im always here to help im really good at giving advice mostly about teenage problems not like my computer software crap! look im not supa smart, ask me questions that i'll know. but other than that im great! that doesnt mean i wont have questions of my own im still learning too so if i dont answer a question of yours than dont get mad b.c i havnt been through it. im very honost to people so if u ask i will certainly tell thats my motto! Just one more thing people if you dont like the way i type then get over it. thats how i am and its not like im typing to some important person. well you are but not that important!
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When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it? (link)
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i never expect someone to be nice to me as much because i was nice to them sometimes i help people out without them knowing it it feels good b.c they dont know you did it and made thier life a little bit easier!
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sometimes when i wake up in the morning and look in the mirror i have blood all over my teeth and my lips are all brown because it's dried blood (cus i have to sleep with my mouth open cus im a severe allergy sufferer). I know that it's not chocolate or anything because i always brush my teeth at night and my teeth are fine. this has happened to me probably 5 times, once at a sleepover (!) which made me rush to the bathroom really quick before anyone else saw. does anyone have any advice as to how to stop this and does anyone have the slightest idea what it could be (and why) it's happening? thanks. (link)
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i have a feeling its dry lips. do u have dry lips becuase when u sleep with your mouth open and you strech your lips it rips in a way and bleeds!
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People say everyone deserves a second chance, but what if you never had a first chance?
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yes everyone deserves a second chance. the first chance thing i have done that and uk what it changed my life completly. and im happy for making that 1st chance.!
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ok well im really confused! here's the situation: im 13 and me & my boyfriend have been together for over 2 years. i know he really loves me and we're like best friends too. he tells me he wants to stay together forever and someday get married (i know that probably wont happen, but anyway...)
the problem is he flirts with other girls all the time. its like hes trying to get them to like him, or make them think he likes them. ive told him like a zillion times how bad it makes me feel. he'll stop for a while, but then he'll do it again. sometimes i get the feeling he really does like another girl and wishes he could go out with her. it makes me so jealous and mad and i hate feeling that way.
so i asked my sister and brother for advice. my sister says: i should dump him. that if he really loved me, he wouldnt be interested in other girls and would care about my feelings. she says he wants his cake and eat it too and i shouldnt let him do that. she thinks hes just keeping me around until he finds someone he likes better and then he'll dump me.
but my brother says: its just harmless flirting thats normal for a boy his age. that most relationships our age dont last this long so its only natural for his mind to wander sometimes. but since hes stayed with me for all this time it must mean he really loves me. so my brother thinks i should stay with him and not let it bother me.
sooooo... who do you think is right??? (link)
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ok naturally i would listen to who is more experienced with this. think has your sister gone out with many guys for a while? and for longer than you? if not dont listen to her i would listen to your brother because one he is a guy and two he would know from a guys mind. you have been going out for a while he mite be bored with you but doesnt want to let you go cuz he doesnt know if hes gonna find another girl like you. but he could be going through a stage guys flirt its there nature dont be jelous it happends i let my bf if he has its not like he is licking other girls thongs or something dont ask why i put that as an example but ill tell you it was in my dream today. hahaha so i wouldnt worry about it to much if thats what your brother said but if your going to go with what your sister said cuz she is more experienced then maybe you have a problem what i really think you should do is talk to your boyfriend get the real scoop from him ask him if he has other thoughts about you two being together if he thinks that he should discover new people.
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My dad has been acting all mean lately. He used to be so nice and we would always hang out. Like tonight, I was in his office because he was trying to fix my computer, and then he said I have to concentrate, get out. So I was with my dog and I was about to leave when all of a sudden he tried to kick me and hit me. He NEVER did anything like that to me and he doesn't drink or anything. I ran to my mom in her room and he was about to throw my computer. He also canceled our trip tomorrow. It was really hard to breathe and my mom said he was very mad to. I'm really scared and sad. Now my trips canceled because my stupid dad. No offense but I think I hate him. I hate my dad! (link)
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possibly he found out something you did that you tried keeping a secret. think about that but if not then he could have a disease my dad has ms look it up he gets cranky too. its hard on all of us and when we didnt know what he had i was scared and crying. dont hate your dad obviously sometihng is wrong with him ask your mom talk to him about it. things mite get worse if you dont im sorry if this hurts you.
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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =] (link)
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14/f ya dont do it im scared half to death rite now it hurt and im dying ova here i feel like going to my mom but i cant cuz i dont want to disapoint my parents and even though it was a five secong thing im afraid i cant sleep im so sacared i have to throw up. its not worth the felling loosing your life over. personally iwouldnt care to have a baby but at my age and wat my dad has said to me for over 12 years its pretty pathetic i just hope im lucky thats all i really have rite now and god that i need to pray for. i fell like i cant talk to ne one ive talked to my brother and hes worried too. your provig you love someone yes but after words it worries you using protection or not you dont have exactly 100% protection so dont wait until your about 18 that way its not so bad if you are having a baby ok now look at all these answers to your question equal amounts either regret it or dont i dont regret it at all i love him and he loves me i feel that i mite actually stay together for a long while i mean we were not ready but whos to say rite. it is your disson wether or not you are ready if you think your in love and are ready then go for it you will know weather or not after words. Ik if i am pregante that i wont get an abortion i dont care if my family will be dissapointed in me reading all these stories made me realize that cuz id rather have a baby with him then i would with some guy that wont love me after a nother month or so. ik he will be there with me and i ABSOUTLY DONT REGRET IT! even though im scared rite now. people from all over the world will tell you wait until your married or old enough to handle it. but your not going to listen i sure didnt. so whats the point of me saying that dont do it. even though ive been going out with this guy for 6 months ive been his best friend for over 2years. thats a long time. if this is like your situation then go for it. or dont.. really its up to your heart... body ... and mind.
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on 3 things...
1. giving hand jobs
2. kissing
3. on sex (the first time). Like does it hurt?
ok thanks. (link)
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kiss give hand jobs but DONT have sex fisrt it hurts second im shitting my pants ova here hoping im not gonna pop out watermelon out of hole the size of a pea. so DONT do it not worth it
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i was wondering if girls like it when you shave your balls or not cause i am debateing if i want to shave them (link)
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i heard of girls shaving but not guys so dont do it its not hott sorry
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another makeout question but here it goes..well i've hooked up with alot of guys and like i know i have the head motion right i know how to breathe during making out i just dont understand what im supposed to do with my tounge and like when i makeout i just like twirl it around with their tounge, is that the right way ? or whats like a REALLY good way that will get a guy really turned on cause i dont think my ways working very well..if u help, thankyou very very very very much =] (link)
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my advice dont think about it much cuz then the guy knows like ur putting to much thinking into it and then you suck and it goes around. idont think about i just do! just let it flow hahaha i guess
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so i guess.. four years ago my family life just.. messed up.
i dont live with my mom and im a teen so its really hard.
she doesnt even live in usa with us
she lives in south america.
and so, i tried getting a job thing here but i cant because im british. they said i had to renew my citizenship, and i had to make my birth certificate american.
wtf?
so since its the summer
i cant get a job
so i have to go to south america
and stay with my mom
for 2 months.
thats the whole summer..
i hate it there, i hate paraguay.
my mom is always busy she has no time for me.
she got all these surgeries and never told me.
like my whole relationship with her blew up.
with my dad he just threatens to make me live there, or kick me out because i dont have a job
BUT I CANT GET ONE, SO SERIOUSLY WTF?
my question is.
what do i do
i feel so like alone,
my life just screwed up
my parents hate me.
how can i make them stop hating me?
how cna i make them trust me, and listen to me for once in my damn life? (link)
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get over it make it so its fun get a boyfriend ocupy your self!
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how do you get rid of black heads without buying the remover thing? (link)
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here is an idea washing your face that works sometimes like every day and maybe you have to buy the remover crap ya i know its a pain what are you going to do being beautiful is half of being alive or no one will look at you it sucks but who cares
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I like this kid Tom a lot. We had a class together this year and I sat next to him for a while. He's really hott and the only time I got up the courage to talk to him was when he would ask me a question. I wanted to tell him I liked him but I was too scared to do it in person, and now I found his myspace but I'm still too scared to ask him because I have to sit behind him during our final in a few days. My friend said I should just randomly message him and be like "I like you." But I'm too scared and I think it would sound weird cause I don't really talk to him. My other friend said doing that would make me seem desperate. I don't know what to do. SOMEONE HELP!!!!
sorry its so long.
thanks in advance (link)
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OMG just do it.. you have one life to live and what do you have to loose a guy that you might make out with? come one you have to do things with out asking people for advice i say dont listen to your firends and listen to me tell him in person so you dont seem like a coward chances are he likes you too. and hey who doesnt like a hott guy.!
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ive liked this guy on and off for a while now. like umm 5 months? and he never liked me in all this time. hes my best friend so i just got over the fact that we cant be more. everyone thinks we are together though because we like hold hands and not to mention we're always together. even my english teacher asked him if we are dating! haha. the problem is that sometimes i feel like he wants to avoid me. maybe he just hates all the drama and is trying to aviod ppl annoying him about it. today he was just acting weird to me and then he was back to normal and then weird again. i dont understand it.
and worst of all he told our friends [that are guys] that hes a heartbreaker. then they asked if he was talking about breaking jennys heart and he said no. he said he broke my heart. and i was right there when he said it. and they laughed at me. then they asked if im jealous that he made out with his ex. wtf?!? i hate it. its hard enough trying to see him as just a friend but why is he doing this to me now? hes been such a good friend to me up until this. i dont know whats happened. then i was walking with him and one of the guys until he started saying that he sends girls "mixed messages". he didnt say my name but he was talking about me again right in front of me. the guy asked what he meant. then he put his arm around me and said "like this". in my head i said hell no! and i just said bye walked away without looking back. hes so stupid that he didnt even know what he had just done. and we talked online and he asked why i walked away. then i said "when i liked you you hurt me and you make it into a big joke. its like you dont even care" and he logged off a minute later and never responded. i know he doesnt mean to be cruel because he probably thinks that its not a big deal, but it is. what should i do about this because at this point i have no idea anymore.thank you. (link)
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dont be all affended and crap but like totally leave this guy like another one cuz hes an ass!
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Does anyone know where i can get a really cute Bikini with an Anchor on it, that isn't too expensive???
Thanks so much!!! (link)
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JC Penny wooot!
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okay so i can be out in the sun all day and i dont get burnt at all..i honestly cant remember the last time i was burnt. but does this mean i should still use sun tan lotion?? because i still want to get a tan. (link)
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actually putting sun tan lotion on gives you a better tan and prevents skin cancer so it works both ways!
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about 3 months ago i had sex with my best friend. we were at a party and we were both really drunk. We talked about it later and we decided taht it was really nothing. We are still good friends. we have been since we were 4. he's like a big brother. and really he was the first guy i ever had sex with. i can't believe this happened but i'm prego. it sucks. It's really weird too because he is my best friend and we don't have feelings like that for each other. Our parents are best friends and so we want to tell them together that i'm prego. How should we tell them? Gah this is so weird! got any pointers? (link)
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wow the first person who gave u advice is a bitch.. haha just thougt i should put that in there. so ya well we all make mistakes or if you didnt mind this then it really wasnt a mistake i think thats werid too but ok at the same time you know. what u should tell your parents is like have dinner all together, and when your asking to pass what ever be like pass the carrots im pregnate! and that could be a funny story to tell in the future, or if that doesnt sound so great to you then say we really need to tell you something take a deep breath and just say it and if you guys are together in the room then it wont be to bad becuase the parents can yell at both of you or be happy and saportive! TELL ME HOW IT TURNS OUT!
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this might be in the wrong category.
sorry 'bout that.
so anyways.
i have like small 32A cup breasts.
& i was wondering if there was a way to make them bigger, or for them to grow faster.
like, not a push up/inflatable bra or something like that.
some way to make it bigger and nothing weird will show if i go to the beach or something. (link)
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there is no way unless u eat A LOT! and become fat or someting your either born with the boobs or ur not thats all there is sorry hun!!
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I need some ideas on how to put the romance back into my relationship. We aren't how we used to be and I want that back. Ideas? (link)
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on a little cold warm night take who ever outside and have a fire if u have a hamock or a blancket sit on that and just lay there together if there are stars then u can look at that.
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my boyfriend and i have been getting on really well.he was always telling me how sexy i am and stuff like that and i was saying it back to him because he is and its the truth.this week its like everything has gone done hill.i ring him and try to make conversation with him but he doesnt and it makes me feel really awkward then.he asks me personal stuff through text message but then when were talking he doesnt ask me anything.i know he might be just shy but he has asked me other stuff through text and to me if i was shy i wouldnt be asking stuff like that.i ask him how he is and gives me a one word anwser to everything.then i get nervous.i really really like but i dont know whats wrong.when he acts that way it makes me feel really down and alone.now, i feel like crying but at the same time i feel like shouting.
i dont mind him asking me personal stuff.i think its good to ask stuff.
help!im confused,upset,worried if i did something wrong.i just need some advice. (link)
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you did nothing wrong but ask him whats wrong or I know ask him personal stuff on the phone and if he starts texting you then be like i cant text fingers hurt something like that or tell him about your day a joke and well sometimes your going to have a conversation like that with him but if its like everyday then hes probally feeling the same way its so awkard i hate it too but like be random its something rite!
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i use proactiv for my acne and i'm sometimes in a rush and i get some of the solution on my eyebrows. now i'm starting to notice the top parts of my eyebrows are getting orange.
i know this is probably from the benzoyl peroxide in proactiv, but my question is how do i get my eyebrows back to their normal color besides dying them?
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stop putting proactiv on your eyebrows dont be in such a rush!! and wash them maybe if that doesnt work then u will have to die them
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