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Q: How do you lose weight in your thighs? like any exercises?
i dont no.. but i promise if i find any thing ill tell you!!!!!

Q: i wanted to know if i should switch schools...cuz i have like 4 friends in my school now...n i dont wanna leave em...but i reli hate this school soo much..n its not like i am moving further away...id juss b switching schools...but idk what to do...cuz i love my 4 friends but lifes hectic in that skool n makes me wanna do serious stuff to myself...plz help me
-Jenn-
yes b.cc you'll still see them! and now ull make even more friends an get away from all that stuff thats hectic. im NOT saying that there cant be a prob. at ur new school. but yea you should hope i helped, love alwaiiz ali, feedback is greatly appreciated

Q: last night i had a dream about my ex bf.. we broke up a yr ago and havent really talked since. we went out for a year.. ive been over him, but lately ive been having random dreams about him..and im kind of sad now because memories are coming back to me frmo these dreams..and i hate it.. i didnt even really think about him and im having dreams about us becoming friends, etc..
you should get together with him! call or IM him. or.. it totally depends on what happens in your dreams.. *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*

Q: Hey, I'm looking forward to having some really good time at this party coming up, but its one where i gotta impress, any tips on losing belly and hip fat in 2 weeks? and no suggested pills plz.
lotsa lotsa water! 8 glasse of water a day and more if you want. no junk food what so ever! and if ur gonna have salad... don have a lotta dressing *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *fedback is greatly appreciated!*

Q: Hi all well im babysitting 3 girls after xmas can anyone give me some ideas on how to keep them busy so its a bit easyer for me
roxie
ps ill rate any good ideas
have a great xmas everyone
1.) coloring books and crayongs 2) barbies 3)video tapes 4) books 5) books on tapes 6)puppets? *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *fedback is greatly appreciated!*

Q: okay my boyfriend didnt get me ne thing for christmas and i feel kinda guilty for getting him something...and now i got a ring in the mail from someone and i dont kno who it was from...what should i tell my boyfriend when he asks...that is if he asks?
maybe it was from him?!? if he don ask.. don bring it up. if he does.. be like "yea i got this gorgeous ring in the mail and i thot i d wear it" if he asks whose it from say "hmm idk" *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *fedback is greatly appreciated!*

Q: My parents are always smoking and i hate the small of smoke!! They are always smoking and I don't know how to stop them!! I have tryed talking to them and it doesn't help!!! Please help me!!!
tell them that it can affect their life span. and that your lunmgs are being damaged too. *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *fedback is greatly appreciated!*

Q: ok my boyfriend and i had oral sex. i fell like i have betrayed everyone and now i dont know if i was ready. is this normal?
Thanks
Lauren
yea its normal.. jus tell him ur not ready to do it again good luck tho! *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *fedback is greatly appreciated!*

Q: What exactly is an Ipod? What do they do?
its a lil thing where you can store songs, books on tape, it has games. its portable too. *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *fedback is greatly appreciated!*

Q: its been 8 months for me and my bf.. he said he would call yesterday before he left for outta town.. he never did.. now today he hasnt called yet.. and he is suppose to be in town like a hour ago..
try to call him.. call his cell... jus wait and do sumthin to occupy yourself till he gets thea.. *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *fedback is greatly appreciated!*

Q: ok, i like this guy. we'll call him joe. and i have a friend who likes joe. lets call her belinda. sure. and we both like him a lot. and belinda is like one of my best friends...and i like joe A LOT. and belinda has been gettin' pressure to ask him out. and she's now sayin' she might....if its ok with me. and i want her to be happy....but i don't want him to say yes. i don't know! what do you think would be best to do? or say? PLEASE HELP! this is like a serious SOS, ASAP thing. please! thx in advance.
tell ehr that you like the same guy too.. if shes a true friend... u both'll back off *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*

Q: Well,there's a boy I like and my feelings are so deep for him,and he is my friend.But I don't know how to tell him or should I tell him,because he has a girlfriend.So how can I tell him and what should I say?
I am a female,
and I'm 14
yea u shud wait till they break up.. then tell him how u fel.. and from wut uve sed.. he'll pbly sday he feels the same way,.,, GOOD LUCK! *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*

Q: where is the best place to buy a fancy dress not formal or semi formal casual-fancy
DEB has very nice dresses.. and JC Penny i think.*hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*

Q: My brother recently kissed a lesbian, and disgusting thoughts came up in my mind, so I thought I'd just ask this question...

IF A REGULAR GUY KISSES A LESBIAN, WHAT DOES THAT MAKE THE GUY?

Please answer, don't leave me in suspense!
its fine lol its not like hes gay or any thing and there wudnt be any thing wrong if he was. but yea that doesnt make him gay. *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*

Q: what are sites with aim buddy icons with like lyrics from songs
www.imbum.com www.iconator.com and if u want.. i no a few people who make icons if uwant their sns jus leave me a note in my mail box with your screenname *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*

Q: 13/f
Ok so i really dont understand this, im really nice and funny and everything like serioussly. Its not fair that all of these snobby girls have guys like drooling over them. I dont think im pretty and you'll probably say that i am and blah but how do i get guys to like me? I mean, i talk to guys like all the time and its just stupid that they dont see how much of a nice person i am...
ya gotta show them wut u got! flirt with them.. show them how nice you are.. if a "snobby girl" says sumthin to u.. jus stick up for yourself and people will start to respect you *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*

Q: a boy told me something i wont disclose but it was almost a threat. i told my mom who told the principal and he got expelled. that was in october and i still feel bad and guilty. people say i did the right thing but i feel bad!
plus he has my adress and he scares me. i m probably overreacting but o well. i feel guilty and scared.
u DID do the right thing.. u shouldnt feel guilty..he should! he got what he deserved! *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*

Q: I'm a 16/m thats moving from California to Rhode Island. its the biggest change of my life and i'm not sure what to do about it. How will i ever fit in?? How do i get accepted by my peers? Whats that style/fashion there? Can anyone give me advice on how to make a smooth transition into Rhode Island?? Thanks!
i live in RI its the best. hell yea youll fit in. jus be yourself. style fashion? ponchos for girls are in lol and wearing jeans down to your knees is "cool" in the opinion of some lol. if u play a sport thats good. do u no where in RI your moving too? *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*

Q: OK, I am a wonderful singer, but also very shy. I also play the guitar. I am 13 and I want to knwo 2 things. 1. Is it possible for me to get a demo sent in and 2. how would I do it? Any answers? PLEEASE help me!! ~*~Alyssa~*~
of course its possible. jojo was only 13 loll but i think she got discovered at 6 on kids say the darndest things. so age is not a matter. record a CD and sent it to a big studio *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*

Q: Ok, here's the question many americans are dying to find an answer for.. and i am here now at 3 am to ask to all. whats a god way to get yourself to sleep? reading doesn't do it for me and the whole laying there isn't working.....I NEED SLEEP im really tired..
i havent eaten since 7pm and haven't worked out or anything today..im 16/f thanks
jus put in some quiet slow music. then.. you'll slowly start to fall asleep. if that doesnt work.. just IM me n i got a tonna ways lol *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*

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