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There this new guy in Early childhood class and he is the only guy in it and he lives next to me.I REALLY like him and I told my friend that and she is all over him.Then I asked her if she liked him and she said ewww no!!! I cant get my mind off of him.I think he likes my friend because no doubt she is really pretty.But everytime we see each at home he says hi in a really hot way and smiles and then he goes hola to me.He is soo hot.Should I make the first move or should I try to forget about him.I rate high!!! (link)
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Go talk to the guy this is your opportunity don't lose it.Give him compiments like about what he's wearing,ask him about what he thinks about you and about himself.As far as your friend she should go find another guy rather than him.He difinitely likes you for sure!Good luck!
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So this girl I'm not friends w/ anymore got REALLY SKINNY and she thinks she needs to lose a couple more pounds when she's really tall and is like 20 lbs under weight!!! Her friends (that I'm still friends w/) tell me that she hasn't been eating much anymore and I'm worried about her but I don't want to get involved in it bc technically it's none of my business since I ended the friendship (although the girl doesn't seem to realize this) And her friend told me that a bunch of people tried talking to the girl's mom about her not eating and her mom didn't do anything about it. We're all concered but aren't obsessing over it yet. What should my role in this be? Should I stay out of it or should I talk to her about it??? (link)
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You should stay out of it and have a friend of yours convince her that she doesn't need to lose more weight and that she looks fine the way she is.Your role is to just check up on her to see that she is not starving herself but you don't have to do anything else you have no obligation what so ever.
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I've been with my boyfriend for over two years, and I love him more than anything in the world. I've never cheated on him and I've never even thought about it. But last night I had a dream that I had sex with another guy. I don't know who he was, but it really wierd. And in my dream I was freaking out that my boyfriend might find out about it and that he'd be pissed at me. When I woke up this morning I called my boyfriend and told him about the dream and he's taking it really hard. He's really hurt and he thinks that I might be interested in having sex with other people, BUT I'M NOT. I don't know why I had this dream, and I don't know what to do or say to make him feel better. Another thing is that my boyfriend is in the military- and we don't get to see eachother very often, so he's probably really worried something is going on back at home with me and someone else, but honestly there isn't. I need to figure out why I had this dream, and what I can do to cheer up my boyfriend. Any advice would be awesome, thanks. (link)
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Tell him that you love him and that it didn't mean anything and that how could he doubt you.Be patient right now he's upset also comfort him spend as much time possible with him and keep telling him that you love him and no matter what you will never cheat on him and that how would he feel if he had a dream like that and wouldn't he want you to understand him that it was just a dream nothingelse.Don't worry he will get over it.Trust me.Don't feel bad.
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ok sry this is so long but i need help
i went out with this one guy for like 2 years and he was my first kiss, first make out and everything and i broke it off with him about 2 months ago
well i have a new boyfriend now and im crazy about him but i still kinda have feelings for my ex-boyfriend i told my friends about it and they said it was normal to not forget ur first love they said what iwas feeling was just memories and
i dont have real feelings for him anymore??
r they right what do u guyz think???
i'll rate high! (link)
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Yeah you still may have feelings for him but you just probably may not notice it but you have a boyfriend you must choose who you love or choose to be with because if you don't you may regret it.I mean the guy was your first love so basically it's going to take time to have no more feelings for him but I'm sure you're boyfriend will be able to get him out of your mind but one thing is for sure he will never take his place.If you think about your first love do something to keep you busy so you won't think about him at least for a while it will.Do what keeps you moving and what you enjoy!Live the moment!
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my best mate moved yesturday and it is kinda really borin wid out him and everyone seems to be deppressed and i dunno why but i am too yet i know he is still ma best mate he is likea brother to me and for the last 1 and half years i have spoke to him evry mornin when he was walking his dog and i need help on how i can deal with the changes to my rutine and social life please reply as it is important (link)
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Being in changes that make your life seem unfair well I had friends who would move out,I never seen them again which got me sad but then I was able to meet other people,and if I can so can you.Dealing with it will make you stronger,make new friends with classmates or neighbors,find ones that are not bad people,who seem like real friends,as for your rountine keep it organized so you don't get mixed up with your plans have a planner or have a schedule for your daily rountine.You should also make plans ahead,always check it before you start to make some changes.Remember you,your best mate will always be friends wherever he is at long distance does not mean you too are no longer friends you should keep in touch with him and when you do tell him how much you missed him which will show him you are a true friend who cares.
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Lets say my period is normal .. well I had it on Aug. 9 of this year and finished Aug. 16th would that mean I would get it again a month from when I started or a month from when it finished? Thankss and what days should i be concerned that its close? (link)
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No probably not sometimes your period may come at a different day when you at least expect it.Always be ready and prepared when that happens.You should be concerned it's close when you don't get your period for more than a month and a half.
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Me and two of my girlfriends were inseparable until one day one of them stopped speaking to another. She, who is Jewish, confided in me and said that because my other friends’ religion believes in Jesus Christ, she can no longer tolerate her. Finally, she got up the nerve and emailed my “Jesus” believer friend stating that she will no longer be friends with her. My “Jesus” friend was devastated; she couldn’t understand what is going on. I couldn’t either because my “Jewish” friend had stopped calling me also. She could go for days, sometimes weeks without calling me. I couldn’t believe that they just ended their friendship like that. Finally, I saw my “Jewish” friend at a birthday party, after not seeing her for 3 months and she was acting like nothing happened. I don’t know how to act around her when I will see her next. We both socialize with the same people, so it’s no doubt I will see her somewhere again soon! I don’t know if by hanging with my “Jewish” friend I am hurting my “Jesus” friends’ feelings. My “Jesus” friend has married into a “Jesus” family and now doesn’t hang with any of her old girlfriends besides me. What should I do?
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You should try talking to your Jesus friend about this , you shouldn't hide this becuase eventually she'll fin out,things will go worse so tell her that diffrence in religion should not matter when you just want to be friends with someone,that god said himself that all us of should get along like brothers , sisters, and that it doesn't matter how different we are.As far as your friend who believes in Jesus you should keep the friendship,try convincing your"Jewish" friend that why should it matter what religion you are just to be friends with someone if you don't convince her then you would have to choose one of them.Good luck!
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OK so on wednesday i start highschool. In my geometry there r 4 other freshman(2 best friends, and a set of twins) nd the rest r all snobby sophomores. This means that sometimes, i will have sophomore-junior lunch. Im really nervous about that, cus i dont know who i will sit with. I can just picture myself walking in the cafeteria, with no one to eat my lunch with. What should i do? I cant switch out of my geometry class, and im really sensitive, so i wood be totally bummed. Pleeees help me !!! (link)
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Bring in your cd player or walkman or bring in something to read so you won't be bored.It is normal if you don't have any people to sit next to,talk because you just started school and if you see a classmate of yours in the cafeteria sit next to him/her,talk to them like about the work you have,introduce yourself,have a good conversation with them so you too could become friends.
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okay so i have to wake up at 6 tomorrow for school because my bus comes around 630.. well what are some good suggestions so that i wont be so sleepy in the morning.. like should i eat an apple before i go to school to keep me up? (link)
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Drink coffee or put your alarm clock at the time you should wake up to dress up,eat breakfast,brush your teeth,and all.Also go to sllep early so you could be able to get up early which is another good idea.
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Me and my b\f have been going out for almost 4 months. With all of my exes they usually say I love you within the first month or so. Is it a sign that he doesn't love me if he hasn'tr said it...if not what are some signs that he does love e. (link)
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If you tell him you love him,he doesn't tell you so it's because he doesn't love you back.But if that is the case then you just have to wait,also if you are very caring,nice to the guy,being there for him,showing him that love doesn't have a price like when he want's to fill you with gifts then you tell hin you don't need that,what the only thing you care about is him, which will show him you really love him,and sooner or later he will fall in love with you for sure trust me.
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13/m Ever since I tried to show my crush how much I loved her, she's had something to do whenever I try to talk to her. Like just now. We were both on AIM, but she had her Away Message on. After a while, she turns off her Away Message, and so I say hi, and all of a sudden her little brother wants to go ride bikes. This has happened about two or three times. Is she ignoring me? Is she trying to give me the slip? I really need advice here... (link)
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Maybe she is just scared or busy lately you never know like there are times when I have to either go somewhere or I have things to do that I can't write back to a friend or the people but when I can I answer as soon as I can.Does she know you like her?Do you know if she likes you?You should keep trying to talk to this girl don't give up if you are really interested in her.
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ok this guy likes me (two of my friends told me) and i sorta like him back but i dont know if its a joke does anyone know what i should do?? thanks!!
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Simply have a friend of yours ask him if he likes you and to give you the message or someone you get along with but tell them that if he askes why to tell him that they are just curious and heard it from rumors that's all.
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I am in a tough thing right now I am going to have to pick where i wanna go to school next year and for kindergarden i went to a public school then i switched to a catholic school and was there for ALOT of years. Now next year for high school i have to decide where i want to go. Do I want to go back to public or go to another catholic school?? everyone from my catholic school wants me to stay at a catholic school and ppl and public skools want me to go back to public. What should I do??? (link)
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Pick the one you want to go to not because people want you to it's your decision.In a catholic school is very good but also you have to be paying money to attend there and take classes.But a public school is free and you will see a lot of people at that level attend there.If you feel that you got used to be in a catholic,like it there then don't go to a public school but if you feel you want to try something new then pick a public school.Your choice.
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ILL RATE 5'S NO MATTER WHAT!
I met this guy last week who was really interested in me but I wasn’t as interested in him(I was “talking” to one of his friends). Well we hooked up that weekend and told me he likes me. He called me everyday this week and I started to realize I liked him too and he asked me out on Thursday. Well we hung out this weekend and I started to REALLY like him but he didn’t treat me like a girlfriend at all. When we were with his friends he showed no affection whatsoever but when we were alone he would hug me and hold my hand and stuff. I talked to one of his best friends about it and he told me he would talk to him. On Saturday night my boyfriend called me and told me we should go back to just “talking” because he felt we were moving too fast and that going out with someone is a big step to him. I talked to his best friend and his best friend told me that he was the kind of guy who only showed affection when him and his gf are alone. He told me that my bf still really likes me but wants to slow things down. We were supposed to hang out on Sunday even though we aren’t goin out(he said we are still going to talk and hang out) but he called me and pretended like we never made plans of hanging out. I don’t know what I should do because I really like him (I’ve dated many guys this summer/school year but I’ve liked him the most and I think it’s because I feel like we actually connect).. should I go after him even though he could be leading me on? Or should I just forgot about him even though maybe we can make things work out?
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Since this guy is someone you really like you should go after him and try to make things work out with him definitely.This guy is someone understandable,reasonable don't you like the fact that he likes keep things going slow or would you rather want him to speed things up?I would suggest to be patient when you think you have spend enough time together then speak to him about getting into making out,and stuff like that.Another thing you should know is some guys don't like kissing their girlfriend in front of their friends but not because they don't like their girlfriend but because they don't feel comfortable.
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There's this kid , and he's in my junior high class. He hangs out with all the biaches in my class, and his "girlfriend", but all they really do is make-out at parties and stuff. But anyways, in other words, he hangs out with the popular crowd. He never talks to me, and now he's acting wierd. Opening doors for me, just stuff like that. i'm getting really suspicious. Can anyone tell me what he might be up to? (link)
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This boy may be wanting to have something with you and play you like the other girls.Don't expect that he will want something serious with you he wants you to like him like the rest of those girls and then have fun with you.Plus he has a girlfriend so you should not get into illusions with the guy you're better off with someone who is single and has a nice personality.
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are there any other sites like this one..wherepeple ask advice and others give it to them? (link)
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you could go to www.matmice.com,www.wondir.com,teencentral.com,www.teenadvice.com,and www.studentcenter.org
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what are some good scary movies? (link)
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Some are like the Texas Massacre,It Stephen King,Troll I,Troll II,Freddy V.S Jason,Ghost Ship,Fear dot.com,and the House of Wax.
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for school i have this project to do to present a hobby but i cant think of one (link)
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There are lots of hobbies that you could represent like competing in games,a sport you're good at or some other talent like singing,cooking,making a book,others,etc..What do you like to do daily?Whatever it is make it a hobby to represent it for the project and make it interesting.
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I`m a pretty funny person and I`m average looking, I`m not popular but somehow every time I like a guy we end up going out. I don`t have a problem with this but everytime I get a boyfriend we go out for 3 or 4 days then I break up with him. Like my attention will actracted to another guy or something . Sometimes me and the first guy will get back together then break up again. What should I do ? I hate doing this all the time. (link)
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What you should do is try to make it work out by not arguing,disagreeing with things,show the guy how interested you are in the relationship,spending time with him when he wants you to be,and always being nice to him.You should tell them that you want the relationship to go right and not end up breaking up.You should also tell him you want to get to know about him like his family,his personnal interests,and his dreams which will show him that you really like him which will make him want to be with you and not break up with you.
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My mom is friend's with this lady [40] who is gay. You wouldn't think she was but she told me. Well, I go to work with the lady and when i [13] sleep over we sleep in the same bed because i dont like sleeping on the couch. Does that make me gay because i've heard if you sleep with a gay person thas makes you gay? 13/f .. [ i dont think it is true ]
and are you born gay? (link)
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No that does not mean you're gay unless you too do something like makeout or have intimacy but you didn't do anything with her.You are not born gay sice that is what you're asking it just something that could happen when you're at a small age or as you grow older and makes you feel different from others becuase other people like their same type of sex so some get treated badly because of that and most are not accepted by those they care about like their parents.
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