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you can email me: xasktiffany@yahoo.comI like dancing, music, Jake Gyllenhaal, t-shirts, comedy, summer nights, funny movies, and photography.
I hate perfectionists, although I can be one, people who edit their pictures with peace signs and dumb quotes, and flies.
I like giving advice. I don't know if I'm any good at it. Nobody has told me either way.
Ask me whatever, I'll do what I can to help you out.
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how can i get into an AIM chat room? the ones where you can go in and theres people that you don't know there?
Bad idea to do that, but heres what you can do
Ricght click on YOUR screen name on YOUR buddy list.
Go down to chat, and click invite to chat, then just change the chat number.
It works.
xxtiffany
How do you prounonce Aeropostale? Everyone says it differently...
Thanks (14/f)
I say
Air-o-pas-tell
xxtiffany
hi, i tried weed for the first time from this guy. i asked for £10 ($20ish) worth, and he said i could get two rolled bigheads, and the rest un-rolled. ok so i get it today, and he just gives me two joints! i asked where the rest was and he said that there wasnt any left over. the joints were about an index finger long, and i only got two.Did i get ripped off? i had paid him beforehand so i couldnt exacly pay him less.
Heres an idea.
Don't do drugs.
xxtiffany
I'm pretty sure this is in the wrong category, but this is the one that relates to my problem the closest.
I have swimmers ear, but I went swimming a few weeks ago [almost 2], and it still isn't gone. It's seriously getting bed. I can't hear out of my left ear, so I constantly ask people if I'm yelling or if I'm talking normal. I can't lower my voice because then I can't hear myself. Sometimes when I lay down, I can my hear my heartbeat in my left ear. It's really weird. I've had swimmers ear before, and it never lasted this song, so when is this going to go away? Or is it more serious than I think? Help! It's really annoying.
See a doctor.
If you haven't tried this, it works (but i dont know if its too late)
Put a teeny bit of rubbing alcohol in your ear, and dump it our really quick, it should dry up and water thats in there.
If that doesnt work, try buying swimmer's ear. Its basically the same thing, but you can leave it in your ear.
Seeing a doctor would probably be the best.
xxtiffany
my dad drinks alot. he thinks its stupid i want to go to college and study every night.
my mom is busy keeping this family alive working and such
and my brother only has time for his gf.
my sister is only 12. and she gets in trouble alot. she takes after my dad.
is there like some kind of phone number or something that i can call?..i just want to talk to someone. but i cant do that here.
I don't know a phone number.
The best person to talk to is your guidance counselor, thats what they are there for.
Im sorry, and if you need more help, let me know
xxtiffany
Ok...well, I have been very patient on the "first kiss" front-- not rushing into it like many girls these days. I'm 14 and haven't even held hands before. But I'm really into romantic stuff more than anything, and love the idea of hugging, first kiss...etc.
So, my deal isn't that I want to rush into my first kiss so much - it's that, my best friend, who's a guy, is most likely going to have the role opposite me in the school musical, and will have to kiss me if so! Now, I really don't want my first kiss to be a stage kiss. And I do think of him romantically sometimes...but just the fact that he's my best friend makes it so awkward! Plus he's very awkward to begin with...haha :)
Well, thanks for the help - wish me luck!!
)
I agree with the person below.
If you tell the director, he will not FORCE you to kiss your best friend. You can even talk about it to your best friend. Ask him what he thinks about it. Maybe he agrees...or maybe he wants to kiss you ;)
If you are not comfortable, don't be embarrassed to speak out. The director won't make you feel uncomfortable..
xxtiffany
Is there a website i can go to to see when new cd releases are comming out?
fye.com
Its probably your best bet.
xxtiffany
I've liked this guy since like last year and over the summer I thought I'd get over him but I didnt.
Now that school is back its even worse than ever.
I've fallen SO hard for him and I dont know what to do. When hes behind me in line, or when he looks at me, or if hes in close proximity I start to shake, my words dont make sense and I feel my face go red and my heart beats super fast.
I want to talk to him. I want to make a move. A subtle one like wink at him or smile at him. But I can never get his eye contact! I KNOW he looks at me but when I look hes not looking and when he looks im not looking. Haha
My friends say he looks at me - a lot. And I wouldn't doubt it. SO many times i've caught him and today was just one of those days. I'd sit in class and I looked up and his head quickly turn away. Afterschool he watched me walk away (according to my friend) just little things like that...
He's done a lot of other subtle things last year but I dont feel like typing it all out.
I dont know what to do with myself.
I HATE feeling like this, but I can't bring myself to do something about it.
I want to tell him/give him a hint. But my body wont let me!!!
Any advice?
He's kinda shy and quiet so its not like he'll be blunt and ask me out or anything.
=/
Before you get into the flirt stuff, I think you should just try having a regular conversation. Talk about anything: school, friends, sports, homework..
Ask him questions about what he knows best...HIMSELF. Start to break the ice a little, and be a little more flirtatious each time.
Then, in a few months or so, tell him how you feel. You don't have to worry about him not liking you, because it really sounds like he does. Just give him a note saying something like this:
_____(his name)-
I didn't know how to tell you in person, but I need you to know that i have feelings for you (OR i really like you, as more than a friend).
You can even tell him in person. Good luck, and if you need any more help, don't hesitate to ask.
xxtiffany
how long can parakeets go without food?
Haha, I hope youre not planning on starving your parakeets [just kidding ;)]
It depends on how many birds you have in a cage. I have two in a cage, and I'd say the absolute longest is 3 days. Maybe only 2. I usually feed them every other day.
xxtiffany
i think its really really hot when guys have a cigarrete in their mouth for some reason but i hate the smell and i hate the smoke..is there anything like a ciarage that i could tell him to do instead of smoking cuz he only does it cuz it turns me on
A lot of firework stores sell fake cigarettes. They look real, and will occasional let out a puff of fake smoke. If not, try a party store, because i KNOW they exist.
By the way, this is one of the dumbest questions I've ever ever read. Not only are you hurting this guy for a stupid selfish reason, but its also bad for you, and anyone else around him.
xxtiffany
EDIT.
Its being selfish because you want him to do it, the end. And how is that a turn on? You think lung cancer is hot?
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this is my hair now but im not sure if i should get it cut or not.
and im probably a poser for asking but whatdoes a typical scene/emo kid actually look like and wear? lol
I want to help, but your link doesnt work!
fix it, and let me know.
xxtiffany
what does the term "heartstrings" mean?
what are they suppose to be??
i'm confusedd..
helpp?
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/heartstrings
xxtiffany
Ok so i just started highschool and i've gotton off to like a REALLY bad start, its only been 3 weeks, and i'm like failing all my classs! I don't know how either! and i do ask for the teachers for help but it still doesnt help me! ughh. Highschool is just so different from middle school and like ive NEVER EVER gotton a D or an F on a report card and i dont want to start now, and im in all basic clases, so what im asking is do you know any good study skills that could help me, and i have soccer on tuesdays and thursdays from 5:30-7:30
so that would be a big help! and this is highschool and it like REALLY counts! please pleast please help me! im so stressed out right now!
talk to your guidance counselor.
Ask your teachers if they can give you extra help after school.
tell your parents that you are having a tough time, they can help you out.
if you need any more help, let me know.
xxtiffany
EDIT.
I am not 12, I'm 15. And i skipped a grade. So not only am I smart, but I'm pretty mature, more mature than you anyway (not that that is an accomplishment, a fish is more mature than you)
And what advice do you want to hear? Stop failing? How bout that? Stop playing soccer until you get better grades? How bout that? Don't count on getting into a good college, how bout that?
If YOU are failing, and YOU don't understand what the hell is going on, YOU need to get help from SOMEONE else. Because YOU don't get it, YOU cant help YOURSELF.
If you don't talk to your teachers, they can't help you. If you were one of the smartest kids in your classes last year, chances are that other kids are having a tough time. Are you in AP classes? Switch out of them. Throw a study party with your friends, not that much studying gets done, but its worth a shot. If you are really having a tough time, try Sylvan, or another tutor. What you need to know now, you'll need to know as a sophomore, a junior, a senior, and throughout college. So just saying "oh this will all blow over" is a bunch of bologna. You need help. Now.
My homecoming is coming up and I would like to lose some extra weight for the big night. I only have two weeks so of course I understand I won't dramatically alter my body but to just tone up and lose alot of water weight would be enough. Does anybody know any certain diets or exercise plans that would help me lose some extra baggage as soon as possible? I don't really care if the treatment isn't permanent [like detoxing usually leaves your stomach flatter, but I'm not sure how to do that?] because i really just wanna look good in my dress. please help me with any ideas
p.s. i don't have alot of money so unless there is something that is relatively cheap and found at most stores please don't try to sell me something =]
RUN. everyday.
Drink more water, don't drink any soda.
Stay away from any junk food.
Crunches and leg lifts will help tone your tummy and thighs.
good luck!
xxtiffany
15/f Lately I have been so afraid of dying. The other day i started crying hysterically and trying not to scream while thinking about it. I am fine when I dont thinka bout it, but lately I can't help it. The other day in school i had to get out of class because I started feeling like that again. I told my mom and she said not to tell anyone because theyll just try to make me go on medication and my dad just says not to worry so much. What can i do? please help!
See your school counselor, theyll have the best advice.
My advice? Think about all the great stuff thats going on in your life. Keep yourself busy, take up sports, hang out with friends, do whatever you can to keep your mind off of your fear.
xxtiffany
i dont know what yo domy bf want to have sex but i dont want to do i just tell him?
tell him you arent ready yet. he should understand
if he doesnt respect that, you shouldnt be with him.
xxtiffany
ok so im white, and i HATE IT! but in the summer time i can tan so i dont mind it so its okay, but now that its almost winter time im getting really white again and its annoying as hell! and halloween is coming up and well all my friends and i are dressing slutty and it shows my legs and well my legs are really white and stuff and my my friends are all pretty tan so anyways my question is what is a good way to look semi tan with out going to like a tanning bed because like if i went to a tanning bed you could TOTTALY tell i went and that would be tottaly embarressing because one day i would be pale and then the next day i would be tan and i dont want indoor tanning stuff unless it like ACTUALLY WORKS! and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASEE let it work because i had the worst experience with indoor tanning stuff, please help me i hate being white, it makes my self confidence go down so much! and i dont know what to do to make my self look tan! and there is so sun in the winter!
Tanning beds = cancer.
you can always wear fishnets on halloween, then you wont be able to tell what color your legs are. plus itll be kinda dark, even at parties. so you dont need to worry.
also, a lot of fake tanning stuff can make you look orange, but you could try some of those lotions.
xxtiffany
EDIT.
go to a tanning bed and get cancer, because obviously thats what you want. :)
I'm in love with some girl who is 4 years younger than me rite now... we met at church and shes kind of flirty.. with all the guys in a cute way
(thats how she makes friends). anywayz
I juss cant get her out of my mind.
i think the other guys like her too
(i guess because she flirts with them)
so i dunno if i should ask her out or not
we really never hung out outside of church and it mite b awkward and all
but im in love with this girl
It depends on your age and her age I guess.
If you let me know, i can give you a better answer, but right ow this is all i got:
Find out if she likes you. Flirt with her. See how things go from there. Hang out with her outside of church. You two can go places in a large group, if shes not comfortable being alone with you, and you can still get to know her better.
xxtiffany
17/f
Okay, here's the deal.
I had sex with my boyfriend (and we WERE safe, we DID use a condom) back in July. That was the last time we did it, we haven't done it since then.
I was supposed to start my period on August 4, 2007.
It didn't arrive, and me and him started freaking out a bit. So I bought some pregnancy tests and about 2 weeks after my (late) period, I took one. It came out negative. A little while later that month, I STILL hadn't gotten it and I decided to take ANOTHER one. THAT ONE came out negative also. Then, when it hit the point of being a MONTH LATE, I took ANOTHER test and it came out NEGATIVE. I've never had my period be this late before and I'm just really stressed and annoyed that it still hasn't come yet! I had HORRIBLE cramps once or twice during August, so I FIGURED it was on its way, but I guess not. So basically, my question is: even though we were safe and all 3 of the tests came out negative, what are the chances that I'm pregnant? PLEASE help me out with this. I can't tell my mom any of this because she's REALLY Christian and she doesn't approve of the "sex before marriage" and my dad is still in the "she's my little girl" phase. PLEASE HELP!!!
You used a condom, you're pregnancy tests came out negative, I say your chances are pretty low.
However, this site is not an online pregnancy test, so I suggest that you go to a doctor if you are really worried. Tell them you want this to be confidential. If you got your period when you were like 15 or 16, its normal. Your period takes a while to stay completely normal and on time, I guess.
xxtiffany
Where can I find CLEAR oral b toothbrushes. The clear, solid color ones.
I can't find them in any stores .
I know you're looking for a store, but you could always ask you dentist.
If you don't want to do that, try walmart? or any grocery store.
xxtiffany