about

hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

advice

what are some good ideas on what i can do with my boyfreind when we hang out. like games and stuff. we always just watch movies...and its getting lame.

what are some ideas besides going out too?


xo thanks


ps 16/f

hey, if your sick of watching movies here are some thins that you can do. have a romantic candlelight dinner together [ you cook for him or you can cook together ] make a cd together of all of your favorite songs, invite other friends ovre the house and play truth or dare or spin the bottle. cait ♥

[view]

My ex and i havent been together for 18 mos. now.
Hes had a gf for over a year, but the relationship burned out as quickly as it started.(they had sex the 2nd night they hung out) Him and i did alot of stuff, but we didnt have sex completely>(I didnt let him go in all the way> we liked each other since 7th grade, but we didnt start going out until our soph. year)We grew to love each other. This last gf that hes been with is as easy as they come(she will have sex with any guy) Shes 16 and has had at least 6 partners that i know of. My ex and her fought all the time. She told me he was an ass to her, but she would always keep taking him back! Its just a vicious cycle. He told me they fell in love very fast. I told him thats not love and that love takes time to grow, and he told me not to tell him what love is because he already knows!!! His version and mine arent the same by any means!! Sex is very sacred to me and i take it very seriously. This girl he cant seem to let go of throws it around like it means nothing to her!
When we were together>he never wanted to be with anyone else, just the two of us. He didnt want to hang out or do anything with anybody>just us two!! He was the very same way with his last gf too, but way worse! All they did was screw all the time! He lost all of his friends because of it. I wanted him to spend time with his friends and he always took that the wrong way, like i didnt want to be with him.
Since hes had her, he looks at relationships so differently now. When he was with me, he told me that hes not like that, and he didnt care if he got any, he just wanted to be with me!
We've hung out 2 times now since they have been broken up. The first time was last Nov. In the 3 hrs we hung out, we wrestled, gave each other back rubs, then he started making out with me. I was cool with that until he asked me to let him "stick it in". I told him no! He asked me at least 4 more times after, and i just kept saying no. I didnt hear from him after that. He told me he made his choice and wanted her back! 3 mos. later after they broke up again...we hung out once again! This time we just cuddled. The things that he was saying to me, i couldnt believe that was him talking! He told me he wants someone experienced, and that he doesnt want a virgin. *Theyre no fun*! (well screwing his last ex must feel like a virgin because he told me she bleeds everytime they do it) Shes been with another guy and he brags to everyone what they do and he talks so much crap about her, but he told me shes easy and thats all he wants. She still calls my ex says she still loves him, goes to his house before going to this other guys house. He doesnt care that she has sex with other guys just as long as he knows she still loves him and he will wait for her for as long as it takes.(just as long as she still gives him what he needs) and im sure she does.
He told me that im not up to par. I have been known to "Kiss" a guy here and there. wow, "kissing" verses "sex".
I thought that guys wanted girls that havent been around! How could he have changed soo much, and think that sex is love?? He can tell me hes in love with her all he wants, but i know, and so does everyone else>that hes in love with the SEX!! If he cared about her, he wouldnt be treating her like shit, and calling her a slut!!
So if any guys are reading this>please help me to understand what love is to them!!
Will rate high! Im sorry this is so long!

hey, nice guys care about way more then sex. he is like a sexual predator that needs to calm down. just forget about him. there are plenty of other boys out there they are better and care more about sutff then sex. cait ♥

[view]

what does it mean when you hold up your pinky.

as like an insult?

hey, its a way that people say fuck you. cait ♥

[view]

How do you make LiveJournal Icons?

Thanks in advamce!!
♥

hey, you cant mkae them. but there are some at http://www.xanga.com

cait ♥

[view]

OK...soo well i've always been pretty close with my boyfriends mom. and well now i dont know what to think. she's never really seen me and her son do anything. but last night she saw me on top of him making out in the hottub...and i dont know whatelse she saw.
is there anything i can do that would hopefully make her not think im a slut and stuff like that? becuase right now she donest think to highly of me

hey, well you need to have a talk with your boyfriends mom. tell her that it was just kissing its not like you were having sex. also im sure she made out with her husband like that when she was your age. cait ♥

[view]

Okay well me (14 f.) and my friend ( who is a guy) got in a fight and i hate it because i dont even no what were realli fighting over and its stupid and i kinda like him and he DID like me up untill his ex started liking him again. and shes one of my friends and the only person that nos i like him is my best friend. But he like hates me now and i cant even talk to him and im not sure what to do becuz i like him but even if he did like me back i dont think i could go out w/ him or anything becuz my best (guy) friend hates him. i mean he ust to be best friends w/ him and now he realli hates him. and he gets mad at me for just thinking about liking him. im so confused and i dont no what to do can anyone help me get out of this mess?

hey, you have to talk to him about it no matter how hard it is. let him know that you dont wanna lose him as a firned. and if you keep fighting then jsut that might happen. caiit ♥

[view]

my parents are way too overprotected. yea everyones are, but mine take it too literally. im in 10th grade and havent done things most middle schoolers have already. ive never drank, smoked, or done anything with a guy... i dont want to drink or smoke.. but having a boyfriend would be nice. my parents only let me out of the house for school, sports, and babysitting. if i want to go somewhere else they have to have a list of names, phone numbers, addresses,... you get the point. even if its just across the street. and i have to call them every hour while im out. not that i go out alot because they dont let me and i have to fight if i really want to go. how can i gain their trust when they wont listen to me when i try to talk to them about it? ugh im just so frustrated.

hey, you have to try talking with them about it again. maybe try to find a " happy medium " aka comprmise. maybe try little things like instead of calllign everyhour ask them how about every 2 hours. cait ♥

[view]

hey! okay, i'm 15/f and i'm allowed to get my belly button pierced after our last cheerleading competition, which is around march 13. but, we are going to mexico for spring break on march 24, and i don't know if i should get it done before spring break or not. i want it when i'm laying on the beach and stuff but will the water in mexico and all the chlorine be bad for it? i don't know if i should get it done before or after mexico. any ideas? any info on belly button piercing would be great too!

hey, well there are pros and cons of getting this done before and after. well the salt water is good for hte healing process. but sand is not. cait ♥

[view]

what events are held at the olympics , not just the winter sports.

hey, i did a google search for you.

summer olympics
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=events+held+in+the+summer+olympics&spell=1

winter olympics
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&q=events+held+in+the+winter+olympics

cait ♥

[view]

ok.. so i know this isnt good. but the other day i had a really low self-esteme and i took painkillers.. how many would like really harm me because im worried..

hey, im not exactly sure but it should say on the bottle of painkillers. cait ♥

[view]

So both of my grandparents died last year. Their house went to my dad and his brother. My uncle bought a few houses before and now he wants to buy a better house... but doesnt have the money so he wants it from us. We dont have that kind of money. And he's most likely gonna take us to court since he's supposed to get his half of the house blah blah..so we might have to sell our house...Is there any chance for us not to sell our house? Because if we do, we can't afford a house in this state meaning we move to up a couple of states. Yeah..I don't want to move. Can we win this and stay here? Because no one thinks so..

hey, well anything is possible. just be ready to move but at the same time dont be ready to move. cait ♥

[view]

Okay so this December everything was fine. My friends and I were set for prom:
Alan and Alex are dating
Alan and Seth and Jake are best friends
Alex and Aly and Lara and I are best friends
Seth and Jake had dates but Lara, Aly and I didn't and that was fine because there are ten of us in a limo and a table and we made up 9 people.
In December, Alex and Lara had a falling out and we backed up Alex because Lara was clearly lying and being a bitch. So she was out of our group. Now we were worried cuz we had to find dates.
Now Alex is acting weird, apparently she's having "family problems" that she won't tell us about and she's becoming distant from us (we barely talk) and she's taking Alan with her (we hang out with him more than her)
Now Alan and Jake had a fight so Jake doesn't know if he wants to go to Prom with Alan.
Today I found out (from someone else) that Seth has booked his limo with another group!
What the hell are we going to do? Aly and I are messed up, we're afraid to ask Alan and Alex if they're coming with us in case they change their minds.
The way this is going, it'll be me and Aly in a limo for ten and sitting at our Prom table alone. Everyone we know is already into their table/limo arrangments and we're leaving on a month-long school trip to Peru on Friday so when we get back in April, there will only be a month till Prom and everyone will be sorted already.
Aly is sick of it and she's calling the limo company right now to book a limo because she said that they all said they were coming with us and if she books the limo, they'll have to stick to their word.
Now they only talked about the limo, not the prom. So even if we book the limo, we'll still be at a table of ten with four people. What are we supposed to do? This is humiliating!

hey, im going to actually take the time to asnwer this consdiering the ther people didnt. well having a limo for 4 would be just plain stupid. have somebody else drive you. also dont try to fix relationships. i have done that in the past and it just makes it worse. cait ♥

[view]

Does anyone know where you can buy the diamond Chanel logo earrings (the two C's)?? Store names or links would be fabulous. :)
thanks!

hey, www.chanel.com
cait ♥

[view]

has anyone here had a nose job? what was the whole experience like?

hey, well like i havent experienced it but my sister has. she had some migranes after it. but it looks great. so getting a nose job has both pros and cons. cait ♥

[view]

i don't even know what i'm asking really, but i'm really upset.

today my friends had a party to watch a movie and they said they called me, but there was nothing on my caller id, no messages, and my cell phone was on and with me and never rang. i really feel forgotten by my friends and really hurt. how can i keep myself from being forgotten again?

hey, well this could have happened for many reasons. maybe if the people that said they called you were like best friends and very close then they might have not wanted you to break up thier fun. maybe your not really close to them if thats the case then you shouldnt worry about it. if you are close with these people then talk to them about itand let them know that its hurting you. cait ♥

[view]

I saw my bf at the mall with another guy kissing him! Not just kissing but making out! What should i do? Should i confront him?!
HELP me please!
Thank you soooo much

hey yes talk to him. thats kinda gross. let him know that you saw it. cait ♥

[view]

my freinds and i are going to ding dong ditch these guys who always do it to us. these guys are masters at it. does anyone know anytips or hints to get them?

hey well have ONLY 2 people go up to the door. have one ring the doorbell while the other one knocks. cait ♥

[view]

What is a program similar to winzip? I downloaded a game "Lineage2", and i need to know what program to use, and how to use it. Tell me if you need any more information. Thanks.

hey well there is no program similar. not many programs do that. search on google for facts on winzip. cait ♥

[view]

ok ive been going out with this guy for a month and b4 he was like one of my best friends. ive gone out with guys befor but i never let them kiss me sumthing always stopped me like it was too soon or something and after a week of being togather he asked if he could kiss me and i let him he n e ways we started making out and i let him grab my ass and shit and we have gottin to 2nd base i love him and i dont know if i went to fast or something i dont want to ask my firends cuz its just between us we dont want people in our bussiness i noe that was kinda long but did i go to fast or is it ok ?? please help ill rate high

hey everyone goes there own speed. as long as you thought you wee ready it was fine. but dont have sex with him. cait ♥

[view]

Can you buy the new Razr phone, the one that *DOES'NT* flip open, if you use SunCom? I'll rate high.

hey yes they sell those. i have one = ]. depending on the color both cingular and tmoblile have them. check them out on the companies websites. cait ♥

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker