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What's the difference between Taking a break and breaking up! I always saw taking a break as just an easy way of breaking up with someone...like just a nicer way ya know!
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Taking a break doesn't officially break you up with the person...it is pretty much a nice way of saying give me some space. Breaking up is ending the relationship. Don't worry, I sometimes get them confused too! Hope I helped!
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Hello, im 17 years old and i grew up with 3 friends since pre-school. We are soo close. But 2 out of the 3 are racists. I never really cared because they didnt say anything around me. Then i started dating an African-American. And they are saying things about me and my boyfriend. I love them and i have grown up with them but i love my boyfriend ALOT too.. he means alot to me. Now im stuck in the middle between my bestfriends and my boyfriend. What i am i going to do? Thank You.
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Usually I would stay stick with your gal pals...and ditch the guy. But from what you have said I'd say it's your friends that have a problem not him. I'd talk to them and straight up ask them what their problem is with african-americans. If they can't accept someone for the color of their skin...then i don't know what to think about them.
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Well im 16 and i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are both gonna be senior's this year. I know its weird cause im only 16 but i skipped a grade. We are both very popular. He is the best football play and im the captain of the cheerleading squad and the whole nine yards. Well we had sex for the second time a week or two ago. I was suppose to start my period two days ago and I took a test and im pregnant. I am so scared. I dont know how to tell him or my parents and i dont know if i want to keep it. Someon please help (link)
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This is pretty serious so I wil get right to the point. You need to get over your fear and tell your parents and him. Probably your boyfriend first. If that is too much you could get a friend to do it with you to tell one or both of them. Have you thought about abortion? Adoption? You have your whole life in front of you and a child probably isn't what you need right now. Tell your boyfriend and your parents...you can't worry about how they will react because there are things more important than that you need to get done. Hope I helped!
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does ne1 kno wut i can use to make my face not like white wen i wake up, i ahve blush but its not workin! idk wut to use.. ill rate! (link)
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When you wake up it is natural for your face to be pale because you don't use the muscles in your face while you are sleeping therfore not as much blood needs to be circulated. Just wash your face and take a couple of deep breaths and it should bring so more color into your face. Hope I helped~!
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Ok, my school has a dress code, not exactly a uniform. We have to wear knee length skirts of solid color (no specific color) so they can be pleated, have bows, etc...We also have to wear polo shirts, sweaters, stuff like that...what are some ways to spice up my school uniform to make it cute and in style?? (link)
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It may seem really restricted but if you open your mind you can have a lot of fun. You can play around with different colors. You may want to try looking in a couple of different fashion magazines because they always give ideas on how to spice up a boring outfit. Hope I helped!
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Ok- I usually am the one giving out advice... but I am stumped on my own problem. Well here is what happened:
I used to have a best friend named Justine. We hit it off great from the start. After the first month we'd known eachother, we spent the night at each other's houses almost every weekend. We had only known eachother for a year when the inevitable happened- but we'd shared so much together. I had told her all of my deep dark secrets, and she had told me some of her own.
Well- this summer, I had been at my cousin Ashley's house- and we had been chatting with boys on AIM. I told Justine about it when I saw her- and for some reason, she FLIPPED. She wouldn't talk to me, and she ignored all my e-mails to her.
This year, I went back to middle school, and Justine had changed completely over the summer. She had all these cheerleader friends, and she was acting like she was better than everyone else. She even sits in front of me in my English class.
This is where the problem comes in. I don't want to be Justine's friend anymore- she is such a brat- but I do want her to act civil towards me (in English she is always sighing, like she hated being around me- and she tells people, when I can hear- that she hates me). What can I do to make her stop acting so immature??? (link)
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Sometimes you can't change the fact that other people are immature but rather step up to the plate and be the one that defys it. I wouldn't stoop down to her level and do things like that but rather just confront her like a mature person would do and just say something like, "Justine, I get the point OK? You don't like me. I don't know what I did to make you not like me but could you just please stop." It will make her think twice and it might get her to stop. If it gets any worse I would tell a teacher or other adult to keep special supervison on her and you can tell them to keep it anonymous. Hope I was some help!
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I REALLY like this guy named kyle and he goes to my school. and he likes me too! and ive only talked to him for a week but i have gotten to know him REALLY well and have have LOTS in-common, and im still waiting to get to know him more but if i really like him and he really likes me should i tell him that i love him even if were not going out?? please help because i want to tell him but i dont know if it is to early or not!
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I wouldn't. It's a little too early to be sharing things like that, plus if you don't know him to the very last bit you might be wrong. It might also kinda scare him.
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I am the tallest girl(13) in our grade... and i feel like no guys wanna go out with me because im taller then them i dunno what to do i am afraid to ask guys out because of rejection and i sometimes feel akward in school what should i do? (link)
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I am one of the tallest girls too! I know how you feel. I love my height and wouldn't change it for the world. At thirteen most boy's hormones haven't kicked in yet so they aren't very tall. Eventually they will get taller and see how gorgeous your height is. Be proud of your height, because I guarentee you there are probably a lot of girls who envy it!
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On Friday I was with this boy it was our first time hanging out we've been friends for almost a year. We made out and stuff and he went up my shirt. He kept asking to finger me and I said no and then he would ask again and again. I dunno I think this is a little werid don't you? We're not going out like bf and gf but I can see us doing that. I really do like him but should I let him?? and please don't tell me o0o wait until ur comforable bc I don't want him doing it then never talking to me again. sry if this is long (link)
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If you don't want him to tell him no, and if he can't deal with it then it is his loss, not yours. Personally if a guy kept asking me over and over I wouldn't let him touch me because if he can't get it through his head the first time then I'm not sure when he ever will.
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Ok this might sound so waird but....All my friends have done weed that i basically know or wanna try it theyre not pushing me into it but i wanna try it to like REALLY badly but i have second thoughts all the time like what if my parents found out and i dont wanna be llike that i wanna be a good kid well atleast i try to i dont know what to do!!!! (link)
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I wouldn't do it. I know people who have done it for awhile and they sound SO stupid when they talk. Don't let peer pressure make you try it. What's so bad about being the good kid? I wouldn't do it, for you health and everything. It doesn't make you cooler if you try it, when you get older you will probably be happier you didn't.
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I am a 15 yr old who plays sports but i got injured (i fractured a vertebra in my lower back) ne ways i had to sit out for over a month i could not work out... Just a simple yes or no is 5'9" and 140 fat or not ? (link)
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No.
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Well me and my friends are going out tommrow in hte woods to drink i drink alot but not so often so that isnt the big deal i guess but see im only in middle school and theyre bring chronic so they can try it and I REEEEELLYYY I WANNA TRY IT TO jsut to see what it is like you know?but trust me i do not think im going to get addicted to it what should i do tho? (link)
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You may not think you will get addicted but it only takes one try to get addicted. If you really want to go out with them go, but when they offer you chronic politely say no. And be sure to have one or two beers tops. I'm in middle school to and personaly I'd think any guy who did that is a loser...try not to think about what your friends would think about you and what would be best for you.
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Hey I'm having trouble picking what school I'm going to go to this year. I can choose this one school that goes from 12:30 to 3:30 and get all A's there. The only problem is that all the kids there are drugies and I probably wont be making a lot of friends. It's an alternative school so thats why its easy. My other option would be a school with regular hours but I would not be getting good grades there. Mabye C's and I have really bad anxiety about people so the other school would be better. It has only 5 people in each class room. But all my friends are at my school. I need some advice. Wat school should I choose?!?!?!?!?!?!
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If it were my choice I would chose the regular school where all my friends are at over a alternative school. If you have a problem with the regular school programs and you just don't fit in I would chose the alternative school. But otherwise I would stick with the regular school because an alternative school is for people who need it. Hope I was of some help!
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i have a boyfriend that ive been with for two months and we started having sex right off the bat. this guy is my ex boyfriends best friend. im not even 15 yet and i dont want to have sex anymore, ive tried to talk to him but then he just breaks up with me. should i just not be with him? and do you think im too young to be having sex?
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If this boy is just all about having sex I would dump him immediately. I do think that 15 is a little young to be having sex and you shouldn't have to be forced to do it when you don't want to. Talk to him and see if the relationship can go on without sex and if not dump him. Hope I was some help!
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Im a twin. Were both 5'4 except im 94 pounds and shes 104 pounds. Im getting harassed constantly. they say "o shes the anerexic twin", "well thats how u tell them apart, ones anerexic", nd just regular stuff like hey anerexic girl n stuff like that. they even call me mary kate! should o try to gain a little weight or should i just deal wit it? thanx (link)
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I wouldn't change yourself just because some morons are teasing you. If you feel like you want to add a little more weight I'd say just do what feels right to you. YOu might also want to talk to your parents about it, they will have some good advice and will make you feel better.
-Elle
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im horney.. no guys here, what should i do?! (link)
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This is NOT a sight to pick up a guy! If you want actual advice then don't ask it like a moron!
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I am going to this Volleyball day camp for 4 days and I really really like it but I'm terrible at it cuz I'm new and like everyone else can spike n stuff. I probly won't make the team next year but i really like the sport. Wut can i do?
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I play volleyball too. Don't worry if you aren't the best right now, you'll get better with time and practice. If you don't make the tem next year it's OK. Just keep practicing if you really like the sport and you'll get better. Hope I was of some help!
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okay i have this friend and sometimes i cant stand her!!! me and my other 2 bestfriends have told her why we get mad at her all the time she said she would change but of course she didnt...i dont know why i cant tell her that i dont think we should be friends...but i think because if im not friends with her...her bestfriend kelly wont be friends with me (link)
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I know what you mean. Sometimes I think of my friends and I can't stand the thought. Sometimes they annoy me like crazy and I wonder why I am ever friends with them. The key to not getting annoyed with your friends is space, you can't be with them 24/7 so maybe one overnight is enough. I wouldn't try to change your friend, but remember that sometimes you may be annoyed with them but there had to be a reason you became friends with them in the first place right?
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why do guys find thongs so sexy? (link)
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Honestly, I don't know. Having a string up your butt doesn't sound sexy to me at all. They probably like it because they think it shows that the girl is probably willing to go further than kissing (not in all cases, but some). The best advice I can give you is to ask a guy.
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I just wanted ideas of things I can do to keep myself busy this summer. I was dating this guy 'sonic'(we have been on and off since january, he was my ex)and tonight we 'broke up' (we weren't really OFFICIAL but dating) even though I have feelings for him and i feel kinda sad i'm ready to move on. any ideas?
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You can become a counselor at a camp. I'm not sure if you can expect to be paid on such short notice but if not you could get communuity service hours to be used towards schools. Hope I helped!
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