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I'm Samantha, 17, and I love to help others. If I'm not sure about something, I will tell you, but I will tell you all that I do know. =D
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she never eats around me and our other friends. we never ever see her eat. she's constantly drinking coffee or tea or water or chewing mint gum or smoking. she always seems a little shaky or sleepy or vague. it seems like she's been losing weight. what could be going on? i'm really worried...help?
she probably has a eating disorder, or just dont like eating around ppl. i was like that for a long time, i didnt like eating around my friends. is she chubby?.. if so, she might feel like you guys stare at her or something, if shes already skinny, then it might probably be a eating disorder, or she just dont eat around people.. hope i helped!
Hi ! I'm 13 and I want to know...can I divoirce my parents or something god I just want to block them out of my life all together tips advice or suggestions ?
haha, hunny, you cant do that.. lol.. but if you really dont like being around them, hang out with your friends more, or go to the gym just get away, and clear your mind.. hope i helped
im 13 and weight 220 pounds and i dont like it!Its all in my stomach and im fat!! Im thinking i can just drink water and get full on that but cant u get sick by doing that, i dont want to eat i only want to eat a VERY lil but not nothing.. so if i drink alot of water and like a slice of bread for breackfast and a lil lunch and dinner would i lose weighted also exersizing
its best to eat as much as you do now... cause once you start feeding your body less, it will start to store food, cause it knows it wont be getting as much. just try to eat healthier, not less, and even lil snacks in between, like strawberries, something healthy. and work out too!.. stop drinking pop, or cut down on it, drink milk too!.. if you need anything else, just ask, im all about staying in shape and stuff.. lol!
is blowdrying your hair better or worse than straightning it? i take showers every other day and i blowdry it, so it keeps it nice and straight which works. i don't know if i'm damaging my hair though. am i? is blowdrying your hair bad for it? thankss.!
i know its best just to let your hair dry it by itself, but i think striaghing it is worse, cause you can break off your hair, my sisters hair does that.. and i hair dryer does break it off. i blow dry mine striaght, sometimes i striaghten it if i dont feel like drying it. so i say its best to dry it, i might be wrong tho... sorry, hope i helped
People always say like "you know what a guy with big feet means." and other things. Is there really a way to tell how big a guys penis is without seeing it?
Please let me know as much as possible.
-Alex
nope...lol
you cant really tell..
if the dude is a big man, he might have a big one or a small one, theres no way to tell that i know of.. sorry..
well a few days ago... i started my period and I decided to try tampons for the very first time.
My mom is gone on a business trip, so before she left she bought be the Tampax Sport tampons...
well my period started after she left, so I read the directions and I found the hole, and I stuck it in... I could feel it moving up.. IT FELT SOO GROSS!! am i supposed to feel it moving up?????
after a while, I tried to take it out, but it wouldn't come out.. IT HURT SUPER BADLY!
so i started crying, and luckily my grandma was here... i was embarressed to tell her, but i finally did and she helped me take it out. It hurt really badly and i was crying and screaming.
Is it supposed to hurt that badly?? and i also felt it coming out.. am i supposed to feel it coming out?
when it was inside me... i could feel it as I walked.. and so i knew that it wasn't in right, so thats when i tried to take it out.
my grandma said "why did you push it in so deep?"
so my question is... did i push it too deep? or not deep enough? and how do i do it? I think the next time i wear a tampon, it's going to be when my mom is here.
thnx
i agree, i never used one, well i tryed, and didnt like it. when i put it in it hurt, not taking it out tho.. but yea, mine hurt putting it in...
15/f
k i have this friend and shes 16 and we're like really close... shes really sweet and teachers love her, all honors classes, honor roll, the whole deal. but lately shes been like rebelling a lot i guess and i don't like it at all. i mean i'm finee with alcohol and i'm even ok that she does pot once in a while.. but now shes like hooking up with random older drunk and she wants to have sex with one of them... but i think she'll really regret it later.. i mean shejus met the kid and they're not gonna go out. and also shes going to this party for st patricks day this weekend that im esp. worried about.. in order to get there she has to drive her and her friends and she only has her permit! so like.. if she gets pulled over i'm really scared.. plus there's gonna be more intense drugs at this party that i really don't like. i try to tell her she's making a mistake but she won't listen and tells me to 'live for today' ... idk am i being to harsh?? are there any specific ways to tell her? and getting new friends is not really an option for me. trust me, its not gonna work. thanks =/
no way.. your not being harsh at all, im sorry to say, but you need to tell someone, an adult.. she'll be mad, but in the long run, it'll be worth it.. tell someone BEFORE the party. if shes going to be driving drunk, high whatever else, then shes going to end up killing her, or someone else that will be with her.. you NEED to get her help and fast!.. hope i helped
everytime ive had sex i have always been on the bottem. but i want to be on top. what do i do and how do i do it? have any pointers? it would be greatlyyyy appreciated if you helped me because im going to see this guy soon! thanks.
just, find a good spot, and just go at it. haha.. make it so you feel good, he'll like it no matter what, so this is your chance to find what you like, and if you wanna be on top, push him down then just get on top of him, that whay he KNOWS you wanna be there.. haha.. have fun!
I put this question to mental health cause it is messing me up.
Whats with all those 12 year olds wanna have sex? And whats with them 15 year olds suggesting they should go for it?
This was the question:
havent started my period [EVERRRRRR]
but i was wondering if its still ok to have sex
my friends mom had sex before she got her period and nothing happened to her .
could that have just been her
can i still have sex and get my period ?
This was my advice after the feedback I got:
DAMN NO.
If you didn t have your period yet it means you are 14 years old. And 14 year olds having sex is Gross.
Your friends mom can do as she pleases. She might be a skunc, just cause she did it it doesn t mean it is ok to do. Probably your 23 yeard old weirdo boyfriend told it to you so he can convince you to allow him to pop your cherry.
Do as you please.
This is the feedback that I got:
no my bf is not 23 and i was just wondering im not even thinking of having sex i was thinking like what if i never get it at all then maybe i could have sex when im married and im not 14 im 15 ! THANKS FOR NOT HELPING BITCH !
This I added after the feedback:
Well thanks for harassing me and calling me a bitch and all, you are only making a fool out of yourself and letting people know how immature you are. Are you even aloud to be on this site?
Anyways, you are being totally unfair, you are just mad cause you didn t hear what you wanted to hear wich is "u go gurl, u r ready whenever u feel like it". Well fine, shoot your self up and look where you heading.
I complained countless times to the administrator, but he seems to be asleep or something. Why wont my rating change? I know people get banned when they rate a one. I never asked the girl to get banned, just to change my rating but unlike others, I am not afraid to admit that
""""Yes, ratings are important for me""""
Is there a place in this site where I can complain and actually get heard or even some feedback?
Also I really believe that some administrators are overusing their powers here in this site. I wants got banned till Friday, bitched about it
and then it changed till next Friday.
It seems everyone can call me a bitch and get away with it, while I cannot even point out to someone that he did something stupid without getting banned. Notice I said "someone did something stupid" cause I never called someone stupid.
i answered that same girl, i told her that she can get prego, and to use protection. but i reported it for you too.. hope i helped..
Hi, my name is Irene and i am 16 yrs old. I have a problem...I have big breasts. I am a size D and although i know people that are a size DDD, people still think mine are bigger. I want to have breast reduction done but i dont know what is the appropriate age and how much it costs. I know it is a subject most likely to be unknown to most but if someone has a clue please tell me because i've almost had enough with peoples comments...
Thank you so much for your time!
i looked it up, and couldnt find how much it is.
but i found this
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Chronic back, neck and shoulder pain
Poor posture
Skin rash under the breasts
Deep grooves in the shoulders from bra strap pressure
Restricted levels of activity
Self-esteem problems
Difficulty wearing or fitting into certain bras and clothing
Women who have breast reduction surgery span a range of ages, from their teens to their 80s. However, for younger candidates, it's usually wise to wait until at least age 20 to make sure the breasts have stopped growing.
so it says to wait unitll your 20. i have big boobs, a small D.. and yea i hate when ppl say stuff about them too, i always wear hoodies and such. it sucks i know, but think of it this way, you should be proud, im starting to think that, all my friends have A's and B's, and i feel more woman then them, maybe that might help you when ppl say stuff!.. hope i helped!
Hi
Im a 15 year old Male from the UK
I found out my dad watches porn when i was about 12. I found this out because i was just looking through some videos to put on and found a tape with porn on it. The really bad thing is.. my friends were also there :(. 2 of them to be precise. We watched some of it.. to.. you know.. and they asked me. "where the hell did that come from?", i said, "it must be my Dads". The reason i said that was because i had'nt watched porn, my mum doesnt watch porn. So it must have been my Dad. Now at school my 'friends' all pick on me and say my Dad watches porn etc. and it really hurts my feelings because i just wish i could turn back time and have said it was mine or something. My confidence on finding a girlfriend in school has dropped because my 'friends' might tell them my dad watches porn and then they will call me and my Dad a perve. . If i could get some advice on what to do with this, that would be nice.
Thanks
aw hun, they must be really immature. sorry but truth. all adults like to watch porn, its like a thing. ha, my dad watches it, i found it. but yet my friends werent there. but Im not sure how it is in the UK, but i know guys here, in East liverpool, would watch it, and not be grossed out or whatever. they must be immature. its no big deal what so ever.. lol, dont worry about it. and if a girl judges you and your dad because of that then their just gay, ha. but theres nothing to be embrassed about. Porn is like apart of live, haha, iv watched it. its not a big deal. no worries!.. hope i helped!!
its almost mothers day and time is running out.I live in ireland and my grand mother lives in England.
my dad wants to get her something special and worth about 50-70 euro.he cant send money and shes allergic to flowers....so what should he do...
it needs to be something good because she has alot of gifts already so if its traditional than it has to be really pretty! please help if u hav any suggestions......
p.s. any ideas for me...im looking to spend €15-€25 she lives with me by the way...nt in england
well, im not sure how much that is in America.. lol.. but try getting her a very cute, lovely necklace. ((from you or your dad))
&& maybe one of you buy the necklace, and the other get matching earrings. i think that would be super cute!! hope i helped!
Ok well I have pimples in various places on my face and I want them gone!! any1 no of any good creams or sumthin?? (not differin or proactive) also does any1 no of any cover up i can use!!??!!
if its just a couple pimples, try putting toothpaste on them for about 45 mins. everyday untill their gone. Or buy make up remover pads, that really helps get the dirt off your face.
Clearasil.. i think works well for pimples. and when you put cream on your face, make sure your hands are clean, wash them before, your hands carry more dift adn grems then anything.
&& make up, DONT NOT USE LIQUID!.. dont!.. use powder. its sooo much better for your face!. Hope i helped
last night i did sit-ups. this morning i woke up at 7:00, nothing was wrong. woke up at 10:00, my neck hurt MISERABLY. it STILL hurts, i can't turn my head or anything. it's my right side, i can't lift my right arm. it hurts too bad. i was thinking maybe it was the sit-ups, that i could have strained/pulled my neck or something. but my throat is like swollen, my ears.. i can't hear really well.. they feel full. the pain is my whole right side of my neck, front & back. please don't tell me to see the doctor. do you know what's wrong with me? has anyone else ever had this?
while im doing sit ups i feel that pain too, but it never carrys on. i never feel it when i wake up.. maybe, if you did them before you went to sleep, like right before, the lay you were laying helped it hurt your neck, i lay on my stomach, so my neck hurts sometimes. but i think if you did them right before bed, and slept wrong, it could cause your neck and ears to be hurting. i know when i sleep wrong, my neck and ears hurt, and i have a realy bad headache. hope i helped!
It seems like me and my one friend have been getting in little arguments over our friendship. Everything with this best friend stuff is driving me insane! I'm scared that she might call this friendship off because I've been constantly asking her if she is mad or annoyed with me.
But today was terrible. She ALWAYS doesn't talk to me when her other friend is around. She tells me because she doesn't have any classes with her but 1 and lunch period with her. But that still does not give her the right to completly ignore me and treat me bad, then when its just me and her she acts like I'm the most important thing. It drives me nuts! I want to talk to her about it, but how should I do this without having her blow up on me? Thanks!
wow, im having the same problem ,but i talked to my friend last night.. i told her how it makes me sad that she doesnt talk to me at lunch. (( its a loong story about me and her)) and how im not apart of their convos. and i feel really left out, and she was talking about how i helped put it this way b/c of my boyfriend. which is true.
but how about telling her you feel left out, sad, and if shes a good, understanding friend, she will listen to you, and not get mad. if she just blows it off, then im sorry, but find another friend that will treat you better. today katelyn was talking to me more, which made me feel so much better. so maybe your friend is like katelyn and will understand, and see where your coming from.. hope i helped!
i'm 5'8
i weigh 145 lbs
is that overweight?
no hunny, thats fine!.. your tall and weigh that much, good for you! im 5'5 and weigh about there, ((iv been out of sports for almost a year tho)) and i dont find myself overweight. My sister is about that, but she weighs 160. So i think your just fine where you are, and no worrys!! =]
I want my vagina to look great, but im not sure how it SHOULD look, with hair and all. Please don't tell me not to do something because it's unhealthy or it hurts, i just want to know: how thick should the pubic hair be? how long? not whats healthy, but what looks best. Also, which looks better: hairless or some hair?
i agree with the one below me.. i think if your sexual, its best for the guys. and its not a mess. like think about it, would you want your guy to be all hairy?.. i know i wouldnt. lol.
Hi im 16/f and I am kinda looking for a cute nickname to call my bf.
I thought about...
Dear
Darling
Honey (hun)
Sweetheart
Love
Sexy
Cutie
all sorts of cheesy nicknames and etc...
but none of those are really... bit not him i guess or i dont like those that much so what can I use?
i call my boyfriend "baby".. but saying it in a really cute way.. like hold out the A.. i call him pumpkin too.. i use to call him sweetie, but i just got use to baaaaby and pumpkin... hope i helped!!...((or if he has a cute name, go off by that, dont call him what his friends do, but have something close to his name))
i'm with my very first boyfriend. i've been with him a couple weeks and everything has been great. except one thing, i hardly ever see him. i've only seen him once and we've been dating since the end of Febuary. I really want to see more of him, but i don't really know what to do. almost all of my friends have a girlfriend or boyfriend (guys and girls btw) and they've already been saying "i love you" and stuff. I guess i just feel kind of prude because i've never even got kissed before. i'm kind of afraid to be kissed too..even though i know he wants too. and i really want to go for it. but how do you do it?
well hun, it depends how old you are. (( and your friends)) sorry to say, but if your in the middle school((mainly)) then saying "i love you" doesnt really mean anything, cause your not old enough to know what love is, and since this is your first relationship, it'll take more then one to know what love is. and all your friends that are saying i love you, basically doesnt know what love is. now if you been with someone for like a year, yea you must love them. but dating for a couple of weeks is nothing..
&& to see him more, make dates, or if your to young to go on dates, when make it every friday or saturday, or just a free day you guys are not doing anything and hang out, make sure you plan this ahead of time. take turns hanging out at each others house's..
now kissing, its really not that hard. just massage his tongue with yours, dont put it all the way in the back of his mouth, but yea, open your mouth pretty wide and itll be more fun, gooood luck!!...
i want to get my cartilage pierced. *spelling?
How bad does it hurt?
i am only 15 so i dont think i can get it done by claires yet. but thinking about getting it done by a tattoo parlor thing. (clean one of course)
anyone tell me their story of when they got it done?
haha, if you have your ears done at the bottom, it hurts no more then that. i think it hurts less. i have my ears done 11 times.. 3 on my cartilage.. it doesnt hurt one bit. now after when your trying to sleep, yea itll hurt, so even tho im use to all mine, i still sleep with my arm bent above my head, and put my ear when its bent. its the best way to sleep when you get your ears done. but yea it doesnt hurt, im 15 too. and the new law since last year, is if your under 18 you must have a parent with you, at any place. but i live in Ohio, so it might be differnt other places. but no, it doesnt hurt, no worries!..