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i <3 him, he hates me....
Okay well me (14 f.) and my friend ( who is a guy) got in a fight and i hate it because i dont even no what were realli fighting over and its stupid and i kinda like him and he DID like me up untill his ex started liking him again. and shes one of my friends and the only person that nos i like him is my best friend. But he like hates me now and i cant even talk to him and im not sure what to do becuz i like him but even if he did like me back i dont think i could go out w/ him or anything becuz my best (guy) friend hates him. i mean he ust to be best friends w/ him and now he realli hates him. and he gets mad at me for just thinking about liking him. im so confused and i dont no what to do can anyone help me get out of this mess?
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well, i would say fuck it, it sounds like it's a lot of complication and it desn't suit someone like you. Hell you're only 14 anyway.i would say just focus on yourself and school. I bet you still like him even though he's mean but hey, chicks like that sorta thing. May sound wrong but it's true, girls like jerks, even if they're treated like crap. For the most part, if this is way overhand yell out in youre mind " Fuck this, this is a waste of my damn time !" and live for yourself. I've done this, and this helped.. alot
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if your best guy friend was REALLY your best guy friend, he'd accept the fact that you like the guys he DISLIKES. and he`d do anything to make you happy.. right? and if the guy you like is a smart dhood, he'd realize what a jerk he was about what he caused. if he DOESNT realize it, then he's not worth liking.
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Wow. this same thing is happening with me. I told this guy who i liked i didn't want a boyfreind. Well now we hate eachother and I still maybe have feelings for him. Well, what I would do is try adn talk to him and settle things. Be your charming self. As for you best guy freind, tell him you really like him and you can't change how you feel. Most likely he will understand, if he doesn't.. he's not a very good friend. If you would like to talk more about this, please IM me or drop one in my inbox! xomtin33. <33
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hey, you have to talk to him about it no matter how hard it is. let him know that you dont wanna lose him as a firned. and if you keep fighting then jsut that might happen. caiit ♥
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Well, you said "I kinda like him." so I have to assume you aren't just 'dying' to have him.
If he left you for your friend, she's not being a very nice friend for doing that for you, but hey, it happens.
You said the only person who knows you like him is your best friend, yet you just broke up with him, so it seems it'd be a common fact that you like him.
Your best (guy) friend will get over it if you want to go out with him. I didn't like who my best friend was dating but I 'sorta' pretended to like her as a friend while they were going out.
I'd leave him alone though. If he left you for his ex, you might want to find someone else. Things are pretty complicated and it sounds like things are over as far as he's concerned.
Not trying to get him back would clear almost everything up.
Good luck.
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