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I joined this site when I was very young (hence the ridiculous username) but now I feel I'mn old enough to give out advice.

Ask me anytime. I have had my fair shares of family issues, as well as good at solving relationship problems.

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I think Im pregnant and i dont know what to do. My boyfriend really wants me to have a kid and at times I do to but i feel like im to young and im not ready. I dont believe in abortion. What do i do!?

You say you feel that your not ready.
But, lets say you're definatly pregnant, you need to remember that you'd have support from everyone around you and your boyfriend.Abortion is bad things yes, so maybe giving them up for adoption(iif your not ready), that way they will be alive and happy and grow up having a better life.

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ok so i need a new aim sn. and i have no imaginationn =]]

a little aboutt me:
my name is sam/sammy/ect.
i dont mind x's or o's.
my fav. color is pink.
no: chick, girl, star, gurl.ect.
do: songs [[ lyrics ]], X3

I swear i've answered this question before anyway:

x-PinkerbelleSam-x

sAmMyBaBe

GallykSam

SammyBabe2k6

Sam-lecious!

ShakeDatThangSam

Gotmythangx-Sam-x

Can't-do-it-like-Sam

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i like this guy my friend . hes new to are group . i haven't known him that long but long enough to get to know him and we have a lot in commnon. i want to tell him soon but i don;t know how!i want to be able to tell him but there not be any weirdness between us.thank!

Just ask him if he'd like to go to the movies with you, it is a perfect way to start off something, if he asks if its a date say yes.
But if your to shy , when your alone just kiss him and walk away , leave him thinking.

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i really want chanel earrings for christmas that look like http://mocouture.tripod.com/sitebuildercontent/sitebuilderpictures/ebaystuds.jpg but i don't want to go to the store and spend like 500 dollars on them. my cousin bought hers at a flea market but they weren't real, but i really don't care if they're real or not. so my question is, where can i buy those earrings under 30 dollars? and does anyone know how much they would be at the flea market? thanks!

Well these are about $200 I don't know if you'd be willing for them if your cousin got hers cheaper
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=140065469645

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what does mamacita mean?

I'm 98% it means mum,

check freetranslations.com

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Okay,
I absolutley LOVE LOVE LOVE singing, and acting, but my play is this friday and i have the lead role, everyone always talks about that when they perform, they feel really good. How do i get over my fear!! I already had an embarrassment on stage once, i cant do it again. How do i distract myself from the sudience. Tips would be helpful ASAP

JANE

So weird, my show is this friday as well!!!!!!I guess you have to look over the audience,Therefore it looks like your looking at them though your not.And keep yourslef occupied before you go on ie listen to ipod/read book!

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i really want a new screen name that has my name in it ( nicole ) and xo. iv tried a lot but there already taken. do any of you have ant ideas for one?

thankss

How about

GalLykNicole

x-x-Nicole2k6eva-x-x

....xMizzNicolex....

xxx..NiKiBaBe..xxx

....xNaughtyNicolex....

xx-NaUgHtYnIcOlE-xx

xxx2k6Nicolexxx

xxxBabiNicolexxx

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I have dandruff. I tried using head and shoulders shampoo but it didn't really work. Any tips? I don't like how it shows up on my clothes and stuff. I take a shower every day.

I defintly recommened elvive anti dandruff shampoo.Head and shoulders didn't work on mine before and elive kind of BANISHES it and it will never come back.

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my friend and i who go to a small catholic school and are at the top (8th grade) of the school want to plan a talent show. we love theatre and things but we need permission from our principal, a strict nun. we used to hav talent shows each year, until 3rd grade. she held auditions for one in 5th grade, and i got in, but it nevr happened. my frend and i think that if she put my friend and i (who organized people in our class to make movies and things) in charge, we can DO IT!
any tips on gettin her to say yes and makin it successful?

You could tell her that people need to buy tickets and the money goes to charity...they love it when you say things like that.

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sooo me and my best friend are going camping, we need some cool games to play. we're camping in her backyard so it's nothin far away lol. it's kind of a couples party thing. so there will be 4 ppl. any idea what games we should play? and i don't mean little kid games. there's gonna be drinking too. and also i need songs for a cd to listen too, we're gonna make it so that it's mixed.

Trurth or dare - that is a realli gd game, spin the bottle (after you've drank) and 7mins of heaven,but you need more people and to warm up a party with good music how about these songs

Pussycat dollz - dont cha/Buttons/beep

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For our school we have to do a science fair project. I don't know what topic i should do so does anyone have any suggestions? I need to know asap. Thank you thank you thank you!

You could maybe do "the difference between a smoker and a non smokers lung"

and you could maybe make a model of the lungs.

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I'll assume some people know how to play secret santa here, so I'm going to get straight to the question. I have to buy a gift for somebody I barely know. Shes short and asian, shes smart and that's all I know. What could I get her that's beetween 10-15 dollars? Thank you

You don't have to get her anything different because she is asian and clever.Just buy her something decent like box of choccies.Noone can turn down chocolate.Or perfume.

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Im trying to be somewhat creative for my bf for this christmas (we've been together for well over a yr & a half by this point) so what i do give him i know he'll appreciate!

I've sewed him fleece PJ's, bought him cute boxers, and now i want to make him a CD with love songs that remind me of him

1) Anyone got any tips on songs?
2) Any other creative idea's (details wanted if possible)

Well make sure it is songs he likes

Does he like upbeat 05/06 songs?

Maybe

We belong together - mariah carey
Babycakes- 3 of a kind
Stik wit u - pussycat dolls
My love - Jusin Timberlake
My boo - alcia keys and usher

Hope I helped, if there is any song you make love to that would be good too.

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for my birthday i get to make my own cake i am happy about this because i love to bake i want it be challenging but not super hard because i only get one chance i love chocolate and want something origanal[sp] any help would be great!!!! thnaks

How about a really delecious chocoloate fudge cake!!!Yum eh heres some recipes for it


http://recipes.chef2chef.net/recipe-archive/4/A04392.shtml



http://www.chocolate-source.co.uk/chocolate_recipes_cakes_chocolate_fudge_cake.htm (you dont have to add rum )




http://www.cadbury.co.uk/EN/CTB2003/kitchen_lifestyle/recipes/chocolate_treats/american_fudge_cake.htm

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What are some things I can do to become a better singer? I mean, I'm not HORRIBLE..I could just use some work. SO, what are some exercises I can do for my voice in order for it to get better? PLEASE HELP! Thanks. =)

Well I do singing so I no quite a bit.Take singing lessons and practice everyday.Go to a shopping centre and look in music shops to find backing tracks and warm up excercises.Also try to lay off curries and drink loads of water.Dont sing songs where you have to strain your voice - it does not make it stronger.Just sing everyday it WILL get stronger and louder and kinda "nicer" if you get me!!

Hope I helped.

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I like this boy alot we are so cute together everyone says i saound go out with him but the problem is he is 18 and i am only 15 wat should i do not go out with him cuz of his age or go out with him n forget all the age stuff
Please help me

Well, if you truly love him then go for it - age is just a number but be careful because he can take advantage of you even though they say they wont - And it will be a long time until the relationsship and be "taken to the next level" (sex)because you're underage.

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14/f
I really want to learn to be an actress, even if it's just to see if I have what it takes. I would love to attend some sort of school for it or something, but I live in the middle of nowhere. Mom would never let me go to California or anywhere where all the good acting oppurtunies are. So how am I supposed to "follow my dreams"?

You don't have to go to big places to become an actress or get famous or whatever.People get recognised in small places!!If your school has school plays or talent shows do them!If they don't sugget it to a teacher.Look around in libaries or newspapers.Or even join a performing arts club that are like 3hrs on a saturday.You can complete your dreams but you dont need to be somewhere big like a acting school to get where you want to be.Or even audition for an angency they can let you know what auditons are on and can even get you auditions.But give singing and dancing a try even if its not you greatest thing - because you may have to do that even for acting things.It is a long time but after you complete school, you'll have money to travel to california or whatever.

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I'm writing a 4 page essay about fast food in biology. So I need your opinion on a few things.

-Does fast food have negative health affects? And what are those?


-Should fast food companies tell people what's unhealthy in their food ? So they can decide whether to eat it or not?

-Are people addicted to fast food?


I've already written a few long paragraphs but I'm out of ideas.. so I need some help. Especially for the first one. I need some biology terms in it and I'm not good at it.

Hopefully these pages can help you

A written paper and REALLY good info

http://www.sunysb.edu/heartlinks/fastfooddangers.pdf




To find a few facts and some effects
http://members.tripod.com/deena118/Effects%20of%20fast%20food.htm

Hope I helped

MayXmimiXliveX4Xeva


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what does "d.g.a.f." stand for?

Dont Give A F**k

Glad I helped

Mariah4eva
xxxx

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i wanted to learn how to break dance since 4th grade. But my mom and teacher said no because its hard. So i didnt mention breakdancing that much for long time until 7th grade my uncle's nephew taught me how to do some simple moves. But he just visits like once a year. So i didnt learn it in 8th grade, i heard my friend's bf knows how to breakdance but he didnt want to teach me, he just said he cant breakdance. 9th grade, finally he taught how to do some simple stuff too, and my friend asked me and said" how come you wanna learn how to breakdance out of no where?" and im afraid that people will think im a poser. The question is am i poser for wanting to learn how to breakdance?

How can that question enter your mind.Just becuause you want to try something out dosnt make you a poser and who cares what others think, you do your thang girl!!!It's like saying I want to walk instead of running to school and someone asks why.How is that making you a poser.
Your not!!!

xxx

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