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The names Julie. i`m 15 years old and love too give advice so just ask me a question and i`ll try to help [:

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if a woman is about 2 months or 1 month pregnant and not showing at all...and she went on an amusement park ride that had a sign that said no expectant mothers posted on it...what would happen to the baby? would it cause a miscarriage??

it all depends, if your only 1 or 2 month pergnant then i think you'll be ok

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Ok, well lately, many of my friends have been smoking weed. I tell them that it's stupid and that it can harm your health, and stuff such as that, but they keep telling me that weed doesn't harm your body in any way what-so-ever. If anyone knows, can you please tell me what side-effects you may get from smoking weed? (I'm a 14/f, if that's important, which I don't think it is.)

weed causes reduced motivation, paranoia and anxiety, sleepy eyes, dry mouth, throat cancer, lung cancer and disease,can reduce short term memory, alters sense of time, space and distance, decreases coordination and concentration, interferes with a persons ability to learn and retain information, increases heart rate, increases appetite, increases blood pressure, weakens immune system, (in men) decreases sex drive and sperm count, (in female) irregular menstrual cycles and birth defects.

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I recently signed up for an online DVD rental membership. The envelope seals have been opened on the past 5 DVDs I have recived. Should I contact the rental company, or should I contact to post office, or try to catch my mailman. It's just too much of a coincidence that they have all comed opened. But I am not sure who to talk to. Is someone looking at the movies? I have a locked mailbox.

i would call te Dvd place first and if they say its supposed to be sealed then call the postal service

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I can do sprints, I'm fast at that, but I dread the mile because it's hard for me. does anyone know how to get in shape for long distance running?

pace yourself when running

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ok so i am really really really upset! i like have a 70.00 in my literature class and a 76 in my civics class! i am really tryin to pull up that grade but i am not so sure how to! Reading my book 4 civics doesn't help it just makes me bored and my mind goes off yonder else where! Please please help me learn some good but while still being fun to learn more and bring up those low grades! thanx!

stay after for after-help, once you take notes bring them home that night and reread them , do the homework in a quiet place where you can clearly think

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ive been asking for a digital camera for years now and my dad said i could probably get one for my 15th birthday next month..ive been looking to get a Sony Mavica MVC-FD200 Digital Camera, but does anyone know what other good brands i can get digital camera and maybe also record video/ movie shots

i may also get it this week instead of waitin another month, im not sure

i got a minolta and it works good and has a video thing

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Im afraid of getting braces cause my friend got them and they hurt for 3 days (I get really scared pretty easily). Im gettin them soon. Do they hurt wen u get them on? What happens if you lose a tooth while they're in? What happens if a tooth growns in while you hav them in? Please help......im scared.

its fine, it does hurt for a couple of days after you get them on..but that goes away and dont worry about teeth falling out or growing in, your orthodontist will take care of it ( i JUST got my braces off a half hour ago andi t didnt hurt:))

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ok well what if theres a guy you like but hes a grade younger than you like your in 9th grade and hes in 8th grade....does it make a big difference? i mean i want to tell him i like him but we are like best friends...its really hard

no, its only 1 yr

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i have alot of arm hair!!!! i hate it and its dark dark brown there is just no way to hide it especially in the summer and when it isnt summer i dont ususally like to wear long sleeves well anyways my hair on my arms tends to be messy and if i lotion it it looks wayyyy to perfect does anyone know a way to keep it looking sharp without lotioning it??????

shave it

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okay, there is this chick that lives with us, rhee, she's basically a sister to me now and she is a serious worrier. she freaks out about everything!she has had a bad life.. her mum died, her dad kicked her out, so she hasn't learnt much of anything. she went to a mates place and slept in his bed... alone... and worried she coulda gotten pregnant!!! how can i let her know about the birds and the bees without embarrasing her??? she is 18 i am 17. my mum gave me the talk but hers didnt coz she died. any advice on what to do would be appreciated. thankyou in advance!!!

~sister troubles

why dont you have YOUR mom talk to her, afterall it sounds like you pretty well educated

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is there any way i can convinve my REALLY overprottective mom into letting me go to bording school?! lol everytime i ask she puts on this sad face (like to make me feel bad) and says "you really wanna leave your mom?!" and i always say "no but i really wnat a change"....and i just think it's time for me to be able to be a little more independant! but i guess my mom thinks im gonna be a baby forever..anways do any of you know a way to convinve my mom to let me go!? and also i know this is totaly irrelevant to the subject (lol) but how can i convince my mom to let me date already when ALL my firneds have been allowed for a while now!...thanx i RATE HIGH! lol xox Ari

tell her WHY you want it to change

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I am a 16 year old female. I've been dating this guy, Jared for the past 2 years on and off. While me and Jared were broken up I started dating this other guy, Seth whom I dated for like 6 months. Its been like 8 or 9 months since me and seth were together. We had a really serious, deep conversation about us (this happened like 2 months ago.) and he told me that he loved me. He really meant it. I could tell. But at the time I was still with Jared. And I knew, deep down that I still had feelings for Seth, but I didn't want to admit it. I wanted to stay completely loyal to Jared, and that I did. But just recently I started feeling neglected by Jared. Like, he barely calls anymore. He's always hanging out with his friends. And I've started thinking about Seth a lot. Seth is a really great guy. And I know that I love him. I've always loved him. But I'm still with Jared, and I know I'd regret leaving Jared, if I decided to. What should I do about the whole situation? Seth doesn't know how I feel about him. Should I tell him? What should I do???????????????????

just a word of advice: a guy will always cheat on you every chance he gets but why dont you try communicating with jared.. why does he always have to call you.. you got hands, use them

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I want to be carefree, go to another country like japan, have a decent job, get a girlfriend, do whatever i want and never think of tomorrow or yesterday (while im still young). However, I want to be able support my parents so they can enjoy their life w/o breaking their back at work, because they went through so many and suffered so much to brought the family to US and had worked for the past 30yrs plus. So all there is in my head is "find some way or job that pay ALOT, so my parents doesn't have to work," but deep down in my heart, i felt that im being held back by my own self, from what i really want to do. I dont want to abandon my parent, but i also want to enjoy my youth (im 20 btw). Unfortunately, i decided to sacrafice my youth and try to find some way to get rich so i can support my parents..... I don't really have a question for u advisors, because i know what i have to do. I just want to hear ur advice in general,maybe there's miracle way to solve my problems.........

you have to work for it.. go to college or save for it. work your butt and you'll get what you want. (Easy come, easy go)

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well I have been talking to this guy and he asked if I wanted to be his gilfriend. But he has only seen pics of me that are like old and crap and dont even look like me but im nervous to meet him what do I do?

thats dangerous.. you could be talking to a 40 yr old.. how do u know that he isnt showing you pictures of his nephew and saying its him

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I'm currently a senior in hs and already have a dress for my Senior Prom but I like my Junior Prom dress better. So would it be weird to wear last year's dress again. Or should I just suck it up and wear my new one.

i would wear the new 1, it was probably a lot of money and people have already seen your old 1 but its up to you

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omg my hair is sooo frizzy and i dont know what to do about it! i've tried many products but nothing seems to work!

please help!

1 word : dryer sheets

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what are some good fonts for aim?? i have book antiqua now, but its getting boring

tahoma or cosmic sans

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hi, sometimes im selfish..okay, im always selfish. for example if i get an awesome necklace/shirt/pants/earrings/cd/anything::when peoeple ask me where i got them from i never want to tell!! i dont want people coping off me a iguess but it happens so much! and even the stuff i make, okay well i made a necklace out of a guitar pick and then everyone did the same things...etc. it makes me mad! also when i do homework im the same way, i hate when poeple copy me! and my friend, she copies my essays and uses like the same things i do and i take a long time thinking of them, just like a simple sentence. im christian and i know i shouldnt be like this, but i dont know why i am! how can i cure my selfishness??! i wanna be a better person, help me please~~~~!!!!!!!

it sounds more like you want to be original

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okayy well i was going out with this kid for 2 months and 3 weeks and then one day he dumps me because he said hes friends think hes whipped and he sed he kind of was too ..he says he still likes me but he really never talks to me and yesterday he hugged another girl ..do you think he still likes me ?..should i keep trying to get him back ?..i dont wanna chase after him ..

let him go

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Okay this is an overly random question, but it's been bugging me, and I thought someone on here might know! Anyways..

Has anyone watched "the notebook" yet? Well. on it at the end Noah & Allie die together in her bed thing. Like did they just die off because it was a miracle, or did they take something to kill themselves so they could die together? Lol. Thanks alot :)

my sister is watching that movie right now!! but i dont know

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