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Hey, I'm Jack.I like giving advice, and I've been through a lot so I have experience... Come talk to me! I'm a girl wrestler, and baseball player, I play every sport there is...(literally!) I'm a creative writing, and Bio tech major. I like watchinmg movies, and have lived and visited all around the world.

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I am 13/f and my parents won't let me remove the hair on my legs. I do anyway but only with a temporary razor that doesn't belong to me. I know why I can't remove hair from my legs, but I want to anyway. My parents are also overprotective and won't let me go to the store with my friends and know parents. If my friends parents see me buying a hair-removing device they will forbid me and tel my parents. If I buy a hair-removing device and my parents catch me they will kick me out of the house (I should know). How do I get a hair-removing device without my parents knowing? Please don't say buy it from a friend or walk to the store!

I think you should sit down your with your parents calmly and explain your situation. THen if they still don't listen and your SURE about this, ask a friend to get you one, shave, and hide your razor, or Veet, I wouldn't use Nair because its smells and its someything your mom could easily detect.

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Does anyone kno where i can like listen to music for free and has a bunch of songs. and i mean really super free.i rate high

Trying Googling Free Music, also Yahoo has free music.

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my boyfriend drinks alot.. tonight he told me he needs a beer cause he hasnt drank in a few nights. i dont drink alot at all so i dont go out n party with him wenever he does. since im not there i worry about him n other girls.. i dont know if he thinks its okay to do body shots or somethin..i dont kno if i should be mad if he does or jus let it go? to make it worse, hes goin to college this year and im only a junior. should i be mad if he takes body shots off of girls or is that taking jealousy too far?

I would ask him what he does, and then see. I mean a couple of body shots is harmless but if hes kissing or something, It's too far...

I hope I was helpful, Jack

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Ok...So I am getting my hair cut, and I dont know how to cut it. and I cant find any sites with nice pics of hairstyles and stuff. I need a few sites that have alot of pics of long and medium hairstyles. thankies.

I know your looking for sites but this might help too. Go to your local grocery store, or Cvs, and look for a hairstyle magazine, sometimes there more helpful, and there not always expensive.

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does anyone know how to make this site a home page? you know, so that each time i open up the interent, it will automatically go to this site right away? thanks!!
~*jaimee*~

Hi,did you try looking under setting on your broweser? Because I know comcast you can change it by going under internet options. Hope I helped, Jack

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can you get pregnet from butthole sex?

Preganancy can only happen when sperm fertalizes and egg, so I don't tihnk its possible... Wish I could be more helpful, Jack...

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Hi,
I asked the question about french manicure kits. I was wondering how it works, cuz I don't get it at all. When the people at the nail place give you a french manicure, they have that pen looking thing and they put the white airbrush stuff in it. Then they put that square tipped thing over your nail and airbrush the tip. When you buy a french manicure kit, does it come with something like that so your able to do it like the people at the nail place do? If not, then how are you supposed to give yourself the french manicure with just the pink nail polish for the base that they give you, and the white for the tip of your nail? If someone can, please explain this to me. Sorry I asked so many questions. I really need to know what store you would get a good kit at. Sorry this is so long. :-)

Hey, I answered you old question too. First put on a base coat, then you need french manicure tape that you put over your nails so you only get the tips. I know CVS, and ULTA, sell them. THe you go over with a final coat, Hope I helped. Jack

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i am 17 and i live in ny. i want to get a tattoo i was wondering how old i have to be. my mom said she dont care if i get one bc she wants one too. were thinking about getting them at the state fair. thanks for your help!

Where I'm from, I think its 18, but if you have a parrent's permission you might be able to get one, because I got one with my dads permission. You could go to a parlor near you and ask?

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How do I get files from my brother's iTunes onto the Windows Media Player? I buy my music through iTunes but i have an iriver. I know I can put the music onto a cd and then put it back in the computer but that takes up to many cds and time!
thx!

Sometimes its becuase of the format of the the song, try changing the format... Other then that I'm out of Ideas, check the internet, for more ideas,..Jack

Sry I couldn't be more helpful...

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Okay, I've been suffering by myself with the effects of what I belive to be depression, or some pretty dang extreme teenage hormones. Tonite, I decided that I wanted to get help, because I'm scared of what might happen if I didn't. I told my best friend about it, and I was just met with blank stares and awkward silences. So I walked back home, with barely a word exchanged between us, and a few minutes later she called me. All she said was please calm down, and then another empty blank silence before I finally said that I'd talk to her tomorrow. I'm unsure of where to go next, and I'm beginning to think its a mistake I ever said anything. Should I be angry at my friend for not really saying anything, and looking at me like I was some sort of freak?

Don't be mad at your friend, it will only freak her out more...Please tell your parents that you feel like your going through a depressing and ask to talk to someone about it. Telling someone that's not judgemental normally does help, and they'll help solve your problem, or at least find the source. AS for your friend, tell her you wish that you guys could still be friends and that you only came to her in cofidence, explain to her, you can't help feeling this way, and you needed someone to talk to. Tell her its not like your crazy its just your sad, and you can't help it. Then think of ways to pick yourself up (mines by getting a cup of coffee) and start spending time balancing everything, friends, family, and add some you time in there too. Hope this helps, I've been there too, Jack

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Hi there, thanks for taking the time to listen to me complain because no one else wants to hear it...

Im 17 and have never been asked out, had a boyfriend, had a boy as a friend , or any other possible boy-girl relationships you could think of. The older guys seem to like me which scares me a lot because when I went to ST Thomas, a 29 year old was hitting on me and asked me if I played pool (hence a date). I think a black kid likes me and hes very nice and all but hes just not right for me. The problem is, even when I meet someone who is ever slightly interested I get all sick to my stomach and am so excited. 100% of the time I am let down, such as the time when I met this physical therapist who was flirting with me and then I saw him again and he seemed lijke he didnt even know me. It was heartbreaking too because I waited two weeks and all i thought about was "friday, jack will be there! friday friday friday. I think i spent tooo much time thinking about it and now im so sad again.. I know hes too old for me anyways, but I seem so pathetic. People tell me Im smart and pretty, like uh my doctor, and uh my MOM and random waitresses. One time I was leaving the YMCA and some lady told me i looked like priness di, which i dont think so i have brown hair and hazel eyes, lol but anyways my best four friends dont have boyfriends either and we never have. its not like we are giving ourselves out. no one takes us for a ride. Usually I find a guy I like at school and try and find out more about them, and im dissapointed to find out theyve had sex, or drink all the time, or smoke pot, or are just plain boring! Sometimes I find myself trying to ignore them but yet i cant. I thought maybe life would be easier as a lesbian because so many girls love me as a freind and even they tell me im pretty. Ive been capatin of soccer and lacrosse numerous times because everyone (girls ) love me. It sucked when I thought one of the girls was hitting on me and i was scared! But i Know thats not the sexuality I am, and I guess thats just me being stupid again. I see myself falling for the older guys, around 20-26ish and for some reason its hard for me to even have interest in guys my own age. Maybe its because of the bad expeinces ive had, since most guys my age are all about sex, smoking, drinking, and anything else I can imagine. I just want a good guy who is a legal age to go out with who likes me for who i am. Im so sick of hearing "oh the right guy hasnt come along": when I see these perfect couples at school or the mall. Life is tough sometimes.. Im also worried about my car and if guys wil try to use me for it. Id be really sad to find out if Jimmy likes me and I like him but really Jimmy only loves my mini cooper convertible :( my aunt thinks im going to be hurt by that kind of stuff... i dont know! i am sooo confused

Thanks again,
17,f,ny

Hmm...Guys around our age tend to be like that, but I can give you a hint, stay away from drugies, and guys who tend to be jerks. Some guys tend to be afraid of athletic women too, watch out for sexists. However, guy that have sex before aren't always bad. (I know because my man's amazing and his ex, is having a baby thats his, (it wasn't his fault) but he's an awesome guy)Sometimes you have to wait, because the perfect guys hasn't come along. Try getting out more, and meeting new ppl, and not just hanging with the girls all the time because thats a warning sign for most guys. Try getting out to meet people on your own. As for older men, stay away from them, they tend to cause troble. Sry this is so long. Anyway, the right guy WILL come along if you put yourself out there a lttle more.
Sry I couldn't be more of a help, Jack

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Does anybody have any idea how to figure out where a movie premiere is going to take place in NYC? Sepcifically the upcoming Harry Potter movie. I know I obvioulsy cannot go to the premeire, but I would love to just watch from the outside as the actors arrive. Also I would like to know the main places where any NYC movie premieres are held for the most part. (The main places) Thanks!

Did you try googling it?!?!...Also, look up hott spots in NYC... It's always hard tracking stuff like that!

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Hi,
I'm 15/f. I was wondering if any of you girls knew of any stores where I would be able to get a French Manicure kit. I don't get my nails done anymore, so I wanted to give myself a French Manicure on my real nails. I looked for a certain French manicure kit on the Walgreens website, but I don't think they have it. The one I was looking for was called Nailene Hard & Healthy French Manicure Kit. It's $5.00. If any of you can, please let me know where I would be able to buy a simple French Manicure kit, and what brand would be best to get. Also, let me know whether any of you have ever bought a French Manicure kit, if it worked well or not, and what Brand it was. Thank you so much! I'm so sorry this question is so long.

Well, there's an ULTA, where I live. You might want to check their website (sorry I don'y have it!)..Try CVS thats where I got mine even though I had to buy the peice's seperatly. Wal-mart is also a good place to check. Hope you find it, Jack

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what can you do and eat that will make you loose some weight?
something like fast working?
oh an nothng that involves lots of sugar cuz im cutting down
im not fat fat but im not skinny like ppl say i dont need to loose weight but i still want to to be confident in myself
please help

There's notthing that is truly really fast that works. But if you eat right and excerise regularlly, it helps. Try cutting down on soda, drink a lot of juice. Pomegranit juice is a good idea to drink too. Try doing crunches, about 250 in the morning and at night, actually using your stomach muscles, not your back. Hope I helped, Jack

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Ok well i liked this guy and we went out for a month, he broke up with me the day after our 1 month, and now i cant get over him. i didnt like him much when we were going out..i was really going to dump him but after he dumped me i feel madly in love! hes my every thought, and whatever i do hes somehow there!! help!! i need to stop this before school starts...not that im going to forget..but it would help!

Find another guy, that you really like and hang out with hime more. Also try clearing your mind whenver thoughts of him come up. I know its hard to just forget about someone but sometimes it just needs time.

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Hey,Im 13/f (but mature for my age so dont say im too young for serious dating)
This guy is really inlove with me, and im just not feeling it. We've made out and..honestly i get bored with him.I've already broke his heart twice and we just hooked up about a week ago.
This seems to happen a lot. I like a guy for awhile, then we get together and the likeness factor soon goes away. Whats wrong with me? Am in not straight?I dont think i like girls or anything, but im scared that if im getting bored with these guys after a short period of time.Youknow? Well..maybe you dont.
Should i break it off with him? I mean we are really good friends but i dont wanna ruin that. Should i take a break from him? I cant really take a break though if we havent been together long can i? Oh i need help!
I rate high for good advice!

Hey, I'm the same way with guys, and I'm not gay. Sometimes, it's better to establish a great friendship with that person first, and if you like them alot after a period of time go out with him then. Sometimes being friends is more entertaining then going out with the person you like. If you get bored easily it just means that your not right to go out together. I would break off with him gently, saying I hope we can be friends still, but this dating thing isn't working out for me. I hope everything works out for the best. Jack

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i've heard that there are ways to use different colors on AIM font than the ones that they give you. like you could go to a website and get the code/numbers for the color and you had to put it some where then you could use those colors instead. i just can't remember how to do it. if anyone knows how to do it...could you please help! i'll rate high!!

I don't know for sure, but mabey try googling it. Bring up google and type in AIM colors... Search the website for it, because I think it's on there. Hope I helped. Jack

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ok i had asked a question this morning buti have to say something else that i need advice on that happened tonight...

ok well i just gto home from a party and this guy tommy asked me to have sex with him and i said no and he called me a tesse and alot of other guys called me a tease b/c i wouldn't let them do ne nasty stuff to me the tommy took me into a room and put duck tape on my mouth and then un zipped his pants and mine...and then he took the rest of my cloths off and made me stand on the bed naked he was just lookin @ me...then he fingered me and raped me and he told me that if i told ne one that he would do it agian and kill me...there was no way for me to go b/c hes a football wresaler and really strong...by the way im 16 and he was 18...i don't want to tell neone because hes on of my moms ex boyfriends son and she treats him like a son and i would never think that he would do nething like that...HELP what should i do?

You first, need to tell your mom, and explain that it really happened,Next go to the cops, but you should have done it that night, because now it will be harder to prove in court, sick ppl like that need to learn its wrong.

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i have these pants that are destroyed [meaning they r ripped for those who dont know] they fit me around my waist but they are VERY loose on my thighs and i was just wondering if anyone knows how i can skrink them a little bit. they are a size 1 but they are still really big on my leg area.. i was thinking of wearing them first day of school but i like jeans that are tight not too loose. thanks in advance ;] ♥

Go to a taylor, and they'll get fixed right up!!

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okay i got iTrip for my ipod..which i think makes it so i can play my ipod in the car.anyway, did the iTrip come with something that hooks the ipod upto the car stereo or soemthing? because i dont think i have it..lol please help im so confused

Check Instrucitions...It might help...lol..Um, I tohught iTrip were so you got the radio tho..
Sry I can't be of more help..

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