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ignoring me??
It seems like me and my one friend have been getting in little arguments over our friendship. Everything with this best friend stuff is driving me insane! I'm scared that she might call this friendship off because I've been constantly asking her if she is mad or annoyed with me.
But today was terrible. She ALWAYS doesn't talk to me when her other friend is around. She tells me because she doesn't have any classes with her but 1 and lunch period with her. But that still does not give her the right to completly ignore me and treat me bad, then when its just me and her she acts like I'm the most important thing. It drives me nuts! I want to talk to her about it, but how should I do this without having her blow up on me? Thanks!
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To tell you the truth i don't think this girl that is acting fake around her other friends is a true friend and mostly they do that to become popular with the other people and i was in the same situation a couple weeks ago with my friend and what i did was instead of trying to get her to talk to me instead of the other girl i just ignored her like she did me at school and went and talked to somebody else and then when i saw her over spring break she asked me why i ignored her i said that she was doing the same to me and that i didn't believe that she was my real friend so then after that she introduced me to the other girl and now we all hang out together every chance we get you should try what i did and see if that works and if not i am very sorry and she is not a true friend cause friends talk to you and comfort you when your sad and work through problems with you they do not cause the problems.
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wow, im having the same problem ,but i talked to my friend last night.. i told her how it makes me sad that she doesnt talk to me at lunch. (( its a loong story about me and her)) and how im not apart of their convos. and i feel really left out, and she was talking about how i helped put it this way b/c of my boyfriend. which is true.
but how about telling her you feel left out, sad, and if shes a good, understanding friend, she will listen to you, and not get mad. if she just blows it off, then im sorry, but find another friend that will treat you better. today katelyn was talking to me more, which made me feel so much better. so maybe your friend is like katelyn and will understand, and see where your coming from.. hope i helped!<3
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