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Alright! I really like this boy and he thought we broke up because i didn't reallt talk to him because when i sit near my friends and with him, i am more tempted to talk to my friends. well, he broke up with me and asked this other girl out who he said was annoying. My brother was talking to him and he told him that he broke up with me because he thought that if he went out with me for a long time, i would talk to him more but i didn't realize it. He said he doesn't hate me but he wants to be my friend. How do I get him to like me agtain????
I rate high!!!!! (link)
Talk to him about it - isn't that why it ended in the first place? You talked to other people instead of him?


Anyone know where I can a find a shrink online or over the phone without charge or a fee. The ones that listen and give guidance to teens because I need someone to depend on . Someone. (link)
Im free and I have plenty of time to kill...

If you have AIM, then message panramos

Otherwise - if you have MSN try Arsehn@hotmail.com


Okay, my mom is making me see a shrink, because she thinks that I need to let out my feelings. I HATE shrinks. I just hate them!! I used to go see one and then i would just leave! I dont want to go, but I dont know how to get out of it! PLEASE HELP ME! I FIND SHRINKS SUCH A WASTE OF TIME!!!!!!!!!!!


~Melissa~
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Tell her violent video games are cheaper and care more.


Do you know any good Country songs or any hip/rap or pop songs! any suggestions welcome (link)
Oxymoron.

You expect too much out of us.


I had a dream that my guy friend & I were "doing things" & I know I'm really starting to like him. Should I trust this dream as like a sign that we should start a relationship? (link)
People that say dreams predict the future - and then it happens only see it happen because they act on the dream and make it happen. Some people can force themselves to dream anything, myself being one of them. If some of my dreams are giving me visions of the future - well yeah, I think we all know where its going.

If you want to make it happen then make it happen. Just think about it though - you are living your life based upon erotica.


I had to do a couple of art sheets to pass art and they have to be in tomorrow.
Obviously me being me, I left it till the last minute but there's this one I can't do for the life of me.
I went down to school and I tryed to explain to the teacher that I couldn't to see if she could give me a different one and she said ''you do what you're given'' which is pretty fair but I've done this drawing about 3 times and I've ruined the sheet from doing it and erasing it and now I can't get it right!!

She's SO bitchy and she'll give it me back and make me fix it so I won't pass but I can't fix it, I've tryed! Even my mom tryed for me.
She won't understand, belive me, it's happend to someone else before and she just failed them.

Help!? What should I do. It's really important I don't fail art (long story) (link)
Teachers do it all the time. I failed a spanish class because I didn't have the supplies to make "an authentic mayan mask". Instead I wrote a 7 page report on mayan history.

You may just be screwed.


16/f This summer I REALLY want to start eating healthier. I'm SO tired of fast food and soda. But I don't know what "healthy" is. You'd think a salad is healthy, even from fast food places and it turns out their salad has just as much calories as a big mac or w/e. So are there any snacks besides just plain fruits and vegetables. And something quick where I don't have to stand over a stove and cook. I only eat poultry, no beef, pork, etc. So maybe some vegetarian foods. What do vegetarians usually eat?
Thank you (link)
Anything can be healthy if you have an index finger.


My friend is ova at my house and she is really annoying like singing and stuff!!! AHHHHH!! help (link)
I hear a good solution to stopping hyper people is slipping arsenic in their drinks.

If you can't get any I hear that drain cleaner does the same thing.

You may just want to hang her.


Who are some famous Jazz singers/bands? Im doing a project and I need people! Thanks a ton in Advanced. Same rating as number of people you give me! (link)
Miles Davis
John Coltrane
Duke Ellington
Jelly Roll Morton
Frank Zappa (he did some jazz)
Weather Report (its fusion, but thats a branch of jazz)
The Seatbelts


I just stopped by to thank you for adding me to your advice sites favorite columnist list.

Enjoy the reading.

Are you really a computer techy? I happen to like computers also.
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Only the interesting make it on that list!

Some exceptions made for grossly ignorant people.

Im not quite a computer techie. I do some work - mainly for people I know. But I don't have an actual established job in the field. I have a few interviews coming up, hopefully they will yield something.


my best best best friend in the whole world since kindergarten is turning into a big JAP! she has so many fricken juicy hollister abercrombie etc clothes its soo annoying. we'll call her sally. so i'm not the most popular girl in the world but i'm not a complete loser. i'm a little ditzy and crazy and dorky but thats who i am. thats how all my firneds are. she doesnt seem to accept us though. all she cares about is being popular so she doesnt even say hi to us anymore. she doesnt care when we leave, and she follows her rly popular friends around. she doesnt hang out with me and my other friends anymore. its like she doesnt care that we exist. but shes so fun and nice when shes not busy being careful about being popular. i want her to be the same sally she used to be. over last summer, she started changing alot and getting much jappier. i didnt say anything--i didn't think it mattered. it's gone too far now-- what should i do? (link)
All the japanese do to you is try to bring you joy through electronical knick knacks.

Don't be so racially insensitive.


is there such a thing where your so depressed is it posibly you could die from it
and is it bad if your so depressed all you want to do is curl up in a ball and hope that god could fix all things and is it posible for him to do that for me i think it is but iv asked many things from him and i dont kno if he would help me with this one or do i have to do all the work again

you kno who this is (link)
Belief in god may work fine for you, but I wouldn't depend on something that may not be there to help you all the time.

There are plenty of problems that you have to fix yourself.


Please answer as sooon as you can!!
Welp i have been going out with this kid only about 2 weeks and we usualy hangout every day. Every day he also usually goes "down there" But i just got my period and i dont know what to tell him. I dont wanna just come out and be like.."no dont do it i have my period" but what should i say to him??? thankyouu! (link)
Ask him if he minds the sight of blood.


Yes, I'm going into high school next year and yes, I am freaking nervous. I know it's not as exaggerated as the movies make it seems, what with the plastics and all, but I'm not quite sure what to expect. Somebody enlighten me? (link)
It will vary between schools, but chances are it wont be that bad once you get past the gestapo.


my dad just got me a new cellphone yesterday and its a Verizon - Audiovox CDM8600. I like it and all besides the ring tones. Anyone know where I can get free ring tones for this phone, all the free places I have been dont give service to my phone. like bestones.com and sonnerie.net- thx (link)
Why can't people just let their phones ring anymore?


recently my friend and I have been stealing a lot. it's like every store we go to, we almost always steal atleast 1 thing. we steal simple things, like make up, food, skin care products... when she first told me that she stole things with her friend a few months ago, I laughed at the idea and I couldn't believe they were so.. bad. but when I saw them in action, I realized how easy it was. I only steal when I'm with that friend, and even though now I'm better than her at doin it, I still feel extreme guilt sometimes. she doesn't feel any regrets at all. I kno I should stop, but I just wanna kno if any of you have stolen things and have gotten caught doing it, and what were the concequences. I will stop eventually... but it's really fun and easy. if my parents even found out, they would literally disown me (link)
The consequences?

Well, first of all if you are caught stealing they will more than likely slap you with a fine thats a lot more than the items value. Thats just the fine enacted on you.

However, it goes deeper than that.

And that is, the money doesn't go back to the store. So the price of the next batch increases to make up for lost profits. So you keep stealing until the product becomes unaffordable then you HAVE to steal it.

Meh. Take an economics class and get some sense kleptomaniac.

*Afterthough
I apologize, now I understand WHY you have to go and steal things with your friend. You snap at people for telling you to do right things so obviously you do bad things because thats the only group of people that accepts you.


Im writeing a paper on second hand smoke and weather or not people should be aloud to smoke in public places ( resterunts, bars, amusment parks, ect. )and i need peoples opinioins..
if you think that they should banned public smoking or if you think that it should be aloud nd why (if you want).. i rate !! so help me if you have the time thank yaa!! (link)
Personally, I could care less. People should have the right to be away from it if they want to be. But I love the smell of a smoke ridden bar on a friday night. The whole hazy atmosphere is lovely.

However, Like I said before, because of the health problems, people shouldn't have to be exposed to that if they don't want to be.


Hey i'm Leah and i'm 16/F. Okay, so me and my ex were together or almost 2 years we broke up like 6 months ago. We haven't talked for at least 5 months and we had a really love/hate relationship, but we were like eachothers best friend. I still LOVE him soo much and i've tried calling him but he wont talk and were not aloud to talk to each..his parents hate me and mine hate him were not aloud to be around eachother..What should i do? Should I just let go..? (link)
Well, it literally started raining when I read this question.

I was in a similar situation once.

Hmm...

If I recall correctly - I ended up dating her step-sister.

Of course that ended terribly.

You're better off just forgetting about it.


i heard that when your cherry pops that your no longer a virgin is that true? only answer this if you know (link)
Is virginity that thing that I saw on Lifetime or Tech-TV?

Im pretty sure that if you pop cherrys the only thing that happens is your mother beats you with a bar of soap and a towel until you clean it up.


i LOVE this boy he meanseevryhitng to me n he LOVES me alot n we told eachother that when we getolder we will betogether n wetalk allll the time whenever we get the chance n we always say love u 2eachotherthe thingishe livesin indiana n i live n maryland and iahve a boyfirned here!!! but hedoesntknow andi am thinkin bout breaking upwiht my boyfriend cause i love that boy ssooooo much! and es coming here this summer to see me forthe first time!!what do i do? should i dummp my boyfirned everytime i want toits hard becuase i like hm alot but not as much as the boy in indiana should isaty with him or dummp him? and its also hard dumping him becuase he loves me alot!! (link)
Well... Im not sure about your problems but all my questions about maryland schooling is answered.

He probably thinks you're foreign because of the way you talk and such. When he finds out that you are an American, then im sure that he will lose interest.




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