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my mate is worrying me
my mate keeps sayin she wants a kid and she wants it at a young age. wot can i do to change her mind
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tell her that its just not what you want and that maybe later in your marraige yall culd make it possible!
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Tell her all the responsibilities that comes along with a baby and that when the baby gets older she wont be able to go out and have fun with her friends because her friends arent always going to want to go and stop what they are doing to watch a baby-trix
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if you are married then i think that haveing a kid would be a great idea. if you aren't (which i am gessing take you aren't) then i would tell her to wait untill then if that day ever comes.
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pregnancy isn't all its cracked up to b. babies r wonderful if ur visiting them but when u have one its a different story. ur sick all the time when ur pregnant and when u have the baby ur sore and u dont want to take care of it. my aunt just had her baby and shes having a lot of problems. shes 34 and this is her first baby but she cant seem to get things rite. she wasnt breastfeeding rite and was getting really frustrated. she even said she didnt want the baby anymore and was crying every nite. she has her husband to support her but its still hard. there are financial problems and a lot of other things to worry about. her baby could b premature or have a deformity. you just never kno. ur friend needs to think about those things. its not fun having a baby. hope i helped.
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tell your mate how much this is going to affect your life and how much responsibitity it is going to be like it is pretty hard.
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tell her every little bad detail of having kids like paying, working, changing diapers, taking care of him/her, etc. all the cons.
hope i helped,
flirty
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tell her all the bad parts on having a kid...having the child waking you up so early in the morning, all the crying, diaper changing, clothes, food, and all the money it will take if you are that young
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it's her life, let her make her own mistakes. you can try and talk to her about it but come on, there isn't a big chance that it's going to happen is there?
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talk to her and ask her to think about how hard it is going to be with a kid for the rest of her life
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Well, how young is she talking about? 19? 20? Any younger than that isn't good. A kid takes a lot of time and patience, not to mention money. Any younger than 25 or so, and the kid gets in the way of homework, work, paying for things...A kid is a lot of trouble to deal with for anyone too young. Give her some of that, and try to change her mind with some "the economy sucks. Do you really want to be raising a kid while we'd be struggling to pay for everything?" stuff and she should reconsider. Good luck!
-Siren
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