Iam a girl with black hair and gray eyes. I like to go to the gym to workout because it relieves stress. I like to help people no problem whatever they ask I won't judge people I'm just a person willing to give you some advice that's all. I think its important to have a good education and a good carrer in life. I want this world to be peaceful which is one of my biggest dreams!I'm back!I apologize to you all for not being able to help you guys in need for help whatever help you ask for just write me in my inbox,I'll answer as soon as possible.
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ok well i have been off the depo shot for about 3 months know and i havent had a period yet or anything the reason i said htat was cause i am trying to have a baby and i cant . i have been trying to get pregant but i cant do think there is anything i can take to increase me chances of getting but do u also think it is to earley to be trying to get pregant? what do you think
love heather (link)
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Yes I think its early too have a baby.Before you start plaaning to have one you must have responsibility,and some expierence because taking care of a baby is hard work like you have to wake up even at midnight or later to feed the baby whenever he starts crying.Or he may want you to carry him or pat him.Also you have to buy him diapers,milk powder,baby food,etc...To be prepared to know what is coming you should probably baby sit someone else's baby or a relative of yours that has one or if a friend of your has one.So think about this real well and make sure if you still want to get pregnant make sure you can handle it because it is very important.
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Im 13 and im going into the 8th grade..and saddly ive never had a boyfriend. To me i think im farely attractive and im a nice person. I have gotten a few offers but there just not the right guys. What could i do to get a boyfriend i really like?
Signed: Single and NOT loving it. (link)
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Being single is not so bad because you are independent.You could find one that is not only not badlooking but quiet,cool or talks sometimes and does not seem to conceaded.If you go out more you will for sure see a lot of guys out there and one will be the one you're looking for.But it takes time though don't get impatient.It'll be much better that the right guy is in your class and you will need to sit near him somehow.Like by asking the teacher to change your seat next to his.Or if that doesn't work think of a good excuse why you need to sit there.If you see the guy outside you could smile,say hi,go up to him,and start a conversation like asking his name first the he'll ask you his.Hope you get a boyfriend soon.
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I just started a brand new school, and met this girl & she asked me to sit with her so I did, she said "Bring 5 dollars or so tomorrow & we can get a Subway." Um, basically my question is, she is asking me to sit with her again right? lol Thanks! (link)
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Since she asked you then she'll definitely want to sit next to you again.Yes she may be asking you to sit with her for the second time.You should put in money instead of her because girls like that and she'll think you're a gentleman.And she will like you even more.
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okay well my boyfriend and i just like started dating or whtever.And like when he asked me out and everything i really really liked him.. well after like a couple of days i kinda had a weird feeling and like i didnt really like him anymore.. so i asked a couple of people what they thought about us and like if i should break up with him, cuz like i was ignoring his calls and i really didnt want to talk to him.. well like after a while i was gonna tell him that i just wanted us to be friends.. and so i waited for his call, and waited and waited.. well he never ever called and like i tried calling but no one answered.. well like now i realy do like him i guess i was just scared i would get hurt so i was pushing him away..well i duont know whats wrong, i dont know if hes mad at me and like he hasnt called in like 3 weeks and theres no other way i could talk to him.. so what should i do and is he mad at me... i am soo sooo confused.. please help me i really like him... and i dont want to lose him and he wont answer his phone so i dunno.. thnks soo soo srry for the length.. **hearts** (link)
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I see that your boyfriend may not be taking your calls because he may be confused or is just scared to continue the relationship but not because he doesn't like you.What you need to do is find out where he lives so you could talk to him tell yuor boyfriend why hasn't he called,that it worried you a lot.What you could do is ask like a friend of his or look through the yellow pages near your area.It is totally understandable that you felt like you didn't like him that happens to some people.You must show him you really care about him by being there when he needs you to be there,if you too don't argue it is even better,you must always support him,always help him out if he ever has any problem,tell him that he could trust you in anything he has on his mind,and you need to spend as much time with him as possible so he won't feel you're distant from him.Try not to worry he must have a good reason why don't feel guilty about anything it is good that you speak out your feelings so you won't really get depressed.If you need any other advice ask me and I will answer as soon as possible.
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ok so i have this friend that i know loves me like a sister but doesnt act like it. when were always talking, she blows things out of porportion. and i feel bad b/c sometimes i make it seem like i'm mad at her even though i am but i dont want it to seem like that. it really sucks because shes a sister i never had and i dont want it to be like this. i'm so sick and tired of her doing the things she does and it sucks! ugh...! help
♥ much
CRaZy OuT Of MY MinD (link)
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What you could do is to figure out what is wrong with her there must be a reason why she is like that.I'm considering she should get counseling to speak out her mind with someone or ask her why maybe she'll tell you.She probably might be going through depression you never know.Try getting along when she does do something that bothers you just tell her she shouldn't do that because how would she feel if you would do the same thing to her.I understand when you say she is like a sister to you it must mean a lot to you to get along with her.So do what you can to maintain that friendship.
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I was wondering if you can help me about my problem. I really like this boy, Nic at school. I think he likes me too but the problem is is that he has a girlfriend.Nic is also trying to set me up with his best friend Mark. Mark is really nice and everything but i dont like him like i do Nic. What should i do?
Singed,
Confused (link)
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It seems to me Nick wants you to be happy with someone which shows he's a thoughtful person.But the problem is you don't like Mark so tell Nick that you appreciate what he is doing but you are just not interested in his best friend Mark give him the message clearly so Mark does not fall into illusions with you that is if he likes you of course.You need to look for another guy that is single there are other ones out there just try to have patience.
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well my exboyfriend keeps prank calling me and i know its him ...and i keep telling him to stop but he wont ...what should i do???? (link)
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What you could do is talk to him face to face,tell him why does he keep calling to you,to stop it,and if he refuses to then talk to his parents about it so they will lecture him.Also let him know that you are not interested in him and to find some other girl.For the meanwhile disconnect the phone so you won't hear the phone ringing because of your ex.
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so i have a low confindence level.its like am afraid of popular kids in my school and i kind of want to be one .but i dont think i belong with tem .i like to watch them and know wats going on in their lives.what is wrong here. (link)
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Basically is that you are probaly afraid that they won't accept you as for who you are.But you could fit in by talking to one of them so you could get into the crew.Or get a friend to help you out.Popular kids do of course get attention but some people I talked to were popular before but they didn't want to be it no more because people always would bother them according to what they said.But remember to get to the high level you must work hard for it and you should overcome your fears by facing them.You could start now or later it won't be too late.
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i have 3 colors for my room picked out
Purple
Blue
Lime green
what are some cute ways to paint my walls..i have 4 walls in my room. thanks
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Walls could have shining stars,small roses,teddy bears,handbags,makeup cosmetics on them or other things you like.You could paint your walls with nice fancy zig-zags,cute curvy lines,shapes like clouds on then with the color blue surrounding it.You could also combine the colors together to see how it looks but first paint it on paper to see what color it will turn out to be.Or paint each different wall with a different clor like one side purple,other side blue,and the other one lime green.
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my computer is SO screwed up. like my computer wont let me go on some programs and then an error pops up saying :: The application or DLL C:\WINDOWS\System32\WININET.dll is not a valid Windows image. Please check this against your installation diskette.
i cant even run the virus scan.. what do i do?! (link)
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What I suggest is to keep trying to fix it and is there a small pop up thing saying search on the right hand corner of your computer? You probably got a virus because someone must of done that to your computer.Do you chat?If so then you should not really chat a lot.You should get spyware protection. Get your computer fixed up first, find someone that could do the job and gives you a good price to fix the damage. A couple of weeks my computer was fixed and was much faster and I use optinum online.What do you use?Also if you're computer is very slow than some files need to be closed or put in one single file.Or you could buy memory for it and it will probably cost like $90 plus tax.
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My boyfriend wants to have sex. I think I love him, but I just don't feel ready yet. How can I tell him and not lose him? (link)
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Tell him that you would want to but you're just not ready to be intimate with him,to understand you if he really cares about you,to give you time to think about this,and to not even think you don't like him.Is your boyfriend in love with you?If he does not,only likes you then he just likes sex which is not good.Some people who had sex without loving that person they did it with they regret it so don't make the same mistake and if you do remember to protect yourself.I wonder if your guy is experienced on sex because if he is he'll want you to be expierienced on sex as well but a few guys don't care.But for sure if he is virgen then he'll love to know if you are a virgen too.Also tell him that it is very important to respect your decision,and that your parents are into politics so wouldn't he want you to understand him if he were in your shoes?Then you'll have him thinking strongly of what you said and taking it in mind.
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i was with my boyfriend today and he got me sooo horny that i had so much discharge that it went thru my boxers (thats all i was wearing) my question is so you think he was horny?, do you think he felt it and if you do do you think it bothered him?
please answer ill rate high (link)
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Yes I say he is horny but anyways he probably did feel it because your discharge even went through your boxers.Probably didn't bother him , he should know why because he got all crazy for you so it would be his fault.Next time he gets all up again on you try to keep him calm.Since he was horny that will mean he really likes you a whole lot.I know that will make you feel good about yourself and maybe he is also in love with you!
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Ok So I Met This Amazing Guy And I Actually Dumped My Ex Because Of Him (not for... i knew it was over long before he just helped ease it along)... But The Problem Is He Has Become One Of My Best Friends And Him, Me And Our Friend Marty Have Become Inseperable... I Know He Likes Me As Much As I Like Him (he has told me and marty both) But He Told Marty The Only Reason He Hasnt Asked Me Out Is Because Of How Tight We All Are And He Dosent Want To Mess That Up... But He Still Tells Me He Likes Me and Does All The Little Things Like Scoring Points With My Family And My Other Friends... But Im Not Sure If He Will Ever Ask Me Out... I Guess The Question Is... Should I Keep Liking Him And Keep Hoping... Or Give Up And Just Be His Friend??
Thanx (link)
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I think you should not give up and wait for him to ask you out still have hope that one day he'll ask you out.But if you can't wait then you might as well talk to him and tell him that he won't mess anything up by going out with you.It's better that you got to know the guy,get very close to him which like I told other people it is much easier for you to then tell that person your feelings for him/her.But you just think about this for some time don't make a decision right away because you may want to change it.Have some faith.
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for some reason,i forget to eat and drink during the day. i have no earges doing the day, dont jump to conculsions i still eat and drink just not enough. somtimes i find myself at night remembering that i havent ate or drank. and i actully have to try to drink. is there anything wrong with me or am i just worrying for nothing. (link)
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There is something wrong you can't forget to at least drink something during the day it is very important so what you could do is write yourself a reminder on a little post it note that you need to drink something as well as eat something.And to find out why go to the doctor he'll know exactly what is going on.
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Alrihgt kind acomplictaed.
My Class consists of like 23 ppl, all in whichtell each other EVERYTHINg. There is this boy who i like ALOT and i no for a fact he will ask me out next year. Now i am allowed to have a boyfriend but i live with my dad nad i just dont want him to find out cause ity waould be EXTREMLY awkward. Plus the bys mom is the room mother nad what if someoen told his mom
What do i do i like had a crush on him for 5 years HELP (link)
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Speak to the boy that if he would like to go out with you and that you always liked him or if that you could become friends with him first then ask him like if you're too shy write him a note or letter.Tell this boy if you too decide to go out to keep it a secret and not tell anyone about it except you too or you could tell those who you can trust who will not snitch on you.You should talk to him alone which will be easier for you to talk to him.Have confidence in yourself that you could do this.To let you know is that Iam not telling you to tell him you're in love with him because if that is so you're just wrong all I'm saying is to tell him you have a crush on him so the one that should be realistic is you don't assume things that I have not said what so ever and I help others which is something I love to do.
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i have been cutting myself for about 4 months now, i dont know how to stop, but i dont want to do it anymore. how do i stop and deal with my emotions in other ways? (link)
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You could stop this by consulting a psychiatrist,be put into special therapy until you completely get cured from this.What you could try to do is stay away from anything that cuts such as scissors,knives anything that cuts so you won't feel the need to do so.You need to get the help you need as soon as possible before you hurt yourself or even someone else so please get help.Have you told your parents about this problem?If they don't let them know they have the right to know that is why there your parents to look out for you.
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16/f... Lately I've been so pissed at my mom. She works from 9-5 but when she gets home, she's on the computer doing e-mails, ebay, or going to all these different meetings she chooses to be apart of. She wasn't always like this... where she's always gone, or on the computer. And now our house is so messy... and I clean it up. But we have so much junk lying around and a lot of it is hers and she's always saying "Get things cleaned up" well, I do the best I can and she thanks me for it... but everyday its "Get things cleaned up, blah blah blah". And I do what I can but its never clean enough and she never has time to help me because she's always on the stupid computer doing her "little business" on ebay and its stupid! She doesn't have time to cook anymore either. And I have a life too, I have to clean up, plus do stuff on my own whether its taking my cousins somewhere, school, or being a regular teenager. The problem with me is, that I tend to hold emotions in, and then I'll just attack you... and so today I did that with my mom. I attacked her with how I was feeling, but this hasn't been the first time... I've attacked her about this situation before. I'm tired of all this. Same thing with the plumbing back in February (which, btw is still not fixed, but I've given up on that and that was all because of the same thing... she doesn't have time for anything else or she "foregets" to call). Well, she's tired of me always doing this and being sarcastic. I'll start telling her how we're tired of her not having time for anything else. Our house is still messy (a lot of things I can't do... like where am I supposed to put all of the statements she keeps, papers, etc? we have ALOT of that kind of stuff), we have fast food all the time... I go and get my own food, otherwise I won't eat until like 9pm and I'm too tired to cook, and things like the plumbing, etc. So today as I was cleaning out the linen closet I told her how I was tired of this, how she can't do anything anymore and she kept saying "Oh knock it off!, I don't want to hear it, Stop being sarcastic, I'm tired of it" blah blah blah. So I left the room with tears running down my face. The main reason was because she wasn't listening to anything I had to say. She thinks I'm being sarcastic when I'm telling how I really feel. She left for a meeting and the entire time, I kept thinking about cutting. I have no other reason to get anything else out. She won't listen to me. I never tell her anything, I'm not close to her at all. Sure we have a good relationship... she's always been here. She's not the type that goes out drinking or whatever. But deep down, I'm not close to her. I don't "tell her everything" as most daughters and mothers are. Its too late for that, and I've excepted it. And my dad's here, but he doesn't do anything. When he gets off work, he goes downstairs and falls asleep or goes on the computer, then sleeps again. On weekends he'll mow the lawn sometimes, and he used to the the fixer guy... he would have fixed the plumbing, but its not the same anymore. He's just the regular couch potatoe and I'm sick of cleaning up after him and my mom. Yea, they pay me and while most kids think that thats awesome... to me its not all about the money. My parents won't let me have friends over when the house is messy and its ALWAYS messy. The majority of the time, I'd much rather have some friends over than 40 bucks. Money really can't buy happiness. I've only had people over about a total of 10 times in the 16 years I've lived. It sucks and I feel so alone. My mom would be pissed at me if I just came home from school and said "oh hey mom! so-and-so's here!". And those 10 times someone came over, the day before I spent cleaning the entire house. It sucks. I guess what I'm trying to say is, it scares me that I've been having thoughts about cutting. But I feel like theres no other way to get my feelings out. I told my mom before I left the room, that she won't listen to me so I'll just take my anger out in a different way. She just barely looks at me and screamed "Well, you need help then, like a councelor or something" so I finally said "Yea, get me a councelor". But she didn't seem too serious about that... she just said it to make me shut up. I guess my question is, do you have ANY advice? Is there any way you can help me? Give me some advice. I'm so sick of this. I'm sick of how my parents live, its not the way I want to live. And, it makes me mad that my mom won't even listen to how I feel. Just because I raise my voice when I'm mad, or I keep bringing up the same subject over and over again. She won't answer my questions like "When are we getting the plumbing fixed?" "Oh I don't know" "Thats what you said yesterday" "Well, I DON'T KNOW, stop asking..." I HATE IT SO MUCH. She won't talk about anything, make plans to get something fixed. What am I supposed to do? Sorry this is so long. (link)
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This is just getting bad for you I mean your mom needs to contact somebody for housecleaning it is not fair that you be making you do all the cleaning,leaving you with all this responsibility it is just insane.Convince her first to hire somebody to do the job,when you do put up flyers,a phone number of yours or work phone number to contact your mom or dad to talk to them,get one who is good at it as well.You shouldn't cut even though your so upset,all because you will regret it you need to have an adult to talk to her about changing her ways like an aunt,uncle or other relative I'm pretty sure they'll convince her,and because there adults just like she is.Your dad or mom should help out especially your mom who is always stuck in the computer when she needs to be doing chores around the house.If this keeps on going like this the house might soon become a disaster so I strongly suggest you take my advice.Hope everything turns out alright for you and you could continue to have a normal life.
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Hey, i need some help! I have some acne on my forhead and a little bit less on my cheeks and some on my nose! I've tried about everything! And clearasil and clean 'n' clear are one of the most that are the worst! What could help me? (link)
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What is highly recommended is Proactiv Solution order it online or by phone.It is used by models,celebrities as well and has a good price plus if you're not satisified you could bring it back even though the bottle is empty and has a money back guarantee!They also guarantee a 60 day for you to see results.It is very good because it goes deep down into your pores,takes all the bacteria causing acne to come,and your skin will be clearer and cleaner.So don't wait any longer try it!
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ok so theres these 2 guys that i dont know which to choose out of. ok so lets say theres guy1 and guy2. guy1 is really really nice to me and idk if he likes me but he sometimes makes it seem like that-hes cute too. guy2 is really hot a little nice to me and likes to joke around and make me real self concious about my self. hes also my moms boyfriends son..is that wrong? and i dont know whice guy to choose
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I would say you should choose guy 1 becuase he is nice to you which will mean that the relationship will most likely last.If you go out with your mom's boyfriend son that is not wrong who told you that?Guy 2 is only a little nice ,jokes around a lot which means he doesn't take you seriously,and he is not mature enough to be in a relationship with you.So be with the guy that treats you better not the one for just his looks remember that.
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i want to contact a local retirement home to volunteer there. i need more extra cirricular activities for college so i wanna do something like that. im thinking about emailing them, any suggestions on what i should say in an email or on the phone? i need any kind of ideas. ♥ (link)
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I have some things in mind that you could say like Tell them that you are wondering if they will need someone to volunteer at the retirement home, that it is very important to you to want to look after others,you love to volunteer to help others,you always enjoyed it,and that it will be a pleasure to help out,and that you will do a great job.One last thing tell them that they will not regret for picking you as a volunteer.
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