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boyfriend advice
well i have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 weeks and we had kissed but not made out...dont ask why it took this long...but we finally did tonight...and i was really self conscious that i was doing it all wrong because i am not as experienced as him and he has alot of girls to compare me to and i have basically no one to compare him to...so do you think he will really care if i am bad at it? and if he does then it is obviously not going to work out.. right?
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Just because you haven't had much experience doesn't automatically mean that you're bad at it or you need a lot of practice. You can be a good kisser in a different way than another girl he's been with. Your technique could just be different than the other girls. To tell you the truth, he probably isn't worrying about whether you're better or worse than some other girl he's made out with because he's just excited he's getting to make out. If he kept making out with you after you started kissing, he liked it. He would have found a reason to stop kissing you if he really didn't like it. Hope this helps.
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You shouldn't worry about it. Relax first off. It doesn't matter if you have no experience & you aren't the best at it. It's your first time right?? Practice makes perfect. Confront him about it & explain that you know you aren't great at it & if he could teach you. I'm sure he wouldn't mind. Every guy is different though. Some care, some don't. If he truly likes you for who you are & wants to be your boyfriend then he'll be more than happy to help you out & won't mind if you aren't great at it. It can work out regardless.
-hope that helped!♥
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You'll get better, trust me.
And if he's going to break up with you because he thinks you're a bad kisser (and you probably aren't as long as you arent slobbering all over him)then hes not worth it. He should be dating you because he likes who you are.
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