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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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you know how there are those list of things for guys to do/ways to get to a girls heart?

does anyone have one abou guys for girls? lol thanks

i know when guys try to get me to like them they try to charm me and tell me that i'm beautiful and all that jazz... plus they call me or im me on the computer.. and stuff.. hope i helpeddd... =] if you need anythign else just askk

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Today I went to a salon to get my hair dyed and they dyed it brown (exactly what i wanted!!) i was just wondering what i need to do to keep it this color. how long do i need to wait until i shower next, how to i keep the blonde highlights (from before) from showing up through the brown, what shampoo should i use, etc... thanks so much!

hehe i've been through this a lot! okay so what you do is don't take a shower until 24 hours after you got your hair done. your highlights from before will not (WILL NOT) show up through your brown because i'm guessing she dyed your hair brown again .. if not then she is an idiot (not really but that woudl be really stupid because 3/4 of your hair woudl then be blonde) but anwayyy... know what you want to do is use soemthing with color treated.. my highly recommend pantene pro-v color revival it will make your highlight not fade back to brown etc. hope i helped anyting else just let me know =]

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Ha okay i had no idea what to put this under. But anways. I'm planning on getting a new cell phone for Christmas. I was just wondering, is VerizonWireless a good company? And also, the new LG "The V". Does anyone have it on here? And can you tell me if you can recieve pictures? And if you can send them too? Thanks so much.

i have verizon =] i think they are really good. they have really sweet plan & stuff.. but i like cingular a little better only because they have free minutes after 7 and verizon is after 9 but it doens't matter.. cingular is more like fun.. while verizon is more serious.. but yeahh i like verizon =] but i couldn't tell you about the lg phone.. but i what i can do is give you this website on what is said to be "the v" and i'll tell you this.. it looks liek it is a picture camera.. and in a picture camera you can both revieve and send the pictures of course =] good luck with your whole phone thing! =] and if you woudl like to know anything else just leave me an inbox.. i've been a verizon customer for a prettty long time =]

website --> www.phonescoop.com/news/item.php?n=1176 ( it has like reviews and information about the phone and the features and stuff(at least i hope))

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how do i put up a pic?

what you do is you have to upload the picture ( http://www.tinypic.com ) then use this code and put that where you want the picture to show and copy the URL on the website that you hosted it on...

if you mean on Advicenators then you go into profile setting and browse for the picture that you want on there... and then click submit... if you need anything else just let me know... im an expert at putting pictures in websites =]

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whats the difference between fraternity and sorority?

a fraternity is all boys in a dorm you might have heard the term "frat boy/s)

a sorority is girls in a dorm (sorority girl/s)

hope i helped =]

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My town was getting ready for another sort of celebration thing like fireworks night ,but it wasn’t fireworks night, and my friends (13 and 14 year olds) were in Cafe 10 and Abbie and Laura (friends) fancied Hayley’s little brother, who’s 9 years old and also called Jason, and they were swooning over him when he came in and I remember Abbie saying “He’s soo fit”. Then (you know how dreams just take you places without knowing how you got there) I was walking down the small road to Mereside Park and it was dark and there was the whole gang of lads that I had met (in real life) from my holiday at a caravan park the other side of the country were hanging around there. [On my holiday (ages ago) there were 3 of them (who lived at the caravan park) who kept stalking me and trying to get to know me but I wasn’t really bothered about getting to know them, I really don’t talk to my mum about boys and I would be really embarrassed about her finding out about them so I kept telling them not to go near my caravan and pretending I didn’t know them when my parents were around but they kept making it really obvious. I was interested in getting to know them and I started to fancy one of them (called Jason, 14, who actually lived in a city near me before moving…) but we didn’t get extremely close (kiss or anything) and I wish I was a bit more forward. One of the nights I saw that there were actually about 10 of them in their group (they all fancied me, I think they were desperate) but I didn’t have enough time to get to know them all. When I went home after my holiday, I didn’t have the chance to say goodbye, they rang me every night to see how I was and I admitted my feelings for Jason but we did nothing about it, he said if he ever came down he would come and see me. One of them was this annoying kid who was crazy about me and texted me all night every night and kept asking me out. After a while I just wasn’t bothered at all and I got over Jason and everyone and ignored their calls] They were just wandering around and the first one I saw was that annoying kid who fancies me. My mum was there preparing for this event thing and I was pretending I didn’t know them because my mum was there but they kept saying stuff like “Look its Rachel” or “Hi Rachel”
and I said to my mum “I don’t know them”. She said “Oh yes you do” and she walked me over to them...!? I was like “Ok…ok I know them now can you go away , go buy some cheese” (

i think that you really miss this kid and your dream/ heart was trying to tell you that you need him back in your life again.. i think you need to call him up soon and start to talk to him again..to me it seems as if there is an empty space in your heart that needs to be filled by him again =] hope i helped if you need anythign else just ask

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thanks, i asked the one about the two year relationshipp thing.. i told him never to talk to me, look at me, think about me.. or acknowledge me anymore. haa. you knoww me. but i aint gon say my name hereeeeeeee. love yaa

=] lol okayyyy glad everything worked out for youuu

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ok, so.. ive liked this kid for 2 years now. and he liked me too, but at first he went out with my 2 best friends.. and switched on and off from them, but while it all, he liked me.. and weee have been talking since the end of 7th grade.. and.. well, he asked me out in june. and i was SO happy, i said yes. and we went out, and i went to florida and he wasnted to hang out with this girl that was easy to take naked pictures of herself over the computer.. so i was trying to get him out of it, adventually i got to him and he stopped askking her. i got home from florida and we went to the movies and he looked at a girl and said "damn shes got some big ass titties" and i was mad. and i wasnt acknowledging him.. then he said sorry.. so i forgave him.. then i met this kid john, and he was SO adorbale.. so i broke up with the otehr kid because i didnt want anything to happen between me and this john kidd. then, me and john went out for like 2 days and he fingered me.. then did a couple more time and broke up with me.. like 2 weeks we went out.. then i started talking to the other kid.. because i truelly still liked him. and then we hung out and he got a myspace.. and 1st he deleted my comments then 2 he kept getting comments from other girls. and i was VERY jealous. and then he went to homecoming with some other girl in New Jersey.. and then stayed at her house till 1 in the morning.. and bi dont know.. i got really upset. but then me n him hung out more and we went to a park one night, and he fingered me.. but i only let him because i thought it wa time.. i mean 2 years that he didnt try anything.. you know.. but then he soon asked me out.. man was i happy! i said yes, and we went out.. hung out kinda, and kinda faubht because he talked to alot of other girls.. and then i went to his house and his parents werent home. so we were hanging out then we started making out and he went down my pants and fingered me.. and then after a couple times i gave him a hand job.. and like it was a really good day, because we kinda talked more.. tho i was shyer.. but not alot.. and then he broke up with me like 3or4 days later... and now.. he might ask me back out.. i dont know what to say.. i wanna say yes but i am scared and i dont know what to do..
i have 2 questions.
1. am i a sut?
2. what should i say?

1. nooo.. your not a slut.. i mean its not like your not even going out with him and your doing that stuff.. just if i was you .. i would slow it down a little bit...
2. to me it sounds liek all he wants is to get a little "something something" out of you.. because he's dumping you right after you did something.. but in my perspective i would say no .. because i don't like boys like that.. but it's your decision .. because if you really like him.. then you could loose a one in a lifetime chance...

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I am writing this because I don't know what to do. I am really scared that my use of alcohol is out of control. I feel pressured by my friends to be part of the drinking scene. I see people in the media using drugs for pleasure. When I'm drunk, I forget alll my problems and school is unimportant. I've dropped out of sports and I o what I can to get money for my alcohol. I bring little bottles of it to school because I can't going the day without it. Can you help me?

hun you really need professional help... maybe a shrink.. but i really advise you to go to rehab or soemthing.. in there you will learn about everything that alcohol does and it will make you think ... if you need anythign else just ask i really hope everything works out

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oh and to all those people with the ? when is the right time to have sex? its when you are ready.
no body can tell you when to have sex.

and ways my ? is..
how long into the relationship do you have sex.
i rate high for nice people

there is not real limit to how long. it all depends on the person =] ususally one -two years =]

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hey theres a song on bridget jones diary, it goes something like all by myself, dont wanna be all by myself anymoe... i have tried looking up under all by myself but i cnt find it and i dont knwo who sang it. could u help me find the name of the song and the singer please? x

it is called all by myself by Jamie O'Neal =]

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ok so the holidays are coming up and i need an idea on what to get my very best friend in the whole wide world ! help? by the way you probably know me i go to your school

what you could do is make her a cd with songs that referr to your relationship or memories that you had together.. =) or maybe even a photoablum with a frame on the from and put a picture of you and her in the frame ♥

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This has been plauging me for about a year or so. I have really small breasts, and the area around my nipples balloon out. Why is this? Is there something wrong? It's really annoying. I wish it would go away. I just got my period a little while ago.

thanks in advance

it's normal =) don't worry in a couple of years they will be normal ♥

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ok im an athlete so i have practice at night & get home around 9ish & i was wondering if it's totally disgusting to take a shower in the morning before school? im a girl, but like i have homework & stuff when i get home, & i juss go to bed, nothing else. if i take a shower at night, my hair gets weird & i don't think you should take a shower twice a day. any ideas??

thanks!!

yeahh i would just take one in the morning it's not discusting =) i mean your not going anywhere and the only people who will see you is your family and i don't think they would care =) good luck hun

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i was wondering if you knew of a song. i'm looking for a good song. something about a guy leaving you and liking another girl. thanks =)

well there's one buy ataris called your boyfriend sucks... but it's more about a guy never getting a girl that is like his best friend and that he loved forever.. that's the only one i can think of right now... but if i find any others i will get back to you =]

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when you shave your vagina are, is wierd or normal to shave everything? i mean like completly bald i guess youd call it, i dont really know what im talking about but i need help. all thoughts appreciated..thnx

no it's not weird.. =]

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how can you reduce the redness out of a pimple overnight?

i have clean and clear advantage acne spot treatment and it works real well.. it will reduce the redness overnight.. but i mean it won't like get rid of it in one night... =] hope everything works out

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Me and my friend are very close and we have been friends since first grade I get jealous when she hangs out with other people but yet I want to and I do hang out with other people. I feel bad and want to stop being like jealous of her having other friends. Please help me. Oh and I'll rate and give comments.
xoxpamela

hmm this is hard.. because i can't exactly tell you how to do it.. i can give you optionss... which i hope will help you but i can't exactly tell you how because everybody is different but here it goes.. first you have to identify why you get mad in the first place.. ask yourself questions like "do i get mad because the people that she hangs out with are people i don't get along with" or "do i get jealous because i'm afraid she's going to dift away from me.." stuff like that and try to identify why you get so jealous.. then from there you need to try and start to train yourself not to get jealous.. yes i know it's hard and it sounds really corny but it works.. i no because i have done it.. but it may not work for you.. also .. you may want to try and talk to your friend.. or maybe (i dont know if your one who doesn't connect wtih there mothers or not but you could give it a try ) talk to your mom about it .. because rather you know it or not she nows you better than anyone else you surround yourself with.. i hope everything works out and that method works for you =] if you need anything else hun just let me no

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is it wrong to think that u'r friends brother is good looking??????????????????????????

nothing is wrong with that.. your entitled to your own opinion.. and if you think he's good looking there's nothign wrong with that =] if you need anyting else let me no

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yeah that's absolutly fine :-) if you were my friend and you went out with my brother i would be happy because if you guys got married.. then i would be related to you =] lol

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are there any good picture editing softwear or whatever you call it i can downlaod for free...im not that computer smart so it cant be something real advanced.

thanks 5's for anything

http://picasa.google.com/index.html =] free and works well good luck

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