I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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ok im 10 and feel real fat i use 2 be skinny now i cant stop EATting ever since we moved. advice? (link)
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Get involved with sports or hang out with friends just keep yourself busy and exercise if you think your gaining weight but if your really hungry then eat fruits and veggies or drink a lot of water that would fill you up so you wont get hungry but ya eat fruits and veggies because you can eat as much as you want of those they wont make you gain weight.Basically try to get yourself in the habit of eating at certains times and not filling yourself with junk food.
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It is about this really cute girl at my school and I dont know what to do! Her name is Maria and I cant let her go out with anybody else so help me please badly?
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well the only way you can stop her from going out with someone else is to ask her out urself just go up to her and ask her if she wants to go watch a movie or go out for dinner with you the sooner you ask the better because if you wait she might end up liking someone else and then going out with that person. I know it can be kinda hard to ask someone else but if you really like her then you can do it just keep thinking about how fun your date would be and how it would be awesome to just hang out with her and maybe be her bf good luck:)
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okay, i wanna loose up to 10 pds before summer starts. it starts in about alomst a month or so and i dont know how to keep a daily diet and how to stop me from eating bad and unhealthy foods. im 16 and 5'4 and weigh 151. any suggestions pleaseee?
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just give up sugary drinks/food and foods that are heavy oily or hve a lot of cheese just doing that will make a difference and you should also work out for 30mins on the side heres what you should eat and do
Morning: wake up early go for a walk come home exercise crunches,situps,weight lifting then make yourself an omelette with toast and have skim milk and a few fruits on the side or if you dont want eggs get special K and have a bowl with skim milk.
Lunch: Eat a light salad or fruits and veggies you can have dip with the veggies but not a lot and drink fresca which is juice without sugar but tastes awesome or have water or milk.
Dinner: Have fish, noodles, pasta with only a little cheese,red meat or boiled veggies.
If you get hungry in the middle of any of these meals have fruits or veggies because they dont make you gain anything you can have as much as you want. Also have a lot of water!!!!
Hope this helps feel free to ask me anything if you need more help:D
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17/f. well im 5'6", and around 127-130 (it fluctuates) and im trying to lose some weight for summer. i want to get back down to 115-120, my preferred range. i dont want a lecture about im already at a good weight and ill be too skinny then. ive been drinking alot of green tea, eating less, and consuming more fiber/protein, and taking these 800mg all natural green tea dietary pills. what i want to know is, how much weight can i expect to lose with these supplements and tea? ive been exercising too, but not alot. i just want to know about the effects of green tea on my weight loss. thank you! (link)
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hey k well first of all i drink green tea too but it doesnt really help you lose weight it just burns the fat inside of you and so in order to actually lose the weight you need to be eating fruits and veggies more and no junk food or anything thats heavy or oily and secondly the pills wont help you they might help you lose a few pounds but as soon as u stop eating them you'll gain it back cause remember eventually you will eat junk food its not like you can stop eating that stuff forever so what i have been doing is getting up at 7am every morning going for a long walk coming home and doing some exercises then eat eggs and toast with a side of fruit and either skim milk or green tea and then everytime i get hungry i eat fruits and veggies and that fills me up and then at dinner i usually have fish or pasta with only a little cheese and ive lost a lot of weight so basically just not have any sugary,oily,fatty foods or sugary drinks will make a lot of difference you will end up seeing results in just the first week and if you break out alot your face will become pimple/acne free :) feel free to msg me if you need anymore help
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so i heard that i doctor can tell whether a girl is a virgin or not.
what is it that they look at that indicates whether or not they have had sex? (link)
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they cant tell you either tell them or they ask you sometimes they can tell by trying to fix any medical problems you might have also im thinking they can tell by looking at a girl.
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So I'm applying for a class officer position at school, and one of my teachers is a class sponsor. She told me that one of the questions they would ask would be:
How would you get more people to come and decorate that hallways and make floats during spirit week?
Basically, how would I up attendance to meetings and activities. I don't want crappy answers like "say there will be food" or "make lots of announcements" because DUH.
I need really creative answers that will show that I deserve the position. (link)
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K well for the decorating thing get people to come out by making it fun make it sort of like an amusement park without the rides get different stations set up for people to help out in and have a food section and have a movie playing in the gym so that after the decorating is done people can chill out and watch a movie or make it a dance room and jus make it like a school dance/spirit week prep and for the stations just have people working at one station for awhile and then keep switching so they have worked at every station and the work will be done faster. And for the second for meetings and attendance make a rule that if they want to be on the commitee they have to show up to every meeting and have food and like music and make it fun by just letting everyone get into groups and talk about everything at first and then get everyone together and discuss everything they talked about individually.
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Ok, so I'm 19/m lost mad weight and now I'm trying to look alittle better everything on me is skinny for the most part but my belly and I was woundering if there's anything I could do to lose the belly.... also I was woundering what work outs I could do at home (I don't got a gym membership can't really afford that or weights) like pecs, bicep, calf, forearm.. so just any little thing just to help me look better would be a big help. THANKS! (link)
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sit ups, crunches, jumping jacks and running will help a lot truthfully anything that makes you break a swet will help you lose weight as long as it involved moving fast and feeling the stretch you should probably go to google as well and type in the body part you want to work out and then write exercises and you should get a lot of responses also workout videos online or on tv will help too.
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I've had acne issues since i was 12, and i am now 17 and ive always had oily skin. When i was about 14, i started getting acne all over my chest, and a year later i also had it on my back. nothing has worked and i had heard about accutane and my dermatologist said i would do good on since since nothing has worked. i hated the fact that i would scar and not be able to wear tank tops because of my acne. Now i finally got my prescription.
Problem is that ive noticed in the past month my acne started to subside... and I never had cysts or anything, maybe one or two here and there...but i did have a lot of pimples, some big... but now my skin looks better than ever and i feel as though taking accutane would not be good since im getting better on my own...
what can you guys tell me about it, and is it okay to take?
btw, my skin goes through times when it's better and i get hopefull but then it gets bad again...
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Try proactive its the best and it works for everyone and for every skin type the results will start to show after 3 days of use you can order online or go to your nearby drug store and get it heres the website if you want to get more information about it
http://www.proactiv.com/
good luck:D
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I think I am too fed up with living here with "them" making out in my house all the time. So... I want to switch schools and start a fresh start next year. The school is only 15 minutes away. My question is how can I be sure that I will make new friends.. just being myself, smiling, being outgoing and such is not working here.. so how can i be sure it will at the new school? People are confusing. Maybe im just thinking too hard..?. (link)
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first of all i would like to say im sorry for taking so long but ive been busy but to answer your question just be yourself dont try to change yourself because it wont work i know you are confused and are worried about wheather you will get any friends but you just have to be talkative get people to know who you are when you enter a class dont sit in the back of the class sit in the front or the middle introduce yourself to people and talk about things that they might be into just by looking at them you can sometimes tell what they like and if you want complement them and just get to know them and you will have good friends in no time. Being a good friend takes just as much effort as choosing a friend so be patient and dont worry so much just remember if you change yourself the people will know because its just not you. I hope i helped :D
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Ok so i have this friend named Bryan and I have liked him for about a year and a half, and never told anybody anybody about it. I have this other "friend" named Melissa, and i find her quite bitchy and annoying. So they are both apart of our circle of fiends... and i just found out that they are dating.. I am really upset, and I don't know what to do. I mean like I feel as though I can never be with him anymore. UGH. And everyone thinks that this is totally out of the blue and they don't like it either.. PLEASE HELPP WHAT SHOULD I DOO?!? (link)
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well you cant really do anything these two are going out because they like eachother but if you still like him and want to be with him then tell him maybe if he likes you enough he will dump her for you or you could just wait until they break up which if they have nuthing in common will be soon also.
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i need some help with dieting im a little over weight and i want to lose it any ideas with help on food, exercising pretty much everything (link)
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okay well im losing weight too and my diettition told me to stop eating fatty foods and junk food and so thats what ive been doing and im starting to lose weight so frist things first stop eating junk food and fatty food only eat veggies and fruits and soup and eggs and subway is good too and drink skim milk and water no sugary drinks or foods either and make sure you go for 30min walks everyday and you could jus look up some workout videos online and find a space in your house and workout that way and you could do pushups, crunches and other exercises right at home if you dont feel like going to a gym.this will be hard because you'll be tempted to eat your fav foods but stick to healthy foods only k and also green tea will help lots too. good luck :D
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I bought a strapless dress for Prom, but you know that fat that kind of...comes over the top of the dress? like above your boobs, next to your underarms?? I need to learn some kind of workout that can target that general area. I have like little 5 pound weights I can work with, but I'm willing to go out and buy something else if I need to. Does anyone know of a workout or some link they can give me to help???
Thanks! (link)
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well i do side steps it where you stand up straight you keep your knees straight no matter what and you take your left and hand and touch your right foot and your right hand goes to your left foot and you should start off slow and then go really fast also pushups and lifting weights will help too.
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i asked a question earlier about the adobe flash player. my computer wont let me download it. i figured out that you have to uninstall your latest version of flash player that you have to be able to download the newer one. so i uninstalled the flash player that i did have. and then i retstarted windows..and tried to download it again. but then i clicked on the link i had to download it, a box came up that kept asking me to uninstall my latest flash player. so i would do it again..then click on the link..then the box would come up again. and my computer still wont let me download flash player..even after i do that whole internet option's thing.
what am i doing wrong? this is really starting to frustrate me.
thank's for all your help.
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well you might have deleted it from one part of your computer but theres always copies off the same thing in the computer so go through your whole computer and make sure its not saved in any other files.
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Are there semi-permanent perms at the drugstore? I like really tight curls, but I don't want to put my hair in foam rollers every night. I also don't want my hair to be permanently like that forever, I just want my hair curly while it's short. I full intend to keep my hair in its natural texture once it gets long. (link)
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Well even if you get it permenatly permed that way it would only last for a few months to a year so it would really be permenant so you could just go to a salon get it done and im sure that in a few months it will wear off.
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Basically I started feeling unwell this morning.
I am not pregnant, although have been trying for months, but keeps coming back negative, and have been having my periods as normal.
I came on my period today but its not the normal monthly pains.
I came down with the symptoms almost instantly , they include:
Feeling Sick
Headaches
V Painful abdominal pains
Urinating frequently
Painful when urinating
Very blocked nose, and when I sniff its sore and sends a pain to my eyes
I don't think its a UTI because the sickness is quite immense, along with the headaches.
I never normally feel this ill, infact, my immune system is amazingly good, however over the last few months, I have been getting ill on a regular basis. Any help would be greatly appreciated (link)
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I think your just having a bad fever you should probably go to a doctor and have him/her give you a prescription or something cause it could get worse if you dont go see a doctor.
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Hi.
I am looking for my first job, and I'm 18. I've never had a job before because I couldn't balance school & work at the same time, and nobody was looking. A lot of places said they'd call if they had positions, but they never did. I have not graduated from highschool, nor am I currently attending school, because I moved out of my house, and it's too late in the year to go back. I am going to school for my GED in September, but would like a job to have some money until then.
I just have some questions. When they ask for professional references, who do I put? I have some references who are professional, but they're friends & I know some places dislike personal references even though that's all I have. I don't know what to put, or who to put. Also, since I haven't had a job before what do I put when they ask for previous employment? If I have never had jobs & they ask for a resume, can I still put together a resume?
I know how to give interviews because I have had one before, but I didn't get the job. If you have any information that you might find helpful, please add it. :) All help is appreciated, thank you in advance! (link)
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well for professional references you could write down a few teachers names make sure you call them or you have a close adult be your reference. And as for previous employment dont write anything just explain to the person interviwing you or the person you give your resume to that you have never worked before. You can definitly put a resume together just go to google if your not sure how to make one. good luck :D
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18 male
ok so this past weekend i was hanging out with a couple friends noah, john, megan... and i really like noah well theres one problem hes straight... anyway i ended up making out with his best friend john to make him jelouse well yeah that didnt work so the next day i ended up haveing sex with my best friend chris to get over noah... is what i did right? what should i do? (link)
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well its not wrong because its not like you were in a relationship with noah so your free to do whatever you want to.
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Okay so i started talking to this guy, andy, and like we hung out twice and kinda hooked up but like thats all that happened. we talk a lot and stuff but i were not like dating or exclusive..we've never talked about that and i think it would be way to early anyway..but i hooked up with this other guy and i'm not sure if i should like feel bad about andy..i'm not like going to tell him but..since we're not dating or exclusive do you think its okay to hook up with other guys still? (link)
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of course its okay to hook up with other guys because your not going out with andy so you cant hurt him or be cheating on him so until he asks you to be his gf your free to see whoever you want to.
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I am 19 and my parents dont really allow me to do much. I feel like a child. My friends all make fun of me for being under such close watch and not being allowed to go places and do things like most 19 or 18 year old do, because i always have to ask my parents and hope that they will permit me to do something... I have no freedom. I've fairly recently gotten in trouble for trying to go out, because I said so, and I was like... its time to stop being controlled by my parents and get out and have some fun.
I had to deceive my parents so that i could do what i wanted to do. I couldn even leave the house without my mom looking out the door to see who was picking me up and to see if they were there yet...etc.... I didnt know my mom was going to follow me to the door, so that foiled my plan. I was going to walk up the road, but my mom was like "no, tell your friend to come pull up infront of the door". And then she saw that it was a male friend and not the female friend i told her it was. I got in a lot of trouble and got yelled at and lectured.. Now my parents say they dont trust me and i cant go anywhere or do anyyything. My friends say "you're 19, you can do what you want....etc."..
I want to know if it would be f***ed up or not if I were to just slip out the house and move one day and not tell my parents anything until I get there. I want to live with a certain guy, but, i mean, when i am ready to move in with him and when i'm sure thats what i want to do. And I will call my parents from my new residence, or better yet text them and be like "umm.... yeah.... i moved..."
They dont even want me meeting with this guy. They dont want me to meet with no guy or do anything. And I am so tired of my parents! I need to get away from them! I'm not going to even bother with introducing them to the guy, because they wont want me with him cuz he's 22 and i told my mom a little bit about him and she's like "you dont need to be with him. you dont need to be with anybody. You need to focus on school and focus on gettin yourself together first (work on myself in terms of anxiety problems etc.)" They just want to keep me as their boyfriend-less child for as long as they possibly can.
And I dont want to bother with telling them i plan on moving out. So do you think it would be messed up if i just moved out, and in with this guy, and just told them about it after the fact? Just so they know what happened to me.. and that way they cant do anything about it (link)
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I dont think its messed up that you want to move out at all because your 19 your practically an adult and you have your own decisions to make. So if your sure this guy is the one you want to live with then you should find a place and just do it but i think before deciding you want to move in with him think about how your relationship is and if hes truly okay for you to be with but i think you should wait for a few months until u move in with him instead find a place and find a femal roomate stay with her for a little while until you get to know this guy better then move in with him. The reason im saying this is because sometimes guys act different when there just going out with u and when they move in with you and start living with you they change and start to say they need space and what not so really think about this with an open mind. As for your parents just leave them because they cant treat the way they have been forever and until the change your going to stay away from them. hope i helped feel free to msg again if you need to talk about anything. :D
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Can I by any chance hide that? Even if I have my webcam plugged in. Like. So the other people can't see if I have a webcam or not?
If i can. How do i do it?
I have the newest MSN Messenger. (link)
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I tried that too but unfortunatly no it doesnt go away the only way to get rid of it is to unplug
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