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you can email me: xasktiffany@yahoo.comI like dancing, music, Jake Gyllenhaal, t-shirts, comedy, summer nights, funny movies, and photography.
I hate perfectionists, although I can be one, people who edit their pictures with peace signs and dumb quotes, and flies.
I like giving advice. I don't know if I'm any good at it. Nobody has told me either way.
Ask me whatever, I'll do what I can to help you out.
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i am 13 and my mom is a slut. She brings at least five guys a day. when she gets drunk and pass out. the man comes to my room. it is really scary for me. i can never have anyone over my house. My boyfriend really wants to do it with me, but i say no and he doesn't understand why. i don't want to end up like my mother. But i really love my boyfriend. What should i do. i need an outlet.
You won't like this, but I really think you should get out of the house. Tell you mom you want to live with a friend/grandparent/family member for the rest of this school year. Because telling her she's setting a bad example might not do enough. It might be hard, but try to tell a school counselor, a trusted teacher, or other adult about what is going on. They will help you out.
Also, I don't think you are ready for sex at thirteen. You should have at least taken a sex ed course. It also doesn't seem like a good time for you. And what happens if you get pregnant? What happens to the baby? You are too young. (sorry, i know thats exactly what you didnt want to hear, but its the truth)
xxtiffany
Ok, well I am seriously in the need to lose 30+ pounds in about 2 months. I also want to tone my fat and flab pretty much ALL over my body. Does anyone have tips on what to do [without spending a lot of money] so I can do this and real quick?!? I need to do this really badly.
Run. Run a few miles every other day. It really helps you lose fat all over. :)
xxtiffany
Today was our first day of school, and i wasnt in any classes with my friends. Its my senior year, and id love to be with them. My dad donates a lot to the school, so he talked to the principal and tommorow i have a meeting with the principal to discus what id like changed, and hell switch it for me. I definately dont want to be that bratty student who gets whatever she wants. I have 2 classes with my friends, but thats 2 out of 8. How do i tell my principal which classes id like switched without sounding like "give me what i want, and give it NOW!". And how do i tell him how much i appreciate him taking the time to do all that? I dont think of myself as a brat, and neither do my friends but some people at school do, just because i can get what i want somtimes. I dont want to over-use whatever power i have. I dont want to be a bother to anybody. Any advice you might have, id appreciate it. Thank you sooo very much!
Okay, I can understand both ends of this situation.
First, since this is your last year, and your dad donates a lot to the school, you should feel that you do have the right to be in your friends classes. But then you're afraid people will start calling you bratty or whatever, which might be true, unless you are in a huge school and people barely notice you. (not to be mean, but if your in a big school not everyone knows you, or whatever)
I think you should ask to change like 3 classes, so your in some with your friends, and some with new people. Its a win-win situation: you get classes with your friends, but at the same time you aren't getting EVERYTHING you want, just a little. Ahh kind of confusing?
I hope I helped you out a bit, and good luck!
xxtiffany
what does it mean to skeet? is that the same thing as cum?
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=skeet
xxtffany
in a couple days, im going on a 6 hour car ride, and i have to take my dog. hes been in the car a few times, but only for short periods of time. and whenever he goes for car rides, he pants and drools all over the place. is there anything i can get at a pet store or vets to give him to help with the car sickness?
thanks!
http://www.sfgsrescue.org/articles/carsick.htm
http://www.nativeremedies.com/petalive/easytravel-canine-travel-sickness-remedy.html?ovchn=GGL&ovcpn=Google+PetAlive&ovcrn=dog+car+sickness&ovtac=PPC
hope this helps. if not, you can google dog car sickness, and itll give you a ton of sites
xxtiffany
I have a ZIT! and my acne isnt really bad but it will go away a little bit and then it worsens at other times. It sucks! I have tried proactiv and nature's cure and nothing clears my skin! I use toothpaste sometimes but it doesn't always work. I've even been to a dermatologist and it wont clear my skin. It's not really bad but it is noticeable! And school starts next week! How can I clear my skin even a little bit? Any tips help! Thank youu!
I hear crushing an aspirin and mixing it with lemon juice works, but ive never tried it. You could try a little rubbing alcohol, but it might dry out your skin too much, so be careful
xxtiffany
Hi, I'm 13 and I have alot of pets. I have 2 dogs, a turtle, and 2 birds. I love all of my pets too. This morning one of my birds died. It was really sad for me. Now, I feel even worse for the other bird because it lost its only friend. I think it will die of loneliness. I am really sad and if anyone could help me out thank you very much.
I'm very sorry about your bird, i had two parakeets and one died.
The first thing we did was put a mirror in the cage, to trick the bird into thinking there was another one in there. It sounds mean, but we couldn't run out and get another right away. IT really helped. The bird thought there was another one in the cage.
Eventually, we got another bird, and the two became good friends. But if you aren't ready to get a new one, or your parents won't let you, the mirror is good company for it. Also, I go over to the cage and make bird noises. One of them really likes it, and she makes the noises back! Haha.
I'm very sorry, and good luck!
xxtiffany
Ok, I don't have very many pimples (thank goodness) but when i have a pimple i tend to pop them. Now i know you shouldn't but depending sometimes i do it anyways. Anyway i have scar tissue from a pimple on my forehead and school is starting so i really want to know what to do to make it go away. It's not a pimple anymore so i know it's just scar tissue and i don't know how to make it go away! Please help me!!! Thanks sooo much! :D
They say aloe vera helps get rid of scars.
xxtiffany
How do you rip your jeans so they look like the ones in th stores??
Hmmm... I guess if you cut a little slit in them with some scissors and then pulled at like the rip a little (too pull random strings down...) It should work.
xxtiffany
I need to get a house key made with a picture on it. Where can I get this done? Home Depot? Anywhere? Thank you!
I'd guess any hardware store that makes copies of keys. sorry its so vague.
xxtiffany
Ughhh! I am 14 and still, no period.
I have discharge, and pubic hair, and all the signs.
Last month the only one of my friends who still didn't have a period, got hers. Im pretty much the only girl in the grade without it.
Well my question is: Are there any other signs of when I will get it, besides the basic ones?
And Please do not tell me I am lucky I don't have it. Because I want it. And when do YOU think ill get it? ANY ADVICE IS APPRECIATED!!
Thanks!! :)
From what you've said, it sounds like you'll get it pretty soon. But for now, enjoy life without it. It will come eventually, i PROMISE. If you are really concerned, you can always talk to your mom, or go see a doctor.
xxtiffany
we're getting a husky puppy in about a week or so,but we have no idea what the name should be!
its going to be a boy, either one with red hair and green eyes, or a grey one with brown eyes. any ideas?(like a cute,tough name :]) thanksss!
http://puppynames.com/
or cause its a husky, you can name it after a city in alaska or something. as a kid, my mom had a husky named alakanuk. good luck and enjoy the puppy! :)
xxtiffany
alright so heres the situation.
im 15/f and pretty sure im pregnant.
i havent told anyone yet except my ex boyfriend.(we broke up a couple weeks ago)
if i keep the baby, people will think of me as a slut and whore and my relatives would probably not be supportive at all, but if i got an abortion i might feel guilty and i might regret it later in life.. but im 15 my ex boyfriends almost 18..but hes really calm about it and we would probably get back together if we decided to have it.. but i really dont know. but anyways i want to know other peoples view on abortion.
PLEASE dont get an abortion, its murder and should be illegal.
have the baby, if you dont think you are responsible enough, or ready to have a baby (you are really young) put it up for adoption. there are hundreds of couples out there who arent able to have a baby and are more than willing to adopt.
xxtiffany
well i have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 weeks and we had kissed but not made out...dont ask why it took this long...but we finally did tonight...and i was really self conscious that i was doing it all wrong because i am not as experienced as him and he has alot of girls to compare me to and i have basically no one to compare him to...so do you think he will really care if i am bad at it? and if he does then it is obviously not going to work out.. right?
You'll get better, trust me.
And if he's going to break up with you because he thinks you're a bad kisser (and you probably aren't as long as you arent slobbering all over him)then hes not worth it. He should be dating you because he likes who you are.
xxtiffany
My boss gave me diamond earrings for Christmas. I am a married woman and he is a married man.
I know his wife thinks this was an inappropriate present. I am torn. What should I do?
You should DEFINITELY return them.
Tell your boss that you are both married and you don't think its appropriate to accept a gift like that. You should also consider looking for a new job, because now things will be awkward around the office, and he might try to use you returning the earrings against you. (Lower your pay, threaten to fire you, something like that)
I hope I helped, and I'm sorry about your situation.
xxtiffany
Whenever me and my friend are fooling around or something, i feel like i don't do enough. he always does everything and i just kind of let him do it... then if he asks me to, i do something. i just dont know what to do when we're in the moment. he feels bad because he says it feels like he's forcing himself on me- but he really isnt. i feel bad because i let him do it all. how do i spice things up?
This is going to get a bad rating, but I'll say it anyway
Don't spice things up. He's your FRIEND. Don't do anything until you're in a committed relationship and you trust each other. Otherwise, if something goes wrong, you might lose his friendship.
xxtiffany
any tips for starting a new school year? like a resolution so theres no drama through out the school year im going to 8th grade /... now what do i do to make more friends not cry all the time and stop being alone... and anythin... like personality? be louder.. or what??
what does humble mean in a person? dop people like it? or theyd like loud and wild better?
thnks
Don't try to change yourself. Be who you were last year, and the year before that, and the year before that. Don't pretend to be who you aren't. your friends like you for you. be yourself.
A resolution? Don't start drama, stay out of drama, just ignore it completely. Cause when you get to high school, you'll see how stupid it was.
xxtiffany
on facebook, can i change my birthyear?
because i accidently wrote 1986 when it should be 1990. HELP?
gracias
Email facebook, they'll change it for you
xxtiffany
i'm taking dance 1 at school and we have to wear leotards.. do dancers normally wear underwear and bras under them? what are some type of outfits that girls wear?
I'm a dancer, and i wear something like this under it:
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?catId=cat520017&productId=0442_1497_thong
And I don't wear a bra, cause all of my leotards have shelf lining in them, and I'm not too big either.
Normally, for a class I wear a leotard and footless tights, because i find them more comfortable. and a wrap type skirt thing. haha. i guess it depends on the type of class you are taking though (like jazz or ballet or tap or modern...)
you can also go to discountdance.com to find some stuff to wear.
good luck, and i hope you like your dance class :)
xxtiffany
ok, i have clear skin. but you know when you have those problem zits that pop up every now and then? what can i use to make them go away..like something that doesnt take forever. i dont want to have to go out and buy something, but is there anything around the house that i could use besides lemon juice and toothpaste? i have clerasil, but it doesnt seem to work. thanks.
Toothpaste mixed with lemon juice, weird combination, but it is amazing!
If that doesn't work, try putting a little rubbing alcohol. Just a warning, that might dry out your skin too much, so be careful
xxtiffany