you are using. Then, switch namebrands that you are using or look for the anti-allergenic. It does the same job. I'm allergic to it too so that's what I had to do when I wanted to wear makeup.


i have this grl in my class n i really hate her but i dnt kno wut i should do about it plz help me (link)
Very simple, learn to like her and if she is bothering you, don't sit near her. If you get the chance to know her, maybe you'll find that she's not really that bad. Why do you hate this girl?


Okay,my friends bf told my friend that he made a "uh oh".And he went to his ex-girlfriends house last night and they had sex and like he said that he made her pregnant.And my friend is really pissed cuz he cheated on her and she is also not really believeign that he made her preg. Cuz like how long does it take to know if you got someone pregnant?Well thx for the advice.BYE (link)
All it takes is one time to make a person pregnant. All they have to do is have a maternity test done once the baby is born to prove who the father is. If it doesn't turn out to be him, then all will be fine with the world. If I were his girlfriend, I would still be ticked off at him for going off and cheating on me, and I would put him on probation and tell him he needs to work to get his trust back.


im in 8th grade and ive never had a boyfriend or been kissed. im really pretty (every1 sez so atleast) and idk whats wrong with me! im always smiling and happy and im really funny and goofy..whats wrong with this picture? (link)
You have plenty of time on your hands. Maybe the one that God made special for you hasn't been created or come along yet. Just wait. Your time will come. There is no use rushing into a relationship at this time. It is a chore to keep up with and when you are ready and your meant to be partner is ready, he will come along. I am sure you are a very pretty, wonderful person. Just go along with your normal life and someday, your prince will come. If anything, run to God's arms and He will be your guiding light.


I've liked the same guy for 2 years. We are friends and all, but I know he'll never like me...But now I have two questions. My best friend EVER likes him now, and she always gets the guys she wants. I'm so mad!! What should I do about her? Also, how do I get over him and move on to another guy that might actually like me? I really need help so I'll have a good school year without losing a friend or being obsessed with a guy that'll never like me!!? (link)
I have a friend like this. If you guys are still friends, maybe he's afraid that you will lose your friendship or he doesn't think of you in that way. Just play cool for a little while and see what happens. Don't let this girl get in your way. If God wants it to happen, with a little help from him and a little effort from you, it will work out. Just drop in a few extra special presents every once in a while, randomly. Maybe that will work. Remember, food is always a good way to a mans heart.


I've been friends with this girl heather for about a year or so now...she's a good friend, dont get me wrong, but all summer she has been ditching me and my other friends for her family..i know she's busy with diving and everything but whenever we ask her to hang out she usually says sure and then blows us off to go hang out with her family. she was rude to her boyfriend and drug him out to visit her relatives whenever they were supposed to have alone time and it interfered with their relationship and they are now just "friends" I really don't know how to tell her she needs to come out with us instead of the family without hurting her feelings... what should i do? (link)
You should tell her when you are talking with her that this is bothering you. Tell her that it is good to have family time, but to keep your friendship, she has to spend a little time with you. You only have so long that you will be able to talk to her.


Hey

I was wondering - do you think eyeliner looks better if you put it directly under your eye or where your eyelash like is? (link)
You could put eyeliner directly under your eyes, then put mascera on your eyelashes, and then put eye shaddow on your eyelids, that makes you look more sophisticated. I did that for prom this past year and it made a lot of difference.


what do they do when you get a sports physical? anything with your privates?
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Most of the time, they don't. Sometimes you have to pee in a cup, but the rest of it is just checking to make sure you are healthy, your joints working, stuff like that.


ok i have a long distance g/f im talkin outastate ne way i call her alota and she means the world to me i could go on and on about her but there is 1 prob i have only seen 1 pic of her and im not even sure thats her and i prob wont ever see her in person what do i do???

plz get back to me (link)
I know you have probably heard this before, but really long distance relationships most often don't work. Some do, don't get me wrong. I would say that 9 times out of 10, the picture is of a friend of hers, mainly because she is afraid to give away her identity. Maybe she believes that you are out there to con her. I'm not saying anything bad about you or her. I'm just saying that some people won't give that information or material out to just anyone. I would have to see you in person with your parents or my parents around before I would trust you with a picture or any more than just my name and email for a little while. You know what your heart says. Follow it.


I just started using tampons. And when i wear them they hurt like heck. Did i not have it in all the way or what? please help! (link)
I don't wear them myself, but I can probably help you a little. You are probably no used to them yet. Give it a little time. If you still don't feel comfortable about it, and they still hurt, try a different brand where they are smaller. Maybe they are too big. If they still bother you, you aren't the type for them. Just to give you a hint, I wear Stayfree Ultrathin Long with Wings. I have ever since I have started and I love them. It's only a week. You can go a week without swimming and stuff and the ultrathin long with wings doesn't make you feel like you have a diaper on, like the commercial says that they do.


im a 15 year old guy. since i was 7 i wanted a serious relationship where id meet a girl in high school and marry her. now im in high school. i met a girl. and id love to marry her. but she doesnt like to think about commiting. i dont know what to do about. how to approach it. i wanna know if it can work between us, i wanna know if she could love me like i love her, eventally to the point where id be with her forever... (link)
You are 15. You have plenty of time to find that special someone in your life. If she's not ready to think about that kind of stuff yet, don't force her into it. If you guys are dating, just take it one step at a time at the pace that she is willing to take it. Get to know her a little better. Giver a few years and maybe she will be ready for a commitment. Find out what she likes to do and take her there. Find out what things she likes and if it is affordable, get them for her. Make her happy and be sensitive to her emotions. That's the way to get to a girl that you really like.


I am going to a different city in my state like I do every Saturday and I met this hot kid there who was real nice and he's 2 yrs older than me and he asked me out last saturday and I said yes so I am scared b/c I knew he liked me and he knew I liked him ever since like april 2004 and my bros friends who are his friends 2 said he is planning on kissing me and I am scared what if I dont wanna kiss him or freak out or what if I dont know how to french kiss and make out cuz I dont really.....well then if any of that happens what should I do? I wanna be nice and make him no I like him a bunches! plz help, thx a bunches! Ill rate ya! (link)
All I have to say is just relax. If you really love this guy and he really love you, you can talk with him. Tell him you aren't ready yet. Just take your time. If it is meant to be and he truly loves you, he will wait. If he won't, he'll probably leave. I had a boyfriend one time where he just rushed into things and our relationship lasted no time at all because I wasn't comfortable with what he was wanting to do. The next thing I knew, he was trying to get me into bed with him. Hope I have helped a little!!




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