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Okay ..i got a really bad grade on my spanish thingy .. i got an E and ive never gotten an E in my life. I mean i got grounded for a C and who knows what will happen with an E .. im too scared to show my mom so i thought about forging bcuz i've done it before but im afraid that like one day im gonna have a parent-teacher confrence and my teacher is gonna show her that and her be like i never signed that. i dont want the simple answer honesty is the key or whatever i want what yall would do! i rate really good =) please help me now!!! (link)
ah i hate to say it but honesty is best iknow its tough i hate wen i get bad grades, i mean everyone does. If u need to get it signed try tellin her something positive about ur school work first to loosen her up like "o btw i got a 90" on this or something and then b like o yeah i didnt do so well on this but ill try harder next time n study more. That should work, ive tried that a few times and my mom wasnt as mad as she would b if i shoed her the bad grade first.


my girlfriend has posters on her wall of a bunch of celebrities that she thinks are "hot". She claims to me all the time that she doesnt check them out or think about them in any way but i think she is lying to me. I dont know what to do now. Is she lying to me about checking other guys out or what. She claims they are stupid little pictures, well if they are so stupid why are they up? (link)
just cuz she has posters of celevs doesnt mean that she doesnt love u lol its not like she is gunna go out with n eof them and checking otu guys not celebs is a diff story. if u see her checking out other guys talk to her about it but otherwise don't worry abot it she loves u and just trust her and she will trust u, hope i helped :)


This might be a stupid question, but how do you know when you're in love with someone? How does it feel? (link)
like, u cant stop thinking about them..and u just wanan see them and talk to them and you just htink they are great and basically cant get them out of your mind lol.


Hello!! I never wear makeup!! Should I?? I have medium brown hair, brown eyes and white skin (not very tanned) what colors should i use, and fiunally how do I put it on?? PLEASE answer as much as possible!@!! !Thanks so much!! I'll rate you (link)
its definatley a personal choice i think, aslo ur age maybe..i mean if ur like 11..thed id say wait a few yers but if u wanna wear makeup go for it. I;d go for natural colors like light pinks and subtle lip gloss. I like neutregena moisture lip gloss and maybelline eyeshadow is good. It is also good to get a set of 4 that come together in one pack so then you have a variety of shades to choose from. If u wanna try some mascara..maybelline mascara is geat, only do one or two strokes tho if u dont want it to look like a lot of makeup. Hope i helped


Hey!! I'm 14 andI wear my hair in a low pony tail EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!! im not kidding!! I do this because it is always sticking up somewhere. I can't get a straightener ( im not allowed to) and i can't blowdry it straight. I have brown hair, below the shoulders and it curls alot at the ends. Does anybody have any suggestions on ANYTHING i can do with my hair!!?!?!??!?! Thanks so much!! I'll rate you high:):)
Thanks! (link)
ah i know exactly wat u mean~ my hair always sticks out everywhere lol. try scrunching it with some srcunching gel. That will get the frizzies out and it will calm it down. The one I like is Pantene Pro-V scunching gel. another thing you could do is use straightening balm that mite help with the blowdrying.Or u mite b able to just wear it in a messy bun or a high pony tail. hope i helpoed


well, im not depressed, but lately ive been really sad. i miss my best friend that goes to the other middle school in our town, i dont have a b/f, never been kissed, and basically all my freinds are biotches. i dont know what to do. i cant talk to my mom cuz i just cant, and the only person i can talk to is my friend at the other school. can someone help? (link)
hmm im sorry to hear u havent been feeling great lately. Maybe every weekend or so u can try to get together with ur best friend to catch up with everythjg that has been going on during the week, that mite make you feel better. Maybe you could try going running or getting a lot of excersiese (idk if u do already) but excersize reales a lot of stress.also if it makes u feel better, a lot of girls are really immature in middle school but they get a lot more mature as the years go on. As for your boy situation its okay that you have never been kissed, yes it is frustrating but i bet a lot of ur frieds havent. You mite want to consider talking to a therapist maybe if u dont wanna talk to ur mom or maynbe a good friend or a guidance counsler. Wow sorry that was really long, but n e way i hope u feel better n hope i helped :)


does anyone know how to do the perfect messy bun??? when i try, i always screw it up. thanks!! (link)
this is how i do it atleast..bend down so all ur hair is in front of you then gather it into a ponytail but don't put the tie around it. Then put the tie on the bottom part of the pony tail and then just put it on half way so its a bun. Sorry if its not the best directions, its sorta hard to explain online but i hope i helped :)


I have a boyfriend who i see every other weekend.i just saw this kid who i havent seen in three years and i still like him. wat do i do? do i stay with my boyfriend who ive known for a month and have been together a week or do i break up with my boyfriend for the kid ive liked for three years? some1 help please (link)
Well it depends..if u liked this kid from three years ago evenwhile you were going out with ur bf idk if u still have feelings for ur bf. Depends also on who you like more and u can see yourself with more. If you feel a connection with the other kid u should break up wit ur bf. But if u feel you like ur bf more stay with him. GIve it a few days and see which one u feel urself thinking about more. Hope i helped


I have to play the piano in front of about 100 people in like, three hours, and I'm leaving in twenty minutes because I have to be there early. Anyway, I've done it before, but I was like ten so I didn't care what I sounded like. I have the song memorized and I'll still have the music in front of me, I've played it a zillion times, but I am INCREDIBLY nervous. I'm naturally a nervous person. My stomach is already in knots and when I think about it my palms sweat. The last time I played, I tried to be loud and my fingers and hands were so sweaty they slipped off the keys. Any experiances or help?

~Laura~ (link)
aw ya i would b nervous too just try and pretend that they aren;t there and that you are just pracitcing in ur house by urself. even if u messup no one will make a big deal they mite mention something that nite but then forget aboout. Best of luck on ur concert!


hey! i really need your help. alright im 15 years old & i like this 17 year old guy. anyway, tonight when me & my friends met up w/ him it was like 10 minutes till i was supposed to be home. so he was like just call them & tell em youll be home in about 30 minutes. which number one i knew wasnt gonna work & number two he wanted to like make out. so my problem is this...i mean i really want to 'do something' w/ him but im not sure if im like too nervous. like tonight the thought of getting in his car & like driving somewhere & hooking up wasnt making me happy. ive never kissed anyone so maybe thats why. im just so scared...is this normal? do you have any tips on kissing? am i just freaking out for no reason or what! **i nEed hELp** (link)
aw yes this is totally normal for various reasons. one, you have never kissed a guy and starting off with someone older than you can be intimdating, and number two you weren't sure what he wanted to do and where he wantead to go n stuff and u wanted to make sure u knew wat u were doing n stuff since it was ur first time. (this is was i think atleast) As for this guy, he seems very pushy. Don't let him push you into doing things you don't wanna do like teling ur parents thing that u don't want to or someting you have to be assertive with him. And for tips on kissing, sorry i cant help you tthere lol its very personal the style you do it and how you do it but basically a good thing to know is that kissing is very natural and it will coe to you when you are doing it, i was nervous my first time too :). so best of luck with this guy and remember to stick to what you think feels best


My parents nag me ALL of the time! Seriously, they bug the hell outta me and I am so sick of it! I think i might move in with my aunt, but i dunno how to break it to my parents. Also, anybody else have this problem? how do you guys deal with it? Thanks in advance!
~From, ME! (link)
omg!!! i know its so annoying my mom does it to me all the time, i mean i hate to admite it but they are just tryin to help u some of the time but most of the time it is just so mad annoying. You just gotta take it in stride and try and ignore it i mean like dont igrnore them but ignore the fact that they do it unless its like a huge problem that you really need to do something about it, it seems like it mite b the case wit u bc u wanna move in wit ur aunt but idk if u feel this way just gently tell them that u feel that their nagging is too much to take and u feel like u need to live with ur aunt unless they feel they can change their ways


if there are me and my friend babysitting for 3 1/2 hours is $30 enough to split for both of us (link)
sure that sounds like a good amount. If u want some more $ i guess u could offer longer working ours to ur family, but only if u feel comfortable with it.


'weegi boards'...
how do they work? do they? the fortune telling boards...
where can u get them? (link)
Oujia boards. supposedly u move this hting called..a mouse (i think) and ask it a question and it will spell the answer out with numbers and letters. You can get them at any toy store i wuld assume. This site mite help u and tell u more about them
http://skepdic.com/ouija.html
i hope i helped..:)


okayy i usually wearr likee a shirrtt with my boobs hanging out and my stomach showing.. or a shorrt skirt with a shirt that pretty much coverrs my stomach with my boobs poping out .. is that wrong should i lett guyss havee to wonderr and like wunt to find out whats under it all .. or is it better to keep dressing like ido (link)
uhmm..i mean u could waer that once in aqhile but dont do it a lot cuz u could b giving out some "not so good vibes" its good to b conservaite and like u can wear like jeans n a tshirt n look cute too instea of a short skirt with a really low shirt. Its totally a personal deicicon i guess.


Does anyone know of a website where you can read books online or of any website where I can purchase the book, "Once Upon A Castle" by Nora Roberts . Besides Amazon . com . Thanks soo much . (link)
with some books they have the book online here at sparknotes.com but idk bout that one. You couuld also try cliffnotes.com as for ur book idk if u wanna do it online only but borders would have it or barnes n nobles. As for online maybe ebay...or maybe u can by it on sparknotes idk haha...hope i helped


I really dont know what category to put this under but anyway.... i started my period in July and my boobs aren't big! I mean i atleast want them to be a size B!! I am 13 years old! But do you think they will grow? **help**
P.S.-I rate high! ;) (link)
Thats okay, even if they are small thats fine too lol but there still is a good possibility that they will grow bigger.


Ok...my friend Abby has major problems. She's always telling everyone shes fat when shes only 100 pounds!! We are 13 and also she used to cut herself. She passed herself out in the shower and she got a big bruise on her back. Her mom is always in jail for doing drugs and her mom had a mixed baby! Abby lives with her grandparents... and they dont take her seriously when she says that shes Depressed. I tell my mom everything she tells me and my mom is really trying to help her and my mom even looked up people to help her...do you think we are doing the right thing by helping her? or should we let her deal with her parents? please help my friend! i will apprecaite it soo much! (link)
o wow! ur defiantely doing the rite thing by helping her. She clearly needs someone to help her emotionally and she has some issues she needs to work out. I don't think i am good enough to really help her out but im definately willing to try. Just drop her aim sn in my inbox or email or something and i can try n help her out but i think ur mom is doing the rite thing by finding a profesional to help her and ur doing the rite thing by telling her everything she says. I hope for the bst with ur friend and that everythign works itself out. If u need n e help with n e thing..lemme know


Ive never smoked weed and I dont plan to.. but why do people do it ? Like what happens when you get high .. whats so good about it ? (link)
idk ive heard that u see things differnatly like visually and you feel really like hyper or weird or something and it relaxes u a lot..and they feel that it relievs stress or something but in the end it just adds to it. i dont realy know so much sorry, but hope i helped


Does anybody out there know of any good food recipe sites? I love to cook, but I need a lil help. lol If u know of any, pleeez help me Thanx!!

-Janine-* (link)
try foodnetwork.com or i think epicurious.com idk bout the second one but i know the first one works lol..hope i helped


OK i guess ive had a couple pimples or watever on my chin n now tha skin on my upper chin kinda under my lip is red n inflamed in a way. does anyone kno how to get rid of this?! thankz! (link)
Try using the acne spot treatemnt..(sry i forget the company who does it..maybe clean and clear??) and a soap that dries out pimples. (also by clean and clear, t he one that is also a mask or a scrub) I find that one works really well. As for ur lip...maybe just some reg. chapstick or some vaseline. :)




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