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I've heard many times the "You'll know when you're ready" line. I was wondering, HOW do you know when you're ready to lose your virginity?

youll know when your ready!jk!when you get married is a good idea! but when your with a guy who you love and who loves you then thats a good time too. but i dont mean teen love i mean true love. if your in college your good to go!hope i helped!

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ok so my best friend likes this guy and i was like o ok but i didn't know him. well tonight we hung out with him all night and now i think i like him!! is that a bad thing? and what should i do if he askes me out?

if you like him then go out with him! and if he picks you over her you should just follow your heart!hope helped

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ok i think that my friends hate me. the one who used to be my bestfriend is now best friends with my other best friend and she like ignores me and is always hanging out with her. when i invited her over she said my mom said i an't but it turns out she was lieing, she was having my other friend over and didn't even bother asking me when i had just asked her over. my other friends are re4ally mean to me so i guess u can they aren't really my friends. but a part of me wants to be friends. i just really wanna get away from it all. i love to act and i know this is gonna sound wierd but sometimes i just feel like becoming famous and moving to l.a. or something.idk. i need help i don't know what to do.

talk to your friends. ask them if they're mad at you. maybe its just because your friend had something important to do or your friends might be under too much stress to hang out with friends a lot.

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Hey Ive been reading up on food records and the like, also read that some recent record breakers have won thousands of bucks in food competitions (and these guys are actually pro eaters- lol). Anyway, I have always been really good at speed eating and after some experiments I know I can take these guys. What I need to know is how the hell does one find those competitions? I tried internet searches and all they give me is something like "join our hickville chilli cookout"... I am really keen to find some of these events so I will gladly rate anyone that is helpful 5.

interesting question but to tell you the truth i have no idea what your gonna have to do to enter one of those contests. but if you find out good luck!

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I haven't seen my mother for 9 years, I'm 14. She's been on methampthetamines my entire life. I just got word today of where she is, I talked to her about 3 years ago. I need to go see her so that I can get over the fact that she will never be my mom. I just need some advice on what to say to her, and I really want to tell her to stop doing methampthetamines. I know that I won't be able to help her, but I just need some advice on how to deal with the fact that I will never have her as my mom, and that I will never be able to help her. I know it's hard to answer, but please, if anyone can help me. The pressure is too much, I'm seeing her this weekend. Please help me. I have no one else to turn to.

no matter what shes still your mom. youll love her for whatever she is right? hety you might be able to help her. maybe you can tell her how much you love her everyday. maybe that will make her realize that she shouldnt be on a drug when she has a kid who loves her so much. i really hope i helped!

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well theres this guy and me were not going out, but we always talk and we always make plans to do stuff and go places and he always talks to me and even flirts alot and he does alot of thing he does with me that he doesnt do with other people so i know he likes me and he knows i like him but today i found out that he has a girlfriend and im just really crushed like just miserable cause i liek this guy alot hes like greatest guy ive met, but what should i do, just stay strong or spill out my feelings to him? any suggestions? ill rate high
and sorry so long!

well this just happened to me too! i say stay strong, be his friend till his gf is out of the way. thats what im doing. hope i helped!

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At youth tonight, these two guys were like flirting with me and my two friends. They sat down by me, pointed at us, looked at us, and asked me for my number. And my friends and I were like laughing because they were doing this. We didn't like them either. It was just so funny. And then we had to leave early because we had this dance. And they like followed us out the door and we were like bye. It was kind of funny. But the guy that I like was there, like on the next couch. And would us laughing would have made him think that we liked those boys that were hitting up on us or what? I hope that it didn't, because we really weren't. And why were those guys doing that? They go to a different school and are older. Thanks and I rate.

well those guys were hitting on you. and they were doing this cuz men are slavedrivers that treat women like they're bitches. next time this happens dont laugh, guys are pigs!

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Ok ive been tryin so hard to get back with my ex and so far it was working, he called me everyday and i called him everyday. everything was going good, we were getting closer and all. but one day he calls tells me he heard that i said something really bad behind his back and hes so hurt because of what i "said". but i didnt say it! and he wont believe me, but when i hear bad things about him he gets mad at me for believing and later convinces me its not true. so why cant he believe me this one time hes actually heard something thats not true about me? he wont call me, he wont talk to me! what do i do?

slip a romantic note into his locker or something that will probably get him back.hope i helped!

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I went out with a guy for 3 months and we eventually told eachother we loved eachother and we both meant it. he dumped me and i have never gotten over it. Recently my friend told me that he is thinking about getting back together. Should we try again or just stay friends?

you should get back together if your still not over him. but this may be a big joke hes playing on you, maybe yuo shouldnt trust him.

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ok, i have stretch marks on the the sides or my butt..is that normal n if so what can i do 2 fix it?

its normal its just because your butt probably grew. but its a good thing to actually have a butt.

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I have hair that is a little longer than shoulder length, layered, and stick straight. I would really like to do shiny mermaid waves in my hair---you know, those waves that are very un-frizzed and soft looking...does anyone know how to do these?

well you can use like tons of conditioner. thats what i do usually. my advice is wash your hair, use A LOT of conditioner, i preffer dove hair products,then blow dry your hair. then put your hair in a bunch of braids in your hair. for a bigger wave do a looser braid.hope i helped!

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I did gymnastics at one gym for 4 years. Then I switched to another gym because I didn't like the gym I was at. So then I go to one practice at this gym, only me and my friend from school showed up. I liked it then. Then the other night I went for the second practice. I didn't like it. There was a bunch of people and I like smaller groups and I could just hear them whispering about me and I wasn't comfortable with that. So now that I told my mom I just wanted to quit and then she says I need to go to the mental hospital because I can't make up my mind and that I need to go see a therapist and that I am not going on our school trip to Canada in May BECAUSE I WANT TO QUIT! Why spend money on gymnastics if I am not having fun there?! I really want to go to Canada with my school but she won't let me now! And I have to go to a mental hospital cuz I can't make up my mind?!! WTF. Seriously. I wish she would just go fucking live somewhere else FAR away so I never have to see her EVER again. She makes my life fucking MISERABLE. Now I have to go see a therapist, again! I want to die, or I want her to die. ITS NO FAIR. Wtf do I do?

ya know what your mom is a retard. she wants you to move out!?omg i say just refuse to do what she says or dont say a word to the therapist. ignore him. act like he or your mom isnt there. i really hop i helped!dont kill yourself!please!

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Me and my girlfriend are going out.We have goten in trouble twice for macking out in school and people are spreading rumors about us . We both want to stay yo gether but its going in the back of our mind that we want to break it off too. We also cant hangout with each other.I dont think its fair to the both of us . should i break it off or try to keep the relationship

well if its that hard for you two to then break up. but if you really love her then stay together, who cares what other people think. do what ever you want!glad to help!

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I have to switch schools (7th grade) and I'm so nervous. I have cramps in my stomach and I feel like I'm going to puke. I have talked to friends over the phone about it and they say I'll do fine but I don;t about that. Please, someone tell me what I can do to reduce nervousness of this change?

why are you so nervous?if its because of being unliked then just go with the flow! find out whats new and whats cool and do it. i dont mean transfer yourself completely.if its about grades and stuff then just try really hard

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ok...there is this guy that i like and we flirt alot...my friends told me that he says im hott and that he likes me...he always stares at me and when we play football, hes always guarding me, grabbing me around the waist, and running into me...i know hes doing this on purpose cause hes a great football player and there is no way that he would mess up like that...well i know everything might seem great, but theres one problem, HE HAS A G/F!!!...she doesnt go to our school and he never talks about her...i really like this guy and i dont know what to do...since your a guy, can you tell me what hes thinking and what i should do??THANKS SO MUCH ~ ♥ ~

well im not a guy but just enjoy how much he likes you even if he does have a gf.at least he likes you and just dont worry about whats not your bussiness. hey maybe they broke up.glad to help!

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Now I know most people say "Oh I hate school!", but really, I do. I get made fun of so much but I try to brush it off because I don't want to seem like a weak person. One girl and a few of her friends call me a dike whenever they see me. I don't know why, I'm not; I don't know what gave them that idea. One kid calls me fat and makes fun of the clothes I wear. For one, I'm not fat... I'm not the skinnest person ever, but I sure as hell am not fat. Then theres this other guy, who also makes fun of the clothes I wear. For instance today I had a Sid Vicious shirt on and he harrassed me the whole way home about it. "Oh my god he killed his girlfriend" "Sid Vicious is so gay" "I hate the sex pistols" "You're a loser if you listen to them" I really have had it and I'm really sick of school, I just can't put up with it anymore and have no idea of what to do. I want to drop out so bad, I just can't put up with people and there stupid jokes. Anybody know what I can do about this. I really don't want to talk to anybody about it but I just don't know what else I can do. -kate

I'm not saying change yourself, i just saying make your outfits the same but maybe a little bit sexier like wear super tight jeans and a sid visious t-shirt. thats what i do but i wear ramones shirts (ramones rock!)hope i helped!

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