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I joined this site when I was very young (hence the ridiculous username) but now I feel I'mn old enough to give out advice.

Ask me anytime. I have had my fair shares of family issues, as well as good at solving relationship problems.

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14/f
ok well i promised to be pure until i get married. a guy at the age of 13 wanted to give up his virginity to me and i flipped so i was like ok i am going to make a chioce. i am going to be pure until marriage.what do guys think my age. will they not like me because of the choice i made? or what.

It's you're choice, only you can make it.If they dont respect you're opnion, then they're not really worth and NOT the sort of boys you wanna be with.It's your decion, that's exactly the descion I've been thinking about too.I've also decided that I wont have my first kiss until after I am 16.

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ok.
15/f.

My question is.. does age really matter? like i like this guy.. we'll call him... M. well M is a bit younger then me.. like 6 months or something.. we're in the same grade and everything.. if we were to go out would that be wrong because of the age?

Like i'm gonna be 16 in February but he'll still be 15.. i guess all i'm trying to say is that.. since we're in the same grade.. would age matter?

thank you. any help is appreciated:]

Hey, No way.You see some parents have age differences too : 3yrs , 5yrs etc.Heck I think there is 13 years between my grandpparents.It defiantly dosn't matter.All that matters is that you're both comfortable and feeling happy

Hope I helped
xx

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if u ask a question on advicentaors, will people know who's profile it came from?

No they won't, thats the greatest thing about advicenators!

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hey EveryOne
Please Answear Thiis QuestiiOn for me ii need ideas Please



What does customer service mean to you???

My sister sometime does customer service (seh works there) at sainsburys supermarket so I know
what it is

Customers go there if they have a suggestion ot complaint.I might have dropped my credit card in the supermarket toilet so they go sort it out for me.Or if I bought juice but it had been opened they sort it out.They basically help customers.It is says it in the title "Customer Service" service for the customers.

To me it means getting a worker to help you out and being polite

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I have been telling my sceevy sister for months and months now to stop using my fricken toothbrush! Gosh! I have to get a new one every fricken week because of her! She tells my parents
she didn't use it! But she does! She took it to her stupid sleepover yesterday and now it's gone, so even if i did want to put that sceevy thing back in my mouth, I can't because she left it at her friend's house. The reason she doesn't use her own toothbrush is because she never washes it off so it gets all crusty, so she resorts to my clean toothbrush. I try to tell my mom to tell her to stop but she fricken laughs at me! What should I do? It wouldn't be a big deal if my sister was even a little clean, but we are talking about a girl who takes baths every 4 days and who's hair is so filled with grease it looks like it's wet!

You need to buy cheap cheap toothbrushes and hide them.And the tootbrush you use, hide it.Put it in a special essential bag and put a padlock on it.If she used your brush , you'll be able to use a cheap one.

Maybe buy her a special Bath,shower set with a toothbrush with a "strawberry" smell or something.It will encourage her to use her own toothbrush and encourage to take bath smore often.

Just say "I bought this cheap but I don't exactly want it, you can have instead!"

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So I have been singing for years. You know.. for fun? Nothing serious so I don't think I'm a good singer.

My friend, I always thought had a better singing voice & she's in theater .. gets the lead parts and singing parts.

So I go to her for advice about singing and I told her how great she was at it.

Well, she sang something for me & sent it to me in a wav.

And it isn't her best singing.. at all.. she was out of tune and i dont know how to respond to her. it's not her best work.. but she wants an answer.

I can send you the link and maybe you can come up with something nice but helpful to say ?

it's not horrible.. i just don't know how to say that needs some work on it.. because I'm not a great singer. I'm a bit flat so.. if I tell her or imply how she's not that great.. it would be kinda stupid? Because I'm no better than her.

Help?
She's going to sing at her theater but i don't want her to embarrass herself or get hurt..

Just say,

that was good....but I think maybe.....

Maybe tell her to sing the song with the music

Just say it was christina agulaeria "hurt"

Make her sing it with chrisitna on it, that way she's in tune and she'll remember

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I want to get my boyfriend a new wallet. He loves the kinds with like the chain thingy..

Does anyone know where I can get one that is black leather and I can get our names put into it?

One with a chain would be cool, but if you know about one without a chain, thats fine too..

Thanks.

I searched and here are some I have found

Not a clear picture
http://www.bikerchap.com/items/motorcycle-accessories/leather-biker-wallet-with-chain-detail.htm

A selection here
http://www.motoleather.com/ammalewa.html

Hope I helped,

or maybe

next.co.uk

asos.com

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So my boyfriend just left yesterday to go on a triop with his friends (guys and girls) for a week..and he called tnite saying he was at a bar..i am worried he's gonna meet some girls and cheat..is there anyway to make myself not so worried?

Hey.Hey.Hey!!

If you love him and vice versa and you trust him and vice versa things should be fine.You should trust him, especially if he trusts you.It's not very nice is it, imagine how you'd feel if your boyfriend wasnt sure if you'd go out and meet someone and cheat, not very nice feeling eh?Let him know you trust him , I'm sure you have nothing to worry about.But I guess those thoughts would go through my mind too, us women are liike that!.But you'll be fine, you'll see.
Dont expect the worst him!Have faith, he loves you
xx

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i'm 14/f

LAtely i've been thinking about my life and things i think i want to become or do for myself. The thing is i've been getting really scared because the person i wanna be is the exact kind of person my friends don't like. I want to move on in my life, but i don't wanna loose somthing really special. I love my friends but the more i spen time with them the more i realize we have pretty much nothing in commen and it seems i don't fit in, and somtimes it really seems like they see it. So what do I do ? Do i stay with them pretending to be somthin im don't want to anymore or do i change and risk loosing my friends?

How can they be your friends?They cannot be your friends if

-you dont fit in
-you have nothing in common
- they dont like the real you

Why spend the rest of your life being something your not , trying to please people who dont even like you?
Why fall behind in life?

Be free like a butterfly!Here is my advice...

1)Be your true self
2) If they dont like it, tough.Deal with it.
3)Tell them this is the real you, and if they dont like it , you;re gonna find people who respect you and like you for who YOU REALLY are.

You wont be losing them because really, you didnt have them to begin with.They dislike people who are "you" and they make you feel as if you dont fit in and you have nothing in common.

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Ok so my friends do these things they call bashings. It's where we sit in a circle and tell esch other what we don't like each other. I hate it i think it's ridiculous casue i feel like their trying to stream line me so i'm some form of perfect friend robot.
They say it's so we don't talk behind each others back. Whenever i say i think it's stupid and it hurts me they just say i'm so sensitive and can't handle critism.
What do you think is it a good idea or stupid?
What should i do?

It is really stupid.And it wont stop them being bitchy.It just causes arguements and makes people upset which then makes them bitch.If one said they hated how the other one spoke, if they were upset they'd confront to a mate how much they hated that person.It is stupid and your not being sensitive.

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Ok im going out w/ his guy. We've been on and off for about 2 years now. Hes a junior and im a freshman. We both go to differnt schools and we hardly see each other. But i went to a football game w/ him and my friend came to hang out w/ me. And now she calls my man every day. And i keep telling her hes mine. And she doesnt lisen but me and my man barly talk anymore on the phone..

What the hell do i do???

Get to your bf first.Pop by his house and tell him

-you're mate like hims
-she probarbly to break you up
- and your upset about this
-warn him that she'll proparbly make a move on him


then go to your friend tell her

-leave you guys alone
- accept it
- you guys are really good friends dont mess it up
- you feel shes taking him away from you
- ask her why she wont listen.

She isnt a good friend if she wont listen.And is it worth being with someone who dont call you, ormake the effort to see you.You're mate wouldnt be calling unless he answered.Just think

why would he answer to her and not you?
It's time to break up...but remember you'd be breaking up because its not working , not because of your friend (otherwise she's one)Just tell them that they can have eachother and you've moved on

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I am really into acting and i really want to become an actress. but i dont do drama or anything like that but next year i am. I want to become a famous actress and star in movies and tv shows and things like that. but i dont know where start. My school dosnt have drama this year but next year they will but i having second thoughts about taking it and i dont know why. So my question is what would i have to do to become a famous actress?

thank you so much

To tell you the truth.Being famous is really hard competiotion,You'll have to be super super talented, have loads of money to start of with and go to the highest acdemys ever!But you can get famous other ways to.

How about the brits school?Loads of famous singers and actresses went there.

Stagecoach

or the sylvia young school.

But take a step back.It will be VERY hard to become famous so why don't you decide to become well known to the London Stages.Like in the performing arts business, you can become famous there.Start by getting into shows and even singing and dancing groups,one day something will pop up,I'm aiming to be famous in performing arts myself..so I know whats sort of things that go on.

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what are some websites that you visit often? like for me they would be myspace, this one, and mugglenet (lol).

what are they for you?

This one,

Piczo.com
Mariahstar.com
Mariahlambsunited.com
Mariahcarey.com

You can kind of tell I like mariah?

Hope I helped.

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for three months and have known eachother for like 2 years. The thing is, we still haven't kissed yet! How can I hint to him that it's ok to kiss me and he can? Cause I will not mind! He has had other g/fs in the past too.

Thanks a bunch!

Hints do nt work.
When you're alone , maybe on the sofa,
whisper in his ear "kiss me"

If he dosn't then you need to talk to him, he might not want rush this realtionship.

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what are some ideas/foods/drinks/ways to keep yourself up all night long?

Cofee , cheese and ice.Keep alarms set for every hour, and possible make sure the alarms are really loud and if its on your phone, make sure that its a really loud ROCK song,because if you've fallen asleep, you'll wake up easily.Drink loads of water, that way you'll be up because of your bladder.

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3 questions--

1. do you guys think that the new TV show on disney channel called Cory and the House is gonna be as popular as Hannah Montana or The Suite Life of Zack and Cody?

2. does anyone think that the movie Jump In on disney is gonna be as popular as High School Musical ?

3. does anyone know when High School Musical 2 is coming out?

as you can see i love disney channel. lol thanks though!

God I LOVEEEE DISNEY CHANNEL too!
1)I dont think the cory and the house will be as popular.Hannah Montana and The suite life of Zack and Cody are really great entertaining shows.I think it will be wuite hard.Hannah is a like this pop star thing and loads of young people wanna be famous.And with the twins, loads of people love mischeif.What do you think Cory and the House will offer us?

2)No way will it be as popular in my prediction.As in uk and us we love high school musical.In fact, we love it so much we sing it in science and maths 24/7!!Its the songs and the actors that make it so great.I have high school musical cdz,dvds,cups,posters, I dont think I'll like it as much but people will probarbly talk about it.

3)I dont have much of an idea when, but I do know they havnt started on it yet, but they will do soon.I heard it will be out for march or ending of feb 07.

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at what store can i find a necklace like this?

1.
https://www.ameriglobe.net/resizer.php?imgfile=images/product/ST-132.JPG&percent=0.40

ORR
2.
http://www.numerospeaks.com/jewelry/images/shell-necklace.gif



i'd love any store names,brands,webs.. etc. anything you can think of!! thanks

xoxx-- JM

I've searched and searched, here you are

A purple similar one
http://www.monsoon.co.uk/invt/98227850

There is a huge selection, they're not exactly what you asked for they're beaded and stuff for uk and us only

http://www.steptoesantiques.co.uk/acatalog/Antique_Vintage_Costume_Estate_Jewelry_Necklaces.html


Seach this site, they have some good stuff that I think you'll like

http://www.jewelleryhype.co.uk/

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When should you start wearing makeup 6 grade? 7 grade? cuz i haven't started yet i dont know the age i should start at!!

Well I started wearing it in yr 7.(13.f)
Thats when I started to take an interest in it.
So if your intrigued have a go.Nothing expensive just buy cheap makuup to experiment.But If your under 10, I only sugest a bit of lipgloss thats it.Dont ever cake yourself up if your kind of new to it, it will look awful!!!
If your thinking of starting and your over 11

I suggest
Lipgloss
eyeshadow
Bit of mascara if you like it

When your about 14

Foundation
eyeliner
concealer
but not too much you could make yourself look orange

But as soon as you decide to wear makeup, you need to really take care of your skin.That means taking it off before you go to bed EVERYDAY.
Fact: You must take it off otherwise if you dont it ages you skin seven months extra.You'll need to wash you're face properly day aqnd night.As you get older, the less you have to put on unless you wanna look like a drag queen.

As you havn't started get some tips

http://www.beautytipsonline.com/make_up_tips.htm

http://make-up.lifetips.com/

Have fun xx


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Ever since I knew you
My heart sings a new tune:
One of love.
Every time you come around,
I bubble with joy;
As happy as a _______.
You give me pleasure unknown before,
Each day I beg for more;
Without you, my heart is empty;
ever day seems dull.
I can't pay you for the joy you give;
But I know you
You are the reason to live.

please help! it has to be rhyme with joy
thanks a lot =]]

Maybe


as happy as a little boy

as happy as a child with their treasured toy.
As happy as a bee and a sycamore
you give me pleasure unknown before.......




You are a beautiful writer
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What is your opinion on brown hair?Do you think it is ugly?

I have brown hair!!!!Brown hair is sophisitcated ,wild and lucious!I lurveeee it!

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