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Hi i heard once that girls with belly rings to guys were trashy have you heard that and do you beileve it would be? thnks
I've never heard that was true of *all* guys, and I'm pretty sure I've never heard a guy say it. I guess it's just a matter of preference .. some guys like it, some don't, and some could probably care less. I can't see how having a belly ring makes someone trashy, but that's just my opinion. [[ and i'm not a guy .. ]]
I'm afraid to kiss my boyfriend..everytime he wants to i back away. I knows it getting on his nerves..HELP
Just tell him you're not quite ready yet, and he should understand. Just relax about it, because it's not that big of a deal, and when it happens, it'll just happen naturally, so it's nothing to be worried about.
i was homne alone bored n i want on the computer. i typed in some random webiste and up came porn. it gave me a virus n broke my computer..i dont know what to do and i am afraid my mom will get all mad. i didnt mean to look up porn but if i tell her what i was doing she will go to the site and think i did...help.
Just tell her what happened. If it was just some really random site, it's going to be pretty obvious that you weren't trying to look up porn and it wasn't your fault. If you don't tell her, it's going to look like you WERE looking at porn + you're trying to cover it up .. and you don't want that to happen.
There is this guy I really like, I have liked him for a really long time. There is just one problem, he is sort off out of my league. Is there anything I can do to make him like me more while still being myself? I rate!
Who says he's out of your league? Just start talking to him more often and let him get to know you well. [[ don't tell him like, intimate // embarrassing things about yourself, but .. yeah ]]. Just let him get to know you + flirt a bit, and hopefully he'll start to like you back :o).
ok, i really want to pierce my belly button for my 14th bday, but my mom keeps saying she doesnt like the idea. and my dad said no. i really want it, what should i do to convince them, or whatever? thanks so much
Do some research and show your parents that you're educated about your decision, and it's something you REALLY want to do. Tell them that if anything bad happens as a result of it, it can be taken out + the hole will close up and everything. If they still say no, respect their decision and stop bothering them about it, maybe they'll let you get it done when you're older.
my bestest friend iz like OBSESSED wid my step-bro n she talks about him ALL the time wat should i do???????
~ AnNoYeD ~
Tell your friend how you feel about it .. make sure she knows that it's bothering you and it's alright to talk about him once + a while, but it's just getting to be too much.
Ok my lifes not terrible or anything like that, but ugghh. Things can be so fricken tough. I have a good family, we're all together and nothings bad in that department. Im even really strong in my faith, but geese life can get to be so damn miserable. Just last year my cousin moved into the same town as me. Yep, same school, same grade, same frigen everything. And shes taking over as popular queen. Shes a little bitch that gets everything and has to be so girly and wear pink and be perfect. My opinion is shes damn ugly but whatever. Shes went out with every frigen guy in the grade and shes not done. Shes never satisfied. People actually tell me omg how can you be related to her. I dont even know... my response is gee idk how i got related to a mix of godzilla and the devil himself. To add onto the jumble my aunt (her mom) is always up my butt about us having a good relationship and crap like that. HOW CAN I HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER? I've tried time and again. I even started hanging around her crowd but they all hated me and couldnt wait to get rid of me and they would even tell her that nobody in their group really liked me. Total assholes. But the best part about her popular crowd is they all talk about eachother. So im done trying to have a relationship with her, she never showed up at my friend or family party when it was my birthday so she basically doesnt give a shit about me. Oh yes dont forget the lovely story about when my aunt came to my house on my birthday and started screaming at my mom and telling her how rude i was to my cousin(her daughter) and to everyone else and that i was a bad person and this and that, god it was miserable. I actually have an awsome crowd of friends and a wonderful best friend, and im always being told im prettier than my cousin and stuff, so im not jealous of her or anything. Shes gotten me in trouble from my parents so many times this year but my mom finally feels bad and has just realized who the girl really is. So all that being grounded for nothing. Anyway..she hates me. She always has. And my annoying aunt is always in my face and telling me to be like her daughter. The best part is that shes got two more daughters, one is my sisters age, so my sister goes through the same hell as me. Well anyway that cousin is the schools whore, biggest druggy in the world, and always lies to her mother about whos shes with. So thats damn screwed up if you know what i mean. And whenever we tell my aunt she doesnt really click with it. She just goes I trust her more than anyone in the world, when really she just loves lying to herself, why, well put it this way, its beyond my worldly knowledge. Then the youngest is going into 4th grade and boy is she a fun one. My mom always has to babysit her and shes the biggest brat on the planet. Shes nasty to our grandmother, screams cries and whines when she doesnt get what she wants, she makes fun of me (or tries to), and she never takes blame for shit. And boy do i hate her! Shes always going through my stuff and chasing me around and trying to do what I do. And yes i live in the same town as them. My relationship will never be the same with my aunt because I will and can never forgive her for what she's done to me. Its left a scar on me forever. Im sorry but what else is there to say. I was here way before my cousins were and now theyre always around me and telling on me and the one in my grade spreads rumors and makes different people hate me in my grade. And here I am, about to conquer another year of it. I used to love it where I lived. But now Im just scraping by. I want to get far away. Or live somewhere else. And I sure as hell cant wait to get off to college. I hate my school, my town, the community, I just want to be somewhere else. I love life, but not where I live. What the hell do I do before I go mad? These people are ruining my LIFE
I'm sorry =/. Everyone's going to get sick of this girl eventually, though, if she's as terrible as she sounds, and then it'll be her problem, not yours. But for now, just try to be pleasant to her and ignoring her crappy behavior, it'll get better eventually :o)
ever since summer started its been problem after problem. i guess its keeping me busy n itz better happening now the during school. but i dk. i break down at night n crym y self 2 sleep its getting bad but im the kinda person that can deal with alot happening but i dont like it. i dont know i think im really confused about wut to do n i need help.
Try getting a job, it can help keep you busy, and you'll have money for new clothes.
Well Friday is my boyfriends birthday. We have the house to ourselves for the day...any suggestions on anything romantic we could do ?
Try making // ordering him a nice dinner [[ candle-lit is always good :o) ]] and then just hanging out together / watching movies / doing whatever you guys like to do together.
okay, i kno how to get songs n stuff, but here's the delio
okay, i want to put a certain song in my column... This Kiss by Faith Hiss
i went to IWEB music, they don't have it, and i went to that one site that started of wit Xanga, and they don't have it either
does ne1 kno where i can get that song for my column, and if there's a certain code i have to paste tell me the code, but if it's like iweb, and they give u the code then thats way better
Thanks, i rate!!!!!
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=XaNgA_MuSiC
muh dad manages the money around the house... my mom used to... my dad i think hez saving ^ 4 sumthin he wantz cuz he does stuff like that. ive told my mom already she thinks the same thing. shez not gunna do anything soon cuz i dont think she wants to handle the money n pay the bills cuz itz to tiring for her. im not getting the stuff i need like new clothes, shoes etc. n even food were like ruffing it on food. this week we went over like a dollar for our money cuz we only have a certain amount according to my dad. wut do i do to solve this? itz oviously a big problem. he acts like the money my mom n he makes is all his n he desides if he wants to give her money to go shopping or sumthing. hope u guys understand n u can help me.
Money is pretty much something that is taken care of by the parents .. you cna't control how they're spending it. Money may just be tight in your household at the moment, or their COULD be something else behind it. Try talking to your mom about how you could use some new stuff and how your dad's been acting weird lately. Hopefully things'll work out.
well ive been dating my bf for almost 2 years now! WE R COMPLETELY in love.. the thing is.. is tat my parents dont noe.. my parents said i cant have a bf till i finish skool..and ill finish in 2 years so its not tat long.. my parents noe about him and i just tell them that we are really good friends.. but im scared tat if i tell them they wont let me see him.. wat to do?
xoxo angita
Try talking to your parents .. tell them you've been seeing someone for a while, and tell them you're a responsible kid, and try to get their side of just WHY you can't have a boyfriend .. then try to think of good examples of why you should // why those reasons aren't true or whatever. DON'T be snotty // defiant about it though, because that'll only make them mad. I guess if all else fails, keep seeing him behind their backs. Good luck :o)
I know it was wrong but i had sex wit my bf...the problem is i did it wit out a condom...he did not cum inside me but im really scared that im preg...its only been like 2-3 weeks since i did that..im so scared and idk what to do..i cant tell ne one well i can just not my family..im waiting for my period to start..it will start the end of this month..someone please help or tell me about preg like the signs and symtoms i really need help on it cuz its scaring me..
Um, yeah, you can still get pregnant even if he doesn't cum inside of you. I'd get a pregnancy test asap, even if you don't have any symptoms at first, just so you know for sure.
Some early signs of pregnancy are:
Delay of Menstruation
Nausea and vomiting
Tender or swollen breasts
Feeling exhausted or "sleepy"
Backaches
Frequent headaches
Food cravings
Darkening of areola (breast nipple)
I need to get rid of a few pimples over night. Do u know something fast that I can use that wont cost much? HELP YA'LL!!
Toothpaste can sometimes take care of them. Otherwise, just go to the store and see what they have for spot treatments. After they're gone, you should probably still use a good facewash to prevent any more from popping up. If you can't find anything that works, go see a dermatologist about it, and they should be able to find something that works for you!
my little brother has a really bad temper... kinda like a baby but he gets mad easily... he's really discusting... things u couldnt emagine... well i dont like touching him its that bad... so when he gets mad... lol. he touches me n like i start fighting with him. when he does stuff like that i alwayz get in trouble instead of him sept 4 1 tyme but thats a whole other story wut do i do my mom already knoz all this but hez her little baby... she says oh u cant do anything that he got 4rom ur dad. wut can i do? i have no clue wut 2 do at all.
Try to ignore him. When he starts to get angry, just go up in your room, close // lock the door if you can, and listen to some music // watch some tv // read a book / magazine, and eventually he'll go away.
Ok my boy friend iz at camp in maine he has been there since um.. the 10th of july n i love him so........... freak'n much ,but im scared he iz gunna meet sum girl there that's prettier funnier and all that stuff!!! i kno i should trust him cuz we have been togetha for almost 9 months n i trully ove him to death but im not to sure i can trust him cuz he iz a HUGE flirt!!! Do u think i can trust him not to do n e thing wid anotha girl????????
-X- Caitlin -X-
You guys have been together for a while, and it doesn't sound like he's done anything to lose your trust, so I'd trust him until he gives you some reason not to. Write him letters + see if he can call once + a while just to keep each other updated on everything. Everything should be fine :o)
I MAJORLY NEED HELP! Ok heres the story: Some of my friends (4) are going to Crazy Donkey (a dance club) 2nite and they invited me to go!! The one problem is I don't know how to ask my mom if i could go b/c it would be my first time going to a club. When I asked her previous times she was unsure and said she would think about it but those times I never made a plan to go but now I did. So what should I say to her? I never did anything to make my parents not trust me or anything like that i mean jeez im a high honor student lol I just don't know how to approach her with this info... She gets home from work later 2nite but I also wanna know is it okay to call her at work?
Just ask her .. remind her that you're a good kid and you've never done anything that's caused you to lose her trust. Considering you've never done anything to make your parents not trust you or anything, they should let you go.
Ok well in the past year things have gotten really really bad for me! Me and my parents are constantly fighting ans when ever were suppose to have "quality" time we ALWAYS get into an argument!So ive been starting to cut myself! everytime i start to cry i bring myself to cut my arms up! how can i stop doing this to my self?
That definately needs to stop, cause cutting is never the right way out! I'd look into seeing a therapist if I were you, because they can help you find other ways to deal with things. I've also heard of cutters squeezing ice cubes in their hands when they have the urge to cut, because it can [[ kind of ]] give the same sensation + cause pain, but it's not really harmful and leaves no scars. Good luck!
Many people have been saying that proactiv works to clear up acne but proactiv is from the infomercial, and I'm really scared to try it. Do they have it available in stores? About how much will it cost?
Yeah, I've heard it works pretty well. They sell this stuff at wal-mart, too, it's called Acne Free or something like that, [[ i'm not sure, it's a 3-step thing, pretty much the same as proactiv ]], that some of my friends have used, and it seems to work just as well. I think that's around $2O.OO. Or you can order Proactiv for around $4O.OO-$5O.OO. Good luck :o)
Well i met this guy about three years ago and we were just friends, didn't really talk or communicate just when i went to my aunt n uncles..he lives right next door to them. Then just last year at my uncles party did we hit it off and everything. I liked him (i even thought i loved him) He told me that he liked me, but the year before that my cuzin came from CA and they held hands n everything. They liked each other..then me n him talked all the time online n phone, i went on Vacation i called him or vise versa..now every once in awhile we talk online or i call him..i still have feelings for him, but he keeps hoping from girl to girl. supposally he has some feelings for me, but not many..i dont know what to do with it all. Should i forget him n move on? or should i tell him how i feel? what should i do?
Call him + talk to him about your feelings. Even if something doesn't work out now, and you decide to move on, I'd try to stay in touch, just in case his feelings change later on :o).