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forgotten
i don't even know what i'm asking really, but i'm really upset.
today my friends had a party to watch a movie and they said they called me, but there was nothing on my caller id, no messages, and my cell phone was on and with me and never rang. i really feel forgotten by my friends and really hurt. how can i keep myself from being forgotten again?
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first of all, this was very rude of them. you need to talk to them about it even if its hard it may fix things ... i fyou dont want to talk to all ofthem pick one of them; one you feel the closest to or you feel you can talk to the most/is the nicest and talk to that person about it.
if it continues to happen, then you should try and hang out with other people even though it may be hard. its mean for them to do this to you and if it continues they are not good friends.
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I think you should talk to your friends and tell them how you feel.
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I FEEL YOUR PAIN! my friends seem to leave me, and hang out. but all i can say is tell them calmly (or else they might call you freaking out) that you dont like what they're doing and that you feel left out. hopefully they'll undertand and take you back but sometimes it backfires... tel me if i helped at all! -cab
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Offer to do things. I'd say invite them over, get them to hang out at your house and do fun and interesting things. Maybe they feel as if your leaving them out by not calling or something? Friendships go both ways, dont expect them to do all the calling and arranging for hanging out & such.
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Confront them, and just tell them you know they didn't call. And tell them how you feel, they will realize what they did and invite you next time.
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hey, well this could have happened for many reasons. maybe if the people that said they called you were like best friends and very close then they might have not wanted you to break up thier fun. maybe your not really close to them if thats the case then you shouldnt worry about it. if you are close with these people then talk to them about itand let them know that its hurting you. cait ♥
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That happens to every one especilly if you have a odd number od friedns. I dont think you were really forgotten but sometimes friends need some time to just be with certain people. Maybe there wwere other times when you and someone left someone else out and didnt really notcie that you were leaving them out. Dont feel left out no matter what if friends are true friends there always there for you and love you.
hope i helped
-Jess
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