Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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Age: 17
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I'm seventeen & a virgin.
so therefore i haven't had my cherry popped. i was just wondering, when you have sex & say when i do maybe with my boyfriend.. does it pop when your having sex & will it just bleed? or will it bleed like after your done having sex? because that is really awkard if it just happens while your having sex. (link)
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your cherry doesnt pop just during sex. it can also pop from riding a bike, fingering, tampons, masterbation, anything. and some girls arent even born with a hymen.
and yes, when it pops it will bleed. sometimes during sex, sometimes afterwards. its different for a lot of girls. but if your cherry DOES pop during sex, it will hurt. a lot. sooo..yeah.
be careful. :) take care.
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Basically, me and my best friend have slowly become a little more than just that. friends. We're slowly doing the little flirting signs and dropping the hints to each other. We both really want to give US a chance, but at the end of our school year(we're in eighth grade) I'm moving to the other end of the country, and even if I stay he's going to a different school. We want to give dating a chance, but we're both really afraid we're going to get hurt when the summer comes, and we're aying goodbye.
I guess I just really want to know if we should give it a chance,get our hearts broken, but have had the good 5 months together, or don't risk it. (link)
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i wouldnt risk it if i was you. if things go great, you two both end up lonely and broken when you move. and if it doesnt work, you could ruin your friendship.
if i were you, id just stay really good friends with him. and keep in touch when you move. maybe someday you'll run into eachother again, and this "couple" thing will be more convenient. :)
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Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months and we're ready to have sex, he's 18 I'm 16, blah blah blah....
Anyways, I went to the store and bought a box of condoms to be prepared. I looked at all the different types and I decided to go with Trojan Spermicidal, the lubricated one. Now I already know that I do not realy need the lubricant because I get wet pretty quick but what I was wondering was how good does this kind work. I mean I know many that use it and don't get prego, but they're all on birth control and unfortunately I am not nor do I have access. My mom would flip and I don't live near free clinics.
But besides that, Can anyone maybe tell me how good these are to prevent pragnancy, maybe even what actions to take like pull out or what not? I'm only asking because the box said that they are proven to reduce the number of active sperm but scientists have not been able to figure out what percentage more.
Please help and I'm sorry it's so long. lol (link)
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tell him to let you know if hes about to ejaculate, that way he can pull out. do not let him ejaculate inside you, even if covered by a glove. and even if you get wet, you're still going to need lubricant. trust me :)
i know trojan is the best condom, but thats all i know. :) sorry, and be safe.
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What is the diffrents between pantyliners and pads? (I wouldnt know because I don't where either one but I've seen them and they look exactly alike) (link)
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panty liners are a lot thinner, and are usually used to hold the leakage from tampons. pads are thicker, and hold a lot more liquid. they are usually used when someone isnt using a tampon. :)
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When will I get my period? I had discharge (since September), I have public hair (since November), and I have under arm hair (since January). Can anyone predict this for me? (link)
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its different for everyone. my mom was curvy, but not really thin, when she was young and started hers at 12. my little sister is thin, short, and very curvy, and she started when she was 9 or 10. i am really tall, and thin, and not curvy in the least bit, and i started when i was 14.
sometimes it depends on your body type.
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Ok first of all I don't have my period yet. I do get discharge. I hate my discharge! I can't go one day without having to change my underwear 3 times! Is there anything I can do about my discharge? (link)
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what i sometimes do is roll up some toilet paper and put it on my underwear so the discharge doesnt stick to the underwear. or, put a pantie-liner down there. :)
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if i see porn or think about it when my legs are crossed and i kinda squeeze the muscles in my vaginal area i can have a orgasm is that weird???? HELP PLEASE (link)
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yes. thats normal, if you're a girl.
breathe easy. :)
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Since middle school (I'm 19 now), I've always developed crushes on cute, male teachers who are obviously much older than me. The little schoolgirl crushes though sometimes turn into full blown fantasies. When I got to high school, I used to daydream in class about whatever teacher I liked then. Now, I have a thing for really older guys! I had a crush in college on a 50 year old professor. It wasn't even innocent either, because sometimes I would wear revealing stuff to class and then stay late to talk. Where is this all coming from? (link)
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im sorry, but to me that sounds a little odd. maybe you should try seeing a counselor or theropist and see what they have to say about it. :)
take care!
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ive heard this song and its sounds like beyonce. but idk. she says something like and youre my halo. anyone know. plz and thk you. :] (link)
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it is beyonce. the song is called "halo"
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15/F
For English we have to write a "thesis" research paper on our hero. They have to be real and they have to be famous.
If they're not real and/or not famous, they have to be illustrated through someone who is.
I want to do Juno MacGuff from the movie Juno more than anything--not just Ellen Page.
I LOVE her wit, cynicism, the way she looks at life, and her quirky lingo.
Here's the hard part. What real, famous person can I illustrate her through?
And I have to site my sources, so, I don't know. PLEAE HELP!
Oh yeah, I heard somewhere that she was like Diana ross- beautiful but mean. That doesn't help too much. THANKS! (link)
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that movie was based off a real story. the woman who wrote the whole thing based the juno character off of herself. maybe you could use her. :)
*EDIT* diablo cody wrote juno. :)
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Okay so i love yugioh and I really want to know what episode this picture is, at time: 1:33 where Yami is sort of giving Yugi a look and Yugi's blushing like crazy. Here's the link to the picture: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6N3bgwqLiC8 at 1:33. I've ben looking all around. Thanks:) (link)
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my sister is a real yugioh fanatic, and she says she thinks its from where yugi has to realize he has to give yami up, or something.
i dunno, i dont watch the show. :) but thats just what shes guessing.
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okay so on friday me and my boyfriend had sex kinda it was like only a couple of minutes haha of course we used a condom (YAY safetey) and it was my first time that a guy ever put his penis all the way in. ya it hurt like a bitch but not to much so an hour later when i came home i used the bathroom and i started bleeding like a little bit it wasnt tons of it but you know and iknew it wasnt my period becuase it didnt look like that kind of blood ( i just ended my period the day before though) and im still kind of sore now and its sunday but only when i wipe. just wondering if thats normal.? and i want to do it again on friday like till we finish or he does idk if it will feel good for me or will it hurt still or less? will i bleed again? when will it start to feel good? (link)
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its different for a lot of girls. it kept hurting me until my 3rd or 4th time, and this one girl i know said it hurt her the first 15 TIMES! O.O
and also, the blood you saw was from your hymen being popped. or, as some call it, your "cherry". and you wont be sore for too much longer. the pain should cease within the next day or two. since it was your first time, and your cherry popped, im sure it will hurt for a while, but like i said, not too much longer. :)
and if you're going to have sex on friday until he finishes (which usually takes about 20 or 30 minutes..depending on the guy) it wont hurt as bad, depending on how long you have. if you do it for a loooong time, it will start to feel numb, and then maybe the time after that you'll be pleasured. :) have fun!
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me and this girl cate have been friends for 8 years.i used to live close to her but i moved about 4 years ago. Even though i moved its like nothing changed, we are still best friends. about 6 months ago she got a boyfriend and he's 18, SHES ONLY 14. She skips school to be w/ him and she already missed 30 days of school. she doesn't call me anymore. she started smoking cigarettes and pot w/ him.She told me shes sexually active. I'm really worried. She still tells me how much i mean to her and stuff, but i don't feel the same way. her boyfriend has totally changed her, all she does it think about him. Should i talk to her parents? i am so lost. EVEN WORSE HER MOM AND DAD DON'T KNOW THAT SHES DOING THIS STUFF.she called me a good two shoes, and we used to talk aleast every night, but thats all changed. She's even lied to me a lot. Please help me. Thank- you (link)
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you have to try to get through to your friend. shes obviously making some really risky desicions, and since you moved, you cant really be there to help her. next time she calls you, or you call her, try to schedule a day where you two could get together. now, i know i dont know how far away you live from her, but if its a few hours, find a place thats about halfway to her place, and both of you meet up there. if its more than a few hours...well i dont know if a plane ticket is worth just a few hours with her...but yeah.
when/if that happens, you HAVE to try to get through to her. she wont want to listen to you, and she may even resent you because of it. but if shes really your friend, your opinion might affect her and make her rethink some of this stuff.
if you cant meet up with her, call her or something and ask her to hear you out for a few minutes. tell her you're really worried and dont want to completely lose her.
anyways, if you talk to her and nothing changes, then i dont know what else to tell you. :\
if all else fails, and things start getting totally out of hand, call her parents/tell you parents that your worried about her and that shes in trouble.
you two sound like you've been close for a while, and it sounds to me that since she has a boyfriend so much older than her, shes just trying to fit in. try to talk to her, and if it doesnt help, tell her parents SUBTLY. :)
i hope it all works out.
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O know this really stupid, but I don't know how to give a handjob! help!! (link)
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go to wikihow.com or ehow.com and search it on there.
it should give you full and complete directions and different kinds for different people. :)
take care!
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Well my boyfriend and myself have been going together for three months next week. Known each other for years so I'm pretty comfortable around him. There is zero amount of nervousness between us. We've done sexual things with each other and before each other. I've touched a penis before BUT I have never given a handjob. Can someone give me some advice and how to's?? Please and thank you. (link)
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there are two sites that can give you how to's on this kind of stuff. go to either:
wikihow.com or ehow.com...and then type in "how to give a handjob. ehow is the best, for me, because it has the how to, comments, and warnings.
if i answer another question like this in detail, i could get booted. ^.^
sorry if i couldnt be of any more help. :\
take care!
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okay im 14 and i usually have vaginal discharge a lot. well, just today i had lots of brown stuff come out... is this my first period? i'm very confused, why is it brown? is it my period? (link)
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sometimes when im about to start my cycle, its a little brown at first. usually a day or so after the brown stuff, comes the blood.
thats just me, though. its different for everyone. sometimes it depends on what you eat.
there is a screening home test from vagisil. you can find it at a drug store. im not sure how it works, but i think you put a stick up your vagina for a few minutes, and then the stick turns a certain colour. you match the colour to a colour code that comes with the test. it'll tell you if you have an infection or if its just regular discharge. or, pre-period discharge.
take care. :)
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15/F
this is lengthy!!!
This guy really likes me and he used to do bad things. Hes not a virgin and he used to always ask for "pictures" and stuff. That wasnt too long ago. Then, he would ask to hang out, just at the park and we would cuddle and stuff and he actually asked to hold my hand, and now he's asking to kiss me.
I went to his house w/o supervision to tell him that I didn't know how I felt about him and that I didn't wanna lead him on. Because I like how he acts around me and I like him, but I don't want to kiss him. I wouldn't let him kiss me at his house but we cuddled and stuff.
And how he doesn't talk to me or hug me as much as he did. And when he does, he's really hard to read. Like, he'll be "YOURE COMING OVER TODAY!" Then he'll say, "Why don't you text me?" And I say, "Because you don't text back." And he'll say "Because I don't want to talk to you." And he sounds totally serious.
Sorry for the length, but boys are so complicated. I've never kissed a guy, and I don't know what to do, or what he's thinking. He's being kind of shady about this. Help? (link)
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id stay away from him if i were you. guys who are on/off are usually trouble, emotionally and sometimes mentally. he could really hurt you by being the way he is, and he doesnt sound like a good guy to me at all.
about the texting thing, you cant really ever tell when hes serious or not because its texting. A) you cant see his face B) you cant hear his voice.
he just sounds like an ass to me and you should try to find someone who wont be harsh like that.
take care. :)
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ok so im having difficulty finding my bra size. My measurments are (in inches, measured using a tape measure):
Frame Size (under breasts) = 28
Around Chest (around breasts) = 32 or 33
According to my measurments, some websites say im a b, some say im a c, some say d. so im really confused. ive been wearing a 34 b for years, and havnt measured till now. Can anyone help? Thanks!
(im 15 years old, btw, if it helps) (link)
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id try to move up to a 36 b to see if it fits. go to the store and get a few bras in different measurments and cups. the one that feels/fits better is your size. sometimes, you cant even trust websites all that much. when all else fails, try your own way. :)
take care!
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ive been dating my bf of 6 months and i know we're in love...the thing is he blew me off 2 days in a row this week saying we're gonna hang out and that hes coming at a certain time...he was a no-show both days...i didn't even get a call from him saying that he couldn't come, so i stayed up all night waiting for him until ijust couldnt take it and crashed...i cried myself to sleep because i felt like i wasnt even worth a phone call...do i have a right to be mad at him? (link)
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we women are very sensitive. and he should feel remorse. yes, you have every right to be mad at him. but not TOO mad...maybe something happened. try to hold off your anger until you get a full explanation. you said it was this week, so im guessing your asking this a day or two after this happened? has he contacted you at all?
if not, something is either wrong, or hes just being an ass. :)
dont fret, remember. sensitive as we are, we also have the tendency to be a bit overdramatic and jump to conclusions. breathe easy, and next time you talk to him, just casually ask him what happened.
it'll all be ok. :) take care!
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I am 15f, my boyfriend is 16m.
Whenever i give him a blowjob/handjob.. i sometimes feel like when i am using my hand that he isn't staying hard ... but when i suck he does. Any reason for this...
Yesterday when we were doing this , i was using my hand and he all of a sudden pulled away and put his dick back into his pants... and started making out with me.. i think he like lost hardness... i dont know what it is. i am just curious. we havent had sex so i do not know how it is with that.... i am a virgin he is not. (link)
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if hes losing hardness, you'll be able to tell. try asking him while your doing it if it feels ok to him. ask him if theres something more you can do that will be more pleasuring while your doing this to him.
its all about communication :)
i wish you the best!
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