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>> Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY but now residing in Pennsylvania
>> 22 years of age and in college. Graduated with an Associate's Degree in Medical Administration, now working with a laboratory as a jack of all trades customer service rep, hoping to pursue a higher degree in the healthcare field.
>> Taken since 11.25.07
>> Have been on this site since I was in 7th grade. You do the math lol
>> Very open minded so don't be afraid to contact me for advice
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What would you do if you found out when you and your boyfriend broke up that one of your good friends went over to his house and they ended having sex and when you asked both of them about it they said no...then the next time you asked they tell you that they did and how sorry they are and they wish they could take it back... Please help me im really hurt about this because it happend just 2weeks ago and i found when i was back together with him..?..
take cAiTi082's advice. if this happened 2 me, i wouldn't forgive them.
flirty : )
I had asked a question about denial..and I thought I would elaborate to make it easier to comprehend the question. Just for your knowledge and information, I am a 14 year-old girl. Someone was saying I have muscle tone in my cheeks and I was like what!? Then he said "Denial is the first stage?" What does this mean? Thanks!
it means u don't wanna admit it.
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i like someone very much.but i moved from his school last year. i have his phone # but i dont know if i should call him beacause my bf thinks that he might of moved. what do i do???
call him. it's not gonna hurt u in any way. if it's not his #, oh well. but if it is, then talk 2 him.
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im always stuck in the middle between my two best friends if one of them goes to hang out w/ the another friend the other gets mad they always seem to fight and im sick of it and its always bugging me they always have good times when they arent fighting but its like they get jealous i have no idea what to do..
hi.well do u know wat is makin them jealnus?talk 2 both of them and see what is buggin them. hope i helped. flirty : )
Hi its me Sarah,
i have a question hopefully u will know how 2 answer it.
Well............im very shy!
i have no confidence at all and i suffer from clustrophobia so that doesnt help much! but i never talk a lot in lessons afraid that i will get in trouble, how can i gain confidence?
love Sarah
p.s hope u can help me
hi sarah! sorry im answering so late. well, this may sound rude, but the best way is 2 butt in. like if u see ur friends talkin, say hi guyz wat r u talkin about? and den move on to new ppl. thanx 4 da quest. flirty
hey. im a female age 14. i have a crush on my frined.(mike) he is 18. we talk all the time. and the more i talk to him the more i crush on him. eventhough i know that nothing between us will probably never happen even though i would like it to. how do i hint im crushing without actually saying it?
thanks!
hi! y don't u flirt with him? touch his hair like ur playing with him. eye contact, twirling ur hair, or even flashing a smile! flirty : )
Hey! OK, I'm really shy. Its not that I enjoy being all by myself because I totally hate it... I love to be with people... but it’s hard for me to just walk up to someone because last year in classes we got to sit around and talk for the end of each period. When I tried to talk to someone they would be like "uh huh. Ok" and then walk away. However I’ve talked to each of them individually and they seem interested in talking to me (No, they were not just being nice) I’m moving to a totally new country next year which means a new school. I want to redo myself… like not be so shy anymore. Could you all give me some tips for me to be less shy? And please no advice like "just talk to people"… that doesn't work. I've tried. Thank you so much everyone!! Any advice is appreciated!
i know how u feel. im kinda like u, but ppl stay 2 talk to me. (no offense). sorry, im a little moody 2 day. try going up to ppl and see wats up with them. and definately take answerman's advice. i've tried to be mysterious, and guyz(not all) seem 2 like it. be nosy...but not in ur face nosy. just see wats goin on around u. i really hope this works out 4 u.
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my neighbor and i are really really good frineds and everytime i am around him i feel like the world has just stopped and i get this werid feelin inside of me do u think i like him
looks like it... do u feel like u 2 have a lot in common, do u feel like just taking him or telling him something stupid? do get nervous or blush around him? if so, these are the symtoms of love/a crush. lol. that was real cheesy.
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I just moved into my new house and I want my room to be really cute! Do you have any ideas on decorating it? ThAnKs!
paint it ur fave. color, put posters, drawings, etc. anything you like and think is gonna ,look hot, put it on the wall. or u can just put cute wallpaper.
I'm a 15 yr old gurl and i'm in love with the show Lizzie McGuire. Its a disney show... made for like little kids. Am I totally retarded for liking this show? I dont know why I like it SO much but i realllllly do! I watch it everyday... twice a day! and I have a tape of all the recorded episodes which I watch a lot too. And of course the Lizzie McGuire movie too!!!!! I just cant get enough. I even cut my hair like hers (of course it looks better on her but whatev) please help i dont know what to do
Signed,
Confused Gurl
don't worry! i don't love the show, but i also watchit! maybe u just like her sense of style and u definately like her.. (as a friend).... but you can try watching other shows. i know this advice might not mke the most sense, but i'm 14 and i still watch disney channel..... so don't worry, you'll get over this 'stage'....
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I've had this one friend "Helen" since 5th grade. I just met "Sarah" this year, and we became really good friends. For some reason , Helen is being such a mean you-know-what to Sarah. She's called her a h** and said she did something with another kid, which is SOOOOOOO not true. Helen doesn't even know Sarah, and she's talking about her. What am I supposed to do?? I don't want to get caught in the middle of this argument.
I know this may sound mean, but i would give helen a taste of her own medicine. make her feel how she is making sarah feel. at least let her see how much it hurts. i had the same problem and my best friend turned into a mean person to my new friend. Itold her to stop or she would'nt be my b- friend n e more.so she stoped. i also showed her how she made my new friend feel.
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I broke up w/my b/f of 8 months almost a year ago. He was heartbroken at first, but then got over it and now is going out with another girl. I haven't found anyone who's like him, and I miss him so much. But he's over me, and I still need him. Help!!
~Kat
have u talked 2 him about it? tell him how u feel. flirty :)
What car is better Porsche GT2 or Ferrari 575 Marrenello
definately ferrarri! porsche is good, but the ferrarri is the 'one'.
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There is this boy named Joseph he his really cute and really sweet and im really into him and he is into me to. But see he is friends with one of my friends his name is Donald. And Donald has a little brother named Bryan. Ok see my problem is all three of them like me and want to go out with me. But see i didnt know Donald and Bryan like me till recently. I asked y didnt they say any thing and response was cause joseph wanted to go with you but see i dont know if i want to go with joseph. I think i might want to go out with donald but i cant do that with out one of them finding out and turning into a big mess but i think i really do want to go with joseph what should i do sign~Triple Trouble
wow! u must be really cute! welcome 2 boy trouble. sorry, im a little harsh 2 day. well, talk with all three of them personally. ask them how would they fell if you went out with the three of them and u would pick the one u like the most. if they agree do it. if they don't, then pick the one that you think is meant for u. which one have u know for a while and u think u would be more comfortable with. good luck~
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Now I have this friend (boy) who i tend to like a lot! and sometimes it's weird we see each other a lot but in not the right places and we barely really know each other...but we do...i know this is kinda confusing..lol..but anyways, he asked my friends if i like him and they asked me...i mean i would say yes but the only thing is i dont really "trust" these friends...because they could come out and tell EVERYBODY! and i dont want that..you know..i think he figured out that i like him...i dont constantly stare...he does sometimes...does that mean he likes me? is it wrong for me to like him when i barely know him? should i ask my friend to ask him out for me? HELP!
Signed,
Confused Cupcake (lol)
i know how u feel. i had the same thing happen 2 me. well, maybe he does like u if he stares alot. sometimes it's just that they realize ur beauty. well, don't get a friend 2 ask him out b-cuz he'll probably think it's a joke... been there, done that. it's kind of nerve wrecking. also, it's not wrong to like him when u barely know him. just get 2 know him and maybe he will realize what a good friend you are and he'll tke it 2 da next level. he might be afraid to ask u out so u might have 2 make the moves on him if u know 4 sure he might like u a little. i hope this works out 4 u.
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how do i see how ppl rated me ?
you go to your column and on the right of the age it says feedback, go there and you will see the comments and stuff.
love,
flirty :)
hi i need some advice or help on smoking it is a topic i have to write about at work can you help?
u can go to websites like ask jeeves and put info on smoking. something that you want to put in your report. like the risks or addictions.
love,
flirty :)
where is a good place to publish ur poertry?
go to poetry.com or firehotquotes.com.
love,
firty :)
my mate keeps sayin she wants a kid and she wants it at a young age. wot can i do to change her mind
tell her every little bad detail of having kids like paying, working, changing diapers, taking care of him/her, etc. all the cons.
hope i helped,
flirty
What if you moved away from ALL of your friends and you know you will make new ones, but you want to old ones now!?
don't worry! i know how u feel. i have moved to 5 different places now and i have had trouble making some friends. what i do is i keep in touch with my old friends y email, telephone or letters. trust me, u will make new friends and if u keep in touch with ur old friends, you will feel more comfortable. so ask 4 their # or email, or write to them in a letter.