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Not fair, kind of big.
I put this question to mental health cause it is messing me up.
Whats with all those 12 year olds wanna have sex? And whats with them 15 year olds suggesting they should go for it?
This was the question:
havent started my period [EVERRRRRR]
but i was wondering if its still ok to have sex
my friends mom had sex before she got her period and nothing happened to her .
could that have just been her
can i still have sex and get my period ?
This was my advice after the feedback I got:
DAMN NO.
If you didn t have your period yet it means you are 14 years old. And 14 year olds having sex is Gross.
Your friends mom can do as she pleases. She might be a skunc, just cause she did it it doesn t mean it is ok to do. Probably your 23 yeard old weirdo boyfriend told it to you so he can convince you to allow him to pop your cherry.
Do as you please.
This is the feedback that I got:
no my bf is not 23 and i was just wondering im not even thinking of having sex i was thinking like what if i never get it at all then maybe i could have sex when im married and im not 14 im 15 ! THANKS FOR NOT HELPING BITCH !
This I added after the feedback:
Well thanks for harassing me and calling me a bitch and all, you are only making a fool out of yourself and letting people know how immature you are. Are you even aloud to be on this site?
Anyways, you are being totally unfair, you are just mad cause you didn t hear what you wanted to hear wich is "u go gurl, u r ready whenever u feel like it". Well fine, shoot your self up and look where you heading.
I complained countless times to the administrator, but he seems to be asleep or something. Why wont my rating change? I know people get banned when they rate a one. I never asked the girl to get banned, just to change my rating but unlike others, I am not afraid to admit that
""""Yes, ratings are important for me""""
Is there a place in this site where I can complain and actually get heard or even some feedback?
Also I really believe that some administrators are overusing their powers here in this site. I wants got banned till Friday, bitched about it
and then it changed till next Friday.
It seems everyone can call me a bitch and get away with it, while I cannot even point out to someone that he did something stupid without getting banned. Notice I said "someone did something stupid" cause I never called someone stupid.
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If I remember correctly she was banned for calling you a bitch. Name calling is not allowed even if it is in feedback. If you get rude feedback, file an abuse report.
When filing an abuse report, you must send us a LINK TO THE QUESTION. Without that we cannot help you at all. We will not wade through millions of questions to find the one you are complaining about. We do not have time to do this.
If you give a 2 word answer like "Damn no", you might get a ban for swearing at someone if they complain. That is a rude answer, and not one that
anyone expecting to get good ratings would give.
If someone gives you a bad rating...I mean a 1 or 2 and not a 4...file an abuse report. If you provide a link we may or may not change your rating. DO NOT go back and edit in your own rude feedback. That many times will get you a ban right along with the person you are complaining about.
Which I believe is the case with this question you are complaining about.
The site administrator is busy working more than one job to keep this site afloat. If you have a problem file an abuse report. If something major needs his attention he will take care of it. We pass along anything like that to him. He does know what is going on here even if you do not see him.
He has no time for whining.
The person who called you a bitch did NOT get away with anything. They were banned too.
I pulled up your ban info you have been banned 3 times and never did any of those bans say you called anyone stupid. Most of them were for rudeness.
So, if you want to continue to be an adviser I would suggest you learn not to be rude. If you want good ratings do not be rude. Follow proper channels to get your complaint answered and stop
editing in your own when someone doesn't like your answers.
Oh, and if you get a 1 rating but are banned for something in your answer...it does not get fixed.
The rating of 1 is for those deserving of a ban. Your rating will NOT be changed.
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i've complained and had my feedback raised. your answer was really immature, and it showed that you were judging her and making assumptions. your answer would not have helped anyone, ever. plus, there were so many things in it that were wrong.
lets just start out with the facts: you said, "if you didnt get your period yet it means youre 14." wtf? why would that make her fourteen? she could be younger, she could be older. i know a few sixteen year olds who havent gotten it; why do you "know" that she's 14?
then, you assumed that her friends mom was a what? was that supposed to say skank? first off, the girl didnt say HOW she lost her virginity. you never know, she could have been raped. that wouldnt make her a skank, not at all. also, there are people who lose their virginity when theyre younger, and they dont get messed up. doing what she did could have been good, it could have been bad. even if it WAS bad, everyone makes bad decisioins sometimes, and usually they learn from them. if i were to lose my virginity before i was, say, thirteen, am i automatically a skank for the rest of my life?
okay, and THEN you say that her boyfriend is probably 23? why? guys reach sexual maturity when theyre around 13 or so. they want sex then, not ten years later.
and, you assumed that she wanted to have sex. she didnt mention ANY intentions of even considering sex in her question.
then, after her feedback, you say "thanks for harrasing me"? you do realize that you just called her and her friends mom a skank, convinced yourself that she was 14 and had a 23 year old perv boyfriend, and decided that she MUST be planning on having sex?
and THEN you ask her if shes even allowed on this site? why on earth would she not be allowed on this site? and thats not rhetorical, i really, REALLY want to know. PLEASE leave it in my feedback.
YOUR RATING WONT CHANGE BECAUSE YOU DONT DESERVE ANYTHING HIGHER. YOURE JUDGEMENTAL, AND YOU HONESTLY SHOULDN'T EVEN BE GIVING ADVICE.
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"She hasn t got her period yet, therefore she is young."
i know plenty of older people who are older and don't have their periods. She even told you that she was 15. My cousin made it to seventeen before she got it. I didnt get mine until i was thirteen. There was a good chance that she was allowed on the site.
"She is asking if it is ok for her to have sex, therefore she wants to have sex."
what?
she wants to know if her period will get screwed up if she has sex before it comes. so she was curious. i;m not saying this is the case, but maybe she'd even been raped, or afraid it was going to happen. its not likely, but its always possible.
and please, PLEASE tell me why i am being judgemental.
i told you the facts, i pointed out all the possibilities.
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i answered that same girl, i told her that she can get prego, and to use protection. but i reported it for you too.. hope i helped..
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this is an advice website not a critizing website..thats probably the reason why she got mad and called you a bitch and she was being immature..she just wanted some advice not someone to call her disgusting and stuff. im not trying to be mean but yeah...
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That is EXACTLY what i think...
I`m 13/f and everytime i read about these kids wanting to be fingered, having sex etc. is BEYOND disgusting. I think those children should go see a psyciatrist [misspelled] and imancipate themselves because if their parents are telling them this is ok, they are TRULY stupid.
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